if you date me, there would be pros and cons.

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cons: im an overthinker. meaning my mind always goes on overdrive. i need reassurances. it doesn't mean i don't trust you, it just means i've overanalyzing a situation/something and my mind is blurring what's real or not. so don't even bother lying to me as well, i will somehow always know the truth. which brings me to having major trust issues as well (and from stuffs from the past) being an overthinker also makes me talk. a lot. i have so much going on in my mind from thoughts to opinions to random things that i need to share them. but i can sometimes suck at communicating, but im working on it and getting better at it everyday.

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pros: i can be a really understanding person but don't mistake that for being forgiving. if im dating into you, then you have my whole attention. so i would notice even the tiniest details about you (from a shift in mood, etc.). quality time is my love language so even if im always busy, i will make time for you. im a listener so i will hear you and understand what you say, which leads me to always compromising. i value you, your wants and needs as much as mine, so i would try to find a middle ground with you.

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middle ground: idk if this is under pros or cons, but i won't tolerate bad behavior. i would fight and defend you if you did something wrong, but that doesn't mean i will tolerate it. ill prolly scold you and tell you to make amends or work on it

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