And to they person who says that they feel like they know Alanur, you don't. You are the ignorant one. You nothing about her except for what you are reading. And you are talking abut being "street smart" when you're here typing a bunch of crap that's all wrong.
thank you michelle <3
Rutgers, is 50/50 not exactly a dangerous area but stuff still happens. White people do crazy shit too it's not just black people. Remember Casey Anthony? Yeah, remember that shit? George Zimmerman. Stuff happens everywhere. Cause they say, Things are much better than we know things will get better.
And this is especially directed to two people who know DAMN well who they.
you're so intimidating
Give Alanur a break with all these links and so on. She did something wrong in the PAST and she acknowledges it. That's all that's needed, now it's in the past and that's it, we all should move on.
But if you don't want to let go of it do us a favor and hop off her ask.fm.
thank you michelle ily :))
Ok first thing. All of this is BULLSHIT. I LIVE IN NEWARK I GO TO UNIVERSITY AND YOU KNOW WHAT IM BLACK. Shit is dangerous for all of us, it don't depend on skin color. I feel like your statements are invalid AND you should leave my friend alone. I got friends from weequachic...this ain't nothing.
if you go to Rutgers, my parents teach there and have some night classes and they don't find it dangerous, though.
Hi I am a 13 year old girl and I really like your point of views and stuff. Can I get your kik so I can talk to you more?
sure. it's alanurrrrr (5 r's)
:p why did You delete it
rather long story
baeee, What happened to your instagram??
I deleted it
Your list of things to do:
Talk to your mom about your bullying experiences
Get a therapist
Read up on real things that happen in the world
Good Luck!
yours: stop being so ignorant. try looking at things from another person's view. believe in the truth, not a lie b/c it works for your advantage
Maybe Sara and I don't understand because it wasn't racism at all but in fact bullying. I think you should get a therapist, and read up on the true definition of racism, feminism, and gender equality. If you have a lot of book smart that shouldn't be hard for you. Also visit a REAL dangerous place.
well I guess ignorant people like you can't be educated by non ignorant people like me. I don't need a therapist for those issues. I also don't need to read any of that up b/c already know a sufficient amount. also I don't need to b/c I will find a job where the neighbourhood is safe
Also if you are holding a grudge towards acquaintances then there is something wrong with you. If anything you should talk to your mother because she is the one that moved you there. And everyday that you got bullied, and she ignored it, wasn't those girls' fault. Blame yourself or your mom.
like I said, I don't hold grudges.
You really are ignorant. Dumb. I said numerous times that white people will never experience racism like minorities. You believe that as a 3rd grader that you experienced racism when it was bullying. If you have such a grudge towards those little girls and that teacher you obviously need a therapist
I don't agree actually. and I'm not holding a grudge. I was using an example to show that racism can exist towards whites. but you and Sara didn't understand that
1 (conf) All you have is book smart. That will only get you far in your education, not life. Obviously you have no idea what real racism is because you think you experienced it in 3rd grade when in fact that was bullying and I bet your mother knew the same thing.
well, "book smart" is what's gonna get me somewhere I wanna go. whatever, don't think it's racism, I still do.
1 I am on anon because you don't know me, and I don't want you to know me. But after reading all of your answers, I feel like I know you. And I would love to never meet you in person. I have concluded from your answers that you are in fact ignorant, have no logic, and street smarts.
okay, that's your opinion. fine, don't like me. I'm not gonna dislike you for it
I don't want your dumb ignorant self to idolize me. I want you to know how much you DONT KNOW about the world. For a person that lived in Chicago YOU lack so much. And girl, I pity you.
oh I'm not ignorant, I can look at things from others' perspectives but idk if you can, or want to. I mean, I find this whole fight worthless. it doesn't matter what our skin colour is, what our religion is, nor what our gender is. we are both people, and people shouldn't be fighting. I'm sorry about what I said if it offended you.
