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You moved from a big city to a small town. What were your circumstances, and how'd you adjust?

Because I saw myself becoming the stereotypical parisian. I was stressed, angry, overworked, insomniac, and a social alcoholic. One day i was walking down the stairs in a busy metro station and a guy (suit, tie,€50 haircut) growled at me because i was in his way. Not grumbled, growled. Like a dog. I decided i didn't want to become this man. A month later i was packing up.
I'm currently living in Paris, renting a pretty huge apartment in the 15eme with 2 roommates, but I'll be moving soon into a new apartment I bought myself in banlieue. If given the opportunity I'd have preferred staying in Paris but it's way too expensive to buy anything here (like 10k€/sqm...).
I was born in the suburbs of Paris, childhood was cool but once you reach puberty and go to high-school, you'll start to see that you have a lot of stuff that you can do (bars, activities,...) you also have to deal with the reality that you'll most likely won't be able to live close to your work, and that means a mean travel time of 1h morning and then 1h evening, meaning you'll end up doing little of your free time if you account for doing groceries and food (which felt important to me, I wanted to avoid takeout and stuff like that as much as possible)
That plus the fact that the comute is pretty much lost time, I wasn't doing anything useful in the train or by driving the car, and couldn't go to work by bike which would have alleviated some of the downsides cause at least I would be getting some activity.
I've spent my entire life moving among different rural suburban areas. I was born in Acton, CA, moved to Flagstaff, AZ, had spent a couple years in rural Ohio, and currently live in a town about an hour outside of Pittsburgh, PA. I've never spent longer than a couple hotel nights in a major city despite visiting many as a kid. Now that I'm less than a year away from graduating college, I'd really like some honest insight.
Because the truth is I'm completely tired of driving 25 minutes to reach a restaurant, store, or anything more exciting than a gas station. I'm also tired of run-away, aggressive pets, hostile people, ignorance, bug infestations, and the overall subtle hostility that living out here is. For almost half a decade now I've been nurturing this idea of living in an apartment somewhere deep inside a city. To be able to walk anywhere in a two two mile radius and find things, even if not necessarily everything, I'd want, and to have the ability to train ride to the locations farther away. All the while being surrounded by the pinnacle of human civilization; it honestly sounds like a dream.
So to me moving out of the parisian ambiance was a goal that I don't regret achieving one bit, but this is mostly true to my needs and I can see why some people would want to live there, it was just not for me.

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A rule must be a rule for every situation. In this I can then say that this ayah is for hereafter. That pious will be with pious in hereafter. Then again. If I don't have any guarantee in this life then why or on what basis should I implement on this ayah? (5)

Lets assume that this verse does say good men for good women and vice versa, if Allah is telling us this then it means He is talking about the people that are good and bad in His opinion right? And He is in the hearts of people so you may see a man who commits all forms of sins but who knows what's in his heart? Maybe he is an alcoholic and an adulterer married to a woman who is free of these bad habits. But what if Allah knows that this man has the potential to be inspired by his wife and give up all these wrong habits? I have seen this happen in real life. So many 'bad' men and women have become good after being married to people that are good. We judge people based on the wrong they do, even if that person changes and becomes good later in life we keep reminding them of the bad they've done. So if you look at it from a human's perspective, it may not make much sense. But who knows what you and I are in the eyes of Allah? I always go back to Umar's R.A example. He used to have so much hatred towards Islam for so many years and if he were to be married to a good woman during those years, everyone would've questioned this verse {assuming it does talk about bad men and women}. But look how pious he became later? It means he had the potential to be that great. So like I said, in my opinion this verse talks about rumors and false accusations or character assassination being the hobby of bad people because this meaning makes more sense when related to it's original context BUT even if it is talking about people, we don't get to define what good and bad means over here. It could mean people who have a lot of potential.

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Apparently, I’m a ‘deep diver’ which I think suits me. But have you tried this website that insults your Spotify? (I’m a lonely, alcoholic student in the 1990s according to it) https://pudding.cool/2021/10/judge-my-music/

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Oh lovely!! I can definitely see that after reading your last answer!
I was just on that website and I was absolutely dying hahahah, I got ripped to shreds 🤣🤣 (I listen to like one song by Coldplay and the Gwyneth Paltrow insults come hurtling my way 🤣🤣)
Thank you so much for sending it!!
Apparently Im a deep diver which I think suits me But have you tried this

I get anxious around new people, how can I make sure that I come across as interested and not boring?

