-itni moti kyu ho?
-patli ko khaya piya karo
-sanwli ho lekin khaer etc etc.
trust me!! they're all HAUNTED BY THESE FLAWS ALREADY NO NEED TO DO THAT SHIT KINDLY!! this will not do any good thing in their life.
There's alot more in it but i think i made my point quit clear. i just want you to know that if you call them out by their FLAWS just because you're BFFS!! so, you think it'd help them to get motivated. NO! it only reminds them their Flaws in even more bitter way. we're already haunted by our flaws so, for your kind gestures mentioning them now.and doesn't help. All it does to make us more concious about ourselvs. and maye hate our selfs a bit more. than kindly after their death don't say is umar mai depression tch tch acha bandi/banda/ tha etc etc. JUST TRY TO TELL THEM SOMETHING GOOD ON THEIR FACE TILL YOU CAN.