There are a couple of white people in my school that have more guts, courage, logic and street smarts than you. And if you were harmed here it would be because of your character, personality, and way of thinking, not your skin color.
you don't know me. like I'm serious. you don't know if I take good classes or bad, you don't know if my family takes good care of me, you don't know if I was friends w/ Sara before, you know NOTHING. you just know that I'm white and that I think whites can face racism as well, and just b/c of that, you classify me as worthless. I mean, it just PROVES to you that whites can face racism. you're literally just making a counter argument. also you classify the whites in your school as though they are inferior to you b/c they are white, why is that so? is it b/c they are white? oh no, it can't be! a person who says whites don't experience racism WAS RACIST TO WHITES
1(cont) I have 10 times the street smarts you "have". I have to use them every single day. And I believe that if you came and attended my school for one day that you would not survive.
guess what? I don't need your "street smarts". I live in a safe neighbourhood in WO. maybe I will need it for University if I live somewhere unsafe, but I'll survive. I'm not jealous of your skills, value them all you want. if they help you live, fine. but I'm not gonna idolize you b/c you live in a dangerous place
1 Well honey you really don't know do you? I LIVE in Newark. I attend Barringer High School which is the WORST school you will ever see. There are gangs in our school, people who have gone to jail. Metal Detectors to check for guns or knives. My friend got stabbed on school premises.
well that's bad for you. I could live there as well. and if I got killed there, it would be b/c I'm white, not b/c I'm not "street smart".
And you definitely said that, that girl Sara was 'in between feminism and gender equality' because she said so herself on your ask. That is a perfect example of you changing something you said because you knew you were wrong and felt defensive.
no I said she was b/w a feminist who is an extremists and one who just believes in gender equality
Wow your really hilarious. You really think that a little black third grader will think that a white third grade little girl is evil because she is white? Well I can safely say that you are now.
maybe she was taught by an ignorant family that whites are bad b/c they can be successful ONLY B/C THEY ARE WHITE.
1 (cont) Go to one of those places by yourself and see for yourself. You will be scared shitless trust me
read my last answer.
1 Yes I am saying that if you lived in the most dangerous part of America that you would be harmed because you wouldn't know how to act or defend yourself. If you go to East Orange, Newark, Irvington etc. you wouldn't know how to act because you are a sheltered girl.
are you kidding me. I think you are. I spent my goddamn childhood in goddamn Hyde Park, Chicago. I went to Paterson, Newark, East Orange and I was not scared the least bit. I know how to live in dangerous places A LOT more than others. for example, my mom had a friend who was a young white man. he was walking back home from the University of Chicago campus at night. a man put a gun at his head and told him to give all of his money. the poor man had barely 20 bucks on him, and was shot and killed. another case, I lived in an apartment w/ my mom in a very dangerous part of Hyde Park. we had a back door that was right next to the back door of the neighbouring apartment. one day the neighbour said he left his back door open and his computer was gone in the morning. but, my mom was always smart enough to teach me to check both doors 20 times if they were locked. so if you think I'm just a weak white person who wouldn't survive for an hour at night in NEWARK (which I don't find intimidating) think again.
I am sure a third grader knows that someone who does not speak good english is not from America. Thank you.
yeah they can, but a third grader would just think "she's a white, therefore she is evil"
No I am not saying white people are weak because they are white. I am in fact saying they are weak, IN A WAY, because they have been sheltered so much in their lives. White people do not have street smarts like minorities do. White people have intelligence and logic but lack street smarts.
you mean if I lived in the most dangerous part of America, I would be harmed right away?
No they did it because you didn't know english and they probably thought you were a EASY TARGET to bully. They KNEW you weren't white because you only new a little bit of english, like YOU said.
we were in freaking THIRD GRADE. do you think any third grader would be smart enough to know the difference b/w a White from Europe or a White from America? no. they are both whites therefore they are evil and you have to destroy them
No there isn't more than that. That is all white people will ever experience in the Racism Area. And hopefully white people won't have to deal with that because it is too much to handle for them. Trust me, if you experienced racism, you wouldn't be here.
that's actually racist. you're saying Whites are weak b/c they are White
And no wonder that little girl stopped being your friend in third grade. If you acted the way you act now, I would too.
