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Tita your thoughts sa mga taong nagpapa hard to get? You think it's necessary?

For some people they want to make their suitors feel challenged because they think it increases their worth. Siguraduhin lang na talagang may worth ka kasi baka hanggang challenge lang at after makuha na wala naman palang binatbat. Personally I don't like to waste time. Kung ayaw sakin ng tao I'd like to find out ASAP at hindi pa-challenge-challenge pa. Because I'm aware of my worth and it only grows with time. And if the person devalues me dahil easy to get daw ako, they're not really my kind of person. That's gross and full of machismo. Relationships are hard enough. Huwag nang magpahirapan pa.

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Kalian pernah gak yah merasakan sesuatu yang bagi kalian itu berarti tapi semuanya hilang tak berbekas..

anitamoii’s Profile PhotoAnita Monita Moii
Mencoba kembali ke masa lalu itu seperti mencari kembali setiap kepingan piringan yang kumuh, tersebar di setiap sudut gudang, berdebu, berhias bangkai kecoa dan kotoran cicak. Setelah dikumpulkan, diputar, keluar asap, semakin tebal, meledak, terbakar, hilang, sia-sia. 🖤

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gais! apakah kalian benci asap rokok?

fruityloop33’s Profile PhotoRobby Warholl
Benci bangettt
Ap lg aku sll sesek klo kena asap rokok ☹️🤧
Sayang nya, ling kerja, ling komunitas aku, banyak banget lohhh perokok aktif nya
perokok pasif nya, tmsk ky aku gini, yg gbs kena rokok tuh dikit, cuman hitungan jari, itu jg klo kumpul d 1tmpat, g smpe 5 org loh bwt perbandingan antara yg ngerokok & yg engga
Jd lah qt sll d posisi "wajib memaklumi" kebiasaan sebat sembarangan mereka2 ini ☹️
Prnh loh suatu ketika aku itu protes, mnt tlg k mrk spy g sembarang nyalain rokok gt
Eh, mlah aku nya kena hujat 1masyarakat 🐷 krn posisi aku sbg perokok pasif dsni "klah suara"
Jd sejak saat itu, aku sll minggat jauh2
Meski aku batuk2, sesek2, jg mrk tetep bodo amat, trkesan oura2 g liat & bner2 anggep nya itu "masalah ku seorang diri" 🥲
Prnh jg kondisi fisik aku yg batuk2 sesek gt, malah d bilang manja sm mrk, kta nya aku gbs "Hidup & berbaur" sm mrk, gbs "merakyat" pdhl sesama rakyat jelata, tp d nilai trlalu begaya acted ky Sultanwati Your Highness
Can u imagine? 🤧☹️🥲
G usah jauh2, d rmh aku jg
Ad 3 org abang, mrk semua perokok aktif & hobby nya sebat indoor
Km bs bayangin sndri lah, engap nya dlm ruangan tuh ky ap, klo 33nya sebat bareng, lbh dr 1btang, dlm rmh yg tertutup
Klo ku tegur spy sebat nya outdoor aja, kn bisa ya, aku kena bully & hujatan, d keroyok habis
Akhirnya klo ad tamu, auto d tiru sm semua tamu2 nya, krn mrk dtg jg rmh bau asap lohhh ☹️🤧
Semua pd sebat d dlm rmh, penderitaan bertambah klo ad acara d rmh, gileeeee
Bersyukur lah skg hrg rokok naik, spy mrk "agk" sadar diri klo mau sebat 1 pack penuh d rmh ☹️🤧☹️🤧🥲

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Bro ye gap year kiun itna muskil hay .. kya Krna chahiya…

All jokes apart, if you can't discipline yourself, its completely useless to take a gap year aur le lia hai to enjoy krlo ye time instead of feeling guilty about not doing anything productive.
If you are like me, ie v undisciplined and a raging procrastinator, take admission somewhere asap.

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Tita, what's your take on sex on first date? Would I seem too easy if I do it?

