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An obese coworker is proud of her husband working-out and losing significant weight after the last of their adult children moved out. What's the best way and time to tell her that he won't be her husband for much longer?

how shallow are you? you do realise there’s more to a person than looks. he’s married to her so he clearly loves her for who she is. maybe mind your own business and worry about your own life.

Do you come from a family that would care about how you’d dress when going outside and how you choose to present yourself to the world?

Froyh’s Profile PhotoMerve
My dear siblings hate everything I do... therefore I never share anything with them... I'm a grown adult, I haven't asked or needed their approval since was 14... the age I was thrown out of the house and shunned for 5 years by all of them... managed just nicely without them.

if you are 30 and you still colour ur hair blue, you're not cool you just come off as a cringe adult who cant grow out of their teen edgy phase

If you're sending anonymous hate on ask.fm about something that literally makes no difference to your life, then you're just a fucking idiot.

if you are 30 and you still colour ur hair blue, you're not cool you just come off as a cringe adult who cant grow out of their teen edgy phase

You know even oap colour the hair not age thing..why are you arsed on someone hair one isn't your hair so maybe look at your own hair first

if you are 30 and you still colour ur hair blue, you're not cool you just come off as a cringe adult who cant grow out of their teen edgy phase

Or you could leave them alone to do as they please because they are an adult and can make their own mind up, i dont understand why people have to complain about what others are doing instead of focusing on themselves, be better ✌🏻✌🏻

Посоветуй, что посмотреть из фильмов?

PaWeL_SiNgEr’s Profile PhotoPawel Salnikow
1. Me Before You (2016);
2. I, Tonya (2017);
3. Body of Proof (2011) - s;
4. Dead Poets Society (1989);
5. The Limitless (2011);
6. The Adjustment Bureau (2011);
7. The Lake House (2006);
8. Transcendence (2014);
9. The Mentalist (2008) - s;
10. A-X-L (2018);
11. Before I Fall (2017);
12. Passengers (2016);
13. The Gambler (2014);
14. Hwaryeonhan oechul (2013);
15. The Nice Guys (2016);
16. Drive (2011);
17. Blade Runner 2049 (2017);
18. Snatch (2000);
19. The Divide (2011);
20. Lock, Stock and Two Smoking Barrels (1998);
21. Sin City (2005);
22. Sin City: A Dame to Kill For (2014);
23. The Hateful Eight (2015);
24. Once Upon a Time ... in Hollywood (2019);
25. Django Unchained (2012);
26. Adult World;

What's the best / worst thing about what you do? Like your job, what you study etc. 💼📚

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
The best thing is looking after the children and feeling a little bit like an adult which I don't get to feel as often since I still have to live at home, the worst thing is being tired all the time 😅

Oh I know how it is with a tarnished teen life and music to relate... Now imagine being deaf and begging to hear them as a young adult... I could only feel the beat at times

I’m sorry, I can’t even imagine. Music has always been so important to me. But I probably would have been better off without the sad songs in my younger years. These days it’s mostly instrumental, in other languages or simply indecipherable.

At what age did you finally start feeling like an adult? What caused it?

tristanandiseult3’s Profile PhotoMarie Curiosity
I felt like an adult for the first time at the age of 11 due to the death of my beloved grandfather.
Since that time I have suffered from depression and this has greatly affected my life, because it has ceased to be the same.
I had a hard time trying to find the meaning of life.
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At what age did you finally start feeling like an adult What caused it

At what age did you finally start feeling like an adult? What caused it?

tristanandiseult3’s Profile PhotoMarie Curiosity
I never felt like an adult and to this day, I still don’t. But a few months ago, I was suggested to agree on changing the dosage of the medication that I’m currently taking and they said that I don’t have to tell my parents about the change in dosage if I don’t want to because I’m an adult. I also somewhat felt like an adult when being on the plane alone to go to Turkey and visit my grandparents there. Those two instances kind of made me feel more independent since I had the option to make my own decisions without my parents being involved but usually, I feel like a kid, especially since I’m not working anywhere and still need a lot of guidance/help when it comes to completing my school assignments. I’m thinking that the age I get engaged, when I start working at a part time job, when my parents don’t have to remind me to be more responsible, and when I start looking after myself (by going to the gym, finding hobbies I can keep myself busy with, when I start driving more often, etc.), I think I’ll feel more like an adult.

