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I need some advice. I'm a guy and I don't feel like marrying because I think I've not achieved the level of success I'm after. I'm 28 btw. But I do want to marry as it will save me from evil acts or prohibited as they say. What's your opinion on this? Should I or not? No jokes please only serious ad

Man to Man,
It just doesn't matter what kind of sucess level you want to achieve. It never will. If you can afford to marry, go for it...
Peace of mind and heart should be your priority.

What advice do you have for the younger generation?🌱👶👦👧

Coolio247’s Profile PhotoJustine Coolioness
Stop being offended by everything and learn that your life is yours to live, but you don't get to dictate anyone else's.
If you have the opportunity to set up a way to be comfortably well-off, at a young age, and it isn't physically or mentally detrimental to you...take it.
Even if it's a job you don't love or a situation that might be looked down on by others...it's better than the alternative.
Don't allow emotion to control your existence. Be practical and think things through multiple times, before committing.

Any life changing advice 😊

laxmikanth_cool’s Profile Photolaxmikanth
Be yourself - other roles are already taken. I advise everyone to live by this principle, not to look back at others and not to succumb to the desire to copy someone.
Будь собой - другие роли уже заняты. Всем советую жить по этому принципу, не оглядываться на других и не поддаваться желанию кого-то копировать.
Any life changing advice

Are you creater on tik tok or just a viewer What advice would give someone who was thinking of joining the app would suggest them to join it or stay clear of it ?

missygls’s Profile PhotoGₑₘ ☆
Never . . . .
Never seen , never been, never see . . .
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Have you ever had a friend that unfollowed you on social media? Did you find out if it was on purpose or not?

Froyh’s Profile PhotoMerve
Yes... and as a result, I learned the following lesson:
real friends do not unfollow or walk away. > Adonis
"When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares."
> Henri Nouwen

Whats the most sensible thing you have ever heard someone say or the most sensible advice you've been given?

Ssars’s Profile PhotoSyed Sibtain Ali Rizvi
Sensible information is very rare these days. 😅
But there is something that I do remember from my childhood. My father told me almost 10 years ago maybe that I'll become very rich if I won't ever miss a prayer. I may never understand the meaning behind those words, but I try to follow the way.

I always read the messages people send me and reply back but I’ve recently been texting this guy that I met online and he usually leaves me on delivered or sometimes on read without responding back. What should I make of this situation?

Okay you've come to the right place for advice. This is obviously a 50 year old man attempting to catfish you. Just give up now or call him out on his bullshit.. or just get crazy and go marry him anyway cause love knows no boundaries.. innit?

Hi Ate i just need advice he says he doesn’t want me but is still sticking around why? 😢

heyyy okay brace yourself cause this is gonna hurt but since you asked for it here is what i think.. :)
He doesn’t like you frrr. He doesn’t want to commit to you but it sounds like you might be his emotional support human. He enjoys having access to you and doesn’t want to put any work and effort isn’t needed because you allow him to have free access whenever he needs it. He gets by minimal effort because you allow him to. Why?? Cause you have weak spot for him.
If there’s an advice you should take from me, is to save yourself some time sis and focus on yourself instead. If someone really likes you they’ll put an effort to show you :)

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Do you have advice for me?

RuskySpamBot’s Profile PhotoHrobárova Dcéra
. . . for you, personally :
Hear people complaining
They say they got dealt
The roughest deal
They cry when it's raining
No bread for the latest meal
But if there's no heaven
You can be sure there's no hell
And if there's no devil
There won't be no god to hear you yell
See people get holy
They're turning some plain water to wine
They're living life slowly
They can look up and see
The day turn fine
But ask them the question
And no answer is there
Whether you're eastern or western
There's only one pace that we can share
One day at a time
See people get sickly
The shock passes down from bad to worse
The backs up and prickly
Roll in a ball and pretend
You got no purse
But if this continues where does it all end?
I'm in the retinue
Till i see broken wishes mend
One day at a time
So when you get lonely
Be good to yourself and bless the day
Know you are the only
One who can deliver what i say
Try fighting the fever
Try popping the pill
Become a believer
Try separating life from still
One day at a time

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Why is it so difficult to fall in love again ?

