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What are you thinking lately?🙊🤩👀

MehrAR’s Profile PhotoAR Mehr
There's something so attractive about a person with manners and politeness. Someone who knows the art of conversation, who chooses the right words, who acts civilized even if you criticize or challenge em. Finding such person in this era infested with abusive creatures is a rarity. ❤️

Is it April already? This is so wild, time flies awfully fast. Years feel like months, months feel like weeks, and weeks feel like days. Do you feel the same?

I was thinking how slow this year is going actually, which makes a nice change for me. Previous years felt like they went by too fast. But I've been trying to do more things this year. And I find the more things you do, to challenge yourself, or learn. The slower time seems to get for you, as you spend more time in the moment.

What’s your taste in music?

alexsisu’s Profile PhotoAlex ♔
Probably anything that most people would find too depressing, too angry, too old, too weird or too sad. I'm not really into just naming it all off. I think I really enjoy extremes in music. I like for music, movies or any other kind of creative outlet to challenge me and push my buttons little bit. I think I really like stuff that makes you want to kill yourself at first but then kind of live. I try to keep an open mind about music and I'm into this weird thing where I listen to stuff and I judge it by how it sounds to me and how it makes me feel not by how many cool brownie points I'm going to get for liking this and that. When it comes to music I don't care how old or new something is, what genre it is, how many people listen to or like it, how popular or relevant the music is or how many people I'm going to impress by liking this and that. I do not care about all that social side of music listening whatsoever. I like what I like and I try not to shit on stuff that I don't get. Anyway, here's a song that I been looking for for more than 15 years and I recently found.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=PJ7E40Ec5echelmit911’s Video 172592260643 PJ7E40Ec5echelmit911’s Video 172592260643 PJ7E40Ec5ec

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#Daily Challenge; Pochwal się kontem, które ma dla Ciebie sentymentalną wartość?

⧗⠀:⠀Sentymentalną wartością darzę zarówno Yelenę, jak i Wandę ( @Duchess__Of__Destruction ) — w dużej mierze ze względu na czas poświęcony ich prowadzeniu oraz rozwojowi. Bohaterki te dają mi wachlarz odmiennych możliwości i na chwilę obecną nie wyobrażam sobie działalności na fikcji poza ich "skórą". :>

Keby som bol pavúk, nechala by si ma žiť, alebo by si ma zašliapla?

Otázka smerovaná pre ženy no odpoviem.
Závisí, pokiaľ budeš chillovať tam kde si není blízko mňa tak si v pohode.
Ak ale prídeš blízko tak to beriem ako Challenge a bude 👟.

Something you dared to do:

Grace_Elias’s Profile Photoنـعـمـة
🌷 One day, I decided to walk away from everything and everyone that I knew, to live the life that I wanted for myself and follow my faith.
It is still an on going journey for me though. The difficult challenge is the change of lifestyle and habits that I'm used to. There are still things which I needed to improve on. And it's a constant struggle within me, but so far I am happy with what I've changed for myself.
ٱلْحَمْدُ لِلَّٰهِ ♥️
Something you dared to do

Why are so many people online against talking to children? I always see on here and other socials people with things like “adults only” “18+ only” “minors do not interact” “no minors” etc. In their bio. No, I’m not a child, I’m a whole adult. Just curious

