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Why does it seem like the world is getting worst in how people treat each other ..

recklesslover7110’s Profile PhotoSarah
Oh it absolutely is. Maybe it’s because life is so difficult nowadays and each of us are under surmountable pressure. We are all scrambling around trying to do everything we need to do for the day. Maybe it’s just taking a toll on how we interact with one another. It’s difficult to be friendly and generous when you are barely keeping your head above water. It's all part of the plan. If we can fight among ourselves snd kill each other off, it saves the 1% from having to do it.
I don't know if it is necessarily any worse than it ever was. There were never any "golden ages". The professional news outlets tend to report more on the bad than the good, which does not help. The so-called "social"-media unwittingly have allowed two unhealthy aspects to develop. One is the so-called "echo-chamber" and exclusions that mean people of a given belief or tendencey flock together, mutually re-inforcing their ideas but excluding, rejecting, abusing and never understanding alternative views let alone facts that may show their beliefs mistaken. The second is the ease of launching floods of ignorance and spite from behind nick-names. Those posts might be a minority of the total traffic, but are very noticeable, especially when their victims unintentionally support the bullies by widely publicising having been bullied. The media creates hype and brainwashes with lies, thick people absorb it and it trickles into their lives, they start abusing people in the supermarkets and pulling weapons way more now over politics that they dont even understand.

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Hat jemand einen seiner Social Media Accounts deaktiviert oder sogar gelöscht ? Wenn ja wieso?

janoschah’s Profile PhotoItsyan01
Hallo Jan, 2019 hatte ich mich hier bei ask.fm über Monate deaktiviert, da ein*e Sta.lker*in ständig meine Beiträge meldete, sodass diese gelöscht wurden und ich Verwarnungen erhielt. Außerdem kamen von Wegwerfprofilen ständig Dro.hungen.
Leider muss auf öffentlichen Plattformen sehr darauf geachtet werden, was geschrieben wird. Da jede Person sich ständig neu hier mit Fake Mails anmelden kann, sind hier dementsprechend problematische Personen unterwegs. Würde es eine sichere Alter.native geben, ich würde nach meinen Erfahrungen, die ich hier gemacht habe, wechseln. Der Gedankenaustausch hier gefällt mir sehr gut und nur daher bleibe ich noch.

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Welches Lied kannst du mir empfehlen?

quetzop1’s Profile PhotoFritz-Ferdinand von Pinguin企鹅
Kurz durch deine eigenen Empfehlungen gescrollt, könnte Lord of the Lost wirklich was für dich sein - Multi-Genre mit Fokus auf Hard Rock und Klassik. Ein Album haben sie elektronischen Klängen gewidmet. Hier ein paar Songs, die ihre Palette abdecken (Wenn dir das gefällt, empfehle ich sehr den Auftritt bei "Gothic meets Classic", Raining Stars, Voodoo Doll & Annabelle Lee): https://youtu.be/2dh58ATKrSgMondknospe’s Video 168611522962 2dh58ATKrSgMondknospe’s Video 168611522962 2dh58ATKrSg https://youtu.be/hunl3mRvpdwMondknospe’s Video 168611522962 hunl3mRvpdwMondknospe’s Video 168611522962 hunl3mRvpdw https://youtu.be/Cj0ItzIlnJ4Mondknospe’s Video 168611522962 Cj0ItzIlnJ4Mondknospe’s Video 168611522962 Cj0ItzIlnJ4
Ansonsten hör ich im Moment nicht so viel Alternative, aber eins meiner liebsten Releases der letzten Jahre war dieses hier, falls du es nicht kennen solltest: https://youtu.be/LczGSoibRe8Mondknospe’s Video 168611522962 LczGSoibRe8Mondknospe’s Video 168611522962 LczGSoibRe8
Englischsprachig feier ich den hier, der noch mehr in Richtung Rock ginge: https://youtu.be/1lAdfEsf4p8Mondknospe’s Video 168611522962 1lAdfEsf4p8Mondknospe’s Video 168611522962 1lAdfEsf4p8
Und falls dir sowas gefällt: https://youtu.be/SoIKv3xxuMAMondknospe’s Video 168611522962 SoIKv3xxuMAMondknospe’s Video 168611522962 SoIKv3xxuMA https://youtu.be/5gCEh4ICp3AMondknospe’s Video 168611522962 5gCEh4ICp3AMondknospe’s Video 168611522962 5gCEh4ICp3A
Und da du mit Mandarin zu tun zu haben scheinst, ich bin Fan von Rolling Wang, die man definitiv nicht auf Chick Chick reduzieren sollte - zwischen fluffig und absolut deep kann sie alles, zwei Beispiele: https://youtu.be/ytXqnfidBfMMondknospe’s Video 168611522962 ytXqnfidBfMMondknospe’s Video 168611522962 ytXqnfidBfM https://youtu.be/VGFPl0p6Pf8Mondknospe’s Video 168611522962 VGFPl0p6Pf8Mondknospe’s Video 168611522962 VGFPl0p6Pf8
Und eins meiner liebsten Lieder auf Mandarin bis heute ist dieser inoffizielle Song, der damals mit zig anderen zusammen zu einer Novel auftauchte: https://youtu.be/9PT9GFtmwNMMondknospe’s Video 168611522962 9PT9GFtmwNMMondknospe’s Video 168611522962 9PT9GFtmwNM
Ich hoffe, da ist irgendwas dabei :> Finde es immer irre schwer, Personen Musik zu empfehlen, wenn man sie/ihren Geschmack nicht kennt, but at least I tried

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Some say that bugs are the food of the future, how do you feel about that? Would you be willing to try out a diet where you get much of the protein from bugs? If you're vegetarian / vegan, does it seem like a good option for those who eat meat? 🍽🐜🦗🐛

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I personally think it's silly, and I don't understand why people are so willing to eat bugs as an alternative to meat, but are unwilling to try the various plant-based protein sources that are steadily becoming more available and affordable.
Even if you don't like meat alternatives, there are other sources of protein out there that aren't meat. I just don't get why anyone would wanna go straight to eating bugs instead.