Why? I guess it’s because your fed up with lies, broken promises and all the bad sht that your partner or ex partner has fed you up with. Falling all over again is so hard when you lost faith in love. Thinking that you have to start over again—knowing another’s favorite, color, food, place—-sometimes it’s just too much to take in—if u know what i mean. My advice is rest and FOCUS on yourself. Make yourself the best version of YOU so you attract the one’s that matches YOU.

How can one help their friends who are physically harming themselves? Tried everything from taking them to therapy to spending as much as time with them. Please no harsh comments really need sincere advice.

exxahnoor’s Profile PhotoIzzah Noor
As someone who's been in therapy imma be extremely real with you. You can't help them unless they wish to help themselves.

Hello, NOUR, my life has changed since a couple of years, for I realised, and succeeded in administration. I'm dedicating to languages but, I found out it's uneasy... What advice do you have for me?

Hi 👋🏻
I've taught myself French (pretty fluent)
I never attended any classes or formal instruction. IMO the best way to learn a language quickly and inexpensively is by urself.
Remember that learning a language fluently takes years. Not days, weeks or months, but years ,the most important step is to target the desired language not to be random
Study phonetics for about 1 month It's crucial that u learn correct pronunciation, so that people can understand u ,Start learning (thousands of ) words,then start learning the basics of grammar.
Throughout the whole learning process, listen to the same recordings over and over again. This step really makes ur skills shine. Download songs or movies and listen to 'em repeatedly!!
Study a little bit everyday. That's also the magic of Anki, it forces u to review everyday otherwise cards will pile up.

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Do you think health forums can be toxic? I understand some people want advice and to talk to people with similar symptoms, but they shouldn't substitute doctors. Like real doctors. I personally know someone who had a panic attack bc they read on a forum that their pain is a symptom of cancer lmao

I search up a lot about health issues on the internet, but none of the results ever led me to have a (near) panic attack. 😅
I suggest people only search up things about health issues if they really know what they’re feeling and what it looks like. This so they don’t wind up with the wrong kinds of ‘possibles’. And I also suggest that you don’t search up things unless you know not to see the worst in everything or believe in the worst outcome. This to protect yourself for being anxious over something that was/is very minor.
If you ever have any doubts, just see your doctor.

Have you ever be romantically involved with a woman who was either married or who had a boyfriend?

When I was a teenager my father taught me to never mess around with a woman who was either married or in a committed relationship. He explained what the potential consequences for such behavior was and so I followed his advice and his words of wisdom. Thanks Dad. /Alex
Have you ever be romantically involved with a woman who was either married or

Any advice for someone who's struggling with body confidence ?

I was/am too, not so much anymore that I'm doing something about it but I still have the occasional soft drink here and there but it hasn't affected my weight so far now I'm only drinking one every few days. But eat healthier/exercise and drink a lot of water, you don't have to cut everything out but do it slowly if you do. That is if you want to do something about it but I'm sure you are also beautiful the way you are now, look in the mirror and tell yourself you are beautiful no matter what the size. Your weight is not who you are and it's not all you are. If you want try to get motivated to exercise or drink water at least once a day however that may be, for me I just do it I don't think about it or I look in the mirror and see how well I'm doing and that kinda motivates me to get back to the weight I was when I was 18 which is slowly but surely working. It is difficult to get into the right mindset and I know there are days you just want to lay around and read a book or something after a stressful day, it's more what you put into your body then exercise but it is a part of it. Whatever you decide to do remember your body isn't all you are and you are beautiful exactly the way you are

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Lets say that your pet is so sick that you must pay to doctor 300 USD every month and it is not sure that it helps. Would you let him to kill your pet by injection rather? 🤔

If my pet is suffering months on end and the vet isn’t helping then sure I’d take their advice for euthanasia

if you could give me one piece of advice, what would it be?

maryamnatt’s Profile PhotoMaryam Iftikhar Natt
Don’t let your grief consume you to such an extent that you forget who’s in control. Try to step away from your broken state, even if just for a moment. You’ll see things clearer and realize that you own nothing. Nothing at all. Everything is on loan from the Almighty.

spill the most profound advice you can.

It's all about what you feel you deserve. If you know you deserve somebody worth loving unconditionally, those who took you for granted were just chances to grow. If you know you deserve happiness and truth, all the liars were just lessons learned. If you know you're worth the effort, the ones who fell off are just time saved. It takes going through a couple of bad situations for us to value the chance to treasure a good one.