"Death Of The Soul" by Alex (Part 1)
There are many reasons why adults are afraid to associate with young people and much of it relates to the numerous crimes and abuses that adults have perpetrated upon our youth over the years and centuries. The list is long so I will only mention a few:
- Priests molesting young people
- Teachers having sex with students
- Parents abusing their children
- Wealthy people like Jeffrey Epstein arranging for young girls to have sexual intercourse with politicians, millionaires/billionaires, businessmen and world leaders.
There are many more documented cases that I could list, but you get the point I am making. As a result, society has demanded that our children and young people be protected by law and that these laws be aggressively enforced and adult perverts be punished.
Other contributing factors are the "Me Too Movement," pervasive groupthink and victimhood movements, the LGBT+ ideology and a belief that whatever alleged victims say it must be true and therefore the alleged perpetrator is "guilty" and must prove his/her innocence. These combined forces have made many adults nervous and fearful of false allegations because we understand that if we are wrongly accused of a sex crime, it is likely that we will lose our family and friends, our employment and all of our assets. In addition, there is a high probablity that we would be found guilty and sent to prison.
A friend of mine who was a prosecutor and is now is a successful defense attorney specializing in sex crimes, told me that 80% of the men imprisoned for sex crimes in the state where he practices law are, in his opinion, innocent. And he also admits that the judicial system, our media and our society believe that if a man is accused of a sex crime, he is guilty and must prove his innocence.
I would challenge anyone reading this essay to talk to an innocent man who has been falsely accused of a sex crime and ask him if he was treated fairly and assumed innocent until proven guilty or if he was instead, treat like a criminal who must prove his innocence? I could provide more graphic detail of what I am talking about, but I have said enough and hopefully you understand the point I am making.
My son is a director of Music and Arts in a well known private high school and to protect himself from false allegations, he had the school install video cameras in his office and bandroom. Students are only allowed to meet with him if other adults and students are present and the doors are left open. In my private life, I teach guitar lessons and require that a parent be present at all times to protect myself from false allegations. And whenever I am in the presence of women (young or old) I always ask my wife or daughter to accompany me and if they cannot, I will not attend the event. (cont)

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No English word has double o except the word book prove me wrong

This 's prOOf that preschOOl education is important in childhOOd and that chOOsing the right bOOks and tOOls to learn is more important than posing a fOOl challenge to pretend u're cOOl 😁

What memory of yours has the most love or happiness attached to it?

inktomy_pen_’s Profile Photopeanut
"Adoption" by Alex
Oh there are so many. I would say it was the adoption of our daughter. We started the adoption process before our daughter was born in 2006. We were notified of her birth and given 24 hours to make our decision. For the next 7 months she was cared for by a beautiful foster family who we still maintain contact with.
So in July 2007 we flew to Guatemala City to meet our daughter, the care givers and the lawyer and social worker. I remember it as though it were yesterday. My wife and I were staying at the hotel and received a call informing us that our daughter was waiting for us in the lobby. For me, it was love at first sight. We met everyone involved in this process, signed the necessary paperwork and brought our daughter back to our room.
Since my wife was not feeling well, I had the honor and privilege of caring for our baby until the plane departed the following day. As one can imagine, she was upset, crying and I would say traumatized from the uncertainty and drastic change to her environment. Every time I put the baby into the crib to sleep she started crying and would only stop when I held her. So for the next 24 hours I held her in my arms and when we awoke in the morning, I noticed a change in her demeanor. She stopped crying and started to smile and laugh because a bond, based upon mutual love and trust, had begun to form.
I could talk for hours and days about this experience because for me it completely changed my life for the better, for she is the apple of my eye. We do everything together which includes: performing music together, playing golf, tennis, helping her with homework (science, math, reading). She also likes to challenge me and debate me. She fondly calls me an old man and a geek because to her friends I am old enough to be her grandpa and because of my passion for music and poetry. There are times, for example, when her friends visit and hear me wailing away on my guitar or bass in my studio and I suppose they are not exposed to that type of behavior. Too funny, right? The best part is that whenever she is with her friends and they are giggling and behaving like teens, when I walk into the room, it becomes dead silent as though a loved one died and we are showing respect at their funeral service.
So... I have to say the adoption of our daughter and our time together are my favorite memories and the memories that give my life it's greatest meaning and purpose.

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How do you ensure that you're neither too naive nor too distrustful in life? Simply put, how do you know when to let your guard down or armour up? , What, when, why… ask

AisyahIsHere2’s Profile PhotoAisyahpotated
Great question Aisyah.