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Do you let someone put their arms around you on the first date?

I’ve basically only had two first dates. One as a teen and one as an adult, so I don’t really have a lot of experiences with dating, but I think it would really depend on the person and what kind of connection we have.
With my boyfriend, it immediately felt right to connect on a deeper level. We’re still happily together. ☺️

If you were a character on a popular sitcom, what character would you be and how do you relate to them?

tristanandiseult3’s Profile PhotoMarie Curiosity
Monika from Friends probably 😅, always keeping rules, being competitive, to organize and direct life around, but now when children are adult I am learning to be more free, relaxed and spontaneous 😂👍
If you were a character on a popular sitcom what character would you be and how

Do you think it's wrong to get help from your family as an adult? I make $25 an hour and my rent is $3k because it's a nice apartment in an affluent area. I can't really afford to pay rent, utilities, eat and also buy clothes, travel, go to concerts. I'm not willing to STOP living.

I would live abroad in towns where it's affordable to do all the things you want to do.
For example: These countries offer a lower cost of living, making it possible to live on USD 1,000 per month. Some options include:
Southeast Asia: Countries like Thailand🇹🇭, Vietnam🇻🇳, Cambodia🇰🇭, and parts of Indonesia🇮🇩 can be affordable.

Central and South America: Countries like 🇲🇽Mexico, Ecuador🇪🇨, and some parts of Central America can have a lower cost of living.
Eastern Europe: Countries like Ukraine🇺🇦, Bulgaria🇧🇬, and parts of Romania🇷🇴 may offer lower living costs.
However, it's crucial to consider factors like lifestyle, healthcare, and personal preferences when choosing a country. Additionally, visa regulations and requirements vary, so it's essential to research and plan accordingly.

Do you think it's wrong to get help from your family as an adult? I make $25 an hour and my rent is $3k because it's a nice apartment in an affluent area. I can't really afford to pay rent, utilities, eat and also buy clothes, travel, go to concerts. I'm not willing to STOP living.

Sometimes we have to make the choice to limit our spendings, save money and/or work harder in order to live the life we really want to live. If you have a good relationship with your family members, don’t be afraid to reach out to them unless you worry that you’ll have to pay them back or that they’ll have certain expectations from you if you do choose to ask them for financial help. It’s ok to “stop living” temporarily in order to start living without worrying about not being able to afford traveling, attending concerts, or buying clothes. I’m saying all of this as a person who still relies on their family financially 😁

Do you think ppl who constantly throw house parties are shallow and don't care about anything? I actually know someone like that. I'm not being a hypocrite I've attended some and I enjoy a party occasionally, but how could someone party all the time w/ whats going on in the world?

I lived in a house like that in my Belford relationship. It was the town party house. But his mom and his family, a bunch of young nieces and nephews lived there too. Strange times. I didn’t like the constant partying. That man did a complete opposite as an adult and lives alone only works and plays video games. I don’t know what happened to him. I feel bad. People always told me he changed after me and never got over me but he never said that himself. 🤷🏻‍♀️

What’s something about “being an adult” that was surprising to learn?

GeorginaKeemcook’s Profile PhotoGeorgina
I'm not sure I was ever quite aware how much tax you have to pay until I started getting my first pay checks.
When you add up income tax, national insurance, council tax, car tax, insurance tax, fuel and alcohol duty, airport taxes and VAT then even if you're on minimum wage you're paying well over £100 a week.
People are always saying the government should spend more money on this or that, but they forget that the government has no money of its own. They don't make anything or earn anything, they only know how to spend. And it's OUR money they are spending.

Indeed ikr which is why I hate the thought of being FWB’s or ONS with someone!

There was a guy who would verbally degrade me and he told me he was in a FWB situation and that the girl he was with got into a serious relationship with someone else and what they had came to an end. He was planning on getting with her twin but luckily she knew better and refused. He also mentioned how he wanted to get with older women who are like 30+ that he happened to meet at the hotel he worked at. He ended up ghosting me for months just to come back being disrespectful all over again while he was most likely “busy” talking to someone else online and he even admitted that he was mean to the other girls he’d interact with. I wouldn’t consider myself as one of the girls considering I was still an adult at the time and only kept talking to him out of loneliness and the hope that he’d be nice to me like he was at the start. Thankfully, I never met him in person and kept his number blocked after dealing with such an immature guy like him. Can you believe it if I told you he once said, “Idk what you women would do without us men”? It’s a shame he was a 19 year old boy acting like a brat.

