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When is the appropriate time in a relationship to say "I love you"?

I was actually just talking about this last night with a friend, and I'm glad you asked, it's an important question.
Obviously, it's completely up to you and how you feel. NEVER say "I love you" if you don't mean it, and NEVER let anyone pressure you into saying it, especially if you don't feel ready to. You'll regret it, and you'll regret leading the other person on.
"I love you" is a really loaded phrase, and you should only say it when you truly mean it so the significance isn't lost. If you truly feel that you love someone you've only been with for a few weeks, go for it, although I definitely wouldn't recommend dropping the bomb so early. Especially when you don't feel the other person is ready to reciprocate the magnitude of your feelings. I say wait several months before the "I love you"s, but it's all up to you and how you feel inside.
And remember that being in love and loving someone is not always the same thing, so take time to decide what "I love you" truly means and what love means to you. The most important thing is to remember that just because someone tells you they love you does not mean you have to say it back, and remember not to feel pressured to ever reciprocate.

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What is your best question to get to know someone?

Who's your favorite Disney princess (you can also use Jonas Brother here)?
Or
If your bf/gf switched bodies with your dad/mom and the only way to get them back was to have sex with one of them, which would you choose?
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How often do you think about your future?

Always all the time every second of my existence. The bane of my existence since 2011 has been getting into a good college and subsequently getting a good job and so I am literally always thinking about how my actions now will impact my future and it's stressful and gives me anxiety and IM GOING TO GO INSANE

What was the last thing you paid for?

Either a swimsuit bottom from Hollister or an Animal Crossing game from Game Stop

rate: 8. you don't need all that editing on your picture! sillyyy

Aww that's so sweet thank you so much! (:

What would be the perfect gift for you?

I like handmade things a lot, especially if they have a lot of thought put into them, because it proves that you know me and love me enough to spend time and effort into making something you think I'd love that's from the heart instead of just buying something. The best gift I've ever gotten was a letter that someone wrote me for Christmas once, because they poured their everything into it and it made me so happy. So yeah, make me things (:

School's about to start and I could use some advice. How can I tell if someone is a fake, a frenemy, or a bad friend? And how can I avoid being those things?

Well, it's not always easy to tell if someone is a frenemy, but the best thing to do if you have a suspicion is to (unaccusingly) confront your friend about it. I'm gonna go out on a limb and say you're in middle school, because most of the people I know here are. There's so much damn drama at your age that I've never had, so I don't exactly know what you're dealing with, but here's my best advice.
First, read my last answer about what makes a good friend. If your friends are missing some of these qualities, they may not be a real friend.
Second, if your friend EVER turns around and talks shit about you behind your back, spreads rumors, or backstabs you, always confront them about it. I know it's hard to tell nowadays because everything is so anonymous online, but if you have a suspicion, ask them about it (gently).
Third, if your friend lies to you they're very possibly fake. However, they could just be reserved and can't easily trust people because of past experiences. But if they lie to you about little petty things, that's a red flag.
Fourth, if your friend never has any time for you, never wants to hang out, seems to always have excuses not to talk or go out with you. But there's a difference between being actually busy (which at my age I know there's never any time during the school year) and just having weak excuses. If you feel like they don't want to hang out with you or talk to you, they're not a good friend.
I know it's hard because at your age everyone is calling everyone else fake and a back stabber and plastic and all these insults that my grade didn't know when we were your age, so the best thing you can do is be yourself. Don't pretend to be anyone you're not or change yourself for anyone, be it your friends or a boy or a group or whatever. I know it sounds cliche, but honestly, if you alter who you are to fit in, you'll never develop your own sense of self, and that's when you'll really be fake. To be a good friend, simply always be there for your friends, don't pretend to be friends with anyone you don't want to be friends with, and always be trustworthy with your friends. A solid friendship is the perfect balance of give and take, and remember, you don't HAVE to have 50 friends, because if you do, they'll most likely all be distant. 2 or 3 amazing friends is sometimes all you need.
In the end, if you feel like you're in a toxic friendship with someone who you don't enjoy being friends with, just end it, it's for the best. If you feel like someone's being fake or has been talking about you behind your back, talk to them about it. Don't just ignore them and be angry, they may have an explanation. Don't be accusatory, just straight up ask them "I heard you said blah blah blah about me to someone else, is that true?" Above all, know that you have the right to choose who you want to be around, and no one can force themselves into your life. Stay out of bad relationships, and your life will be so much easier :)

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How can someone be a good friend?

