@pastelrune

Rune

What is more important - to be loved or to fall in love?

This is probably semantics, but with the way this was phrased- to be loved is more important. To me, falling in love implies romantic (only), whereas to be loved implies platonic, familial, romantic, or otherwise.
Yeah, falling in love is nice and all, but one does not require romantic love to live a fulfilling life (imo), whereas people need to be loved in one way or another to survive. Quasi-literally.

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What are your goals in life?

My goals are very short term mostly, or very nebulous. Right now it's just to keep working on my art with the people I love.

Do you think getting older (40, 50, 60) is depressing for people or a happy occasion?😶

Suppose it depends on the person, really. I don't think that it should be a sad occasion, personally, but there may be circumstances that make it so. Perhaps bittersweet at a point.

Who's the best athlete ever?

Tbh...I don't make much note of athletes. I don't watch enough to make any decent judgements at least.

Do you speak more than one language?

Aside from a smattering of words, and maybe a phrase in several languages, no. I would like to, someday! But I need to keep up on my studies.

Are you still learning who you are?

Oh, most definitely. I think I will be learning who I am for the rest of my life. I am subject to change, and there are things about me that are fluid, and I'm looking forward to learning about myself again and again as I grow older.
Do I have a good idea of who I strive to be? I think so, but there's always room for improvement, yeah?

what do i do to make myself happy ? plz advise

That sounds like an incredibly personal question, and not something I can really give advice for?
I mean, the most I can say is to figure out what does make you happy, and pursue it (within reason, and with some exceptions- that may be a you judgement). And take care of yourself along the way- eat well, get sleep, hydrate, and whatever self care needs you have. That looks different for everyone, and mayhaps you have to ask for additional help along the way, and that's okay too.

What's your plan this weekend?

Well, due to my work, weekends are arbitrary, really. But sleeping in, and working on some personal projects and things that make me happy.

What's the movie that made you cry?

Uh, there's definitely more than one. Good cry or sad cry? It's been a second since either, so I'm not really sure right at the moment lmao.

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