Kitorang tak pernah cakap. I only stalk him and i like his personality. His family and his circle shows that he is a good guy.
Then that goes into a different thing. Would you confessing be a breach into his privacy, bordering on harrassment, if it’s unwanted? Because that’s how people would say if a guy does the same thing to a girl that he follows online, no?
Personally I wouldn’t recommend acting on a crush when you’ve never spoken or where one side does not know the existence of the other side. Yes, true, ada je orang yang when someone confessed to them and they accepted it and it’s a happy ending yada yada yada, but honestly speaking, wouldn’t it be creepy to you if some random guy suddenly comes up to you and say “hey I like you, you’re cute”?
Take small steps, if you really want to. Talk to him. Tweet or DM him, and at least see how he treats a stranger wanting to strike a conversation and be friends with him. Because, even though like you said “his family and his circle” shows that he’s a good guy, how do you really know it though? Socmed is full of hidden secrets, you only show what you want people to see, so who’s to say he’s not hiding anything? So at least if you take the first step of replying to his posts or tweets, or commenting on his pictures, or DM-ing him, you may be able to see a little deeper into his life and gauge whether or not that crush you have is valid, or if it’s purely on what you see on his socmed.
(Sorry terlebih panjang advice, hope this helps)
Personally I wouldn’t recommend acting on a crush when you’ve never spoken or where one side does not know the existence of the other side. Yes, true, ada je orang yang when someone confessed to them and they accepted it and it’s a happy ending yada yada yada, but honestly speaking, wouldn’t it be creepy to you if some random guy suddenly comes up to you and say “hey I like you, you’re cute”?
Take small steps, if you really want to. Talk to him. Tweet or DM him, and at least see how he treats a stranger wanting to strike a conversation and be friends with him. Because, even though like you said “his family and his circle” shows that he’s a good guy, how do you really know it though? Socmed is full of hidden secrets, you only show what you want people to see, so who’s to say he’s not hiding anything? So at least if you take the first step of replying to his posts or tweets, or commenting on his pictures, or DM-ing him, you may be able to see a little deeper into his life and gauge whether or not that crush you have is valid, or if it’s purely on what you see on his socmed.
(Sorry terlebih panjang advice, hope this helps)
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