What’s the best advice you have to give?

mooshyqury_’s Profile PhotoMooshyQury
~ to you?
"always keep your feet firmly in the stirrups . . . . never let them hang loose, especially when cantering"
otherwise you will come to a sticky end . . . . . ding . . . .
(from one of your 'dp's ~ you are a horsewoman/horsey-girl?)
& always wear jodpurs & riding boots, and . . . . an helmet !
Whats the best advice you have to give

Should I do meetup from a person who became friend from askfm and we chat on Instagram and I know about his family too. But its awkward for me to him. I'm confused because he also likes me. Also I have negative thoughts for no reason at all. Suggestions needed

Just don't sister and a piece of advice for girls that knowing about his family and his family knowing about you is nothing special don't feel special. Sorry but it's just a trap

What’s one advice for a healthy relationship?

Communication. Talk to them about how you feel. Talk about your needs, ask about their needs. Tell them if things are on your mind, then they can tell you when things are on theirs.
So many people choose to play mind games, and hope their partners will read their minds. Or there's such miscommunication that they end up having conflicts.
Stop wasting time trying to play mind games and mind reading. Just TALK.
That's the best advice anyone can have.

I'm a girl, 27 years but unable to find a good guy. How do I fulfil my desires because you cnt have it before shadi. Can someone guide me plzz!! This question isn't meant for people with sick mind as I'm only asking for advice so don't use any bad words Thanks

Try keeping yourself busy in any hobby of your liking, it's a tough time to survive but being busy is the only chance of it

I'm a girl, 27 years but unable to find a good guy. How do I fulfil my desires because you cnt have it before shadi. Can someone guide me plzz!! This question isn't meant for people with sick mind as I'm only asking for advice so don't use any bad words Thanks

If it's a genuine issue, then imma help.
You haven't found a good guy yet maybe because you aren't ready for marriage. There is still some learning left to be done before committing to it. Try looking into yourself and improve. Allah will send someone to you once you are ready. That's what I believe in.

I'm a girl, 27 years but unable to find a good guy. How do I fulfil my desires because you cnt have it before shadi. Can someone guide me plzz!! This question isn't meant for people with sick mind as I'm only asking for advice so don't use any bad words Thanks

You CAN have it before shadi, it's just that you need birth control and the possibility that someone will be willing to marry you even if you're not a virgin. Not likely in an arranged marriage but love can get you there for sure.

Anyone here to talk? Don't want to drown in Stromy sea of depression with I am seeing from distance. Overthinking sucks. Feeling panic attack or anxiety don't know

I will give everyone an honest advice. Please, for the love of God, if you're suffering from depression and anxiety, and feel suicidal, please seek professional help. You don't have to suffer. It's a disease, get treatment, be kind to yourself. You owe yourself to be healthy and better. Please save enough money, prioritize your well being. There's no harm in getting medicinal or therapeutic professional help. Please! Don't suffer. Talking to people, venting and ranting, complaining about your pain will only reduce your importance and charm, please don't make fun of your own life. Take care of yourself and get help. You don't have to suffer. Prioritize your well being. May Allah bless you with complete health and healing. Aameen.

🥹 It is OK to feel lost sometimes . 🥹

Perfectly normal. Your emotions are your emotions. Take all the time to feel them and heal. My advice to you is that everything will workout in the end and if it doesn’t workout the way you want it to it’s not the end. Things will always get better. Be patient dear time tells ☺️
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Love your content. How do you make so much money to buy these cool things? I need to make more so I can buy some cool things to help my depression. Even better if its ad home work!

I wasn’t even aware that I had content. But thank you. 🤪💗
Though I’m not one to take spending advice or habits from! 🤪
Some things I’ve been involved with from home:
Truly Beauty:
Vegan Product Testers:
Love your content How do you make so much money to buy these cool things I need

I'm a girl, 27 years but unable to find a good guy. How do I fulfil my desires because you cnt have it before shadi. Can someone guide me plzz!! This question isn't meant for people with sick mind as I'm only asking for advice so don't use any bad words Thanks

