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14th August 2022 🍃👑

Iraqi_Queen’s Profile Photo✧☆ Iяαqi Qυєєи - ْمَيــس ☆✧
Не забывай отдыхать, тебе не нужно торопиться. Постоянные нагрузки — это кратчайший путь к выгоранию и апатии.Береги себя.
#.14th August 🍃👑
Don't forget to rest, you don't have to rush. Constant stress is the shortest path to burnout and apathy. Take care.
14th August 2022

what do you think about humans like you

People like me are generally kind, I have recently discovered how much naivety runs in my blood.
For instance, I never understood humans' apathy and lack of support for people with suicidal tendencies. Until I realized that there are people who seriously desire their own death, consider them weak-minded, inferior, or a potential threat to competition for resources, and somehow, they deserve more, or life owes them.
When you understand that real killers live among us, feel that life and earth are theirs, and want to exclude people, your outlook on life will change forever, and your skepticism in this world will increase: a man at the top may think like that, and make your life more difficult and miserable with the decisions he makes against you.
Everything in this world is the result of our cooperation with humans, our relationship with them, and a little competence so as not to be a burden to them, it is amazing how strange this life is.
And when you reveal your mental illness, you have made a huge mistake in your life, beware in this life, because killers are close to you, and this is something I did not understand for a long time, and keep your secrets to yourself.
These are the hidden methods of massacres in this modern world, twisted and unnoticeable to most people.

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Anyone else feel like life is both way too overwhelming and also way too boring?

My only issue with Therapists is that how long until we’re “fixed”? Is it until our symptoms go away and we learn to cope in a different way or is when the Therapist has earned enough income to pay for some kind of debt or expense? I mean how many actually walk into a therapist and get told that there is nothing wrong with them, that they’re just another individual human being with their own set of personalities, thoughts, ideas, preferences, likes/dislikes, temperaments, etc., and that we are all flawed, that no one is perfect and that we all have problems? How often will you hear that? Im guessing its a number close to zero, cause I mean if a person was normal then we wouldn’t need a therapist right? Could be extreme cynicism on my part but just some food for thought.
High functioning depression is a thing. It's characterized by just apathy towards life, even though you are able to perform the basic and complex tasks needed to live it. It's a detachment of feeling and purpose, a lack of motivation, an overall dissatisfied feeling when things you used to enjoy are no longer enjoyable. It's a fear that this is all life is, and that no amount of knowledge or power will make it better.
Therapy helps a lot with this. Sometimes, meds are needed, but that's for you and a doctor to decide. You have to reframe what losing is for you. Asking for help isn't losing, succumbing to this emptiness without trying everything to counteract it is. You don't know everything, and a therapist isn't there to judge that ignorance, they are there to teach you what you need to know on how to cope and know yourself so you can lead a better, more satisfying life. The emptiness sometimes tells us that if this is all there is for life, maybe death is what you need to fill the hole. This idea couldn't be more wrong. Death will come for everyone eventually. The point of life is to live it and thrive, not just survive until death. Does your life matter in the overall scheme of things? Probably not. But it should matter to you, and that is what matters. So I highly suggest therapy to start. Find someone you click with and start learning. What have you got to lose? You aren't finding a way to cope on your own. Maybe the trained professionals can help you figure out what you need to stop surviving and start thriving.
There are a lot of posts about therapy. Have to agree, going to a therapist is very relaxing, since they just listen and know what questions to ask. But it didn't help with that. I found a new passion, music. Had always kind of disregarded music until recently. Also, exercising helps. I didn't really think that it would help, and only started to exercise so that I'm not so ridiculously weak. But it helped me stay motivated to do my work and continue.

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Dzień dobry! Mam dla Ciebie 🌻 na mile rozpoczęty Dzień 🐶

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Moj utwor🎹🎼, to jest outro, nazywa się: My apathy, połączyc - Listen to Сергей Мэйд - Моя Апатия by ZvezdopaL on #SoundCloud
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Soooooo is Depression real?