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What’s something about “being an adult” that was surprising to learn?

GeorginaKeemcook’s Profile PhotoGeorgina
Responsibilities. when you was child you didnt have to worry about anything ..kids nowadays wish they was older no one grateful for their youth anymore adult life hit you hard times wish could have My youth back

*A strange lady wearing a dark hood is seen wandering the woods collecting mushrooms and plants local to the area*

FracturedSoul’s Profile PhotoRipley Dread
*She comes across a young adult male with blonde hair and pointed ears, he seems to be carefully collecting a number of lethal herbs that seem to be in a secret garden deep in the woods. Because of Ripley's "gift" she will probably easily see Vio's shadow is very obviously alive*
A strange lady wearing a dark hood is seen wandering the woods collecting

Would you prefer dogs or cats

okay ✅ let’s talk about guys…
as u know guys…
i love all animals…
but i associated my future life with Andrew…
now he is … in such a quagmire… and the swamp…
but this his life … his choice… he is not young man… he adult man
I can only be the only one in a man’s life … and all depends from him.
ok not about .
Andrew is allergic… and i’ve been thinking about our life all the time
i’ve read a lot … i studied allergies…
yes, i’m like that i want my man be happy with me… if he my man .
and as u know guys
or maybe don’t know
pets are a strong allergens…
and i decided that we wouldn’t have any pets .
and that why i inside decided that we would not have pets.
and one month near one month
ago…
u know the type of evil women with bad look …( it doesn’t depend from age)
i happened to be in elevator… with woman like that
and of course i say hello
to her
and u know she looked at me with such envy that i was scared
she had a little dog with her
… guys u know a don’t love
from word absolutely little dogs
i adore big dogs …
but this dog so jumped at me so want play with me … no i not playing
and god, i come home
and i was bitten by tick dog tick
from that dog…it fell off by itself
but u understand what it was mean
and pets usually even if u are super rich … pets climb in different places …
and therefore i’m afraid them
especially on streets avoid them
although i dreamed of a big dogs always …
and pets really love me
i have such many love stories from my childhood about cats and me … about dogs and me
about a lot of animals…
something like this
if u look my old answers u will see what kind of cats or dogs i was liked
still like , still love but
need to careful

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Being an adult is not easy, sometimes we should take care of our minds and pressured questions especially when we meet with our family. What do u think about it?

btl, kdg nilai dimata org belum tentu sesuai dg apa yg kita rasain. be wise, tdk smuanya negatif kn.

why have malls lost popularity? teens and young adults nowadays don't go to the mall as much as people did 20 years ago.

Internet probably. Imagine going back to a time where buying selection was limited to a mall? It was fun hanging out there as a teen though. Even just to walk around a people watch as an adult.
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Do you think therapy is appropriate for children or teens? This is just my perspective, perhaps flawed, but I don't think children or teens would understand what therapy is about. Therapy is for us, because we're adults and we're mature. Teens are stupid and immature. Therapy is adult business.

children and teens absolutely need therapy tailored for them. there's a reason child psychologists exist!

Do you think therapy is appropriate for children or teens? This is just my perspective, perhaps flawed, but I don't think children or teens would understand what therapy is about. Therapy is for us, because we're adults and we're mature. Teens are stupid and immature. Therapy is adult business.

