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A girl who i love truly, leaves me at the worst time possible in my life. Now, whenever she sees me doing something good, i get a text from her about getting back together again. I already know i shouldn't, but i really do love her. Any advices?

harryharis’s Profile PhotoSyed Haris Irshad
You clearly answered your question.
"Whenever she sees me doing something good"
Life isn't about all good, there are bad times too. You gotta make a move :)

A girl who i love truly, leaves me at the worst time possible in my life. Now, whenever she sees me doing something good, i get a text from her about getting back together again. I already know i shouldn't, but i really do love her. Any advices?

harryharis’s Profile PhotoSyed Haris Irshad
block her immediately, q k wapus connect hona mtlb jb dobara kbhi ups and downs aien gey, wo phr choar jaye gi r q k use pta hoaga k mere hr baar aney main ye mje aney dey ga so wo aik sec b ni lgaye gi jatey huay.

A girl who i love truly, leaves me at the worst time possible in my life. Now, whenever she sees me doing something good, i get a text from her about getting back together again. I already know i shouldn't, but i really do love her. Any advices?

harryharis’s Profile PhotoSyed Haris Irshad
Allah kbi b unka nage milta jb kisi ak k b dil ma khot ho r ap us insan sa bht dor ho jaty hy r apko pta b ni chalta es lea Usk faisly behtreen hoty hy R hmy razi rehna chea ❤️✨

A girl who i love truly, leaves me at the worst time possible in my life. Now, whenever she sees me doing something good, i get a text from her about getting back together again. I already know i shouldn't, but i really do love her. Any advices?

harryharis’s Profile PhotoSyed Haris Irshad
Sometimes you have to leave people you love because they are not good enough for u :) know your worth

A girl who i love truly, leaves me at the worst time possible in my life. Now, whenever she sees me doing something good, i get a text from her about getting back together again. I already know i shouldn't, but i really do love her. Any advices?

harryharis’s Profile PhotoSyed Haris Irshad
Everyone should have enough self-respect to atleast block someone who they know the reality of.
Idk how you guys have zero self respect.

A girl who i love truly, leaves me at the worst time possible in my life. Now, whenever she sees me doing something good, i get a text from her about getting back together again. I already know i shouldn't, but i really do love her. Any advices?

harryharis’s Profile PhotoSyed Haris Irshad
If you think that she's coming back to you just so that she could use you ( because you're doing well in life and assuming that she's a gold digger) , i suggest that you don't go back. But if that's not the case and she's actually in love with you you should forgive her because you love her and true love is hard to find these days.
It's also possible that she might needed a break from you when she left you and now that you're doing fine without her she wants you back because she was never out of love with you she just needed a break (if she got tired of you once she could get tired of you again in the near future)
-I can just help you arrange your thoughts it's you who's going to decide what's the best for you so choose wisely and best of luck and many wishes for you.

A girl who i love truly, leaves me at the worst time possible in my life. Now, whenever she sees me doing something good, i get a text from her about getting back together again. I already know i shouldn't, but i really do love her. Any advices?

harryharis’s Profile PhotoSyed Haris Irshad
hey! when she leaves you at your worst definitely implies that she wasn't having any feelings or empathy left for you, she doesn't deserve a second chance, we should just treat such people like characters that play their role and die, she might want to just use you again don't fall for the trap..good luck!

Alhamdulillah scored 1094 marks in matric exams. Please congratulate me and guide me what field I should go for, in college. Thanks!

Bohat bohat mubarak hou aap ko.
Ya Allah tera shukr, yeh manhoos time toh khatam hua. 😂
N bachay jo dil ko pasand ho woh choose krna. Jahn dil na ho wahn ziada dair ruka ni jaata. Toh kisi ki advices lene ka as such kooooi faida ni. 🤍✨

for those who always mention God when telling advice, they should also realize that even God's plan for you is not positive

More on putting it as "not positive," I began calling it as "God's providence" :)
Also, I've changed when it comes to this one because as much as possible I don't really give unsolicited advices. Going back, I always ask about someone's religion before giving an advice because we might have different spiritual beliefs.
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Are women more judged than men?