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If you feel sad or a loss of Interest in something if your sleeping pattern changes your appetite your energy level , if you can’t concentrate , if you have daily behavior or self esteem , or any thoughts about suicide
anxiety, apathy, general discontent, guilt, hopelessness, loss of interest or pleasure in activities, mood swings, or sadness agitation, excessive crying, irritability, restlessness, or social isolation
Sleep: early awakening, excess sleepiness, insomnia, or restless sleep
excessive hunger, fatigue, or loss of appetite
Cognitive: lack of concentration, slowness in activity, or thoughts of suicide
Weight: weight gain or weight loss
Also common: poor appetite or repeatedly going over thoughts
So if you’re showing any of these then yeah depression is real

What is most important in a relationship?for me it is communication. It is the foundation of trust,Intimacy,Vulnerability, compromise, understanding, expectations. we are thrashing in our emotions until we drown ourselves exausted in the chaos of our passion. beneath the waves of apathy

Very well put. I couldn't agree more. Clear communication is the necessary foundation for everything. Without it, no structure can withstand the turbulence of life, sustain the storms of existence or bloom in the rays of hope.
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What was the lowest point in your life? When you're at a low point in your life, what do you do to get out of it? How did you recover from the lowest point in your life?

I'm currently at my lowest point. I'm 31, I have no education and I'm currently unemployed. I can't afford to go to work and school at the same time, so I'm struggling to find a job worth working and it is hard when you're also fighting a battle with apathy and self loathing. Especially so when you have no experience outside of customer service and retail and you have no desire to go back and no aptitude for the trades.
After I graduated high school I was messing around with cocaine and other pharmaceutical drugs. I went as far as smoking crack or cocaine in a blunt. We would call them wu bangers. Ive sold pounds of weed, taken acid, hooked up with random girls, and watch friends do heroin. I was hanging with people I didn't like, I lost some sort of connection with people I loved and one of my bests friends got hooked into heroin. That went on for about a year or more.
Lowest point was around my 1st or 2nd year in community college. No direction, felt like I couldn't do computer science because friend said its hard and I wouldn't be able to do it. I literally wasted time and stuff just doing w/e and felt depressed and suicidal. Was talking to different friend about what I'm doing one night and he told me I was a pussy for thinking of suicide, which I was planning to do after that semester. I was completely lost and only started recovering when I told my brothers and my dad. Went to therapy and gave myself a 2nd chance at computer science which was enjoyable. Currently doing cis at a college where I transferred to.
My lowest point was January 2015. I was stuck in an abusive relationship with a man who I was supporting financially and mentally (he was extremely depressed and used his depression as an excuse for when he abused me). I had a job opportunity in my home town, which I jumped at because it was much better money (just meant I'd be working fly in fly out). The day I flew out the man I'd been seeing tried to guilt me into staying because he didn't think he could cope without me. I stayed strong and got on the flight.
Obviously I had to go through the tremendous heartbreak and the anger and the sorrow, but the worst part about those first few months after the breakup was the confusion. She didn't tell me anything substantial the day we broke up, and she insisted not to talk about her reasoning afterwards. So I lived in a constant state of mind asking myself over and over: How could this have happened? Didn't she love me? How could I be replaced so easily? Why would she want this? What does she have now that she didn't before? Am I not good enough? Why would she hurt me so much? Why wouldn't she be open with me? Who the fuck is the guy she's dating now and why have I never heard of him before?

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Which of these seven human emotions do you think is worst? •Hopelessness •Jealousy •Guilt •Regret •Envy •Frustration •Apathy

in my opinion hopelessness and apathy are the worst, because all the other traits you mentioned in the question ultimately converge at a single point that is hopelessness whether it be direct or indirect correlation. Like for instance let's say you have guilt about something and if you're unable to wash it off your heart, that submersion in it will lead to despair and hopelessness about life in general. similar is the case with other things except apathy. Emotional apathy drives one to do things, unimaginable things without a speck of remorse and when you are emotionally detached from your surroundings and people in it, you largely lose a part of your humanity and it might appear to you that you have beat the life at its own game by ridding yourself of emotions but someday your subconscious makes u face some unavoidable emotion and in that Very moment the inability to reconnect with your feelings will make u question your decision that's only gonna mess things up mentally for you.
that's my opinion, and I'm kind of incoherent in explaining things... So sorry for that :))

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เมื่อไหร่พวกม็อบจะเลิกก่อความวุ่นวายสักที ยังงี้บ้านเมืองจะพัฒนาได้ยังไง ปล.เบื่อการเมือง ไม่อย่างยุ่ง รำคาน

