It's always guys expected to take girls out and wine and dine them, when has a woman ever asked you "hey what do you like tonight baby, cmon over, I will make it for you"
When will people like you understand the true meaning of communication? Lay down your expectations, let your partner lay down her expectations, begin the negotiation and settle on a shared arrangement, accounting for various aspects such as physical and emotional needs. It doesn't have to be complicated.