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Warum ist die AfD keine echte Alternative?

Das ist eig so eine unnötige Frage.
Sie wollen Menschen aus diesem Land schmeißen, die in der Hoffnung hier in Frieden leben zu können her geflüchtet sind. Sie wollen Gesetze einbringen lassen, in denen Frauen wieder unterdrückt werden, Menschen diskriminierend und verletzt werden. Ich kann die Länder nicht verstehen, die das hijab verboten haben. Ich meine warum sieht man das als Bedrohung? Dann sollten Mützen,kappen und andere Kopfbedeckungen doch auch eine Bedrohung sein? Keiner versteht das dieses hijab, welches wir tragen unsere Würde ist. Jeder trägt es auf seine Weise und da hat keiner das Recht etwas zu zu sagen, denn am Ende werden wir vor Allah stehen und ihm eine Rechenschaft schuldig sein und nicht euch.

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Nella cultura occidentale ci viene detto che la monogamia è la forma di relazione sentimentale migliore, l'unica valida e matura, quella che ci viene naturale. Di forme alternative non se ne parla, oppure vi si accenna in modo sbrigativo e dispregiativo.

achielle’s Profile PhotoOζeò
Non so questa cosa,ma personalmente sono monogamo e non condivido il condividere il proprio partner con altre persone.
Credo che se si ama davvero una persona sia così per tutti,diversamente a parere mio non è vero amore ma solo situazioni di comodo e oggi c’è ne sono tante,troppe..

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Nella cultura occidentale ci viene detto che la monogamia è la forma di

Hast du dieses Jahr schon die Heizung aufdrehen müssen?

Angelpriincess’s Profile Photonataliedrk
Bei uns im Haus ist es inzwischen schon recht kühl, aber da müsste ich die Heizung im Keller erstmal überhaupt einschalten und das ist mir Ende August echt noch zu früh. Deshalb ziehen wir zur Not einfach einen Pulli an oder nehmen abends mal ne Decke.
Den Kamin hatte ich letztens auch schonmal angemacht. Das ist immer ne schöne Alternative zur Heizung, wenn’s einem wirklich kalt ist 😌🔥

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Hast du dieses Jahr schon die Heizung aufdrehen müssen

How organised are you as a person? 👍 🙃

redoasis2017’s Profile Photo★ ☮ ♫ Ƭεɳαciσυઽ Ŧѳɱɱყ™ ✌ ♚ ☻
I think I'm really not systematic at all🤣🤣😂😂😂, I'm really bad at planning things & following it without procrastinating 🤦‍♀️😅, completing things very fast as soon as they got assigned & not on its submission date 😬😬😅,. Nd very disorganised in following a strict schedule🥴😅 but sometimes I do things also well If I made up my mind😌😅 ,I think I need to come up with a good alternative 🤨🤔, But anyways, That's my schedule :) , so what's your say !? :)

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Do you prefer to live alone? Why or why not?

I prefer to live alone over the alternative (finding roommates online). Finding roommates who'd be a decent fit is hard and could be risky. I live in Utah and don't want to live with an obnoxious mormon who'd give me crap about all the things I do that the church doesn't approve of (the more extreme ones would even sabotage or throw away things they don't like such as alcohol or a coffee maker) and most of the more mild ones would give me crap for it. But the alternative isn't much better as like many other super religious areas a large portion of the small non religious population is a backlash to the strong control and does drugs or other illegal things. Being associated with those people could ruin my life and career since I currently have to keep a security clearance and the investigation is quite invasive.
I don't live alone, but I sure would love to. I live with four other people (family) and it's brutal at this time of the year. Only one of them is currently working - my youngest sister is on break from uni, my second youngest sister is between jobs, and my mom works at a school so she's on break. I work, but I have odd hours and my days off are Monday and Wednesday. So there's a lot of people around the house and that shit gets pretty fucking annoying. We just end up stepping on each other's toes a lot. Wish I could move out but it's damn expensive in the UK right now and I don't know anyone who'd live with me. Only option is to wait until September when they go back to uni/work and hope my sister can find a new job by then. Then I'll be able to spend my days off in peace.
I have achieved the situation where I am more comfortable being alone wondering if I should go visit someone or invite someone than live with someone else but wish desperately I could have more control over my own life. I really enjoy being alone. So... do any and everything that you love. I spent days in the park just reading books. I took long walks. At night I'd sit on my porch and watch the sun set. I also would set my alarm early and have coffee on my porch and watch the sunrise in the mornings. I practiced cooking amazing meals. At the time I didn't have television or internet, so my home was my peaceful place. If I did want to be around people then I would schedule outings with friends, museum trips, day trips to the beach, baseball games. But mostly I enjoyed being at home alone.
I'm so tired of cleaning up others messes. I'm so tired of immediately cleaning up my own messes, no matter how exhausted I am, because I don't want to bother people I live with. I'm so tired of my shit getting moved around/fucked with when I'm not around. I'm so tired of constantly modifying my behavior to accommodate others. I'm so tired of compromising on EVERYTHING. I feel you friend.