ใครกันแน่คะที่ก่อความวุ่นวาย ถ้าคุณตามข่าวดีๆคุณจะรู้ว่าม็อบไม่ได้ก่อความวุ้นวายเลย เขาชุมนุมกันอย่างสงบซะด้วยซ้ำ ที่บ้านเมืองไม่พัฒนามันเกี่ยวกับม็อบยังไงคะ บ้านเมืองมันไม่พัฒนามาตั้งนานแล้วหรือเปล่า เขาถึงได้ออกมาเรียกร้องมห้ปฏิรูปอยู่นี่ไง ทั้งหมดที่ทำอยู่ก็เพื่ออนาคตของพวกเราทั้งนั้น การเมืองเป็นเรื่องของทุกคนนะคะ ถึงจะไม่มากแต่คุณควรจะสนใจบ้าง เราจอแปะลิ้งไว้สำหรับศึกษาข้อมูลที่เรากำลังเรียกร้องกันอยู่นะคะ https://twitter.com/rollnadee/status/1316982496685297670?s=20 อย่าเป็น political apathy เลยนะคะ +。゚φ(ゝω・`○)+。゚

Jaka emocja kieruje twoim życiem?

I tell her, the only one i want to talk to at the end of the day, i tell her what i did and what i thought and how i felt. I tell her about the conversations i had and how they made me feel; I tell her - you know, i really don’t care. I tell her, you know, it almost feels inhumane, but it’s the reality; she smiles wide and says „i love that feeling.” She understood why i read because i said - i see more. I experience more. I understand more. She understands why i don’t care, or let things bother me anymore - not out of apathy, but out of freedom.
Jaka emocja kieruje twoim życiem

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Her arm extended and Stiles' legs stopped moving instantly. Right before he passed the doorstep and leave her room, the brunette gave him a sign that she wanted him there, whether it was only to hold his hand, tell him something, or just to sit there in silence with his presence. Whichever it was, Stiles needed it. There was no hesitation at all in his next movement. He only needed to make a few steps for his fingers to be able to reach her hand. As soon as he sat on the bed next to her, Katherine got a tight grip of his hand, yet Stiles felt numbness in his fingers, he couldn't bring himself to tighter her fingers around her hand now.
She started talking, her words were adding one after the other one like a chain. She was saying so many things at once and Stiles could not process anything she had just said. Firstly, she was apologizing for leaving, then a tear rolled down her pale cheek, why was she crying ? Stiles found himself questioning that. And after that question, more followed. Was she crying because she really was sorry ? Was she only looking for sympathy, or was it forgiveness she was after?
When her grip tightened, Stiles was dragged out of his questions and brought back to the reality in which Katherine was explaining the reason for her disappearance. ''What?'' Stiles was only able to do that. Leave a mutter. It was not because of what she was saying, to be honest, he was too focused on the tear on her cheek that although he was listening to what she was saying he payed no attention to it. What bothered him now was, why wasn't he feeling bad for seeing her cry in front of him ? She was sad, fragile and probably sick and a minute ago he was too overwhelmed by all the mixed feelings, he was feeling everything at once and now that tear woke no feeling in him. Where had this apathy come from ?
''Katherine?'' He quietly spoke her name. Her grip loosened right when Stiles was able to finally move his fingers and leave a caress on her hand. She had fallen asleep again. His hand stayed inside of her warm one for a while after she fell asleep. She looked so fragile. Her skin was pale, her breathing was shallow. Her hair looked different. The brunette he once knew always had long-well taken care of curls and now her hair looked as if it wasn't combed for days.
Her words came to him only now. Was it real what she was saying ? Did she see her dead mother for real ? But how could that be possible ? Was it just a coincidence that Stiles' mom was on his mind all day and night long for a month now, ever since all those weird things, such as nightmares, started happening to him and now Katherine was back, out of the freakin' nowhere telling him her mother was talking to her.
He could not find any logical explanation as he was sitting on the hospital bed next to his sleeping friend, except for one;
he thought he was going crazy, inheriting his mom's frontal lobe dementia.

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Hii do u agree empathy is better than apathy..though heart broken people would go with apathy as cautionary stance to safeguard themselves from future heart breaks bt bein paranoid of everyone is not rational either 🧐

yes I do think that empathy is better. Ofc its good if ya can turn off ya emotions sometimes. But it's quite bad in the long term I'd say.

If a parent is opposed to their elementary school aged child learning about LGBT+ relationships and all the many different genders that exist, are they hateful and bigoted? Please explain your position.

