Ask @reeniiemo:

Is it wrong not to forgive someone?

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Well; firstly choosing to forgive someone cant be defined as — (( I completely agree with whatever mistake you have made; whether your intention was to upset me or not. I will now accept your apology even if it isn't sincere cause Iam a good person; and that’ is what good people are supposed to do )).
Forgiving someone means letting go of the hopeless grudge you are currently holding against them — and moving on with your life. By forgiving someone you actively decide that your time and energy should be spent on more constructive matters; allowing your mind to focus on productive tasks. Therefore; is it wrong not to forgive someone¿ — You decide for yourself.

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Do you feel empty after finishing a good book?

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Dskjdswskjn. Heck yes — Its like a story that I get very involved in ; that I start thinking about the characters. Sometimes some great books have a captivating story ; and this is what stays with you and while you may feel empty — you can always hope that there will be a sequel so that you can be involved with the characters again.

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What is the least cute thing you do?

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Least cute thing¿ well I dont know If this consider cute but — I laugh like a donkey panting after a long run or a scared pig or when Iam really laughing and am out of breath and I sound liek a whale giving birth to a Fridge!1!1!1!1 but I have to say like when things get pretty funny I laugh louder and Uncontrollably and my eyes water and sometimes I snort or open my mouth and nothing comes out. It usually makes other people laugh which makes it even harder to control and I burp-fart when laughing super hard. It usually doesnt ever happen; but sometimes if Iam feeling bloated — some fart would pop out when Iam laughing uncontrollably. 😂😳👏🏻

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Are you afraid of the dentist?

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Well yes. I have gone through those painful experiences like my journey with braces has been like a roller coaster. Bearing the pain of braces for liek 5 years has really been a nightmare almost every time when I go to my doctors clinic. It has been embarrassing. Gosh. Embrassing for me cause I have to like explaining everyone the reason why I had to undergo the orthodontic treatment which is nothing but braces. 😂😂; and phookin — amost every single person must have asked me; “Since how many years do you have them?¡” followed by the same question again why did I need them. So yes. I do cause of fear of painful experience. Sight of dental instruments — unappealing dental setting and recurring thoughts. Haha.

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How did you meet your best friend?

Hakim Freethinker
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My absolute best-est friend in the whole world is S. 💞

I met her in kindergarten. And she is my dad coursemate daughter. She became the friend I could tell anything. I remember showing up in her room at all hours of the day/night; sobbing 'bout some crisis that seemed insurmountable at the time. Haha. And and we would talk, cry; laugh and generally spend quality time together until I was ready to pick myself up and keep moving.
She became the "best friend" I had never experienced before; like the kind with knowledge of my deepest; darkest secrets — yet loves me unconditionally.

Life has tested our friendship and it has survived. We have faced major challenges yet each time we are further convinced that our friendship/love is genuinely unconditional. And I absolutely adore her. `♡

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Has anyone tried this, and what is your experience; do you like it? https://ask.fm/hakimnaved/answer/145687678421?utm_source=copy_link&utm_medium=iOS

Hakim Freethinker
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I have once tried this pink and white and it is sweeter and its yummy like; using it in fruit salad is yum. And — dragon Fruit has a flavor like pear and kiwi and right they doesnt have much taste. You can make perfect juice though. Add dragon Fruit; mango and kiwi. It will become the best combination of sour; sweet and dragon fruit blandness balances it out. ♡

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Actions reveal what the heart feels. Anyone can say they love you, but their actions show where their hearts lie. Would you stay in love because of responsibility or listen to what your heart leads you?

Forgotten
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First thing is — you cannot stay in love cause of responsibility or anything else. You cannot bargain with emotions. You are either in love or you are not. And second thing is sometimes we stay in loveless relationship for our own selfish reasons like — for instance; we fear to lose that person ; we fear to lose thrill and excitement even though inside we know that there is nothing there but just a compensation and you can only drag this kind of relationship and drag yourself in different situations which is not worth to explore. So just cut it off and follow your heart. If it fells right then only go for it.

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Do looks matter to you?

