See I think it’s easier. All the schoolyard bullies realize that bullying doesn’t get them shit in life, and all the preppy girls realize they need more than looks to get by, and everyone knows no one’s magically better than another now. As an adult I can walk up to someone and say hi and compliment them and ask to be friends, be fbi had done that as a kid? I would’ve been laughed at and shoved
it doesn't have to be. and, really, people are connected. we are all beingness, existence, etc. I still try to meet some more friends. I'm still trying to heal more, I'm still trying to make more progress mental-health-wise. one thing I'd suggest is trying to join groups / activities, like something in the community, you could meet some friends at stuff like that.
Trust and other things
I think for some people, as they get older, they may become more cautious about choosing their friends. For me, friends that gossip to me about other people. They gossip to other people about me as well. I despise people who gossip and spread your business around to other people. Just being messy. I learned that at a really young age and sometimes people only pretend to like you, because either they’re benefiting from it somehow, or they just have no one else to hang with. For the most part, friends come and go and your close family is the only humans for the most part that will always be there for you. A lot of people for me anyway are phony. Sometimes my own so call family members. That’s why I don’t consider them “close”.
Cuz we know people are f****** scumbags deep down
Cause u learn to see thru peoples bullshit..shits whack, fuck tha
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It's not hard at all for me... It depends on your personality I guess, I'm very outgoing and extroverted so I find it really easy to make friends
We want quality people not quantity.
Because as adults we have our guards up. Children make friends easier because they are more open and trusting