“tolerance and apathy are the last virtues of a dying society.”
i don't believe in the existence of more than two genders (this claim is not scientifically sound regardless of what people may say cuz gender is not quantifiable therefore has nothing to do with science, but personal identity, rather) or that there is a distinction to be made between gender and biological sxx, nor do i want my highly impressionable, young child who probably doesn't even know their asx from a hole in ground being confused by all that nonsense as the adults who subscribe to it already seem to be. 🤷🏻‍♀️ i believe it is the parents’ job to have discussions with and introduce things like that to their children when they deem fit. if legislators are insistent, it should be an elective course taken in middle school. let's stick to teaching good ‘ole fashioned reading, writing, and arithmetic instead of politicizing our children's curriculum and essentially turning their schools into leftist indoctrination camps.

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Well, Ali Ezzat would not ^_^. Sadness (or worrying, for I am not sure of the translation accuracy) must be remedied eventually even in hereafter, whereas apathy is a definite loss of meaning and value of many things in life, if you know what I mean.

Yes, I know what apathy is. This rule might work with other people, not me. I fear sadness (you can consider it a phobia if there is such thing). I prefer to die instead of being sad!
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walaupun orang lain akan sulit berbuat hal yang sama, minimal mulai dari diri sendirilah. i enjoy reading all of ur answers bcs at one point u sound so open-minded and admireable. but then again, u could also sound so childish and negative that i cant stand. just my two cents.

You might misunderstand my statement about my apathy regarding plastic regulation as "learned helplessness", thus you might derive a conclusion that I don't give a fuck about plastic regulation.
I might, just like you, derive a conclusion that you're too quick to judge about things I said despite never actually have met me in real life and observe how I actually treat garbage disposal seriously. Which in itself, is a childish and negative preconception.
But no, I won't fall as low as giving a misinformed two cents about some stranger's statements. Thus, I think I am responsible to repeat my statement regarding plastic regulations:
I don't care about how others treat their garbage. It's useless because at best-case scenario, others learn from examples, and at worst-case scenario, others care shit about practically anything other than themselves. I'll just treat my garbage peacefully. Hopefully people make an example out of me. If not, at least my immediate environment is less dirty.
The thing about regulating garbage disposal is: either it's personal (which is useless to scream at people so they won't use plastic), or should be heavily regulated like in Singapore. Expecting every police and its derivative to actively spot people improperly throwing garbage and getting these people fined heavily is both impractical and impossible in Indonesia—not to mention that it could potentially devastate the country's economy, much more than not getting a proper garbage treatment.
The only option left for Indonesians is personal credibility, which needs personal awareness. Because it's personal, that means it's up to you to decide. Because it's up to you to decide, raising garbage treatment awareness is as useless as raising educational cheating awareness. If people see it as convenient, people will throw garbage improperly. You are the one to decide whether or not you should throw your garbage on the street or keep it for hours until you find a proper garbage disposal; not by making proper garbage disposal convenient—let alone giving people less garbage to throw away.

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he can't help the soft laugh that slips past his lips. " who do you think said that i did? " his father always EXPECTED him to, always just assumed that his SON would be the second man of the house, take care of his TEMPERAMENTAL sister; but it was his MOTHER that had asked, that had explicitly set him the task of taking care of his OLDER sister. " she didn't always just EXPECT me to be great. " he wasn't just some prodigal son. it was why it was so easy just being. . . BEATRICE'S brother.
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but he didn't believe her. cerulean narrows, lips hardening into a thin line. " you're SURE you're okay? " it had become HARDER to know, to SEE it. there was once a time where it was obvious to him when she was going through. . . an EPISODE, but somewhere along the way, scorpius had gotten lost in the BATTLEFIELD, in the HORRORS of his nightmares──── he had forgotten. he'd almost forgotten how much WEIGHT she had in his life, in his SANITY. what would he be without TRICE?
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" stop. " a hand moves to hers almost like a FLINCH, fingers curling around the ones that adjust his collar, as he shakes his head. it's WEAK, a small gesture that forces a hard gulp down his throat. " there won't ever be anyone as headstrong or nearly as BRAVE as her. " he holds her hands together in his own, the shuffling of feet all moving around them as they all scatter to watch the WORST part. " but if anyone can ever come close, it would be YOU. " it sure as shit wouldn't be him.
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scorpius offers her a smile, hands lowering to his side as he finds the eyes of his father, the APATHY in them. it makes him STIFFEN, jaw squaring as an arm wraps around beatrice's waist, GUIDES her to stand beside their mother──── their DEAD mother. " i'm okay. " he had to be. " . . .for FATHER, i'm okay. " but the light squeeze of his fingers around her hip call for STRENGTH. strength to help him get through this. eyes scan to look for watchful eyes. it would have felt DAUNTING. . .
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. . .if scorpius wan't already used to being STARED at. back straightens, voice loud and CLEAR, as was EXPECTED. " astoria greengrass malfoy, my MOTHER, was the bravest soul i've ever met. she was a kind mother, a wonderful wife, and a beautiful woman. i will forever. . . " he'd had a whole eulogy prepared, a GOODBYE at the ready for when this moment came. but scorpius. . . FALTERED. as he stared at all the FACE around him, he just. . . FROZE. hands trembled, words CHOKED.
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Quote: " I think there is something beautiful in reveling in sadness. The proof is how beautiful sad songs can be. So I don't think being sad is to be avoided. It's apathy and boredom you want to avoid. But feeling anything is good, I think." - Josef Gordon-Levitt

