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It saves money which is nice especially now with the baby and how shit this economy is.

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If I could go back tho, no we wouldn't have spent our life savings bailing them out one too many times of court and debt. That was on us for being good fucking hearted people and letting them guilt trip and take advantage.

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Otherwise. No. I'm not crazy about It. If it was just my mother in law I wouldn't care, but her husband is very toxic and an alcoholic narcissist he's also very verbally abusive to her and his son, I've had to have multiple conversations with him about not talking to people that way around my child or I would move back to my parents and he'd never see her again.

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He's gotten better now that she's around, but some days he's still a huge awhole and right before they left he got into a fight with his wife and was screaming profanities at her and calling her names and my baby started crying so I told him off. He was fine after that. So it's very touch and go.

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Like i said, it's better but not 100% if it wad up to be and it wasn't so damn expensive, we'd have our own place by now but even apartments now a days aren't affordable on two incomes, it's ridiculous.

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Amazing how most banks won't approve you for a mortgage cus they wanna claim young people can't afford it, but most young people are paying 2000 for a small shit box.

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But 800$ mortgage is unaffordable to them 🤣 this world man.

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oh oh …anonymous

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it’s bad i’m sorry!

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i absolutely understand your feelings…

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even we don’t know each other

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but all my life even when people says that i eat a men hearts…

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because i didn’t want to date with anyone…

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i was honest always.

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with everyone… no i haven’t
meet with them and on “meet”explain or something…
no absolutely

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just makes them felt that i don’t want anything… with anyone

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and still and here … i’m honest

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because i know

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because i love.
right now

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i’m his …🕷️🕸❤️ only
and will.

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i’m magical girl .

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i’m sorry… but you will live without me…
because i’m not your real love

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anonymous.

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sorry… absolutely sorry!

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but for me it’s important

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even most beauty queen don’t have i think
God , girls was ready kills each other for that guys

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whome i answered no.

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and because it’s sound like i’m boast i’m not tell that stories…
tell or not
it was happened with me…
i’m like this.
only one magic in this world…
write or not
everyone understands that …

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ups , sorry anonymous

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you know i wrote about before

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for a little time i was have a bodyguard because was dangerous …
all men who saw me was have only one thought
who
is she want marry her from my teen years ( i’m about marriage)

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God maybe i’m terrible why they are all wanted marry me 🙃
they are even not think about
and you know
when men asked him
who is she ?!
and etc he was old man
and always answered them
search in your nation …
on your study work in social media

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in every nation have beautiful girls…
not only Inna exist
but only Inna was exist for them.
i swear

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and after he tells me about
like… you are most beautiful
but i so afraid about
( he was believed in all that stuff about the evil eye )
that they’ll jinx you and you’ll get sick… or stolen you… or something

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no, i’m not a celebrity…

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just beautiful magical girl💚💚

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and how many days have i lived
every day i was have beautiful story

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for me it’s all was about fun
i swear
and
after i started
my diary and it was most
weird times in my life…(
i don’t have any beautiful memory about my diary

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but diary
brought me to you…🕷️🕸❤️

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about you… anonymous

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i’m so sorry

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i can’t live too…
but without him …🕷️🕸❤️
i’m his only

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and wish you to found your real love…

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and you know if you are not magic about person don’t need dream or imagine
you need getting to know each other
day by day
it’s about a lot of time of your life
i only could tell you don’t need do that with everyone

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only with special
or who you want make special

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i love when person special him or herself and man or woman
makes him absolutely especial
but it’s about me
because i’m magic

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some men even alcoholic weird women calls princess

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all depends from men
sorry , everyone have those own taste …
i’m not
and never judge anyone

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i’m just absolutely bad girl
( yes , i know that i’m not it’s just word)
in that moments love and could be beautiful and magical only !

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sorry ‘anonymous

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sorry guys!

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Because I saw myself becoming the stereotypical parisian. I was stressed, angry, overworked, insomniac, and a social alcoholic. One day i was walking down the stairs in a busy metro station and a guy (suit, tie,€50 haircut) growled at me because i was in his way. Not grumbled, growled. Like a dog. I decided i didn't want to become this man. A month later i was packing up.
I'm currently living in Paris, renting a pretty huge apartment in the 15eme with 2 roommates, but I'll be moving soon into a new apartment I bought myself in banlieue. If given the opportunity I'd have preferred staying in Paris but it's way too expensive to buy anything here (like 10k€/sqm...).
I was born in the suburbs of Paris, childhood was cool but once you reach puberty and go to high-school, you'll start to see that you have a lot of stuff that you can do (bars, activities,...) you also have to deal with the reality that you'll most likely won't be able to live close to your work, and that means a mean travel time of 1h morning and then 1h evening, meaning you'll end up doing little of your free time if you account for doing groceries and food (which felt important to me, I wanted to avoid takeout and stuff like that as much as possible)

