#advice

. . . for you, personally :

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BECOME A BELIEVER . . .

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KNOW IN WHOM YOU HAVE BELIEVED . . .

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Hear people complaining
They say they got dealt
The roughest deal
They cry when it's raining
No bread for the latest meal
But if there's no heaven
You can be sure there's no hell
And if there's no devil
There won't be no god to hear you yell
See people get holy
They're turning some plain water to wine
They're living life slowly
They can look up and see
The day turn fine
But ask them the question
And no answer is there
Whether you're eastern or western
There's only one pace that we can share
One day at a time
See people get sickly
The shock passes down from bad to worse
The backs up and prickly
Roll in a ball and pretend
You got no purse
But if this continues where does it all end?
I'm in the retinue
Till i see broken wishes mend
One day at a time
So when you get lonely
Be good to yourself and bless the day
Know you are the only
One who can deliver what i say
Try fighting the fever
Try popping the pill
Become a believer
Try separating life from still
One day at a time

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Hi 👋🏻
I've taught myself French (pretty fluent)
I never attended any classes or formal instruction. IMO the best way to learn a language quickly and inexpensively is by urself.
Remember that learning a language fluently takes years. Not days, weeks or months, but years ,the most important step is to target the desired language not to be random
Study phonetics for about 1 month It's crucial that u learn correct pronunciation, so that people can understand u ,Start learning (thousands of ) words,then start learning the basics of grammar.
Throughout the whole learning process, listen to the same recordings over and over again. This step really makes ur skills shine. Download songs or movies and listen to 'em repeatedly!!
Study a little bit everyday. That's also the magic of Anki, it forces u to review everyday otherwise cards will pile up.

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I was/am too, not so much anymore that I'm doing something about it but I still have the occasional soft drink here and there but it hasn't affected my weight so far now I'm only drinking one every few days. But eat healthier/exercise and drink a lot of water, you don't have to cut everything out but do it slowly if you do. That is if you want to do something about it but I'm sure you are also beautiful the way you are now, look in the mirror and tell yourself you are beautiful no matter what the size. Your weight is not who you are and it's not all you are. If you want try to get motivated to exercise or drink water at least once a day however that may be, for me I just do it I don't think about it or I look in the mirror and see how well I'm doing and that kinda motivates me to get back to the weight I was when I was 18 which is slowly but surely working. It is difficult to get into the right mindset and I know there are days you just want to lay around and read a book or something after a stressful day, it's more what you put into your body then exercise but it is a part of it. Whatever you decide to do remember your body isn't all you are and you are beautiful exactly the way you are

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First of all, I'm glad you are seeking help rather than choosing to go down the wrong path.
Secondly, these moments of weakness are normal. In fact, it just means you're healthy. You will have a proper legal halal outlet for all your desires soon. This is just a test, and we all know if we pass our tests well, we always are rewarded for it.
If you choose to go down the wrong path now, you aren't gonna be able to actually experience the beauty of these gifts later. By later i mean, when you have a halal outlet. So you choose, do you want to be able to enjoy these gifts for a year or two and regret it for the rest of your life? Or do you want to be able to enjoy them long term just by refraining for a year or two now.
Distraction is your best friend. Whenever you are in a weak moment, distract yourself by going and sitting among people. Taking part in conversations etc. If that's not possible then use up this physical energy by walking, running, skipping rope. Just light physical activity until you're tired.
Also don't worry, you'll find a suitable partner soon. Just stay open to the idea of arrange marriage as well and pray to Allah to make it easier for you to find a partner.
Good luck!

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Whenever I am blocked I assume that the person who blocked me dislikes me and wants a divorce. So you might want to re-evaluate your relationship and if you blocked this person by mistake text them and explain the mistake and then apologize. If this person is a rational human being, they will probably not believe you because the process to block is always intentional and it requires effort and several clicks of the mouse to implement the block and askfm users understand this. So the "mistake" excuse probably won't fly.

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My advice is this: move on with your life knowing that blocking someone is similar to getting a divorce and undoing the block, in my opinion, will not repair the damage to the relationship.

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QUOTE:
"I do not trust people who don't love themselves and yet tell me, 'I love you.' There is an African saying which is: Be careful when a naked person offers you a shirt."

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Maya Angelou

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