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Sadness is the finest emotion ?

I saw a headline reading "Boy sends letter to dad in heaven" And I teared up instantly. Am I depressed? Need professional help? What are your thoughts?

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Depression is apathy - it is a state of disconnect and does not play a part in exacerbating your emotional reactions, or responses. Unless you're talking about manic depression.
I'd say you're just emotionally attuned and a compassionate person, absent any other context.

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️ ️ ️ ️️️ ️ ️ ️ ️ ️he stares, completely and utterly silent, as she comes closer. as she undoes the ties around his wrist, the ones that hold him to the bricked wall─── HIS MAKESHIFT PRISON. he doesn't move, and his expression doesn't change. he's half-curious as to what she's doing here, but he knows not to ask. the lies are easy in this place, and he's figured out the play; even if he's still debating the WAY OUT.
️ ️ ️ ️️️ ️ ️ ️ ️ ️when he does move, it's to rub the mark around his wrists like he's done a hundred times before. he stares down at it too, apathy easy to CONVEY. he'd do anything to avoid STEEL─── to avoid answering her questions. but he understands THIS move. he understands how potions work, and he knows what QUEENIE KOWALSKI is doing here. it half AMUSES him. . . and half TERRIFIES him. he doesn't show it.
️ ️ ️ ️️️ ️ ️ ️ ️ ️but after she'd taken her hand away, after she'd ASKED, noah was out of options. he wished he had SPACE to think, but she was TOO CLOSE ─── too close for someone who had any sort of FEAR of him. . . .oh, she DIDN'T, did she? noah's expression shifts with the realization. his tone SARCASTIC. ' i'm just peachy, can't you tell? ' ───despite sounding disinterested, he was far from it. THIS, was an answer.
️ ️ ️ ️️️ ️ ️ ️ ️ ️the fact that it's HER here, answers questions he'd never even known to ask. ' . . .why YOU? ' he didn't HESITATE─── this was the first new player he'd had in days. now he knew names. . . and he knew what EVANS and LESTRANGE had told him. he just wanted CONFIRMATION. ' i take it i LIKED you? ' his eyes roll; he sits back callously. ' let me guess. . . you were my GIRLFRIEND or something? '
️ ️ ️ ️️️ ️ ️ ️ ️ ️they'd told him ENOUGH──── THEY'D TRIED. but even if he entertained the idea of it being true, it didn't explain WHY. now that she was here. . . HELL, he'd have fun with it. one way or another. ' . . .so you were the girl that let me spend MONTHS getting tortured? that LONGED so bad for my return? ' he tried to not sound VICIOUS, SARCASTIC. . . but he did. but queenie was here for answers; thus so was HE.
️ ️ ️ ️️️ ️ ️ ️ ️ ️NOAH finally let his wrists go, breaking the INTENSITY between COBALT and STEEL temporarily, to STAND. he felt that he needed to, even if it was just to get SPACE from her. even if it was just so he didn't say too much──── EYES return to hers just as a hand goes to his chest. he ignores what he WANTS to say, at least for now; the FACADE easy to maintain. ' . . .and now you're here to try and SAVE ME? '
️ ️ ️ ️ ️ ️A SNEER──── he's AMUSED. ' well, i'm sorry, LOVE. . . '
️ ️ ️ ️ ️ ️ ️ ️his smirk is CHARMING. ' ──but you're a tad too LATE. '
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You've never had a boyfriend yeah? Why? Is there a reason to it or it's just that you don't want to waste time on stuff like this and focus on yourself?