This really depends on your attitude about sex. The term "easy" was constructed by men to judge women who like sex, meanwhile men are expected to want sex ASAP, and that's a sign of courage and validity. It also suggests that sex is the goal, and getting it quickly makes a woman undesirable. I suggest removing that from your vocabulary and not associating yourself with people who use it. Personally I want to establish sexual compatibility right away, and there's no point in continuing getting to know someone if there's no chemistry from the start. But some people feel differently and believe chemistry and sexual compatibility can be established later (I disagree). For me, building a life with someone is the goal. It is never easy. I don't want to waste time getting to know someone I'm not sexually compatible with. Figure out what kind of person and woman you are and how you feel about sex. Knowing what you want and when you want it as well as how to protect yourself is not easy. Often it will require you to defend your position. You will have to stand up for yourself and stop talking to people who feel that women are some kind of prize to be attained. 🤮🤮🤮 Decide what kind of woman you want to be and act accordingly. 👌

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*Verified Donation Case* Our maid *Safina baji's* two daughters are getting married. *Saba* and *Muqaddas* Saba's in laws want her nikah asap and they don't have even 1 rupee to arrange her nikah event. She needs help for Saba's nikah food and for nikah suit. And Muqqadas's nikah is in end of this

sweetdevil420’s Profile PhotoR O O S H Y
Yar drop your bank details in another question.
I’d let this one stay on my profile. I’m sure atleast a few people will help.

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Brb transferring to pindi ASAP someone really needs to radicalise these girls and tell them there’s more to life than following rules and studying all the time plz u deserve all the sarak strolls u want... also...... try it alone sometimes ;)) But idk don’t do it if you know you’ll feel unsafe

HaleemaTallat’s Profile Photohaleema
Plssss ajao ;(
Ye to sb andr ate hi library me ghuss jaati han itna bhi kia rakha hai kitaabo mein. Ya agar plan banai to zyada se zyada kisi cafe jaa k khana khaa k wapas ajayengee thats not enoughhh :(
And ur right, kisi achi (safe) agha akele hi chali jaungee kisi din halaanke im v uncomfortable on my own in public but dekho comfort zone se to nikalna hi parega na.

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IS it cheating when 2 people are seeing each other and are still not official. and 1 person is still sleeping around with out the other knowing. Also ive become the side hoe to the side hoe. and the side hoe is unaware

Brian R. Willet
No, as shitty as my answer sounds: as you said, they're not official, so they technically (** metaphorically speaking **) do not "belong to one another."
In this situation, it would definitely be beneficial for the person (talking to the person sleeping with other people) to find out said person is sleeping with other people ASAP; so they don't get hurt, and can get out of whatever they have, before they're in too deep

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I have been pulling my hair since 10 yr whenever I got anxiety and depression .I just wanna get rid of it .I would be obliged if you gave m some sincere suggestions .Jazakillah in advance .

Yeh tou kafi ziada time zaya karliya hai apne. You should seek professional help asap. Other than this, open up to someone close to you about it, workout, do some deep breathing and listen to Surah ar rahman by Qari Abdul Basit daily.

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What would you do if you became prime minister of india for one day

Among a lot of things, one of my priorities would be meeting the education minister, he really be doing to most!
The insensitivity I've witnessed towards students during the pandemic was dumbfounding. Like someone's lost a family member, someone's family member is in the hospital, students themselves had tested positive for COVID, you aren't allowed to visit hospitals, the bills, etc. The psychological, physical and emotional trauma students have gone through was unendurable. But all that institutes cared for were exams and assignments.
Students and their problems aren't really taken seriously, the government needs to be more considerate. So there's an urgent need to revaluate and re-execute!!
P.S. I myself have gone through a lot during the pandemic and it took a toll on me but thank god I was able to come out of it, to anybody who's still going through a rough phase, I hope and pray that you get through it ASAP!💗
- Alisha Pawar

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The only person I felt protected in their arms, doesn’t love me and sends me false promises. I’m trying to move on but it just stresses me out so much… Even told him to his face! “I NEED YOU MORE THEN THOSE OTHER GIRLS, I’m truly scared to ask him for help”

> doesn’t love her
> lies to her
> needs him for some reason
> wants to ask him for help
If he doesn't love you and he's a liar, why would you need him or consider asking him for anything? Have mercy on yourself. Distance yourself asap and find someone worthy of your time and attention. It isn't complicated unless you want it to be...

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Imagine you met yourself from ten years ago, what do you think they'd think of you now? And is there anything you'd want to say to them?

I think 31 year old me would be amazed at how chill 41 year old me is, and how much art I'm creating. 31 year old me was working in retail and struggling HARD with mental illness, without meds or therapy. I'd tell them to get back on meds asap.