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I've always be anxious around men when was younger thru getting hit by my alcoholic father and nearly sexual attack when I was 16 but no longer feel that way toward the opposite sex but I wouldn't take on if people didn't like you believe me to some I'm boring to some I'm funny yeah little part of me get bother about hate sent my way and next think why should we let these individuals get the better of us

https://ask.fm/Xjorn/answers/171996806898 - Wirklich? 😳 Ich dachte ehrlich gesagt das Gegenteil, dass in Süddeutschland wegen des Oktoberfestes öfter Bier getrunken wird 😅 Ich stehe korrigiert 🤪 Vielen Dank mein Freund 😇

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Lieber Tommy, Bier wurde früher in sehr vielen Familienbetrieben hergestellt im ganzen Land. Es wird auch geringer besteuert als andere alkoholische Getränke. Die Stadt Hannover hatte vor 100 Jahren mehr als 10 Bierbrauereien.
Vielen leben Dank für Deine nachträgliche Gratulation zum Geburtstag.
Beer used to be made in many family businesses across the country. It is also taxed less than other alcoholic beverages. 100 years ago, the city of Hanover had more than 10 breweries.

What would you say is the most commonly consumed alcoholic spirit in your country? 🤔 👍 😇

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God knows about most common in the UK... (I'm not much of an alcohol person lol)
But going by what we sell at work! Henry Westons sells damn well! We run out after about a day or two. Ditto the varying Thatchers :)
What would you say is the most commonly consumed alcoholic spirit in your

What would you say is the most commonly consumed alcoholic spirit in your country? 🤔 👍 😇

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Dear Tommy, I assume this is beer and wine.
Wine is drunk more in southern Germany because the climate for grapes is better there.
Lieber Tommy, ich vermute das sind Bier und Wein.
Wein wird mehr in Süddeutschland getrunken, denn dort ist das Klima für Weintrauben besser.
Das Deutsche Reinheitsgebot für Bier ist ein Qualitätsmerkmal und dementsprechend beliebt ist Deutsches Bier auch im Ausland.

What would you say is the most commonly consumed alcoholic spirit in your country? 🤔 👍 😇

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Heineken. As it is made here.
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What would you say is the most commonly consumed alcoholic spirit in your

Someone said sakoon sirf ameer bandey ke wife/gf banney mein hey n I felt that lol

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There are cases .. when girls married for the guy for being rich .. the guy was rich but was alcoholic drug addict and abused the girl so much that she wanted to get divorced . But due financial dependence on that guy and parents not ready to accept her back ... She was stuck .. so sb se pehly ikhlaq and insaniat dheken phir paisa and try to be financially independent !!

Anyone from the U.K that remembers Rosie and Jim

There is no-one from the UK on this site at all.
Jim went to prison for a short spell. He made Rosie pregnant and she was underage .
After a heavy drinking binge , Rosie fell overboard and drowned.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q9dr0FmsLk0igotamatch’s Video 171379267450 q9dr0FmsLk0igotamatch’s Video 171379267450 q9dr0FmsLk0
Jim is an alcoholic . . . .
Anyone from the UK that remembers Rosie and Jim

What's your favorite alcoholic drink🤔

I don't drink alcohol at all, because I'm not yet an adult.
But a couple of months ago, when I visited my beautiful relatives and in the evening after a hard day they opened three bottles of wine and a bottle of cider 😅
They let me try the last of the above.
In principle, I liked the cider, it doesn’t really get into my head. Tastes like regular juice =^ᴥ^=
Whats your favorite alcoholic drink

So what's your story? a) age b) birth place c) s*xual orientation d) relationship status e) maximum completed education level f) occupation g) favorite alcoholic drink h) # of kids i) # of past s*xual partners

I am 22 years old, birth place is sydney, australia. I am straight, happily in a relationship for almost 2 and a half years in September, maximum completed education is high school. I don’t drink, there are no kids before marriage. only 1 sexual partner, my now partner :-)

Full name? Age? Fav color? Fav food? Fav drink? Single/taken? Sexual orientation? Fav music genre?