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Can people easily tell that you like the music that you're listening to? Like, do you tend to "vibe" with the music? 😌🎧

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I don't think so. Although I feel like I can look quite alternative, people are often surprised when I tell them I listen to hard rock and metal.
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Can people easily tell that you like the music that youre listening to Like do

:( Oha, pessimistische Prognosen. Ich kann mir nicht vorstellen, dass die Linke so sehr sinkt. Zu viele ihrer Unterstützer wissen trotz der vielen Streitigkeiten keine bessere Alternative im Bundestag. Hm. Hm. Könnte schon sein. Jetzt machste mich traurig. Die Linke ist wertvolle Opposition.

Gismolo’s Profile PhotoPsijic
Die Partei DIE LINKE besteht Grunde genommen aus mindestens zwei Parteien. Die Westdeutsche Verbände sind radikaler, trotzkistischer und marxistischer weniger pragmatisch. Die Ostdeutschen Landesverbände sind viel praktischer. Ich würde öffentlich Denunziert als Sozialliberaler von einem Kommunisten bei einer Sitzung vor Weihnachten.

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Bu0n gi0rno 🥺 Cm stai

Insomma sai che nel 1973 a Napoli era scoppiate il colera però pare che in pochi giorni avevano fatto la vaccinazione. Erano altri tempi però erano molto più veloci a trovare le cure e le soluzioni alternative. Poi volevo parlare dei fatti che il fratello del presidente afghano avrebbe giurato fedeltà al popolo dei talebani tradendo il suo stesso popolo e poi pare che molti afghani chr volevano evacuare avrebbero dovuto pagare molti per andare sul gate dell aeroporti. Poi pare che gli ambasciatori afghani li non porranno godere della protezione del Regno Unito perché pare che loro erano stati assunti con contratto di appaltatore chiamato outsourcing. Poi c'è il fatto che la loro notifica non sia stata validata

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mannedieuh mais il avait pas dit qu'il trouvait la litté classique c.hiante à mourir ?

Phesyle’s Profile PhotoPhesyle
C'est très ambigu... depuis deux ans, il essaie de monter en compétences, mais continue de s'habiller comme un adolescent dans un décor qui va de pair... ses efforts littéraires sont sporadiques... la science fiction, fantaisie, et même les livres d'univers Star Wars et autres restent ses bases sûres... il pioche ici et là quelques classiques très reconnus... dans tous les cas, sa lecture est très superficielle... parfois j'écoute les vidéos littéraires de sa chaîne alternative pendant que je joue à Minecraft.. c'est très amusant... je suis mesquine, je n'ai plus le droit au Jeremy Kyle Show, alors l'écouter être un imbécile est mon réconfort...
https://youtu.be/Q5xB1Dikew4Scaevolascar’s Video 166544768093 Q5xB1Dikew4Scaevolascar’s Video 166544768093 Q5xB1Dikew4

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Wenn dein Partner kein Sex will würdest du dann jemand anderes danach fragen ??

Nein, weil ich ja selber keinen Sex haben möchte :'))))
Wenn ich welchen haben wollen würde und die Situation mich belasten würde, dann würde ich das mit meinem Partner kommunizieren und eine entsprechende Vereinbarung ausmachen.
Würde mir aber ohne Consent meines Partners nicht im Traum einfallen.
Deshalb wünsch ich mir mehr Offenheit für alternative Beziehungskonzepte, ganz ehrlich. Besser als diesen ständigen Frustrationen und vor allem das Hintergehen anderer. Klar muss man sich unbequemen Dingen stellen und dafür kommunizieren, aber daran kann eine Beziehung letztendlich doch nur wachsen und gewinnen. 😐

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L’insistenza è una mancanza di rispetto.