I don't know that I'm an expert on this but I have had good and bad friends which I've had to weed out throughout the last few years of my life, so this is what I think makes a good friend. A good friend...
-is trustworthy. If you can't tell everything to your close friend and trust them not to spread it around, maybe they aren't really your friend at all.
-doesn't talk about you behind your back. In that case, if they do, what you've got is a frenemy, which is worse than an enemy. End that relationship.
-is always there for you when you need it. Obviously if you just wanna go out and they have something important like an AP test to study for or something, that doesn't apply. But if they get "tired" of listening to your problems and consoling you, they're not in it for the long run.
-accepts you for who you are. My ex best friend tried to change me and alter what I liked to form me into a mindless mini-her, and I didn't even realize it. Now that I'm out of that friendship, I don't even know who I am anymore. Your friend should like you even though you like something she doesn't. Get out of that relationship.
-is someone you can just have fun with and be yourself around! If you don't feel like you can say anything around your friend or that you're not happy around them, they're repressing you. Get out of that relationship.
-isn't always bringing you down. Everyone has that one friend who's always complaining, and while a good friend listens and consoles her friend, if she seems like she's always gloomy about everything and wants to drag you down bitterly with her, that's not someone you want to be around. Find someone who makes you feel good to be around.
-this is like someone you can be yourself around, but also it's important that they don't pressure you into anything. I'm not just talking about drugs and that stuff, just anything at all. If they try and force you to do things you don't feel comfortable doing, they're not a good friend.
-is as giving as she is selfish. It's important to be selfish so you can take care of yourself and you needs, but a good friend should be giving and caring to you just as much as she takes. This is not only literally (if she's always asking for money and always seems to only have one more dollar when you need some) but figuratively, giving you as much time and care as you give to her.
-is not only a fair-weather friend. A friendship is like a marriage, you're there through thick and thin. If your friend is only there through thin, she's not a good friend.
But most of all, a good friend is someone who loves you and who you love, unconditionally, with all their flaws-not despite them. Don't let me tell you what makes a good friend, go with what's in your heart, baby, but don't let anyone pressure you to stay in a friendship you don't want :)

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Here is a challenge and let's see if it works! For a week don't post any UGLY questions or comments about other people, sometimes if you ignore it it will go away, plus by commenting your acknowledging -please everyone don't answer mean questions!

Okay, sure :) I don't think I've gotten any seriously mean questions (if they're mean they're usually joking) but yeah, for everyone that follows me that's friends with my sister, y'all got some serious drama that needs to pause for like 3 years. You're young, enjoy it!
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What is your idea of paradise?

Speaking non-religiously, my ideal paradise-esque place is Paris, France. It's absolutely gorgeous and I never want to not be there.

Hi. I'm looking for Molly. I've been searching everywhere and I can't seem to find MOLLY. MOLLY. MOLLY.

Hugs not drugs, dudette. On second thought, take the drugs, they have a higher market value.

You are literally the most gorgeous person ever I love you so much ❤❤❤

Mariam
Thanks, you're amazing babe and no you're the gorgeous one!

Rates and tbh whoever likes

100th answer leggoooooo. And I'll be serious this time to everyone who got a zero from me last time ahaha (but you might still get a 0 if you're ugly :))
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What are you wearing on the first day of school?

Nothing, I'm making a new fashion statement and going naked to protest the uniform policy ;)
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