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why do nice people choose the wrong people to date?

I know it feels like that sometimes. I don’t think nice people necessarily date the wrong people. After dating for awhile, one may feel like there are too many differences between them and their partner (and that’s normal). What we assume the person we like is like at first may be different after getting to know them better. And the person may not be bad, just not the perfect person for you. The difference in lifestyle, views, likes and dislikes are just too different.

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Are you the kind of person who wants to be the big fish in a little pond or the little fish in the big pond?

Little fish In the big pond. Instead of believing that I’m the best, I want to know that I always have room to grow and that there are people smarter than me who I can learn from. Instead of sticking to what I’m comfortable with and fully understand, it’s good to know that there’s a world out there that I don’t know of.

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Do you agree that nobody goes through more shit in life than a person with a good heart?

I totally agree. Good people are considerate of others, meaning they care about the happiness/feelings of others. And often times by prioritizing others before yourself, you forget about your own happiness. Therefore, you sometimes put yourself is icky situations.

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