UnaVoltaEraDiverso’s Profile PhotoUna volta era diverso.
Ho sempre detestato l’insistenza, e continuo a farlo. Perché, di fondo, è una mancanza di rispetto della volontà di una persona. Anche di fiducia, sì. Ma quella, se vogliamo, viene dopo. Perché si può mancare di rispetto anche ad una persona di cui non ci si fida. Se io dico: “No”, è “no”. Non è “sì”, non è “forse”, è “no”. Semplice, eppure evidentemente non per tutti. E questa sorta di fraintendimento non è nato ieri, ma va avanti praticamente da sempre. In che lingua devo parlare, per essere più chiaro di così? Quella italiana, fortunatamente, è quella che conosco meglio. In sintesi credo che non si possa volere bene ad una persona, e al contempo essere insistenti. È una contraddizione. Secondo punto: non sono nato ieri. C’è chi mi considera una mente brillante, ma dato che io sono umile, dico sempre tranquillamente di essere una persona normalissima. E mi ci sento a mio agio, in questi panni. Non sono comunque (e questo è certo) un fesso. Non del tutto, quantomeno. Questo secondo punto è rivolto a chi mi contatta privatamente, con profili palesemente falsi (o “fake”, come va di moda oggigiorno) esclusivamente per estorcermi informazioni personali. No, cari/e, non funziona così. Qualcuna addirittura, credendosi furbissima, si presenta come ragazza sottomessa o potenziale schiava. Ma guardate che il percorso per diventare la mia schiava è lungo e tortuoso, eh. Non è che vi presentate ed io nel giro di dieci minuti vi racconto tutta la mia vita a livello di dettagli anagrafici e personali. Se sono solo, e se ho sempre scelto questa condizione, c’è un motivo. Pertanto non barate, non usate trucchi che con me non funzionano. L’ultimo caso ieri sera, con una ragazza che ha capito che non era aria, ed ha cancellato l’account nel giro di pochi minuti. Io non sono nessuno, non fremo per nessuno e non c’entro niente con le vostre cose. Mi faccio i fatti miei, non cerco nessuna, non rompo le scatole a nessuna, scrivo qui, e basta. Rispettate il mio essere solitario. Siete voi, semmai, che se davvero interessate dovete provare a corteggiarmi, a sottomettervi a me, a stuzzicarmi l’appetito. Ma diversamente lasciate stare, me ne sto per conto mio. Una vera schiava chissà se esiste ancora, e se mi troverà mai. Ma se volete proporvi come tale, scrivetemi in modo educato e rispettoso, oppure evitate. Non ho tempo da perdere, perché al tempo do molto valore. E anche voi avete la vostra vita da portare avanti, che non ha bisogno di me. Non voglio mezze misure, o tutto o niente. E se impiego una parte del mio tempo per parlarvi, pretendo che l’apprezziate. Non che rispondiate con maleducazione, o superficialità. In questo caso andate da un altro, le alternative per voi non mancano di certo. Io mi tengo la mia unicità, e la mia bellissima solitudine. Ché amo quanto il silenzio e poche altre cose. E più importante di tutti, ho l’amore spirituale verso Dio. Quello, sì, è una vera certezza. Tutto il resto passa in secondo piano, annichilendo e spegnendosi lentamente.

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Ce seriale/filme recomanzi?

adrianaelena3158’s Profile PhotoAdriana
Netflix
Vazut:
1)Titanii - sezonul 1
2)Tuturor băieților pe care i-am iubit
3)#Realityhigh
4)Swiped
5)Mame și nu numai
6)Ce naște din pisica
7)Tau ❤️
8)iBOY
9)Cat romantism!
10)IBIZA
11)Anihilarea
12)Ne vedem ieri
13)Mute
14) Pana la marginea lumii
15)Pachetul din dotare ❤️
16)Vacanta criminala
17) O fata pe cinste
18) Bird box ❤️
19)Tramps
20) E vina vinului
21) Mudbound
22)Naket
23)Good Time
24) In iarba înaltă
25) Point Blankt
26)Fulgi de iubire
27) Eli ❤️
28)Wounds
29)Pasarea cutremurului
30)Tot mai aproape
31) Șarpele cu clopoței
32) The to over
33)The Meyerowitz Stories
34) Noaptea Lupilor
35) Klaus
36) Adormiți pana la adânci bătrâneți
37) Poate pentru totdeauna
38)Influenta
39)Buruienile
40) În căutarea perfecțiunii
41) Realități Alternative ❤️
42) The fundamentals of caring ❤️
43) 22 Iulie ❤️
44) Stranger Things- sezonul 1 (serial) ❤️
45) Stranger Things- sezonul2 (serial) ❤️
46) Stranger Things- sezonul3 (serial) ❤️
47) Valori de sărbători
48) 6 din umbra
49) Cargo
50) Caietul lui Henry ❤️
51) Un basm cu cenușăreasa... Dorința de Crăciun.
52) Jocul de-a detectivii
53) Un cavaler de Crăciun ❤️
54)Potato Potahto
55) Hanul cu noroc
56) Pana la os
57) Tripla Frontiera
58) Întâi l-au omorat pe tata
59) Eva se mărită din nou
60) Tatăl anului
61) Trei zile de Crăciun(miniserial)
62) Toți pistruii din lume
63) Încăierare în sectorul 99 ❤️
64) Oh, Ramona
65) Cum îti așterni ( Eye for an eye)
66) Căderea lui Grace
67) In mod avion
68) Fata cu caii
69) Lost girls
70) Fabrica de bani(partea1)❤️
71) Fabrica de bani (partea2) ❤️
72)Fabrica de bani (partea3)❤️
73)Miracol în celula7
74) Declinul
75) Platforma
76) Semnul Diavolului
77) Maiami Bici
78) Spenser
79)Fabrica de bani (partea4)❤️
80)Coffee & Kareem
81)Fabrica de bani. El fenomeno
82) Vis a vis (sezonul1) ❤️
83) Vis a vis (sezonul2) ❤️
84) Vis a vis (sezonul3) ❤️
85) Iubește, căsătorește-te, repeta
86) Vis a vis (sezonul4) ❤️
87) Ea e mama mea
88) Ritmuri
O mica parte din lista mea de filme vazute

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➥ Have you ever been injured or gone through a near-death experience? What happened?

megansworld932’s Profile Photomegan
Countless times. Being injured, I mean. Whereas a near death experience happened once (so far). Although it wasn't truly "near". I indeed had been dead for about two or three minutes. I was a small child of four years back then. A car on the wrong side of the road had hit us. A lot of things changed after that and I sometimes wonder how different my life would have played out, if that one stranger hadn't been an absolute waste of space. But thinking about the "what ifs" never changed anything. It hurts more than it soothes. Besides, it ain't like I got plenty of time to think about an alternative reality for myself in which everything turned out better and brighter - I got some voices that usually ain't playing along anyway. Injuries on the other hand... Stopped counting a long time ago. I got enough scars to seem like someone straight out of a warzone or a combative gang. Let's not talk about the bruises. Sometimes they hurt more than a dagger in your shoulder - and believe me, I know how that feels. Can't recommend.

