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Tita, it's been a year since we broke up and to be honest I've completely moved on! The problem is, ppl around me think I should start dating again. Ang sakin, I'm perfectly fine and happy being single! And dating isn't my thing, should I just listen to what they say? Nakkapressure at times :(

If they say you should get a liposuction even when you don't want to, would you? Even if you're happy the way you are? Being single is wonderful. Enjoy it. They're all just jealous because they don't have the opportunity you have right now. It makes people uncomfortable when you don't share their feeling of being stuck and settling. That's the truth.

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Good evening madam, ask ko lang po if okay ba na bigyan ng oppurtunity ang indigenous people ng pilipinas na maging model sa mga ginagawa nilang textile. Balak ko po kasing gawin sa thesis. Balak ko po kasing gawin sa thesis.

Homework again? If this is your thesis question then your work is to find out what the answer is to your question. I can't answer that question. You need to do your work to answer it. Right? That's what a thesis is. Please ask your thesis adviser if this is a valid topic.

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I've had 1 ex, 1 ex suitor, & now I have a girlfriend, but I still wonder how it feels like to be introduced to my partner's family. I always introduce my partner to my family, but I've never experienced it from my end. I want to experience it too, pero mukhang never na talaga mangyayari. Ang sakit.

"Will you introduce me to your family?" Ask this question to people you want to date. If the answer is no, then move on. They have a reason to not introduce you. If that reason is heavier than your comfort then you know how they feel about you. But what you allow will continue.

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Ano ba ang problema kung nagkamali man NG pag gamit NG “ng” at “nang” nakakabawas po ba ito NG pagkatao o nakakabawas ba NG pagmamahal sa bayan o sa Wika? Bakit hindi mo simulan sa sarili mo ang pag-aaral NG pagrespeto sa kapwa mo? Maligayang Buwan NG Wika!

Salamat NANG marami.😍 Tama ba? Kasi strikto mga tao dito. TangiNANG yan. 😂

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+2 answers in: “Paki-aral ng tamang paggamit ng "ng" at "nang." Kasi kahit sobrang ganda ng thoughts, ansakit basahin. Maligayang Buwan ng Wika!”

This girl Im dating, she’s busy w/ her family and work, tapos in her free time she spends it with her workmates pa. Medyo nagseselos ako kasi araw araw na nga niya kasama yung workmates niya, she’d rather spend her free time with them pa. Selos ako pero di ko sinasabi or pinaparamdam sa kanya

So how is she supposed to know your feelings? She's just supposed to know? Maybe she thinks you don't care to spend time with her also. Or you're afraid to ask and confirm you're not #1? Discuss your concerns. Be ready to state what you want. Be clear, for example, "I want to see you at least once a week" or "I want to move in with you in a year." Our partners are not mind readers. Give them a chance to address your needs. If they fail then you can resent them. But resenting them without informing them is not only useless. It makes it all your fault.

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Parang nakakaramdam na nga siya tita pero lagi ko sinasabi na wala. Di rin naman siya makukuhang ebidensiya. Naguguluhan na din kasi ako sa nararamdaman ko. Ayoko siya i let go pati yung ka-sex ko.

Don't worry, life will decide for you. 👍 We live, we learn. Wala sa ebidensya yan by the way. One day hindi na siya magiging masaya sa nararamdaman niyang ginagawa mo. Napakahirap ng LDR. Sana yung hindi kaya umamin na lang na hindi nila kaya kesa nagkakasakitan pa.

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+2 answers in: “Hi Tita! I have a gf (LDR) kami pero meron akong ka-sex na iba. Mahal ko gf ko pero di ko mapigilan makipa-sex sa iba kahit na alam ko na mali dahil niloloko ko siya. Ano gagawin ko feeling ko ang sama sama ko.”

“Until madala ka na” So is it safe to assume na di po kayo naniniwala sa 2nd chance?

Huh? Papanong hindi naniniwala sa second chance? Hanggang madala ka nga e. Meaning 100 million chances hanggang sumuko ka na. Durugin mo ang puso mo hanggang ayaw mo na. Iyan ang "madala." Papanong walang second chance?

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+2 answers in: “Why do people leave you and end up w/ the worst and then comes back to u? Bat ganun po sila tita?”

Tita, ganito pala ang curse ng walang close friends. I go to school, talk to people. At home, I talk to my parents but not that much. Online, I always go to my gf. When all of them are unavailable, I feel so lonely and out of place. I don't seem to have a deep connection w/ everyone except my girl.

