People who “obey” their partners, are you genuinely okay with that? Relationships should have communication and you should give each other a heads up, but I can’t fathom the idea of asking for permission from your partner to do something? You’re their partner, not their child or slave.
I completely agree! Nobody should have control over another person's life or actions, it's their life and they can live it and do with it as they see fit 😁