Ask @nayhachaudhary:

Which one is best Single or committed??

A satisfied person.. !! Single, Married,Committed,Divorced,Open-Relationship, etc; these are just tags that we like carrying with us.
A person who is comfortable with who he/she is and who can except the person they are with for who they are, they my friend are the happiest..
When you can let go of someone’s mistake or accept a fault of your own. When you can live with the fact that everyone can wrong you and everyone can do right by you; this very ambiguity of not being judgmental can make you free. You then are free from all labels, all obligations, all norms that this society and you yourself have implied..
Emotions and feelings are there to make you experience the fact that you are prone to mortality, that you to may fail but it also gives you the hope of success, of trying, of letting yourself enter the unexplored, not being tamed by fear and not doing the same to others..
We need to learn that everything is temporary in life, love, hate, pain, joy; how well can you deal with them while they are with you is the game.
Nobody likes to be in a sad place or with negativity around or with a person who just gives them tears or the loneliness that makes them desire anyone who can make them forget it..
But before you can connect to anyone else or even yourself you need to understand that you once felt something that you desire today, and that feeling wasn’t enough to make you happy forever so why do still want it again? Think..
So a person who is satisfied with who they are and with whom they are, are the happiest.

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Real friendship is when______?

A real friendship is when you don’t have to talk everyday but when you do it’s nothing but love.. A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are ,a real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out , One of the tasks of true friendship is to listen compassionately and creatively to the hidden silences.. Often secrets are not revealed in words, they lie concealed in the silence between the words or in the depth of what is unsayable between two people , When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who,instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand..

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Have you regretted about your love for someone?

No because I firmly believe that loving is a choice.. We chose to love them, they didn’t. It becomes harder to accept when they cheated or left in the most callous way possible, but this isn’t indicative of you being unworthy of love.. They chose to leave, knowing in the back of their minds that they will inevitably hurt you.. Even though they said they loved you, it wasn’t as strong enough to convince them to stay.. Despite the lies wemight tell ourselves, the risk of trying in the name of love is worth every ounce of pain. Because in the end, life is worth living when we have loved and lost than to have never loved at all..

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Be honest, towards what are u more inclined: spirituality or materialism?

Spirituality because it is infinite and limitless, it’s the study of YOUR spirit, only you can define that.. It’s not debatable, don’t let anyone spiritually correct you, it’s your spirit.. As long as you’re not hurting others and it brings you peace, that’s your practice..