christineranch’s Profile Photozoe
They last time I checked, men are never held responsible for:
- Infidelity (that too is a woman’s fault somehow. Men will be men right? 🤡)
- Even infertility is blamed on women solely however it’s a very human deficiency not a mere *ladiez* problem. 🤡
- For not having basic life skills like cooking, cleaning, laundry (because women are born to serve men 🤡)
- It’s okay for them to be an absent parents because they’re the breadwinner of the house (so technically the child is solely the woman’s responsibility and oh even if she too, supports financially 🤡)
- Wanting the guy to be enough financially sound to support a family is called being a *gold digger* now but the same guy and the family is more than okay with taking dowry, ‘cause gifts. 🤡
- A guy can talk to a colleague or an old class fellow/friend and it’s okay. However in a woman’s case, it straight up puts a question mark on her loyalty. 🤡
- From A-Z everyone advices women, to deal with a man’s temper but a man won’t once be advised the same. 🤡
- Men can even hit women in public, harass them, bully them and nobody meddles in however women aren’t even allowed to have an opinion in real life as well as on social media. A number of “same mentality” of men will show up to silence her. We live in a patriarchal society anyway. 🤡
- Our lucky desi guys can get away with shorts as well but watch people character assassinate a woman, no matter what she wears.
Even if it’s an abaya people will still school her on how it should’ve been a different colour or be plain or longer and the list goes on. 🤡
Last time I checked, everything is a fucking problem as long as a woman does it. 🤡

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Hey i need a relationship advice

Listen to your heart you dumb ass... Its your life... Its your one shot... Take it or lose it... Dont ask people, no one is responsible for what we have done or what we are about to do... Sometimes we make a fuckin awful decisions but we dont die, something dies inside us many time every moment but we don't... we don't die and sometimes a fluke brings everything we ever wanted... Life becomes so real that you feel like getting rid of the concept of heaven cuz you have felt it already... like you... like everybody... We all feel how we feel and we all have a reason for that so find your reason huzoor e wala ye advices zindagi barbad kar deti hain... Bas apnay dil ki suniey... Phir enjoy kijiey ya bhugatiey ya jese bhi hai...

How to acquire knowledge from reading books and watching documentaries in a way that it retains ? I read so many books but I just keep forgetting what I read.

I haven’t read many books, but neither can I retain information very well.
My teacher gave me three advices about acquiring knowledge. I’ll just share those here.
People used to ask Ibn Abbas (R.A.), how did you acquire so much knowledge?
He told them “A tongue that asks questions and an attentive heart”
Imam Bukhari (R.H.) when asked for advice regarding acquiring knowledge, he said “کثرۃ المطالعه”
“Frequent revision”.
So the 3 advices are
• Ask questions
• Have an attentive heart (respect the knowledge, respect the teacher, pray for increase in knowledge)
• Revise frequently
Hope this helps انشاءالله.

Qual é a Primeira Coisa Que Vem na Cabeça de Vocês Quando Lhes Falo do Japão?

Japanese gardens 😍👍 - Next week my good colleague will celebrate 50.BD and I decided to buy her book about gardens, I saw one about Japanese gardens too 👇, but I bought one called 100 advices for blooming garden 😁
Qual é a Primeira Coisa Que Vem na Cabeça de Vocês Quando Lhes Falo do Japão

If you like someone and want to marry then send rishta. Talk to their parents in the first place. If you don't do that, you're not gonna get it.

OneFinalTime_Maybe’s Profile PhotoAhmed Imran Hashmi
The 'bois' these days don't wanna get it either.They only know how to be in the shitty relationship without their parents even knowing,untill they find another one to like and the cycle goes on. There are bois here,there and everywhere but MEN are rare. So it's pointless to lecture them about it.It's always one's mindset that matters not the advices like these.

What advice would you give to your younger self? If you want me to stop sending you questions feel free to tell me so whenever you want.

modelzmodelz9053’s Profile PhotoLove
Give me questions you beautiful girl!
When I think that some mistakes got me to the good road anyway, I don t know if I would give me any advices.
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موقف غيرلك حياتك او امتي بدأت تتغير للاحسن

Nothing in particular.
I guess the process of growing up made me a better person. I had many experiences, difficult ones. I spent many days thinking about what I had gone through, what I should keep and what I should ignore.
I am a fast learner, I listen, observe, read, express my opinions freely, open to other people's -who I really respect- opinions and advices.
I am surrounded by my lovely family, my wonderful bestfriend, my lovely cats and a really good/cool group of small close friends. They respect my opinions/thoughts/choices in life, they are so supportive and helpful.
I am a combination of all of that.