First of all, I'm glad you are seeking help rather than choosing to go down the wrong path.
Secondly, these moments of weakness are normal. In fact, it just means you're healthy. You will have a proper legal halal outlet for all your desires soon. This is just a test, and we all know if we pass our tests well, we always are rewarded for it.
If you choose to go down the wrong path now, you aren't gonna be able to actually experience the beauty of these gifts later. By later i mean, when you have a halal outlet. So you choose, do you want to be able to enjoy these gifts for a year or two and regret it for the rest of your life? Or do you want to be able to enjoy them long term just by refraining for a year or two now.
Distraction is your best friend. Whenever you are in a weak moment, distract yourself by going and sitting among people. Taking part in conversations etc. If that's not possible then use up this physical energy by walking, running, skipping rope. Just light physical activity until you're tired.
Also don't worry, you'll find a suitable partner soon. Just stay open to the idea of arrange marriage as well and pray to Allah to make it easier for you to find a partner.
Good luck!

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I need honest advice I accidentally blocked him and it’s been 2 weeks should I text first?

Whenever I am blocked I assume that the person who blocked me dislikes me and wants a divorce. So you might want to re-evaluate your relationship and if you blocked this person by mistake text them and explain the mistake and then apologize. If this person is a rational human being, they will probably not believe you because the process to block is always intentional and it requires effort and several clicks of the mouse to implement the block and askfm users understand this. So the "mistake" excuse probably won't fly.
My advice is this: move on with your life knowing that blocking someone is similar to getting a divorce and undoing the block, in my opinion, will not repair the damage to the relationship.
"I do not trust people who don't love themselves and yet tell me, 'I love you.' There is an African saying which is: Be careful when a naked person offers you a shirt."
Maya Angelou

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I need honest advice I accidentally blocked him and its been 2 weeks should I

I like my job and my work colleagues but I don’t really want to see them outside of work. I never go to work drinks or the office Christmas party but am always friendly/helpful. I feel like some are starting to resent me for not being social outside of work but it’s just not my thing! Any advice?

i totally understand this — as i've gotten older, i've become less & less interested in social situations. i think it would be helpful if you told them you weren't up to going out, but you appreciate the invitation. also maybe something along the lines of how you're not typically a social person (if you're comfortable explaining that).

Life advice 101:- if the bait is obvious dont take it, unless u wanna hunt the hunter who placed the bait to begin with. Thats the only condition where u take the bait, eat the bait and then eat the hunter who baited u.🌚🌝 Fun eh?

*Mouse eating cheese from the bait, getting stuck, dying and then coming back to haunt to kill the one who placed the bait*

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I'm a girl, 27 years but unable to find a good guy. How do I fulfil my desires because you cnt have it before shadi. Can someone guide me plzz!! This question isn't meant for people with sick mind as I'm only asking for advice so don't use any bad words Thanks

If you are in a situation where your desires and lusts are so overpowered, where walking away from committing the sin in of zina is not even an option and the only option left to you is tocommit one of the two abominations: zina or masturbation.
Then obviously you should abstain from zina and choose the lesser of the two sins.
This is the only way to somehow put your desires under control. But again marriage is the ultimate solution, open infront of your parents about your situation.

I'm a girl, 27 years but unable to find a good guy. How do I fulfil my desires because you cnt have it before shadi. Can someone guide me plzz!! This question isn't meant for people with sick mind as I'm only asking for advice so don't use any bad words Thanks

Waiting to see how many people are going to talk shit on this and if i am the only one to help you 🥺💔

Who has some advice for a first time mom to be?

LaurenS79945’s Profile PhotoLauren S
all same color socks/gloves to save your sanity🧦, buy minimal clothes bc they grow FASTTT, zipper > anything with buttons,
costco brand (kirkland) diapers and wipes are good quality and cheap, use diaper rash cream every time (aquaphor is best),
evenflo bottles TRUST🍼💯,
sign up for baby registries with free goodies bags (walmart, target, amazon, etc.) usually has free bottles & binky 🍼, Enfamil/Similac send free formula samples & coupons,
your insurance may offer free car seat, diaper bag, breast pump, etc.
there’s a lot more so ask me anything 😗
the nights are gonna be long, but the years are short ❤️ give them lots of love and snuggles 🥺
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What should I do if I’m depressed I don’t want to do anything I don’t want to get up of bed I feel the best when I’m on bed. Any advice? I tried to push myself to get up but, there are times I get too depressed

Or try to start doing simple things regularly and praise yourself for it. Step by step add tasks with higher difficulty level

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