Why you want to know my full name? anyway, i won't tell.
I'm almost 21
I don't have one but i like fries, pasta etc
Alcoholic jägermeister, non alcoholic water or orange juice

I've never wanted a bottle of vodka so much in my life. I'm a recovering alcoholic 16 months sober and close fucking it up 🥲 help me

jumpa88’s Profile PhotoStraightpipeq3
Well done on 16 months that's amazing. I guess try and look at your situation atm and think 'what is it that's making me need this so bad now, after 16 months?' has something happened, are you going through stress and stuff. If so then you need to recognise that your brain is just looking for a coping technique to help you deal with the situation you're in atm. But obviously drinking was a common coping technique you used for a long time, so instinctively your mind may autopilot feel its an option. But it's not, at least not the ONLY option. So your goal right now should to find a healthier coping technique. And starting by asking your mentor (if you have one from when you quit) or some counselling /seeing your doctor to find out resources for support. Will be helpful for you, because they can help you figure out ways and action plans you can do, to cope with what you're struggling with, in a more healthy coping way.
You owe it to yourself, to keep fighting for staying sober. Because no matter how bad you're feeling atm, or what's going on. Alcohol will only exasperate it and make it way worse for you, rather than help you manage these emotions. So if you're looking for a way to get rid of this discomfort long term that is the worst, least helpful way to help it.
Reach out for help, call some AA centers maybe or support numbers. So they can help talk you though alternative, healthier ways to deal with this xx

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What is heartbreaking?

roshsmile’s Profile PhotoMisba T. Awan
I had a cranky kid in my class. Never did his homework, never participated in activities that went on in the classroom. Always bullying other kids, stealing their lunch money. One day I was distributing candies among them and I handed him three pieces instead of one. This proved to be some sort of a stimulus because that child started bawling his eyes out. After class, I sat him down, and before I could even inquire about anything he said "Mama left me." It turned out that his father was an alcoholic and used to beat his wife. And judging by how she fled from that cesspool without taking her only child with her, those beatings were outrageous for even a mother to bear. A grandmother who has no strength in her aged bones to stop her son from his dreadful behavior, the best she can do is barely cook meals for a family of now three. Who do you think suffers the most in this conflict between good vs evil? Children. Because they don't have that set of vocabulary to express where or how much something hurts.

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If you've graduated high school or anything equivalent, what was your graduation like? What kind of ceremony did you have and did you do anything else to celebrate? 🎓

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I graduated middle school and we celebrated that by class. Each teacher made a mini powerpoint about each student, then I got to sign my diploma and then I was allowed to leave my class to go to my ex’s class to see him get his diploma. 😄
After that we just had (non alcoholic) drinks and a lot of fun with our classes and teachers.
I’m about to graduate my high school this summer if everything goes well!! I’ll let you know how it went 😊
If youve graduated high school or anything equivalent what was your graduation

Would you ever get in the passenger seat of a car with someone whose been drinking?

Unfortunately I didn't get the choice when I was younger cos I had an alcoholic idiot for a "parent" who thought drink driving was a skill. I would never get in a car with someone who's had more than one drink now unless they were just a passenger 🤷🏻‍♀️

Imagina o Seguinte Você Consome Um Produto de Uma Marca Muito Forte e Conhecida e Pensa Olha Essa Marca é da Boa Poderia Estar Batendo de Frente Com Marcas Como a Pespi Coca-Cola Entre Outras e Se Eu Lhe Disser Que Essa Marca Que Você Acha Boa na Verdade é Uma Subdivisão de Uma Marca Como a Pespi?

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Slovakia and Czechia are producers of our own perfect brand of
non- alcoholic beverage KOFOLA - it is much better and much popular here than Coca-Cola and Pepsi 😁
Imagina o Seguinte Você Consome Um Produto de Uma Marca Muito Forte e Conhecida

would u marry an alcoholic ?

no…. no way….
my future husband….❤️will be
the most ….
and right now he is somewhere without me….yet ….but with me in the heart and thoughts….
but he ❤️is
the most ….one from….
he is from-A list
and you know anonymous i don’t know about his relationship with alcohol…i hope really really bad….
i feel like this…. because alcohol it’s usually thing….it’s not about something interesting
and i know that he
he ….❤️is: about another beautiful something really really special things ….
what i mean understand only me….
and him….❤️
about me….
i’ve never taken alcohol in my life anonymous….
even beer….
i don’t like question like this….
everything about love right now very deep in me….
my answer is no…. no way….anonymous

Do you have a problem with alcohol? I'm drinking vodka as i'm typing this i want to get off alcohol but i can't go a day without vodka 😢 I can't even get drunk anymore i just drink to function and not get sick

No, I rarely drink. I grew up around an alcoholic so I don't care to be around it much. Have you been to any alcohol support sessions group or solo? That would be the best place to start I think if you are ready to take the first step

I need some advice on how to assist my bf in finding some motivation to stop drinking. I sincerely love him. But he a, bsolutely turns ,into a horrible person when he is drunk. He will scream and yell call me names and threaten me. I no longer feel the same toward him. Why won't he get help?

