Do what’s best for you; if you love them and you see a genuine connection and future with them that’s your choice. If you love them you can’t just stop no matter how hard you try. Like personally with my own experience me and my ex were very toxic to one another because we both had our own baggage and traumas that we needed to deal with. I will always love her, she is my best friend and the other half of my soul. If we both grew and were no longer hurting within ourselves I would give us another try, a real try. One that isn’t toxic one that isn’t about getting even. I always told her “we will either be cosmically beautiful or utterly toxic together” I still believe the love we have can over come anything because it’s a once in a lifetime love. I don’t like to compare real life to movies but she is my Allie. We fight, we even split up(our current phase) but over time the bond and love we have will bring us back together when it’s right and that’s the hope I hold. So if you love them and it’s a true go for it but if you love them and you know you won’t work let them go, you can always love and care for them from afar💙

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