It's not a curse. It's a blessing. It's a reminder for you to enjoy your company above everyone else. If you don't then you should learn because your company is the only reliable one in your life. And building your own emotional self-reliance is important. Take a class. Start a hobby. These are great ways to meet people as well. 👍

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Tita, may nagugustuhan po akong babae. Kaso, hindi po panatag loob ko kasi pakiramdam ko mas bagay sila ng isa pa naming kaklase. Parang base sa itsura, ugali, at personality nila. Hindi ko po sigurado kung ano dapat kong maramdaman at gawin. (May gf na po iyong guy kaso he flirts w her minsan).

Hindi mo siya mahal kasi bakit mo siya pinapamigay, at sa may gf na? Hindi ka pa siguro handa kaya pinapasa mo siya sa iba. Pag handa ka na hindi ka magpapapigil at hindi ka na magdadahilan.

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Tita, natatakot po ako mangibang bansa sa bansa na wala po akong kakilala pero gusto ko po igrab ung opportunity. Feeling ko dun gaganda ang career ko. Ano po ba ang maipapayo niyo sakin? Introvert po kasi ako kaya lagi ako takot at nahihiya lalo na po sa mga tao.Gusto ko po ichallenge sarili ko

Do it. It's the best thing you will ever do for yourself. It won't be easy pero andami mong matutunan pati na rin ang pakikihalubilo sa tao. I'm an introvert too. Moving away was the hardest thing I did but I credit it for so much of my strength and confidence in myself. Do it if you have the opportunity. It will be so good for you. Balik ka dito pag nagawa mo na ha.

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Thank you Tita for always answering our questions kahit na paulit ulit at mas madalas wala ng sense at ang totoo lang naman ay gusto namin ng conformation.

Ok lang basta huwag kayong balahura. Dumadami na ang masamang ugali dito. I think I need a break again para matuto mga tao. 👍

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+2 answers in: “Hi Tita after ko sabihin sa kanya na gusto ko siya gusto nya na wag na kami magusap para daw maka move on ako. Ano kaya un ganun ba talaga kapag babae ka tapos umamin ka ng feelings mo sa babae din?”

Paki-aral ng tamang paggamit ng "ng" at "nang." Kasi kahit sobrang ganda ng thoughts, ansakit basahin. Maligayang Buwan ng Wika!

Naka NG ina. Tama ba yon? Hindi ko kino-correct ang grammar at spelling ng mga tanong sa akin dito kahit masakit sa mata kasi hindi iyon ang punto ko plus I want to be kind. Konting pasensiya po. Nakakahiya naman sa iyong anlaki ng binabayad para basahin any mga sagot ko. Pag-aaralan ko po para naman hindi nakakahiyang managalog. Kasi po andaming nagagalit pag puro Ingles ang sagot ko e. Pag Tagalog naman hindi perpekto kasi po hindi rin naman ako madalas nagsasalita at almost never magsulat ng Tagalog. Pagbubutihin ko po Anon. Sorry na. Pasensiya na po sa inyo.

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Tingin ko naman di nya ako mahuhuli. Di ko alam pano ko aminin sa kanya baka mawala siya or maghanap na lang siya ng iba. Mahal ko po siya Tita.

Akala mo kasi ang paghuli ay makita ka sa akto ng sex. Hindi po. Kung mahal ka niya nararamdaman na niyang may iba. At pagtagal pipiliin na rin niya ang sarili niya. Nag-aalala kang maghanap siya ng iba pero ikaw walang problema pag "hindi mo mapigilan ang sarili mo" makipag-sex sa iba? Masakit maiwan para sa iba di ba? Pero ginagawa mo sa kanya.

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+2 answers in: “Hi Tita! I have a gf (LDR) kami pero meron akong ka-sex na iba. Mahal ko gf ko pero di ko mapigilan makipa-sex sa iba kahit na alam ko na mali dahil niloloko ko siya. Ano gagawin ko feeling ko ang sama sama ko.”

Tita, I've been dating someone for about a month. She's anxious and insecure most of the time. I could be talking about a completely different topic, and somehow in some way it'd make her overthink about herself and us. I'm scared. I don't want to mess this up but I'm not sure if I can handle this.

Why don't you talk to her about her anxiety? Is she aware of it and is she doing anything about it? Mental illness is a serious condition and it takes a certain partner to be able to care for a mentally ill person. It's not bad to decline especially in the early stages. Just be honest about your feelings and talk about it as a couple.

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