Early marriages are the biggest need of our society nowadays. Both the genders nowadays( can't resist) are indulging in haram activities because of western system...
What's your take on this and what should be done to make it possible?
I concur! but Marriage is NOT just a tool to help "horny testosterone plagued boys" at the expense of poor abused girls. Moreover, reaching the age of puberty is not the only criteria for deciding an appropriate age for marriage. Other factors such as the overall maturity of a person, his or her ability to differentiate between what is good or bad, he must be able to approve or disapprove in important decisions of life. These all things are need to take into consideration. I think the best age for a Muslim to marry would be when he/she is physically and mentally mature to fulfill the responsibilities of the marriage that Islam places on them.
گویند که عشق عاقبت تسکین است اول شور است و عاقبت نمکین است ھر چند ز آسیا است سنگ زیرین این صورت بیقرار بالا بین استThey say love finally is its own relief, First bitter and spicy but finally sweet. Though the earth turns like a stone in a mill, This never resting face looks skyward still. (Rumi)
You won't always be a priority to others, and that's why you have to be a priority to yourself. Learn to respect yourself, take care of yourself, and become your own support system. Your needs matter. Start meeting them. Don't wait for others to choose you. Choose yourself today....
I choose not to complain because I know there's always somebody who has it worse. But sometimes, when you're the one that's always giving, people forget that you're human, they forget that you feel, and doubt, and go thru things as well. And maybe they don't do it on purpose but when you're hurt, you don't care to credit the intentions, you only care to judge the actions.
People will behave unjustly towards you at some stage in your life. Don't fret and get all upset. The truth will always out eventually. That should give you much comfort. Know that Allah is your best witness in all things. Keep your heart at peace no matter what's going on. 🤍💫
My hobbies include: -Imagining myself in situations that will literally never exist. -Switching between the same 3-4 apps for hours. -Ignoring texts & calls. -Responding to stupid questions with sarcastic answers.
الأنثى لا تحب التوسط في العلاقات: إما ان تكون لها كل شيء أو لا شيء. The female doesn't like the average in relationships: either you are everything to her, or nothing.
انسان بھی کتنا عجیب ہے... دوسروں کو تکلیف دے کر کہتا ہے جیسی کرنی ویسی بھرنی. جب خود تکلیف میں ہوتا ہے تو کہتا ہے آزمائش تو الله کے محبوب بندوں پر آتی ہے.
Allah will answer your prayers. And when He does, He will answer them in ways you could never even imagine. He will blow you away with the perfection of His plans and will leave you utterly speechless in the way He allows things to fall perfectly into place.
عندما تثق تماماً بشخص ومن غير أي شكوك، ستحصل في النهايه على واحدة من نتيجتين: رفيق للحياة، أو درس للحياة. When you fully trust someone without any doubt, you finally get one of two results: A person for life or A lesson for life.