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• Glaubst du an zweite Chancen im Leben?

fakevzthoughts’s Profile PhotoFakevz Thoughts
Ich muss es glauben, denn immerhin wurde sie mir auch gegeben. Allerdings zweifle ich noch immer daran, ob dies eine gute Entscheidung gewesen war, denn meine belastende Vergangenheit macht es mir nicht unbedingt leicht. Im Regelfall wird einem die zweite Chance von jemand anderem gegeben; ich habe sie mir selbst geben müssen. Vor der Alternative habe ich mich gefürchtet. Also, schwer zu sagen ob es eine ehrliche Chance im Leben war. So oder so kann ich nicht behaupten sie zu bereuen. Das werde ich hoffentlich auch niemals. Doch so wie ich mich kenne...

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Funktionieren Gefängnisse zur Abschreckung und Resozialisierung? Warum ist es wichtig, dass wir Gefängnisse haben? Fallen dir Alternativen ein?

FraeuleinFritzi’s Profile PhotoFritzi
Ich denke, dass Gefäng*nisse über die Jahre in gewisser Weise ihren Schrecken verloren haben, wenn man bedenkt was dort doch so alles möglich ist. Sicher nicht in jedem Gefäng*nis, aber schon in sehr vielen. Und dementsprechend kann es meiner Meinung nach auch nur bedingt zur Resozialisierung beitragen. Ich finde, dass das Rechtssystem in vielen Ländern schon lange einer Reform bedarf, weil es den jeweiligen Schweregraden der Straf*taten nicht gerecht wird. Es kann doch nicht sein, dass zB ein Vergewa*ltiger/Kinderschä*nder in der Relation ein geringeres Straf*maß erhält als zB ein Finanzbetrü*ger. Meiner Ansicht nach ist hier die Verhältnismäßigkeit nämlich nicht gegeben. Natürlich brauchen wir Gefäng*nisse um die Bevölkerung zu schützen, aber ich würde schon nach der Art des Verbrech*ens unterscheiden, ob es zwingend eine Haft*strafe braucht oder ob es auf einem anderen Weg möglich ist für die begangene Straf*tat die Konsequenzen zu tragen. Viele Straf*täter würde ich am liebsten einsper*ren und den Schlüssel wegwerfen. Bei anderen wiederum denke ich, dass eine Resozialisierung besser funktionieren kann, wenn sie wie in einer Art betreutem Wohnen o.ä. wieder in ein vernünftiges Leben begleitet werden. Oder aber, dass sie zB einen Bauernhof bewirtschaften und so überwiegend für ihr Leben selbst sorgen müssen. Alles natürlich schon unter einer gewissen Aufsicht und vielleicht auch fachlicher Unterstützung in welcher Hinsicht auch immer. Das könnte für „leichtere Fälle“ eine Alternative sein.

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Funktionieren Gefängnisse zur Abschreckung und Resozialisierung? Warum ist es wichtig, dass wir Gefängnisse haben? Fallen dir Alternativen ein?

FraeuleinFritzi’s Profile PhotoFritzi
Ich denke nicht das sie Abschrecken da es ja trotzdem Menschen gibt die nicht vor Straftaten zurück schrecken.
Mit der Resozialisierung bin ich am zweifeln, da ich mir vorstellen kann das es eine Brutstätte für eine erfolgreiche kriminelle Karriere sein kann. Wir werden aber trotzdem nicht auf Gefängnisse verzichten können, weil es ja doch einige Leute gibt die eine permanente Gefahr für Leib und Leben darstellen.
Eine Alternative könnte ein Modell sein wie in Skandinavien, wenn ich mich richtig erinnere. Da gibt es eine Insel wo die Gefangenen sich frei bewegen können um sich selbst zu organisieren und so die Möglichkeit haben sich zu resozialisieren und ein Leben zu führen ohne rückfällig zu werden.

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Funktionieren Gefängnisse zur Abschreckung und Resozialisierung? Warum ist es wichtig, dass wir Gefängnisse haben? Fallen dir Alternativen ein?

FraeuleinFritzi’s Profile PhotoFritzi
Naja, das is eine gute Frage.
Ich glaube,dass es um die Charakter und der Stand des Verbrechers geht Z.B. ob er sehr gefährliche Kriminalität absichtlich macht , verdient er natürlich ein Gefängnis weil es hart ist Zur Rehabilitierung
Zwar es gibt viele Möglichkeiten aber es funktioniert nicht immer mit allen Verbraucher z.b Quarantäne in ihren Hausen mit Psychotherapeuten
Die Alternative ist immer neue strenge Gesetze für die Strafe und Programme , die über die Gefahr der Tateinheit und ihre negative Wirkung auf die Gesellschaft sprechen , und vor allem Versuch immer die kleine Probleme und Verursacher zu lösen bevor führen Sie zu den großen Vorfällen
Ich möchte, dass ich meine Aussicht zu dir erreichen kann Und tut mir leid für mein Deutsch 💔😂

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Funktionieren Gefängnisse zur Abschreckung und Resozialisierung? Warum ist es wichtig, dass wir Gefängnisse haben? Fallen dir Alternativen ein?