As a teenager I was very naive because I use to believe that words had specific meaning and that whenever people expressed themselves, they understood the meaning of their words and were being honest and telling the truth. Of course, this was untrue and naive. A defining moment in my life occurred when I was 16 and my English teacher challenged my set of beliefs when she said: "50% of what you read in the newspaper or hear in the news is either false or misleading." I remember sitting there thinking to myself, is my teacher correct and if so, what do I need to do to prove it and not be victimized by it?
I decided to pay attention whenever people expressed their opinions and to challenge them whenever appropriate. I soon discovered that humans communicate in several ways:
1. Subjective Thought - these are opinions that might be factual and based upon research and hard evidence; but most of the time subjective opinions are either gross exaggerations, intentionally misleading or simply dishonest and unethical propaganda based upon flawed perceptions and personal bias.
2. Objective Thought - this requires that the writer express themselves honestly and to consider opposing ideas and viewpoints. It also requires serious inquiry, analysis and vetting of the subject matter to reveal the truth and to express these revelations in an honest and transparent manner.
To answer to your question:
How do you ensure that you are neither too naive nor too distrustful in life?
You must be able to differentiate between subjective thought and objective thought. And you must also be willing to challenge the information that you are being exposed to whether it be online, newspaper, cable news, books, magazines or any other medium be it verbal or written. For example, those who govern and control our society, country and world i.e. politicians, media, professors, teachers and the ruling class, do not like their narratives to be exposed or challenged with truth, facts and reason. Instead, they prefer predefined state sponsored narratives that support their globalist/Marxist ideology. These state sponsored narratives must be exposed and challenged by citizens who disagree with globalist ideology and are not indocrinated or naive or afraid of negative consequences or reprisals from the globalist tyrants.
> "I had to make a decision about whether it would impact how I felt about trusting people, and I decided I wasn't going to allow it to impact my outlook on trust, because I believe trust is a choice. And I've always given people the benefit of the doubt until they prove otherwise. So, it just made me stronger in my conviction about that, but it also taught me never to put anything past anyone.
Boris Kodjoe

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Do you think the questions on here will get nicer or at least more creative in the new year?

dragonstorm86’s Profile PhotoKristin with an I
Extremely unlikely.
To receive thoughtful questions, you need to develop healthy relationships/friendships on askfm. This effort can take months, years or never. To be honest, most of the questions I receive are written by myself to myself. This might sound odd to some folks but, 99% of the shoutouts or anonymous questions are poorly written and are not worth answering. So... if I want to improve my writing skills, challenge myself and acquire knowledge, I am forced to answer my own questions.
Here is an example: I like playing Chess, but most people I know refuse to play chess. What should I do? Stop playing Chess or play against myself? So I play by myself. The same thing applies to most of my hobbies i.e. golf, music, etc. One final thought, I have played guitar since I was 10 years old and since that time most of my practicing and playing is accomplished alone. If I waited for other muscians to practice with me and learn songs, I would still be performing like a 10 year old without any skill or proficiency. In short, I learned many years ago that if you want to achieve success, do not depend upon other people, and this appiles to guitar, math, reading, golf or creating thoughtful questions and posting those questions onto askfm so I can improve my writing skills while also informing and entertaining my followers. /Alex
> "There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation, hard work, and learning from failure."
Colin Powell

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Could someone tell me exactly how this app works? Are personal questions just for me or are personal questions just personal questions? I'm so confused. I only know it's for me if someone addresses me. Then I ask questions and they don't get posted...