"Alcoholism" by Alex (Part 1)
I am sorry that you have had to experience this. There are a few things concerning alcoholism that you should understand:
1. Disease - alcoholism is a disease and it often runs in families, which means that there is a genetic component to it
2. Denial - before an alcoholic can recover, the alcoholic must admit that they have a problem. This is where many alcoholics get stuck. They refuse to admit they have a problem and as a result, their behavior does not change and in fact, progressively gets worse.
3. Setting Personal Boundaries - the victim, in this case you, must set personal boundaries. That is, for your own safety and well being, you need to decide what behavior you are willing to tolerate and which behaviors you are not willing to tolerate. And if necessary, you must be willing to end the dysfunctional relationship in order to protect your own life and self interests. This is NOT easy to do for many reasons. One common reason is that alcoholics are often violent and when they feel threatened, they will attack the people they claim to love resulting in severe injury or death. What about the enablers?
4. The Enabler - what is an enabler? An enabler is often the person(s) closest to the alcoholic who do not understand the disease and who are also in denial. The enabler typically knows that something isn't right but they do not know what to do. And even after receiving advice from family and friends, the enabler will often return to the alcoholic (the scene of the crime) where she is repeatedly abused or physically injured and will make excuses about her black eye or broken arm in order to protect her alcoholic partner.
That is the million dollar question that perplexes even the experts. Sometimes the enabler lived with alcoholics as a child and experienced abuse where she often had to make excuses to protect an alcoholic parent or relative. And sometimes the enabler is insecure and suffers from anxiety and depression which makes her emotionally dependent upon the alcoholic and results in a form of emotional paralysis where the victim us unable to think clearly and becomes confused and overwhelmed by anger, fear and regret because she blames herself for not being able to "fix her partner." Remember, you cannot fix someone who does not believe they are broken and who refuses to seek help. And to add insult to injury, the alcoholic can often detect his enablers fear and insecurities and will blame her for his failures (projection) in order to manipulate and control the enabler/victim thus forcing the victim to accept her self induced prison sentence living in hell. (continued)

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What do you think about parents who get drunk every night? Do you think it affects their child/children? •••just a random thought and I was curious to what others think☺️•••

that’s alcoholism, and it definitely affects children (whether the parents are aware of it or not). coming from a family with a parent who was a severe alcoholic for most of my childhood, it was a negative experience that affected me a lot while growing up.
alcoholism is a disease, and ideally those parents should go to rehab and reclaim their lives while sober to give the best life for their children.
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What do you think about parents who get drunk every night? Do you think it affects their child/children? •••just a random thought and I was curious to what others think☺️•••

My father was an alcoholic and was drunk most nights... but he was never abusive toward my mother or us at all.... Somehow he managed to get to work the next day.... He had his reasons
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What is a book that changed you, and how did it change you?

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No Longer Human by Osamu Dazai!
This won't be about how it necessarily changed me or even about the book specifically, but I'd like to take this opportunity to rant about a certain fascination I discovered with this book. Usually, I like reading about the pain and try to see the subtle beauty in it, the way it shapes mentalities, the glimpses of hope, the ways of coping, etc. I also naturally like reading books that leave the story up to your interpretation, I think it gives the novel a personality and the experience changes from one reader to another. Furthermore, when such a book becomes popular and loved among a vast diversity of people with countless interpretations, it just raises its value even more. Anyways, I also have a weird fascination with mentalities in general, no matter how twisted they are.. well, maybe especially how twisted they are, and the process that carved them out this way. The kind of mentalities that shine in all its vivid real glory, with no whitewashing reality but still a reality that is nothing like the reality we see, it really just is fascinating. Take Kafka's "The Metamorphosis" for example, I'd expect a person who wakes up one day to the sudden realization he turned into a giant bug to at least try to know how it happened or how to turn back, y'know anything to acknowledge how weird the situation is? Well, his first and all the rest of his thoughts were about how he'd be fired and his mundane sad life responsibilities. Well, anyhow, the story was centered about all the negative feeling he had and how he made no effort to cope with them or make his life any better. He even projected them onto his perceptions of the people around him and lived a miserable life to the very end of it when he dies alone as a giant bug. There was no beauty is it, just horrible agony to the end, and the fact it was inspired from Franz Kafka's life adds even more silent horror about all the psychological implications of it.
Another book that feeds this weird fascination of mine is Post Office by Charles Bukowski. It doesn't have anything supernatural about it but it was horrible too. All and every aspect of it. The protagonist narrated his life, he didn't think he was a good person, he didn't twist his beliefs or sugarcoat his terribleness, alcoholic, womanizer, talentless, rude, desperate, you name it. He didn't make any of that sound good, he was terrible and he knew it. And there was no way to find beauty in his life even if you looked through all the cracks.
Now, No Longer Human, combined all that. The psychological manipulation and torture, the feeling of being betrayed by life and blaming others for his own shortcomings proving slowly how twisted he is, the feeling of being rejected by life, imposter, the realization of not being qualified to live in it, his twisted coping mechanisms. In short it was a guide on creating a monster, a miserable one at that who in the end inevitably faces the very same fate of its writer, suicide.

