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Please help me with this problem. If I tell my mom's husband that she's been cheating on him, and then he confronts her about it, they're gonna be fighting. A lot of people are gonna get hurt in my family. Don't be in a relationship if your going to cheat. Be single if you don't know what you want.

Nancy
Let me start off by saying that I'm sorry that you're having to be put in such a hard position.
It is obvious that you love both your mom and step-dad and because these are two people that you love and also your parents try to stay out of it.
I would talk to my mom and let her know that you hate that she's cheating. Explain that you are hurt by all of this and you don't want to choose who to be loyal to. Let her know how much you love your family and that you don't want anything to happen to your family unit.
Hopefully she will stop cheating and choose her family. She has put you in a terrible position. But again, because these are your parents I feel like you should try to stay out of it and let them work this one out on their own.
I hope this helps, but always do what feels right in your heart.

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Ok so I being wondering how often should you see your girlfriend. Being dating for 8 months, we are till the point where she comes Friday and leaves Sundays. I make sure we do something differently or plan something jst to get out the routine. I wonder if it healthy or any advice We being doing good

It sounds to me like you're seeing each other when time permits.
Most adults have work and other responsibilities during the week that restricts time for anything else. Which leaves the weekend for playing.
As long as both of you are happy with the time you spend together there's is no need for worry.
Sounds like the two of you are happy so why try to fix what isn't broken?
I hope this helps.

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I have a friend who is overly flirtatious with my boyfriend. She touches him while talking and is always hanging on him. It makes me uncomfortable. Am I being sensitive or should I say something?

Yes, you should definitely say something to both of them seprately. Let your boyfriend know that you don't like it. He may not think anything of it because he is unaware that it bothers you. But, your friend should know better. A true friend would never behave this way with your boyfriend. Let her know that her behavior is inappropriate and that you would like her to stop. If her answer is anything other than an apology it's time to find new friends.

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Have you ever loved your ex so much that being friends just makes it so much harder on your self. If so would you stick around as a friend or try to move on she's just so perfect that I don't want to not be in her life.

That's a hard one and yes I have loved an ex that much. I'm sure most of us have. But, I think you should distance yourself for a while, at least until your heart mends. Being around her will only hurt you. Especially if she moves on with someone else. Now, if this is someone that you truly want to be with then fight to keep her. Sit down with her and express your true feelings, but be prepared to move on if she doesn't feel the same......

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When you feel sad, what cheers you up?

When I'm sad I run straight to music. The benefits and power of muis as therapy are endless. I mean, how can you listen to a song like Pharrell's "Happy" and not cheer up.
It lifts your spirit instanly!

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I saw my friend's boyfriend at an event with another girl. They were obviously there on a date. Should I tell my friend what I saw? I don't want to hurt her.

Yes, if she is a close friend and not just an associate, you should alert her. Not saying anything will hurt her more in the long run.

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what is the most obvious sign of love? ??

Sacrifice!
When someone is in love a sure way to tell is if they are making small sacrifices.
People in love will make small sacrifices so that their beloved's needs are met.
Love unselfish...

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