I don’t agree with this and think that therapy helps keep people stable emotionally and mentally since I’ve been very emotionally unstable before I started seeing a therapist towards the end of 7th grade. I did see a therapist when I was in elementary school but only once or twice and then never saw them again so that was quite pointless in my opinion. Before seeing a therapist in middle school, I didn’t have anyone I considered a friend and made the mistake of thinking my therapist was like a friend of mine but of course, I was young back then and didn’t really focus on myself or understand the point of therapy that much. Therapy helped me feel heard and understood and even tho I didn’t realize the real purpose of going to therapy as a teen, I did feel a sense of calm, knowing there was someone I could confide in after having a bad week. As an adult now, I quit working with my therapist a few months ago because I wasn’t making much progress with her and our personalities just didn’t click so I didn’t even want to talk to her if I’m being honest. If I could go back with the same knowledge that I have now, I’d definitely take my previous therapists more seriously rather than solely seeing them as a friend to talk to but that doesn’t mean I didn’t benefit from them back then either. I think it’s important for therapists to give teens a reality check every once in a while if/when they notice they’re being treated more as a friend by them instead of the therapist that they are and when the teens aren’t listening to what they ask of them to do.

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Do you think therapy is appropriate for children or teens? This is just my perspective, perhaps flawed, but I don't think children or teens would understand what therapy is about. Therapy is for us, because we're adults and we're mature. Teens are stupid and immature. Therapy is adult business.

Hahahahaha “I’m adult and mature” they say, whilst totally undervaluing and misunderstanding young people 😂

Do you think therapy is appropriate for children or teens? This is just my perspective, perhaps flawed, but I don't think children or teens would understand what therapy is about. Therapy is for us, because we're adults and we're mature. Teens are stupid and immature. Therapy is adult business.

Cool so kids that have issues or have been abused aren't allowed help to heal, wow you sound like such a nice person, so grown and wise 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

That's so cheesy, it made me puke inside my mouth a little lol. This is ask.fm, a site for entertainment and amusement, not for cheesy and corny letters.

Actually, Ask.fm is a site for asking and answering questions, not entertainment and amusement although you can find that here but it's not the primary function. I answered a question I received in the way I chose; if you don't like it, feel free to not follow me coz I promise I won't give a single flying f*ck. But my answers are my own, and they're honest. I don't care if you find them entertaining or not coz I answered the question put to me. If that's not your jam, fair enough, but then be a f*cking adult and just scroll on passed. Only pathetic little b*tches do what you've done, so... I probably won't like most of your answers, but I haven't messaged you directly to tell you that, have I? No... So afford me the same courtesy, grow tf up, get off my page, and stop making a drama out of something when ignoring it is so much easier.

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:::takes your nintendo thingy, runs::: "Sage, ya wanna buy this? Only $7.99 and 2 breadsticks! You better act fast. Tomorrow, it's 4 breadsticks, a pair of jeans and your red belt." 🤣🤣🤣 💗

I couldn’t fall asleep for a nap. I was consumed with images of playing Nintendo games and playing more adult games with a Oskar/ Shagrath hybrid. Sage can have it if I can keep this image of this lovely man in my mind. 😁🤣💗

1)Книга, которую ты сейчас читаешь? 2)Во сколько лет ты прочитал(-а) Гарри Поттера и Хоббита/Властелина колец? 3)Какие жанры литературы ты не любишь? 4)У тебя есть печатка дом. библиотеки? 5)Чем ты закладываешь страницы? 6)Твёрдая или мягкая обложка? 7)Серии/одиночные книги? 8)Где ты обычно читаешь?

• Джон Фаулз ‘Волхв’
• ‘Хоббита’ прочитала в начальной школе, когда мы его проходили, ‘Властелина колец’ в 14 или 15, а ‘Гарри Поттера’ не читала
• Любовные романы, young adult фэнтези, психология, философия
• У меня нет домашней библиотеки
• Чем придется. Обычно это какие-нибудь чеки, листовки, кусочки тетрадного листа и т.д., реже – нормальные закладки
• Исключительно твердая, потому что книги в мягкой обложке зачастую неудобно держать при чтении
• Одиночные! Но часто бывает такое, что через какое-то время после прочтения книги я узнаю, что это начало серии
• Дома. Иногда, гуляя с Джоном в парке или по набережной, мы можем немного почитать друг другу вслух

I threw my 16 year old son out for pretending to be a girl!! But people have been harassing me. Am I in the wrong? It’s against my religion and I will NEVER have that in my house!!

Umm… that’s still your son at the end of the day and even if you don’t agree with him and what he does, you shouldn’t disown him for pretending to be the opposite gender. He’s a minor so he’s still growing and maybe he just wanted to put himself in the shoes of the opposite gender for once and see what it’s like without intending to actually transition into a woman lol. Once he’s an adult tho, you can kick him out of the house if you have no sympathy and think that that’s the morally “right” thing to do.