FraeuleinFritzi’s Profile PhotoFritzi
Schwierige Frage 🤔 Irgendeine Bestrafung sollte eine Straftat nach sich ziehen 👨‍⚖️ Denn sonst wäre das Chaos perfekt 😱 Manchmal werden jedoch auch Menschen die wegen eines relativ geringen Vergehens eingesperrt werden im Gefängnis erst richtig kriminell ! Damit würde dann natürlich auch das Gegenteil erreicht 🤔 Was könnte eine Alternative sein 🤷‍♂️ Ich weiß es ehrlich gesagt nicht ! Früher wurde noch nach Gefängnis und Zuchthaus unterschieden 🤔 Jetzt hat man manchmal das Gefühl das Gefängnisse der Erholung dienen ! Gemäß dem Motto : Spann doch mal aus ! Geh in den Knast und erhole Dich 😱 Zumindest bei manchen Promis könnte man das denken ! Vor dem Gesetz sind alle gleich, aber manche sind gleicher 🤷‍♂️ Menschen sollten für Straftaten mit Konsequenzen rechnen müssen, denn sonst wäre die Justiz sinnlos !

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Findest du normale Frauen oder alternative Frauen (e-girls, goths, punks, emos,...) attraktiver?

Wenn ich schon "normal" und "alternativ" lese, will ich mich übergeben. Vor allem im Zusammenhang mit dieser unintelligenten SexuaIisierung.
Ganz egal, welchen Kleidungs- oder Lebensstil eine Frau hat, ist sie auf ihre eigene Weise einfach nur ein ganz "normaler" Mensch und sollte als solcher betrachtet werden, anstatt so widerIich sexuaIisiert zu werden.

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Tita, i have a problem. I feel like im only staying in this relationship because of the sex. I’m actually having thoughts of ending this relationship since there are a lot of complications. It’s just that I can’t let go cos I know hahanap-hanapin ko :(

One day the sex won't be so appealing considering what you have to deal with and that's the time you'll make the decision to go. An alternative is to change it to a casual relationship without the commitment. That way you can have the sex without the drama.

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What type of music are you into?

leahtvergara’s Profile Photo✿ ℓεαɦ ѵ. ♔
I like whatever feeds my emotional needs. Usually reverb, strings and/or waltz are involved in some way.
All sorts!! It really depends on my frame of mind but usually something uplifting and upbeat!
I’m into all sorts but because anger plays a big role in my life I do love some hard thrashing metal to listen to soothe the anger because the music screams it out for you. Why do you think most metal heads are so chill but deep down know how to fuck shit up if need be. Lol
Music with a message of nearly any genre. I like songs/artists that have a purpose.
Mexican corridos. I get that for non Spanish speakers it sounds all happy-go-lucky and festive but if you listen to the lyrics, they get into some real gangsta shit. Rap and hip hop don’t even come close... in rap they just say things like “I’m going to shoot you”, Mexican corridos go into detail lol they say things like “ima chop off your head, put your body in an acid tub, and bury you in a hole” type of shit. But no seriously, Mexican corridos is like a mash up of rap and country and action movies. Most songs tell a story like country music, but they’re violent like rap (even more so), and it feels like you’re watching an action movie by how they describe the events.
Rock spanning from the mid 60s to the late 70s, or thereabouts; I'm very into the psychedelic and prog stuff. And then grunge of course, love that too. But I'll listen to most of rock's subgenres, really, it's just the ones I named are the ones I return to the most.
All sorts. I like classical and choral, rock, pop, metal, reggae, country (even the stuff with gratuitous yodelling), rap, R&B old and new, rock and roll, industrial, dance music, goth, punk, swing, jazz, big band, soca, indie, disco... the list goes on and on. I cannot get on with grindcore though, or Nu metal. It just pisses me off.
I listen to and play a LOT of trad music. Quebecois (French Canadian), Swedish, Cape Breton, New England, Old-Time, Irish, Scottish, English, etc. I also love listening to and learning old folk songs from all over the world (Appalachian, sacred harp, UK, Georgian, French, African, etc). It's what I grew up listening and dancing to and it's always been important to me! I like a lot of different things, though I don’t really like country music most of the time. I listen to some alternative, pop, indie, and rap mainly. A few older artists as well. I love Fall Out Boy, MGK, BVB, Three Days Grace, Queen, and Juice WRLD. I’m not sure how much I differ from most males in general but my male friends and I have quite a bit of overlap in our music.
My musical tastes are pretty eclectic and I listen to a variety of genres, but my preferences tend to lean toward rock/alternative for the most part. A large chunk of my playlists/personalized stations is emo music and I like quite a bit of k-pop as well.

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Why do people cheat? Why not just stay single?