Kinda both. The reason being -
I was attached on a next level to this really wonderful person. Without this label. It was all so good and everyone was so happy without the tag. But eventually it had to come up. The tag. And our generation seems to have commitment issues, no matter how out-of-this-world the person is. Then Apathy entered the scenario. Things got messy leading me to force myself to forget everything that happened.
I lost half my soul but I was still living. I lost my potential, identity, friends, steps to dreams. I had to soothe myself on stressful study days but I was breathing fine. I got a hold of it and now I knew what was lacking in me. That one day you decide you're gonna collect, assemble, improvise, upgrade so you'll never hear the chaos rumbling. I was doing better without the other heavy part of my soul I dumped. Don't live for the temporary, it's gonna go away someday.

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مفيش علاج للإكتئاب يخلي ال apathy موجود وميقلش! ، كل ما باخد علاج بتعب بعد فترة لما بحس باللي بتعرضله! ، عايزة حاجة تخليني أمارس كل حاجة طبيعي واركز ف دراستي بس ال apathy يفضل معايا !

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ده محتاج علاج نفسي يا فندم.
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What sort of petitions do you sign? I’ve got an email about a petition to stop schools having chicken eggs to hatch. The male chickens are hard to re-home and sometimes they hatch at weekends when nobody’s there to care for them. Any views on the hatchling question?

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The chicken crisis is showing no signs of abating. It was bad enough that KFC had to close up shop, but this is getting freaky. I guess we'll have to wait for all this to blow over.
I mostly ignore those e-mails because some of the issues just aren't important to me. I think the last one I signed had something to do with Brexit, or some topic pertaining to the Commonwealth. The CANZUK, I think? Though I reckon that was some groggy post-Brexit romanticising with them on that one. Ironic that the very same demographic which emphatically voted out of a union just couldn't wait to be part of another (complete with profound hark to a colonial past). Not a priority of mine. I think that concept has pretty much waned now anyway.
But there's no apathy on my side. I took part in a street protest in Ireland some weeks back, helping raise awareness of a particular issue. I initially wasn't aware of the abundance of Sinn Fein flags present, but I decided to ignore that and nevertheless saw the positive motivations behind my mercenary-esque virtue signalling.

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What human behavior should be classified as a mental illness or mental disorder but isn't officially considered as such? Elaborate, please.

I'm sorry, but I can't answer truthfully. It's ironic, because I'm doing a PhD in psychology, but I purposefully avoid the debate on mental health and mental illness. To be honest, I'm not comfortable calling anything "mental illness", although I understand why having the term is pragmatic and useful for distinguishing between different states.
To be honest, if some things currently diagnosed can be called mental illness, then perhaps garden-variety boredom and apathy also should be! It sounds frivolous, but I mean it seriously - I have seen disinterest and casual, mild purposelessness cause people to value their life and everything in it less and be dissatisfied and unproductive, and arguably more so than some mental health conditions. What seems mild, slow and inobtrusive can end up being no less corrosive than sharp and noticeable issues.
Unusual and strange arguments aside, I think psychology and neurology should focus more on conditions and traits related to apathy and to the inability to understand one's own mental states and emotions, for example alexithymia. I'm not sure about classifying it (or many other things) as mental illness, but I think there should be more deliberate, focused analysis on it. I also think such conditions can bring a lot of illumination to the "more drastic" conditions that psychiatrists like to explore.

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Игры - это очень забавно, не так ли? Подберите на буквы своего ника по песне и расскажите о них. Они хорошие или не очень? Любимые или сильно так себе? Пробуждают ли ностальгию или услышаны только вчера? | Ellie Goulding - Halcyon

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Окей! Но я буду жульничать и лениться хд
Р - Ростислав Чебыкин - Гамельнский крысолов
Ы - АукцЫон - Хомба
Б - Борис Гребенщиков - Рок-н-ролл мертв, а я ещё нет
А - А is for apathy - Powerman 5000
З - Знаки - Беспокойство
А - Аквариум - Камни в холодной воде
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И - I never has seen snow - Beverly Kenney
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Does it bother when you speak to a friend/family about someone a complete d**head/who has wronged you and they just shrug it off and tell you you're the crazy and supposed to turn the other cheek?

i don't talk to my family about my personal problems, and i don't have friends who would disregard my feelings like that - so unfortunately, i can't relate to this situation.
every one of my old friends who has treated me with such disdain or apathy usually weren't my friends anymore after that. i don't have room in my life for people who simply refuse to understand my feelings or refuse to care.