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chị đã biết về chuyện chín người chết trong buổi biểu diễn gần đây nhất của Travis Scott chưa ạ? ai cũng bảo anh bỏ mặc họ nhg em thấy anh ấy đâu có lỗi đâu ạ, anh ấy đâu thể nào ngừng buổi biểu diễn giữa chừng được, có rất nhiều người đã xem anh ấy diễn mà:( em cũng không biết là chị biết chưa:(

Chị đang sống ở Mỹ thì sao mà không biết vụ này được em :)) Giảng viên ngành chị, bạn bè xung quanh cũng nhắc suốt ấy chứ. Em biết Travis từng đòi hủy buổi diễn vì có fan lấy chiếc giày của ảnh trong lúc diễn chưa? Nếu vì lý do đó mà còn muốn hủy show thì tại sao có fan ngất lại không thể hủy được? Căn bản ở đây là chị cũng cảm nhận được Travis không coi trọng sức khỏe của fan. Rất nhiều nghệ sĩ khác như Adele, Linkin Park, ASAP Rocky đã dừng show khi thấy fan bị ngã. Những nhóm nhạc kpop như BTS và BLACKPINk thấy fan chen nhau còn phải dừng hát để ổn định vì lo cho sự an toàn của fan mà em. Chị thấy ở đây có lỗi của nhiều người khác chứ không riêng gì Travis : ban tổ chức, bảo vệ, đám đông cuồng nộ,...tất cả đều góp phần làm nên thảm kịch này .

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Can I get married at fifty with little?

If you are fifty with little and you want to get married, of course you can do it! If you have already met your part, propose her or him marriage asap, if you haven't - don't despair, you will meet her or him, be sure! 🌷💚
But if you are younger than 50 and you are afraid of getting married so lately - be sure that you will very soon 💚💚💚

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Miruna, o prietena are simptome covid (lipsa mirosului si al gustului, febra etc) si cu toate astea a mers la o petrecere, i-am zis "testeaza-te si ia masuri" si cica nu ma duc fa ca ma baga in carantina si nu vreau, lasa-ma. TRE' SA-MI RECONSIDER PRIETENIILE A.S.A.P

Eu aș suna și aș reclama-o la DSP lol. Implicit i s-ar face și dosar penal. Eu una cu asemenea oameni inconștienți nu aș avea ce discuta.

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(4) i feel tht my self respect is lost ever since i took loan from my frnds, they dont treat me the same i can feel the change. I want to return asap :(

Umm, you got two options; either you learn a new skill or you can try online tuitions. Idk because I'm not fully aware of your situation but, maybe your previous teaching experience was horrendous due to the institute or school you were teaching in. Maybe teaching the way you want to the people you want might alleviate your mental stress. Good luck!

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Have you ever been sacked/fired from a job? 👍 🙃

redoasis2017’s Profile Photo★ ☮ ♫ tēຖค¢i໐นŞ t໐๓๓คฯ™ ✌ ♚ ☻
A few years ago, I was the desk clerk at a hair salon in the mall. A mother and daughter came in and they both had head lice. This was a Sunday afternoon and all we had on the books after them were a couple of walk-in men's cuts, so it was a no brainer to cancel those appointments so we could shut down and sanitize the salon (the workstations, tools, sinks, etc.) In addition to that, they'd been sitting on the mall couches outside the salon before they came in to our waiting area, so the mall itself had their cleaners block that area off so they could deep clean the upholstery (it wasn't a wipe-down material).
I skipped work, no call no show because I thought I was having a miscarriage. I had a birthcontrol implant done within 3 months and had sex for the first time since then. After speeding to the clinic, leaving my phone behind, it was what only turned out to be a massive clotty menstruation. Anyway, I call work ASAP and said I had a "medical emergency." The next day my depression turned debilitating, I cried in the tub, shut my phone off, but I did send an email to my supervisor about experiencing symptoms of the previois days emergency. Monday rolls around, I go to work as normal, but when the time came to clock out I needed to leave asap with still a heavy flow and menstrual cramps. They expected me to work past the time to catch up, I apologized and said tomorrow. Tuesday morning I get a text from my Sup, they hired me to be there when I'm needed. I sent back, expecting this to be woman to woman, the miscarriage scare story, apologizing and saying I'll see her in an hour. She says we need to talk when I get there. I get an email, official header and all that my employment is no longer needed and I violated my contract by not calling the week before approving the time off. Signed by the sup and manager. I was a secretary for a month with them. I was just like... Damn what a cold hearted. Glad I got fired.
Yep. Everything was going incredibly, I had my dream job and loved all of the people working there, everyone got along great and we were all friends (including the owners). However, winter is slow for them, so they told me they didn't have the budget for my position anymore. This happened mid November, and as a student taking the year off to make money for school, that was a pretty huge blow. It's January and I still can't find a job, nobody is hiring now. I went in a couple weeks after I was let go to give in a hard drive to see I had been replaced. So "we don't have the budget" was a cover up for "we've found someone better but we like you so we're not going to say that to your face".

