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I can imagine that it must be incredibly difficult to feel unsupported or misunderstood by the people who are supposed to love and care for you. Personally, when I am feeling hurt or upset by someone close to me - whether it is family or friends - I try my best to communicate openly and honestly with them about how their actions have affected me. It might not always lead to an immediate resolution, but at least it creates space for understanding and empathy on both sides. At the same time, though, there may be situations where we simply can't change another person's behaviour or opinions. In those cases, all we can do is focus on taking care of ourselves and not let the circumstances affect us or our mental health. Don't let the negativity consume you. And healing from familial wounds takes time - but in my experience, cultivating self-love and compassion is one of the most important things we can do along this journey. By learning how to treat ourselves with kindness and respect even in the face of adversity, we build up resilience that helps us weather whatever challenges come our way. Sending my prayers on your way. 🌻

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Thank you for your good attention. I admit I was wrong about this person. I've known this woman for three years. You sent a link to her, I don't want to have anything to do with her, so I'll call this lady the letter P. She had already made me sad on her previous profile. She created a new profile and apologized to me for what she had done previously. I forgave her and recommended her account to be followed so that her profile would start to prosper. I was wrong and it was my big mistake. Mrs. P started telling me that she was at the house of a certain family - Mrs. D1 and Mr. D2, a former policeman who had been expelled from the police. The man is 20 years older than the woman, which makes them look like father and daughter, not husband and wife. I told Mrs. P not to write to me about such matters because I am not interested in other people's personal affairs. Everyone arranges their lives the way they want. A few days later, I wrote to her that I was receiving many different sexual questions from the D1 account that were cluttering up my inbox and I had to delete the questions. I guessed that these were questions sent by this woman's husband, Mr. D2, on her behalf from her profile. He probably wanted to see how I would react. It no longer amused me, because I already suspected that it was the beginning of an online tragicomedy, which is often created to get readers interested in a dead profile. Such internet dramas are done to liven up the profile. I don't have time for online games, so I told Mrs. P to stop sending me such insinuations, because if she doesn't stop, I will block her. I guess it helped because I don't get that kind of information from her anymore. I apologize again for recommending this person. I unfollowed Ms. P and you do whatever you want. I don't dictate what you do with it. I just showed what the situation looks like. To apologize for recommending an irresponsible person, I have a photo of a kitten for you. Best regards and I wish you a nice and warm evening

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Not many people outside of my family supported me throughout the years or stuck by me so I eventually started resenting everyone as time went by but I’ve learned to accept that I may never have people who genuinely agree with the choices I make and that’s fine with me. My family doesn’t think I should make the first move when I’m interested in someone whereas I think it’s fine, they think I should consider getting a degree first and foremost (which I don’t really care about), and they think that I should change my ways to become more versatile and adapt in the environment I find myself in and that’s hard for me to do so I keep to myself for the most part and hope that I’ll eventually find myself in the “right” place. I only felt supported when I tried my best to make others happy and even then, I still wasn’t really appreciated.

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I do, especially when I’ve been doing so good in a certain area or class and then let my OCD get the best of me as my intrusive thoughts take over and I can’t seem to think about anything school related when that tends to happen. I’ve failed statistics freshman year of college because I forgot to take my final exam due to being sleep deprived that day (so I took a nap) and thinking about the possibility of being contaminated as I was walking by and into the grocery store when I had a final to take that day. The whole day, I thought about whether or not a part of me was contaminated while trying to move on from the thought (which hardly ever works) so I let the time pass by without a care in the world when it came to my classes. I later realized that I missed it but I was naive and didn’t really know what college was like so I thought I could make up for the exam I missed and somehow still have a chance at passing the class when I didn’t. I took the class again during summer break but couldn’t remember what I learned in statistics from the start of last semester and I had to complete a lot of labs in such a short amount of time so I dropped out of that class and didn’t take it again. I then couldn’t continue with the field of health sciences as a result of being irresponsible and self sabotaging.

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I do believe that as humans, we choose our own preferences on the basis of freedom but our external factors heavily influence it at times. I think ultimately it can influence us into thinking that what is best for us.. really isn’t.

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Sometimes, we need to be able to decipher what is best for our own selves, even if it doesn’t align with the goals and dreams that our own family has possibly set out for us. The reason I say this is because you only have you at the end of the day (on Earth).

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You have to learn that disappointing others based on our own personal choices isn’t your own issue. So to conclude, I do think we have the ability to choose our own path regardless of where we come from. Just remembering that it won’t always be about what others depict our lives to be. I know I went off topic but I thought it tied into the question lol.

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Yes, I try my best to Comforting a friend who is crying and feeling sad can be a delicate but meaningful gesture. Here are some steps you can take to offer support:

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Be Present: Simply being there for your friend can provide a great deal of comfort. Sit with them, offer a hug if they're comfortable with physical contact, and let them know you're there for them.

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Listen: Encourage your friend to express their feelings and thoughts without judgment. Practice active listening by maintaining eye contact, nodding, and offering verbal affirmations such as "I understand" or "I'm here for you."
Empathize: Validate your friend's emotions by acknowledging their feelings and letting them know it's okay to feel sad. You can say things like, "I can see that you're hurting right now," or "It's completely normal to feel this way."

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Offer Comforting Words: Sometimes, simple words of comfort can go a long way. Reassure your friends that they're not alone and that you care about them. You could say, "I'm here for you, no matter what," or "I care about you and want to support you through this."

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Avoid Minimizing Their Feelings: Refrain from saying things like "It's not that bad" or "You'll get over it." Instead, validate their emotions and let them know it's okay to feel sad or upset.

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Ask How You Can Help: Offer your support and ask your friend if there's anything specific they need or if there's any way you can help them feel better. This could be anything from a listening ear to practical assistance with tasks.

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Respect Their Wishes: Everyone copes with sadness differently, so respect your friend's wishes if they need space or prefer to be alone for a while. Let them know you're available whenever they're ready to talk or need support.

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Follow Up: Check in with your friend after some time has passed to see how they're doing. Let them know you're still thinking of them and available to support them whenever they need it.

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I believe there are pros and cons to both options. Having one best friend can provide deep emotional connection and support, as well as the reassurance of knowing that someone always has your back in any situation. On the other hand, having a group of friends provides more diversity in terms of personalities and interests, which can lead to a broader perspective on life issues - for me, it is not necessarily about the number of people we surround ourselves with but rather how meaningful those connections are. Whether it be one close friend or many more acquaintances; what matters most is the quality time spent together building trustful relationships based on mutual respect and understanding- this is what truly makes us feel connected at our core level and brings joy into our lives. So ultimately I would say that neither option is better than the other – it all depends on personal preference and individual needs for social interaction. 🌻

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