What's your take on the token "farming?" I think it shouldn't exist, but of course I will use it. I wouldn't pass up a chance on all that loot. I guess it's a complex relationship. It's not like the infinite super glitch. The only one being potentially harmed is myself, y'know?

Would I prefer if it wasn't in the game? Yeah. Do I care anymore? Not really. Those days are over for me, the moral high ground Datto, the bashing people for glitching Datto. I just don't really care anymore because Bungie enables it, so why bother fighting it. If they're ok with it and they're not banning people, whatever. The game already drops a ton of loot on people anyway, so what's 30 more items in 30 minutes? Pure apathy from me.

What is keeping you from Living a normal life? I know you wil probably say 'mental illness scitzofrenia or autism) But what is the main reasons in your case, can you try to explain it?

1. Executive dysfunction. Executive functioning is what allows us to go from thinking about or wanting to do something to actually doing it, it’s what makes us able to keep the different steps required to complete a task straight in our heads and it’s what makes us able to plan and focus on different tasks. Autistic people often have trouble with executive functioning which makes many everyday tasks that most people can just do without thinking twice about it really hard. Imagine that you want to do laundry but your brain doesn’t automatically come up with the steps required to complete the task - take the laundry basket to the washing machine, open the washing machine, put clothes into the washing machine, add soap, etc - instead you’re just standing there, knowing that you somehow have to go from dirty laundry to clean clothes without knowing how to go about it. This is a problem for many autistic people which makes many everyday tasks hard or impossible to do without help. We may need someone to prompt us to do what we need to do or we may need someone to talk us through the steps or we may need visual or written instructions which illustrate the steps required to complete a certain task. Executive dysfunction is the main reason why many autistic people have trouble with basic, everyday tasks that most people their age can easily do without help.
2. The negative symptoms of schizophrenia which are called apathy (The person may have a lack of interest in activities that previously were important to them such as their work or studies or recreational activities such as sports. They may also stop looking after themselves properly and their personal hygiene and appearance may suffer noticeably. They may be reluctant to leave the house or even their bedroom and may lie in bed for the larger part of the day.) and lethargy (People with schizophrenia experiencing negative symptoms will often have a profound lack of energy and find it difficult to do any more than light activity. This may lead to them spending a large part of the day in bed or watching television.) and anhedonia (This describes an inability to experience pleasure. People with schizophrenia who experience this often describe life as being grey or empty, devoid of the normal emotional ups and downs that we all take for granted. Others have described it as feeling empty or hollow.) and impaired attention (There may be an obvious difficulty in concentrating during conversation and an inability to concentrate on even simple tasks.)

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I hope you don't mind me asking, but can you describe what schizophrenia is like? Please don't answer if the is triggering to you, I don't mean any harm!

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To copy a precious answer to a similar question: "It's like having contact to several different realities and having to fight to stay in the one where everyone else are. It's like having good trips and bad trips without touching drugs. It's like being eaten and losing the best parts of yourself to apathy and anhedonia. It's like not being able to trust your own mind and your own senses, experiences and perceptions. It's like having special powers. It's like regularly experiencing things that nobody around you can understand or relate to. It's like not knowing what's real or what's rational and what's not. It's like dreaming while being awake. It's like living in a horror movie. It's like bring stuck in thoughts and theories that no one else understands. It's many different things and it's hard to describe and summarize."

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I just wanted to know what it's like to be a schizophrenic? How did you know you had it? How did people treat you before you even know you had it?

Allow myself to quote an earlier answer to the same question:
"It's like having contact to several different realities and having to fight to stay in the one where everyone else are. It's like having good trips and bad trips without touching drugs. It's like being eaten and losing the best parts of yourself to apathy and anhedonia. It's like not being able to trust your own mind and your own senses, experiences and perceptions. It's like having special powers. It's like regularly experiencing things that nobody around you can understand or relate to. It's like not knowing what's real or what's rational and what's not. It's like dreaming while being awake. It's like living in a horror movie. It's like bring stuck in thoughts and theories that no one else understands. It's many different things and it's hard to describe and summarize."
I was first diagnosed with schizophrenia during my current hospitalization so the diagnosis is new, but I've been sick for 5 years.
How people treated me? As people usually treat the obviously odd ones - by keeping their distance.

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