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If you had it to do all over again would you do it the same…..life that is?

No, not at all.
Although I am cognizant of the fact that we have no control over who our parents are, if God were to allow me to live again, I would insist on one fundamental change: I would want parents that were college educated, well read and able to provide learning opportunities for me that my parents were unable to provide. If this first criteria could not be met then I would prefer to not exist. Life is difficult enough without having parents who are functionally illiterate and unable to actively participate in their children's learning process.
That is the primary change I would request. This is not to say that my parents were bad people but, for example, my mother dropped out of school in the 8th grade, was illiterate and was also an alcoholic who smoked 3 packs of cigarettes her entire adult life until she died from cancer. My father was a hard worker who graduated from high school, but never read books or found it necessary to acquire knowledge and was satisfied reading the local newspaper. He also believed that participation in sports was a waste of time and believed that music was a hobby and should never be taken seriously. He was not amused that I graduated from Berklee College of Music as he honestly believed it to be a complete waste of time. Although I loved my parents I also felt that their negative attitudes (24x7) were indeed a liability for me as well as my brothers and sisters. So instead of complaining, I decided to pick myself up and become self sufficient and live a life in pursuit of knowledge and understanding, free from the negativity of family and friends who seem to be experts at discouraging success with their proclamations of pending doom and failure.
Forcing myself to become independent and self sufficient while never quitting or giving up on my dream to be a guitarist and engineer, resulted in many excellent employment opportunities for me that I am forever grateful for. And yet, I sometimes wonder how much more proficient I might have been if the environment I grew up in was more positive and supportive.
I am certain that many of us have had similar experiences where we play the "what if" game, right? Honestly, I do let these thoughts interfere with my life and mostly I chase them out of my mind whenever they appear because negative thoughts like these are beyond my control and are not productive. But the question posed, forced me to address the issue and I wanted to see if I could write something profound that might help some of my followers who have also have suffered from abuse or difficult and toxic environments. Thanks.

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Do you prefer beer or wine?

I like both, I don’t drink that often. . . I don’t like drinking alone, due to an alcoholic mother and others in my gene pool. . .
Do you prefer beer or wine

Where are you in your life and are you happy with yourself or where you might be going?

19 Grocery store employee Life is pretty boring. I don't get paid enough for what I do. I go to the gym regularly and see my boyfriend on a daily basis. I have 2 really close friends that I try to hang out with but if they can't then I end up going home, which I hate to do cause it's boring as shit.. I literally have no hobbies and I really want to get into something
And I suppose so. I stopped smoking. Reading more. I'm getting a better grip on my mind. The people I work with are nice., I do kinda sulk on how much better my life would of been if I didn't always choose the selfish path sometimes. I have always been a huge procrastinator and that has fucked me over quite a few times but I don't let it get to me and try to make the best out the situation with as much positivity I can make.
I'm most of the time happy, but not because i'm proud of myself or anything but because i'm finally away from my family. They weren't very helpful to me growing up and it kind of scarred. I mean i really don't trust most people and I honestly look down on myself a lot. I'm emotionally lost, and i wish it could improve but i don't know how to make that happen.
I am 23 years old and I dropped out of college. I am the happiest I've ever been. I'm working with some of the best people San Diego has to offer. I've fallen into the restaurant group Consortium Holdings and I've found that the connections and opportunities that this company has granted me are straight up blessings. For the first time in my life, I have an actual sense of direction. I went from living my parent's dream to building my own dream of being a bar consultant. I've found that its worth it to chase things that you love, even if it is crafting the perfect cocktail. When it comes down to it, seeing someone's face light up after I mix them the perfect drink is worth 1000 paychecks. plus... I mean 52k a year from one job as a 23 year old bartender is not too shabby. Life is a party and I'm finally living it on my terms.
Presently, working a mundane job until I start law school this fall. Nervous for that. I'm pretty smart. I just lack A LOT of drive. Shit gets done. Unfortunately, it usually gets the done either the night before it is due, or the day of. I'm alright. Could be better. I wish I had more of a social life. Outside of my boyfriend, all I spend my time doing is either indulging in fruity alcoholic drinks, binge eating Cadbury chocolate, getting stoned, or rewatching Arrested Development. Other than that, you'll find me sleeping in past 1, & dealing with the fact that life is happening way.too.fast.

