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Sandra K. Freed

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Am I a mean /bad gf if I get annoyed when my bf friends come over..I have my reasons for why but I feel like bcuse my bf has known them so long he wouldn’t even understand or would just assume I don’t really like all his frends/fam.When Really I just like having privacy & think we need time alone

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It's healthy to want one on one personal time and if a little is good more is better right? Many times yes but it can easily slip into a more selfish/ self serving motive and that is not healthy. So be careful and remember, COMMUNICATION is essential if any relationship is to be successful. Note: Please make an effort, not to make communication time.. awkward, scolding or uncomfortable but a casual and planned time, for both parties to chat.
I think it would be convenient for u to tell him that you want to be with him alone before he makes plans with his friends.
And it's important that you mention that's what you want, to spend time together. And i think you're not a mean girlfriend, don't think that:3 Communication is essential in relationships.
Luck :)
I can’t really com up with answer to your dilemma but maybe you should take some time and spend some time with your girlfriends have a girls night out or have your friends over.
I don’t think that’s mean or bad! Some people, like myself, are introverts and prefer spending time alone or in pairs. There’s nothing wrong with wanting a little (or a lot) alone time!!

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