There is no simple answer to this complicated question and I suspect that if you asked 100 people this question you would receive 100 different responses. Let me offer several possible reasons and then post a poem entitled "Unfaithful" that describes how I would react to such a betrayal of trust.
The most obvious reason that people cheat is they do not comprehend what love is. In fact, many people who cheat are indifferent to the needs and feelings of their partner. How can you care for love when you do not even know what it is? The second possible explanation is that some people are looking for the perfect relationship, which does not exist. The result is that some folks look for love in all the wrong places and as a result they ruin many relationships and break many hearts in the process. And least I be remiss if I do not mention sexual dysfunction or an obsession with having intercourse with multiple partners. Many people who cheat rate intercourse as the most important aspect of their relationship. If for some reason one of the partners is not satisfied with their sexual intimacy, they seek alternative partners.
So what can victims of such betrayal, unfaithfulness and disloyalty do? Would you forgive if your loved one was unfaithful?
"Unfaithful" by Nico, Photography by Jeremy Bishop
I would acknowledge that our bonds of trust were broken, and while I could decide to continue to support and care for my beloved, I could not forgive her deception and dishonesty. Instead, I would accept the fact that people are not perfect and make mistakes. You would also recognize that once a loved one cheats, they are likely to do it again. So, I guess at some point I would be forced, for reason of self-preservation, to walk away from the abusive relationship, even if the person I love suffers because I decide to end our toxic relationship. After all, I also have the right to live my life and be happy without being manipulated and abused by an emotionally dysfunctional person who does not understand love and cannot participate in a healthy and meaningful relationship.

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Why do people cheat Why not just stay single

I do not recall who taught me this, but somewhere along the line a wise person taught me to have a plan A and a plan B. Now I know this might sound silly, but I apply this concept to my everyday life. For example, if I go out to eat at restaurant A and it is full, I go to restaurant B. :)

alexandermonroe397579’s Profile PhotoAlexander Monroe
Yes, I think it's wise to do that. But what about when even your alternative plan does not work out, isn't it better to be able to adjust and be flexible? :)

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L'uomo può pensare ciò che non è mai accaduto? Sto parlando dell'effetto Mandela, la teoria dei falsi ricordi. Affascinante quanto sconvolgente. E voi, cosa ne pensate? È collegabile alla cospirazione della vita come simulazione?

Myssidia’s Profile PhotoMelissa
Mi ha sempre spaventato e allo stesso tempo affascinato, questo fenomeno.
Qui si entra nel campo delle credenze, cospirazioni e teorie varie che, aldilà di quello che si può dire in giro, mi hanno sempre entusiasmato. Sarà che le vedo diversamente dal resto delle persone, ma per me può essere tranquillamente motivo di discussione e conversazione.
La vita simulata (alla Matrix, per intenderci) non è la sola teoria che può essere attribuita a questo effetto. D'altronde, in un qualcosa di simulato (da chi, non si sa) puoi far pensare ciò che vuoi, e a chi vuoi.
Sarei più propenso a collegare questo fenomeno alle teorie di universi multipli (più linee temporali, realtà alternative) in cui potrebbero esserci eventi non avvenuti nel nostro.
Oppure ancora, il dislocamento della coscienza umana. Essendoci diversi universi e realtà, probabilmente comunicanti tra loro, si crea una confusione nei ricordi.
Però è un campo molto speculativo, mi piace parlarne ma mi piace meno trarne delle conclusioni o certezze, perché di fatto non ce ne sono.
Probabilmente darei la mia vita per venire a conoscenza dei segreti di questo mondo, della vita, del creato, di tutto ciò che esiste.

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Luomo può pensare ciò che non è mai accaduto Sto parlando delleffetto Mandela la

To the girls: What does it take to be an ’IT Girl’?

megansworld932’s Profile Photomegan
(Warning: Sarcasm)
Making a list:
- perfect appearance, best big butt and good bust size - Dress style similar to Las Vegas, skimpy and with lots of glitter
- Make up as a mask to not show the true identity
- Job? Ah, who needs that? The father / mother already has enough coal and its own company, where I was already early in the process (as if)
- School degree or similar is no longer so important, because - see point above - the parents already (strangely) provided for
- Alternative than a job with the parents would be to do a job where you don't need a degree.
- Character portrayal resembles a Mary Sue who can do everything.
.... I could list more. But I guess it's enough for that.

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What's your opinion about war?

Maybe we compare it to locust mentality. Where a seemingly harmless group of grasshoppers or crickets become extremely hostile in large groups. In some apes like monkeys their exist wars between tribal families that can last for years and it's some of the most brutal fighting you ever seen. The Geneva convention would have a heart attack with if it was ever needed to be addressed. When rationality goes out the window some of the most underhanded and brutal actions can be performed by anyone it doesn't even need any real logic just some sort of vague sense of validity to justify your own actions. It's why seemingly normal decent people can just snap one day.
It's an unfortunate component of the human condition. It will always exist, as conflict will always exist. War has been there since the beginning, and it will continue on until the end. We are hard wired to fight each other, just as we are hard wired to hunt and gather.
People die, children are separated from their parents, and the land is devastated from the bombardment of bullet shells and fire. Millions of people lose their lives, and the history of the Earth never really is the same. And through all of this, sometimes, it is a truly necessary evil, because not everything can be solved by peaceful means. It is the epitome of chaos and order.
Early in the 20th century, there was a feeling that our population (especially the men) were growing soft because it had been two generations since the last war. This is part of why sports like football became so popular, because they were seen as an alternative way to strengthen our population physically and mentally. Its curious that at the time, in a way it was seen as a bad thing that there had been a small gap between wars. Although once WWI happened, I dont think anyone doubted that war was indeed something we didnt want. But at the same time, before sports and movies were popular, the main "heroes" that existed were mostly military men and politicians. Its interesting how things have changed.
Now we glorify athletes, musicians, and celebrities in general. War is looked down upon, but still happening on a regular basis. The amount of money spent on military in this country is absurd. We have troops stationed all over the globe. War is terrible, Id hate to actually be part of one. Its horrifying. But its interesting to look at it from a historical perspective on many different ways. The technologies that developed due to war are innumerable. Nothing positive. I think war is a disgusting use of our time on this planet. I feel that the people who provoke war are disgusting people, and that the means by which they go about achieving their goals are even more disgusting. I also detest the argument, "War is good for the economy." I often wonder how many of the people who say that would go to war, knowing that they're only there to potentially increase monetary worth of their genocidal leaders.

