Some people see marriage as a sort of, ha, I got you now, locked down, you’re mine. And they stop making effort on the assumption it wields some sort of power to make people stay regardless. Not realising in essence it’s a ring and paper. As for physical lust and connection. Maybe try and spice things up a bit and bring back the lust. There are many ways to do this. As for connection. Maybe spend some time together getting to know each other more. Do things together that doesn’t involve just watching tv. That is deffo a connection destroyer. Do things that make you interact with each other. Things that show both passions and what gives you that spark.
Would you expose someone who lied about not having an ab*rtion when she had one secretly 3 years ago?
No, that would be a horrible thing to do. Having an abortion is not a nice thing, it leaves deep emotional scars for many people involved. So if said person lied about having one I’m guessing they didn’t want to share it. It would be a dick move to confront or expose. For what reason?
Well said patch. I think we'd miss a lot if we never allowed ourselves to love.
Thank you :)
While we may not have complete control over who we develop feelings for, we do have the power to choose how we act on those feelings. We can choose to pursue a relationship with someone we're attracted to or distance ourselves if we feel that it would not be the right choice.
This is true. For me, my being afraid, doesn’t stop me from loving. As the saying goes, it’s better to love and lose, than to have never loved at all. And it’s true.
Do you think you ever have or do try everything to keep people in your life even if they don’t deserve it?
Yes, very much so. I’m learning to try let that part of me go tho.
Why are people never satisfied with what they have?
Because everyone has a hollow part of themselves they lost growing up. They are searching for what will make them happy. The problem is they believe it’s in ever changing things. When it’s really in the little moments of the now. It’s not a destination, it’s in the journey. Coz you tend to find that even when you get the things you think will make you happy, you are a little bit, but then it’s something els. I’m learning to not chase happiness, myself. Rather savour the happy moments as and when I experience them. And be appreciative of everything.