I wouldn't really be interested in being your friend if you're too scared to even tell me your name
Like I said, you experienced isolation from classmates and bullying, not racism.
but they did it to me B/C I was WHITE
1 (cont) White people have experienced the Joking Racism. Starbucks jokes. Chipotle jokes. And no The Holocaust doesn't count because that was towards Europeans and to Jewish People (Judaism is in fact a religion, not a race).
okay true but there's more than that
1 I think their are two types of racism. Violent Racism and Joking Racism (but that is still offensive depending on the person). Minorities have experienced Violent Racism from slavery to The MLK Strikes to getting shot on the street when innocent.
you are absolutely correct about that, but there are more than just those two types of racism. there's also subconscious racism (being so used to something mentally that you don't think it's racist) and suggestive racism which can sometimes be a misconception or a coincidence
that's not true. I believe that White racism EXISTS b/c it has happened to me. that doesn't mean other whites think/experience the same thing
And no I think everyone should have their own opinion, but obviously you don't know what your opinion is because you constantly change it with different people. You say you are a feminist but you go against what feminist believe in. Here's a hint to make life easier: stick to one thing that YOU like
but I am a feminist, I believe in gender equality. I have opinion on things, and they don't constantly change, maybe a few times. maybe people should actually learn what my opinions mean before saying I have none. like you, who obviously doesn't know what a feminist is if you separate "gender equality" from it
Excuse me I meant that white people will NEVER experience racism like minorities have.
okay not like POC have, but they can still experience racism
3 I have been following these political conflicts on ask for a while and I can see that your opinion changes from person to person. You obviously don't have your own opinion.
I'm white, I obviously can't have my own opinion. if I do, I'd be called an ignorant racist who thinks whites are superior just b/c they can experience racism
2(cont)I am also sure that you if you came here around the age of 8/9 you are being raised with Middle Eastern customs and traditions. So technically you are Middle Eastern. Not white, and it doesn't matter if you are considered white, you are still Middle Eastern because that is where you were born
I actually came here around the age of 1, thank you. I lived in Turkey for only 3 years of my life, the rest in America. true, my family is Turkish and Muslim, but that doesn't mean people didn't judge me by my looks. I'm extremely pale, and everyone though I was European.
2 You never experienced racism you experienced BULLYING. You and your white friends will never experience racism like minorities have experienced it. You are fully Turkish yes? So you aren't white. You are Middle Eastern, you have been raised as a ME.
I experienced both. you're the actual one who's racist if you don't think whites can experience racism. people have been mean to me b/c I'm white. you can't even say that you supported Romney in the last election b/c if you did, you'd be a racist b/c you didn't support Obama. a white person can't even goddamn go around saying they don't like someone who isn't white b/c everyone assumes that they don't like the POC just b/c they are racist WHEN IN FACT THEY ARE NOT THEY JUST DONT FUCKING LIKE THAT PERSON.
1 How are YOU going to tell that girl Sara who SHE is? You aren't her. You don't know what goes through her mind, so you shouldn't be saying that she is in between feminism and gender equality. She knows what she is, and you have no right telling her otherwise. And frankly it's none of your buisness
I NEVER SAID SHE WAS B/W THOSE TWO. you should maybe actually READ rather than just accuse me of something I never said. I clearly stated she was in b/w the either ends of feminism.
I read that and I have to say that it is very anti-white. it's saying that whites are attention whores. so now, just b/c I'm white, everybody has to look at me. me me me me me. no one else matters. wow, Sara. I thought you were less ignorant that to preach an anti-white to me.
ok?? what happened to you was horrible but it was an isolated event. i went to an all white school for 2 years and those children were the most racist beings on the planet, even today i have never met people like them. and they were children. racism is taught.
yes it was horrible, and what happened to you was as well. you aren't like the girls who bullied me, and I'm not like the whites who bullied you