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Are you with or against having books/tv in the toilet? And what’s your opinion on carpets in the bathroom?

I don't care much for reading on the toilet, or watching TV on the toilet. Our bathroom has no TV because, quite honestly, it'd be pointless. There would be no need for such a thing to exist in a room that was designed to exterminate your bodily fluids via solids or liquids.
As for the 2nd question, that's a total no-no. Whoever designed carpets in a bathroom is a misanthrope. Seriously, they have to be. Everything would get soaked. There'd be no way to absorb all the mess even with towels. I think if anyone has a carpet in their bathroom they should move out ASAP, and hope their feet doesn't turn to prunes. It's worse than carpet in a kitchen. Especially if you spilled sauce all over the floor. Holy, you'd see that stain for an eternity unless you drowned it in cleaning supplies.

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do you think people are born murderers, maniacs, psychos? Or does society make them so?

No. Nobody is born evil. Evil stems from an upbringing that was not so kind, and the person never even bothered to get help or help themselves. They decided to take the extreme path and destroy everything they see in their sight. They may think it's a rational thing to do, but it isn't. Not everybody who has a negative upbringing ends up becoming a serial killer. Some of them become motivational speakers, successful entrepreneurs, etc.
I do empathize with the fact that they weren't given the best childhood, but it doesn't give you the right to go and destroy other lives. So, that's where empathy disappears. It would be better to mourn that person for they lost who they were, and never saw the light. Therefore making them a "lost cause".
I would even argue that Society has nothing to do with this. Again it's a personal choice that they decided to make. Society, while it has lots of flaws, is not responsible for personal decisions. Society doesn't tell someone to stalk another person. Society doesn't tell someone to smother another with a pillow. That is a decision that person made themselves. And whether they knew it was the right thing to do or not is irrelevant because at that point it's been made very clear that their old self, the person that they were born as, is gone.
Now, let me argue against this and say society CAN do a better job at helping these people out. They should be given free access to treatment where if they may become violent, or if they are indeed psychopaths, they should be helped ASAP. That way, their lives can be saved and other lives can be saved in the process. I wouldn't give up entirely on them. Remember, nobody is born evil. It's best to try and catch them before it's too late so they can be saved from permanent hell.

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I’m engaged. My fiancé is very materialistic. He never values me or my gifts. He keep demanding for things. And when my parents send the stuff. He devalues each and everything.mujhe koi lift nahi deta. Sirf samaan discuss karta hai. I’m very worried about my future. Should I break the engagement?

Umm it's your personal matter but i think you should take a step asap .thori der ka rona sri zindagi k rony se bhtr hai .

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I hope everybody has a great morning! Monday morning how is your Monday going?

Ice_Frozen_Vocals’s Profile PhotoŞωεεT† ɮȩ̷̠̝͙̎̑̆ℓℓล ♡♪
My day is going pretty great :3
I called into work because 1) I didn’t feel like going and 2) I had a lot of other errands to get done today!!
I am hoping to switch jobs by the end of the month and I’ve lost all motivation to *try* at my current job.. Lmao.
I finally found a new primary care physician today and I set up a New Patient appointment for next week :3
I have a hefty list of things that are wrong with me that I’m hoping to take care of (as well as take care of the usual preventative care/testing/exams as well).
I have a DMV appointment on the 21st to *finally* get my full driver’s license and I’m hoping that my auto loan is approved soon bc I’d like to start shopping for a car asap so when I *do* get my license, I’ll be able to commute to my ~potential~ new job asap!!
I also contacted an Admissions Specialist today for a Veterinary Technician course I’m looking to take as soon as I finish up my NC GED testing :3
I’m REALLY getting my sh*t together and I’m literally beyond proud of myself for all of these huge steps!!
I’m sure I’ll have some setbacks during all of this.. But having these huge goals and actually doing things to better myself after coming out of such an abusive/manipulative relationship is mindblowing to me!!
I’m really out here doing the DAMN thing y’all. 🥲
Who woulda thought?!