How do you deal with someone that is going through depression? What are the things that you do in order to make them feel better or at least make them feel comfortable and sees you as a safe space? How do you deal with your own thoughts when you're trying to be there for them?

You have to be patient with them especially if they are in the middle of breaking down. There are instances that they might push you away out of impulse. You have to be considerate with this. They prefer listeners. Just listen to them when they are ranting. If you can, give them sensible advice. But most of the time, they just want someone who can listen to them. Let them express how they feel, they might even say they hate you but it's not them. Just sit beside them hold their hands and hold them. Your love vibes can heal them. Just try to spend time with them by listening to them, I try to hug and hold their hands cause sometimes I cannot say the right words. I let them know that I trust and love them so much. Love, support and accepting them can heal them a lot. Don't try to give them a lot of advices which may not work and put them in a lot of stress and yourself too. It gets draining for you sometimes so make sure you take breaks. Don't spend too much time if you are worn out. Remember that you cannot "fix" them and you should always be there for them instead of trying to make things better cause it gets worse. 🌻

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Be someone’s light when they’re hopeless..😇

Ridxx5502’s Profile PhotoRidxx
You know I thought much about this world and situations. I think there are thousand things to make each other happy. Sending songs, meeting and making each other laugh, helping each other in dress up. Holding hand and walking, to take them into your fav place, share your fav memory, taking advices, pillow fights, loosing argument for other, Saying sorry first, texting and asking them if they are okay! Do you think if you have these things you can be stressed even for a sec? No.

Comme parents, à quelles difficultés êtes-vous les plus confrontés, que vous manque-t-il parmi tous livres ou accompagnements de professionnels que vous avez cherchés ? En tant que femme, quel serait ton rendez-vous idéal ? Combien de temps faut-il à un homme pour savoir qu'il veut sortir avec toi ?

KeepYourEyesPeeled’s Profile PhotoKeepYourEyesPeeled
1. There is a lot of advices I could find via google - about health and study mostly. And last time I was looking for what my 7 month old grand-niece should be able to do regarding movement of her body 👶🤩
2. Ideal date - walking in the city or park, cinema, dinner in restaurant 😅
3. My marriage is quite big obstacle for other men to date me and for me too 😜😂

Share you opinion pls Do you think it's important to listen to your friends' opinions about your relationships?

Hmm, might as well ask the neighbours if we’re taking advices from people who are not part of the relationship.
A relationship is between two people, keep it that way. Talk to each other, if there’s a problem, try solving it together. You don’t have to involve 3rd person. :))

what to do in the situation of having a friend who constantly complains about anything? there's someone in my life who does that daily and no matter how many advices i give them, they keep doing it, completely ignoring my advices. idek what to tell 'em anymore, i ran out of things to say.

You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped!
Sounds like they just want someone to moan at, and don't want any solutions!
what to do in the situation of having a friend who constantly complains about
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What if u r giving ur time, love, loyality, care and compromise to ur partner but still he keeps on demanding to fully change urself according to him even if u r not comfortable in that. Should u be with such a guy??

You are a better judge let me tell you never take your personal life advices from anyone else devise your own way out and you will do much better.

My parents keep admiring other people and their achievements while brutally discouraging me, I never received their support in anything and now I feel like I can’t continue.. any advices?

Don’t listen to them any more..u must stop them first and then work on ur self and prove to them that they was completely wrong about u ,,and am courage u to start ✊🏻..🖤💫

My parents keep admiring other people and their achievements while brutally discouraging me, I never received their support in anything and now I feel like I can’t continue.. any advices?

You don’t need anyone’s recognition to do your best so don’t put pressure on yourself just to be ‘good enough’ for them, it’s your life not theirs so you only need yourself to continue!!
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My parents keep admiring other people and their achievements while brutally discouraging me, I never received their support in anything and now I feel like I can’t continue.. any advices?

التمسلهم العذر ، و شجع نفسك و خلي عندك إرادة و ثبات و ذكر نفسك دائما أنك تنجز لنفسك و تنجح و تتقدم بش تحقق طموحك و توصل للمكانة اللي تستحقها 🤍

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