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That plus the fact that the comute is pretty much lost time, I wasn't doing anything useful in the train or by driving the car, and couldn't go to work by bike which would have alleviated some of the downsides cause at least I would be getting some activity.
I've spent my entire life moving among different rural suburban areas. I was born in Acton, CA, moved to Flagstaff, AZ, had spent a couple years in rural Ohio, and currently live in a town about an hour outside of Pittsburgh, PA. I've never spent longer than a couple hotel nights in a major city despite visiting many as a kid. Now that I'm less than a year away from graduating college, I'd really like some honest insight.

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Because the truth is I'm completely tired of driving 25 minutes to reach a restaurant, store, or anything more exciting than a gas station. I'm also tired of run-away, aggressive pets, hostile people, ignorance, bug infestations, and the overall subtle hostility that living out here is. For almost half a decade now I've been nurturing this idea of living in an apartment somewhere deep inside a city. To be able to walk anywhere in a two two mile radius and find things, even if not necessarily everything, I'd want, and to have the ability to train ride to the locations farther away. All the while being surrounded by the pinnacle of human civilization; it honestly sounds like a dream.
So to me moving out of the parisian ambiance was a goal that I don't regret achieving one bit, but this is mostly true to my needs and I can see why some people would want to live there, it was just not for me.

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Lets assume that this verse does say good men for good women and vice versa, if Allah is telling us this then it means He is talking about the people that are good and bad in His opinion right? And He is in the hearts of people so you may see a man who commits all forms of sins but who knows what's in his heart? Maybe he is an alcoholic and an adulterer married to a woman who is free of these bad habits. But what if Allah knows that this man has the potential to be inspired by his wife and give up all these wrong habits? I have seen this happen in real life. So many 'bad' men and women have become good after being married to people that are good. We judge people based on the wrong they do, even if that person changes and becomes good later in life we keep reminding them of the bad they've done. So if you look at it from a human's perspective, it may not make much sense. But who knows what you and I are in the eyes of Allah? I always go back to Umar's R.A example. He used to have so much hatred towards Islam for so many years and if he were to be married to a good woman during those years, everyone would've questioned this verse {assuming it does talk about bad men and women}. But look how pious he became later? It means he had the potential to be that great. So like I said, in my opinion this verse talks about rumors and false accusations or character assassination being the hobby of bad people because this meaning makes more sense when related to it's original context BUT even if it is talking about people, we don't get to define what good and bad means over here. It could mean people who have a lot of potential.

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Well done on 16 months that's amazing. I guess try and look at your situation atm and think 'what is it that's making me need this so bad now, after 16 months?' has something happened, are you going through stress and stuff. If so then you need to recognise that your brain is just looking for a coping technique to help you deal with the situation you're in atm. But obviously drinking was a common coping technique you used for a long time, so instinctively your mind may autopilot feel its an option. But it's not, at least not the ONLY option. So your goal right now should to find a healthier coping technique. And starting by asking your mentor (if you have one from when you quit) or some counselling /seeing your doctor to find out resources for support. Will be helpful for you, because they can help you figure out ways and action plans you can do, to cope with what you're struggling with, in a more healthy coping way.
You owe it to yourself, to keep fighting for staying sober. Because no matter how bad you're feeling atm, or what's going on. Alcohol will only exasperate it and make it way worse for you, rather than help you manage these emotions. So if you're looking for a way to get rid of this discomfort long term that is the worst, least helpful way to help it.

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Reach out for help, call some AA centers maybe or support numbers. So they can help talk you though alternative, healthier ways to deal with this xx

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I had a cranky kid in my class. Never did his homework, never participated in activities that went on in the classroom. Always bullying other kids, stealing their lunch money. One day I was distributing candies among them and I handed him three pieces instead of one. This proved to be some sort of a stimulus because that child started bawling his eyes out. After class, I sat him down, and before I could even inquire about anything he said "Mama left me." It turned out that his father was an alcoholic and used to beat his wife. And judging by how she fled from that cesspool without taking her only child with her, those beatings were outrageous for even a mother to bear. A grandmother who has no strength in her aged bones to stop her son from his dreadful behavior, the best she can do is barely cook meals for a family of now three. Who do you think suffers the most in this conflict between good vs evil? Children. Because they don't have that set of vocabulary to express where or how much something hurts.

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