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How often do you cry? About what?

Almost every day. It's usually from stress or pain. I have chronic pain and chronic migraines. I cry alot because of other health problems I have, I'm diabetic and I have clinical depression. So... Even though I take meds for all these things I'm still in a lot of emotional and physical pain most days. I can usually get one or two days a week without crying. Those are the good days.
Last time I cried was few years ago after experiencing (one of) mental breakdowns. It was a month after a surgery, and I had to take exams without any chance of giving me alternative dates. Why? Apparently I was unable to study for less than 3 months, which is funny, because doctors' opinion was different. I was sitting through pain and nausea studying. I passed them. But the price was my mental health, I honestly don't remember how many times I was in such a volatile mental state: hyperventilation accompanied by unstoppable sobbing and panic attacks. I cry a couple times a week about the general suffering in the world, often about my inability to make a significant impact beyond the individual. I cry about the fact that there are so many people with problems that could be easily solved by a little worldly empathy among those with the resources to help. How I want to do more but am stuck like so many others just trying to survive. During the first half of this year I kept track of all the days I cried, it turned out I was crying about every other day. When counted, I had more crying days than non crying days. It was mostly crying because of the stress from college and my parents divorce, even though it happened 6-7 years ago. I can change colleges but I can't get my family happy again, if it ever was happy.
Only when the shit hits the fan. When I found out my cat had cancer and that we couldn’t do anything to help her, I cried like a little girl. I cried at the end of the Evita and both versions of a star is born. I cried when my roommate told me she was getting married and moving out, she was an absolutely incredible roommate and I was brokenhearted I was going to lose her but I also felt very selfish because she was moving on to a new point in her life. That’s really about it, I don’t cry easily but I tend to let my rage out [by myself] on a semi regular basis so I don’t retain a lot the kind of emotions that makes it easier to cry if that makes any sense? Oh and I cried when I was recovering from a rotator cuff repair and I couldn’t use my right hand and I wasn’t dextrous enough with my left hand to cut off a damn piece of cheese. There was a lot of rage released at that point and quite a few tears.

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https://ask.fm/katherineisabeljane/answers/167935482815

katherineisabeljane’s Profile PhotoKatherine I.J. Bailey
Non credo di avere alternative, con lui non credo di averne mai avute sin dal nostro primo incontro, Jared Bailey è quel tipo di persona che ti permette due sole possibilità: fare come dice lui o fare come dice lui. Ho sempre saputo che era un soggetto da non aver mai, assolutamente come nemico, ma ehi..nemmeno averlo come amico è una passeggiata. E a proposito di passeggiata, avrei giurato che la giovane, una volta usciti dalla sontuosa dimora, non avrebbe lasciato passare in osservata la fantastica berlina che ci attendeva, parliamo pur sempre di una giovane e ricca ragazza, perché mai con ottocento gradi all'ombra e un tasso di umidità che inferno levati proprio, avrebbe voluto camminare per queste caotiche e afose strade?
Ma non la conoscevo, e restava pur sempre una Bailey *che di sinonimo fanno stranezza*..e infatti optò per una passeggiata. Potete immaginare la mia espressione contrariata. Feci un breve cenno all'autista e, seppur a malincuore mi affiancai alla giovane, era il mio Cicerone ed il suo babysitter, oggi a comandare non ero io.
Non sapevo cosa aspettarmi, tendenzialmente non sono uno che socializza se non per affari, ma sono uno che non ha limiti quindi, non sarebbe certamente stata una mezza giornata con una ragazzina a crearmi problemi, e poi si sa, i giovani d'oggi sono tutti cellulari e social network, ovunque saremmo andati si sarebbe stufata prima del previsto. E invece..prima del previsto prese a pianificare il dove e come portarmi, e a porre *seppur legittima* la prima domanda.
Allora, patti chiari e amicizia lunga: sono sveglio da 20 ore, quindi non proprio incline *e non lo sono mai* a conversazioni futili e tediose ok?
-Sei arguta ragazzina-
Si è sentita la nota di sarcasmo?
-Sono nato e cresciuto a New York, la grande mela, immagino tu l'abbia vista, un girovago come tuo padre ti ci avrà sicuramente portata-
New York, la città per eccellenza, la città dei sogni, quel luogo dove l'incredibile diventa credibile..
*If I can make it there,
I'll make it practically anywhere,
It's up to you..
New York, New York New York!*
Fossimo stati nella mia città, a quest'ora saremmo seduti in uno dei vari sfavillanti, lussuosi, freschi locali che controllo, a bere una limonata fresca *lei* e un gin tonic io, e invece sono in *J A P A N*..e non ho la più pallida idea di dove la ragazza mi stia portando
-Senti un po' ragazzina, pensi che potremmo rifocillarci da qualche parte prima che l'umidità mi sciolga? Sai..ho un certo problema di tolleranza col vostro clima-
Ahi ahi..è proprio insopportabile questo caldo.

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