Askfm can be confusing and take some time to get use to.
> Are personal questions just for me? Yes
Select the "Inbox" and you will discover two soft tabs labeled "All" and "Personal." General questions (shoutouts) destined for ALL askfm users within your country will appear here under the ALL tab. Personal questions designated for you will appear under "Personal." Personal questions defined by a predefined list, where you are a subscribed member of said list will also appear under Personal. An example of this would be a text message broadcast from a friend to multiple friends included in predefined list.
> I ask questions and they don't get posted...
Using the plus sign (+) in top right, you can ask questions using two methods:
1. Ask People - these are known as anonymous shoutout questions which are broadcast to all active members of askfm within your country as defined by your Network IP address. Shoutouts only get posted when a user receives and responds to your message.
2. Ask Friend allows you to select which "friends" you want to receive your queston.
You can also ask specific users questions by selecting your "Friends" tab located on Home menu and select "ask me anything." Whether or not these questions are anonymous or not depends upon if the "ask anonymously" soft button located under the "ask" window is selected or not.
History Lesson: When askfm was first introduced in June 2010 it was advertized as an anonymous text messaging application. This appealed to many people who wanted anonymity and wanted to roleplay where they could assume fake names, characters, etc. (note: most of these users left askfm between 2016 and 2018) because askfm was sold and implemented strict rules that prohibited "offending" people. So essentially conversations involving sex, politics, religion have been banned.
The other problem that occurred as a result of this attack on freedom of speech is that askfm users are afraid to ask controversial questions because they know their account will be suspended. Once in a blue moon I might receive a decent question worthy of a response, but most of the questions, in my opinion, are uninteresting (which is why many askfm users have abandoned their accounts).
To entertain myself, what I do is post my own questions and then I answer my own question. This allows me to challenge myself. In a way it is similar to playing chess with yourself or playing golf and competing against yourself or perhaps recording music where you play all instruments and record all tracks individually by yourself.
I hope you enjoy you askfm experience and are able to avoid receiving askfm warnings or suspensions that are mostly without merit and are a result of other "woke users" submitting fallacious reports to askfm administrators who NEVER take the time to review and determine whether or not these erroneous reports are valid or not. They simply send you a warning and then suspend your account. /A

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What is your opinion of the Climate Control ideology?

Please listen to this discussion about Climate Change between Jordan Peterson and Alex Epstein. This conversation will challenge your perception and understanding of climate control policy and legislation.
*note: you might need to manually reset the video to start at the beginning.
https://youtu.be/eDWq7-eP5sEalexandermonroe397579’s Video 172621703979 eDWq7-eP5sEalexandermonroe397579’s Video 172621703979 eDWq7-eP5sE

What do you assume about girls that are good at chess

> They are intelligent.
> They like a challenge.
> They can think in multiple dimensions.
> They can solve problems and react w/o getting emotional.
> They understand offensive and defensive strategy.
> They comprehend what survival of the fittest means.
> They appreciate that Chess not only requires skill but patience, cunning cognitive clarity.
> They know that in Chess, the end justifies the means.
> They never lose sight of their goal and the objectives required to achieve their goal; in this case, to checkmate the opponents king.
What do you assume about girls that are good at chess

O que os seus medos e receios falam sobre você?

dz9ronin’s Profile PhotoLgrabb
dz9ronin’s Profile Photo
"" "What do your fears and fears say about you?" ""
~ I always do , and always have done ; challenge even potential fears , questioning intensely & relentlessly . . . .
But never a word said they ; my 'fears' never say a word about me .
Maybe they're afraid of me ?
Maybe they don't exist ?

Say you were gonna go on a first date with someone, how'd it ideally look like? 🍱🎡