Mit steigendem Alter werden unsere ersten Male immer weniger. Welche ersten Male hast du noch besonders in Erinnerung? Hast du den Ablauf einiger erinnernswerter, erster Male vergessen? Und auf der anderen Seite, welche ersten Male hast du (voraussichtlich) noch vor dir?

LukasSteigerwald’s Profile PhotoLukas
Bei mir trifft das tatsächlich nicht so recht zu, vermutlich, weil ich insgesamt sehr "undercover" über die letzten zehn bis fünfzehn Jahre dahinvegetiert bin, ohne wirklich viel aus mir herauszukommen, geschweige denn irgendwelche Dinge zu erleben. Ich war insgesamt nur auf mein Studium und meine mentale Verfassung konzentriert. In meiner Jugend hatte ich auch nicht viel Raum für Aktivitäten oder Hobbies, die viele in meinem Alter für völlig normal befunden haben.
Ich erinnere mich noch sehr lebhaft an meine Einschulung, als wäre sie erst gestern gewesen. Meine Schultüte war pink, mein Diddle-Rucksack randvoll mit Präsenten und ich erinnere mich sogar noch an diese Geschenkbox der Grundschule mit allen möglichen Kleinigkeiten bespickt. Und genauso gut kann ich mich an den Augenblick erinnern, als endlich dieses vermaledeite Abitur zu Ende war und ich mit "Where Is My Mind" von den Pixies aus dem Gebäude gestürmt bin. Ich weiß noch, wie schön es gewesen ist, geröstete Marshmallows zu futtern. Nicht, weil die besonders lecker gewesen sind, sondern ich im Beisein meiner Freunde an einem Lagerfeuer gesessen hatte. Wie aufregend es war, das erste Mal zu fliegen, das erste Mal Bus zu fahren und den Führerschein in der Hand zu halten. Oder vor einem großen Publikum zu sprechen, erste wackelige Schritte auf einem Longboard zu tätigen und das Lesen als Kleinkind zu entdecken.
Als ich das erste Mal ein Stück Mochi futtern durfte, war ich einerseits irritiert, andererseits begeistert. Und als ich damals im Chemiekurs irgendeinen Kristall gezüchtet und das Endresultat erblickt habe, war ich begeistert von der einfachen Schönheit der Wissenschaft. Hach ja.
Ich will jetzt nicht geheimnistuerisch oder prätentiös verschlossen wirken, aber ich denke, dass so einige Dinge hier auch niemanden etwas angehen, die ich erlebt oder noch vor mir habe, weshalb diese Sujets hier auch schlichtweg keine Erwägung finden werden.
Ich bin jedoch neugierig, wie es sein wird, das erste Mal überhaupt mit beiden Beinen fest und unabhängig im Leben zu stehen und sozusagen ein "full-fledged adult" zu sein. Vermutlich wird es weird, unangenehm und katastrophal, aber ich werde es trotz alledem irgendwie durchstehen. Und irgendwann MUSS ich eine DND-Session umsetzen, da ich mich schon seit Jahren wundere, wie das so ist. Und wie es sich anfühlt, eine eigene Wohnung zu besitzen und die ganzen BAföG-Schulden zu begleichen. xd

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Please just don’t start any drama tomorrow my heart can’t take much more

i do not know who u are anonymous
or why u are wrote
this to me. it’s like it’s u or from u
but i wrote everything what i think about
if ur heart in such condition
don’t action like that
and i don’t need history
in which i saved u from the hands of an ugly female scammer.
u adult man must ur self answer
for ur actions.
no one only u
i’m not ur mom. i sent by ur mom.
i don’t need history. i need happiness.
and guys be careful especially rich guys.
i was think it not actual more
but still exist woman scammer
called themselves witches
not exist any witches
it’s all about money.
be careful guys.
all spiritual things is bla bla bla
and about money .
i know a million invisibly read me
ask about it .
be careful guys.
it’s all sucks.
as i said from first minute.
i wrote everything yesterday
farther all depends from u
but i
there shouldn’t be
any such women in our house.
.

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