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Well somewhat they do matter in life to a certain extent and its true that the first thing that we notice 'bout a person is his/her looks. Its natural to be awed by beauty. But does the outwardly appearance determine how a person is¿ I guess no. Looks are nothing but a result of various permutations and combinations of the genetic world. Its a matter of chance — but this isn't something that defines a person. Looks are generally the most scrutinised attribute when it comes to judging an individual like It may give fleeting advantages to a person. But in the long run; looks cannot be a substitute for what lies within. Lets suppose ; Looks can perhaps get you a job. Perhaps. But your performance and contribution towards the institution will make you grow and progress. Friendships can start with a good face; but will continue only with a trustworthy — loyal; gentle and kind person. So; looks can give a slight edge sometimes. But they cannot ensure a sustained benefit. A person is not how he/she looks. It' is how he/she acts. Values; beliefs — behaviour; confidence, humility! kindness;intelligence and empathy — all these define a person.
So; "Beauty is only skin-deep. It is what on the inside that matters." `♡

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is it possible to always remian positive?

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Well – the thing is we don't have to be positive all the time like its perfectly soso okay to feel sad; angry; annoyed — frustrated; scared or anxious. Having feelings doesn't make us a "negative person". It makes us human. We aren't robots obviously but however we shouldn't let those emotions take over and control us.

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Reenie, you are one of my favourite people in the world but we never actually have proper conversations, I would honestly love to get to know you more because you’re just beyond incredible.. Idec hands down I would marry you rn.. You deserve the world!!

Elvin¿ 😂💓. Sqeuals like a dying whale. Gosh. I just saw your post right now; Sobs. This is just too sweet. Asdfghjkl. Its been centuries. When you be here let me know and lets talk alot. Haha. You are incredible itself aight!1!1!1!1

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What type of people you admire?

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• Kind souls — Nothing can replace people who are genuinely thoughtful about others well being. They would take an extra step just to make sure you are okay. They would hug you a little longer and their kindness will radiate love. Pure.
• The givers — like people who do give a damn even in this cruel world are the ones who care. They will give you their time; their energy and profound feedback for you to do better in life. They will give and give and will never ask for anything in return.
•The Wall — we hardly appreciate people who are strong; even after a series of awful events. When they could have easily drowned and given up on life — they chose to stand tall and rose like a Phoenix.
• Listeners — we all love to share our stories with each other. But how often do you find people who would be willing to listen to your stories and will not utter a word in between. I adore listeners though.
•People who are burningly passionate about something.
• Socially responsible - The people who are doing their bit in improving the society; even if the efforts are small. If you are aware of the social issues and work to bring about a change — you are awesome.
• People who accept for who you are and those who are noble and generous - The people who rise above their personal needs and do something for society; country and humanity as a whole. Such people are rare. ♡

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Ok, let's just settle on Islam, if that makes it easier to answer.

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• This is Richard Muller saying 'bout Islam.
« It is a great religion. I was raised Catholic, and now I am “lapsed”, although I still see truth and beauty in it. But I prefer Islam. I am not a practicing Muslim, but I find that the concepts of Islam are closer to my sense of God than are the concepts of Christianity or Judaism or Buddhism or any of the many other religions I’ve looked at. »
There is this another saying ;
« I became more than ever convinced that it was not the sword that won a place for Islam in those days in the scheme of life. It was the rigid simplicity, the utter self-effacement of the prophet, the scrupulous regard for his pledges, his intense devotion to his friends and followers, his intrepidity, his fearlessness, his absolute trust in God and his own mission. These, and not the sword carried everything before them and surmounted every trouble. »
So; there are countless other prominent intellectuals who have utmost respect for Islam and do not consider its teachings a “delusion”. — to consider Islam a delusion is a delusion in and of itself.

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+1 answer in: “What do you think of the delusions perpetuated by religions/Islam?”

Any unconventional method to stop tears from flowing?

Forgotten
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You dont have to control your tears or any of your other emotions.
It is alright to let them flow — just like you allow yourself to smile and laugh; you have to allow yourself to cry when you need to. Storing emotions isn't the best way to deal with them as they could come out later on as a more harmful weapon. Cry when you feel like crying and laugh when you feel like laughing. All the emotions inside of you hold an equal chance to be felt and once you cry it all out ; you will feel better letting go of those sad thoughts in the form of tears aight¿ but since I dont have much idea and you really want to stop — the answer from me is to meditate.

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