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For those dreaming of reconciliation, could you ever REALLY, honestly, trust your ex again?

I keep fantasizing about her coming back and saying all the right things. How sorry she is. How she epically fucked up when she blindsided me. How she’d do anything to regain my trust and prove to me she wants this relationship. My heart sings, but my head is cold and gray at the thought. Rationally, I think I’d still always be on guard. Even years down the line.
She didn’t want to put the work in when we hit our first real challenge (she is moving a few hours away) - so why would I ever invest again when life has so many more, tougher, challenges? He messaged me when I got back from my holiday after seeing my facebook pics despite him seeing someone new, and I know now that he can't be trusted. He will always be looking for something more, nothing really seems to make him happy. He made me feel not good enough. I was happy with him but I was also stressed a lot of the time too, trying to keep him happy. Nope. My cheating, manipulative ex broke up with me and I was super devastated. He came crawling back a month ago, when he let me know that he had to dump me because I was "acting crazy" over him constantly threatening to cheat on me (sorry I cared lol) and then admitted he cheated on me and felt guilty--not guilty enough to tell me when we broke up 3 months after he cheated. Anyways, even without those issues, he still generally treated me like shit. He hit on all my friends and told all his friends I was "not as pretty as he'd like." He was truly a POS, and I regret none of my behavior. He treated me like shit and I responded the way anyone would after over a year of abuse. When I found out he cheated a month ago, I cried to a friend and he literally just shook his head and said "oh my god, what a jerk. he's just trying to get under your skin. he's not worth it." The patience I've seen in my friends has always been much greater than anything I've gotten from him. She left because she was emotionally unavailable due to the death of her companion 4 years ago. She said she was ready for a new relationship, but actually was still in denial. She never got help. On my side I have trouble with the self-esteem / self-loving things due to child trauma. We've dated for 4 months and were still in the discovery part.
I could never trust her. She cheated on her husband to be with me and my husband, and while she was with us, she slept with her ex~boyfriend twice. She is also an active alcoholic, and this makes her even more predisposed to lying, cheating and manipulation. I took my ex back after 4 months of NC and stayed together for 2.5 months. He only showed effort for about 2/3 weeks and reverted back to his old ways. It's a waste of time. People will never change despite what they tell you when they want to get you back. Talk is cheap and actions will always speak louder than words.

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Aight by Odin i will prove tomorrow that you said you have had problems with alkohol and so on. But i bet you will block me so your friends don't find out? Anyhow i need to go pick up my kid bye

The one who laughs
My friends know almost everything there is to know about me lmao. The people commenting on my page rn, are the FIRST people I told the last time I got pregnant ffs😂
I've never done any drug of any kind and I never had a drinking problem either. Actually what i'd said was that I stopped drinking BEFORE it became a serious problem, because I didn't like how often I felt like drinking. I wasn't an alcoholic & i've still never done drugs. If you're referring to me saying I smoke, I smoke cigarettes dxmbass.

Favorite alcoholic drink? 🥂🍻🍸🍷🥃🍾🍹

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Favorite alcoholic drink

What is the most delicious thing you’ve ever drank?

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There was this one clear blue blueberry drink I had in Singapore which was soooooo good! I wish I could recreate the exact flavor! The closest I've gotten are my blue lagoon drinks but they're alcoholic and not even close to reaching the sweet goodness that were those 😅😭
What is the most delicious thing youve ever drank

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