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What is your most common reason you might not respond to someones message assuming its respectful? •bad at replying in general •don't like talking through texts •still get creepy vibes •simply forgot •shy and socially anxious •uninterested •Others (?)

paradiseeve5’s Profile PhotoDuaa.
As much as I hate doing it, I’ve lost interest in chats and dms. I’m done with being available all the time. I don’t have the motivation and energy to keep up with the conversation on text. Short or no conversations are my goto on text. The problem is that people expect you to reply asap and I can’t live up to their expectations so I choose to disappoint, obviously with the exception of urgency.

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How do you deal with anger?

I try to breathe through it to be able to respond in a more level manner and then resolve to work through it in a healthier way later. I also remind myself it's a symptom of a deeper pain or anxiety and it therefore doesn't make me a bad person for feeling it, but I need to work why anger is my first response and make an effort to heal the source of it. If I lash out at other people I'll apologise ASAP and give them either space or comfort, depending on what they need at the time. I struggle with anger due to my CPTSD symptoms, but I'm a lot less reactive than I used to be, and I'm proud of myself for the progress I've made over the years. I'm obviously not perfect now, but I endeavour to do my best - however that looks that day, as every day is different - and hold compassion for myself when I do f*ck up. It's a long process and it's unfair to expect perfection when this anger is so deep-seated and has existed for decades.

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Miss Lauren Cimorelli how the heck are yas? Been awhile! 😁

Been dealing with a lot of personal things currently… kinda rough and just trying to get out of the situation ASAP. Been incredibly busy working on new projects for the band, made the new track for the 2021 version of our song “you’re worth it” which will be out next week !! And currently wanting to vomit after coming back to notifications mentioning me from a certain creep. Just to inform people I AM IN A REALATIOnShip

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Hai, apa kalian prnh ngerasain sakit hati tanpa sebab? Kyk tiba"ngerasain sakit bgt. Dada rasanya panas dan mendadak jd overthinking. Terus jd keinget semua hal yg pernah bikin sakit hati dulu. Capek terus-terusan begini. Kadang sampe pengen bunuh diri. Gue harus apa

Ga ada api tanpa ada asap begitulah kira kira.
Setiap kamu merasakan sakit pasti ada penyebabnya/alasan utamanya, tapi terkadang km enggan mengakuinya atau hny sekedar tak mau mengingatnya.
Berdamai dengan waktu dan keadaan.
Memang sulit, cuma cukup maafkan orang² dan kasih space dari manusia² yg jd penyebab sakitmu agar tidak berkelanjutan.

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My life is a fucking mess. I hate myself.( I’m not talking about look. ) I’m overthinking everything too much. I think I may still love my ex crush. One of his friends always makes me feel bad. And my bsf is leaving me. Sorry I’m sharing this here. I just have no1 to tell this to. Sorry. ❤️

Stay strong, honey. Don't feel sorry. Life is hard sometimes and you may feel like everything is falling apart but believe me, better days are coming. You just need to cut off toxic people of your life. When one door closes, another one opens so make sure you don't miss opportunities. First of all, you have to heal yourself. Relax, make exercise, have time for yourself and do things you love (listening to your fav music, watching a movie, cooking, going for a walk etc). Spend time with your family, your loved ones. Remember, if you love yourself, other people will do it too but self love is the first thing. As I said, cut off toxic people of your life even if it's hard in the beginning. Believe me, you don't need those "friends" and sh*t and your life will be better without them. There will be space for another, better people in your life and it will be worth it. Overthinking makes things harder so keep yourself busy with healthy activities. It is also a good idea to make an appointment with a psychologist if you think you would feel better. And of course, time heals. It's true, I talk from my own experience. And I'm not here to write all these cliches (probably all this sounds like cliches), I really do believe that all this works. I hope you will be fine asap. I send you lots of love and positive vibes. ❤

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My life is a fucking mess I hate myself Im not talking about look  Im