1:- firstly make a friendly bond. 2:- Respect. 3:- accept what they are not try to make your imaginary person out of them .. 4:- make clear of three rules ( in dating or in a relationship) (i):- loyalty (ii):- sharing (everything) (iii):- never ever tell a lie.. 5:- bonus*( doodh sy dholya koi nhi is duniya ma so, discuss your past . Because your past will inflict the future(relationship) . If he/she wants to accept who you are stay if not its better to stay alone and wait for the right one)......