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
"The Bonneville" by Alex
It's been so long since I've been on a first date I wouldn't even know where to begin. How about I do a flashback to when such things did occur, like back in high school? The first challenge was to actually ask a girl on a date and overcome the fear of being rejected, which was always a clear and present danger. For me, asking a girl out was not easy. I would rate the fear factor similar to that experienced when having a tooth extracted or a limb amputated. Unsettled nerves and intense fear does not even begin to describe the unbridled anxiety.
Well... let's assume that one of the 250 girls in my high school actually had the courage to say yes, which is a mighty big assumption. I would begin the process of preparation that involved cleaning and waxing my car from top to bottom. At the time I had a 1964 Pontiac Bonneville with a 400 cubic in V8 engine, a 4 barrel carburetor, and white leather interior. That car was amazing, and the best part was that I could fit an entire drum kit inside the trunk, but we will come back to that in a minute. The inside of my car was scrubbed with a popular cleaner known as lestoil that cleans well but smells awful. In fact, the only thing that smells worse than lestoil are those pine tree air fresheners which, of course, is what I hung on my rearview mirror. Wow! Just thinking about it I am both ashamed and embarrassed. My dates must have suffered greatly, way too funny… right?
Once my car was clean and shiny, it was time to purchase flowers. Can you even imagine doing that in 2022? I mean I hardly even knew this girl and yet, I am about to bestow upon her a beautiful bouquet of flowers. Thinking about it now, I can see why some girls wanted nothing to do with me. So now the big moment has arrived and we are finally on our date. Where? How about a drive-in theatre? Drive-in theaters were popular back in the day because of what I refer to as: "the privacy factor."
As I was preparing to park the car my date asked me, what is all that noise coming from the trunk? Oh boy... you're going to love this! Remember that drum kit I was taking about earlier? Well... we get out of the car and I opened the trunk and she gasped: "what is all that stuff?" I laughed one of my infamous belly laughs as I proudly proclaimed: "that is my drummers drum kit! Isn't it awesome that I can fit the entire drum kit inside my trunk?” She wasn't impressed and sadly, that was our first and last date.
What would the band Queen say about this unexpected turn of events: "another one bites the dust. Another one gone... and another one gone. Another one bites the dust."
/Alex ❤️

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Say you were gonna go on a first date with someone howd it ideally look like

*Shadow's confused, that is very clearly a corpse yes, but he could have sworn before he illuminated the tunnel that the figure was standing. Not really possible for a limbless corpse to stand, he gets closer to investigate, hands becoming clawed just in case*

forgottenfifth’s Profile PhotoShadow
There's a journal next to him.
"Day 1: heading up to Mount Silver to challenge Red and take the title of Champion! Man I'm excited... I'm bringing along Celebi, Typholosion, Cyndaquil and the Unowns as my team, hope it's enough!
Day 2: Made it to the base of Mount Silver! ...Gee, the stories really are true, there's a big snowstorm towards the peak, hope Red is okay up there, people are saying he hasn't come down yet...
Day 3: Made it to the top! The blizzard is going strong, but I dressed warm, brought enough supplies and my fire types will keep me warm. I think I see Red's cabin too! Hope he doesn't mind if I rest up a bit."
The other entries are ripped out, the leather soaked in blood. All that's eligible is a hastily scribbled note towards the back.
".............I'm going to die up here."

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You seem so ready, are you? Yet unprepared for the fuss... A foot on the floor... And other in the dunk of darkness...

deeda_dahi’s Profile PhotoZalaam
Yes. I have to be. It is my responsibility. The chaos is not, but I could still take advantage of it when it serves my purpose. This too requires preparation and a bit of fancy footwork but I welcome the challenge. Our temporary shells might be vulnerable but our spirits are forged in fire and they can never be extinguished. Those who know, incinerate. Those who don't, dissipate. That's our fate, mate!
You seem so ready are you 
Yet unprepared for the fuss
A foot on the floor

4. November: NNN bist schon raus, noch dabei oder ist das für dich komplett sinnfrei?

xDGiuli’s Profile PhotoG.
Es ist kompletter Unfug, der wahrscheinlich in irgendeiner absurden Form ein Schwesterprodukt der Fastenzeit ist, aber in den vergangenen Jahren sehr stark von der Altright in den USA gekapert wurde, die sich sehr stark mit rabiatkonservativen "wErTeN" wie stoischer Selbstkontrolle, Alpha-Male-Gehabe und Enthaltsamkeit allgemein identifiziert.
Es ist nicht nur so, dass dieser Selbstwertboost für nationalbewusste Vollpf.osten komplett sinnfrei ist - er hat auch überdies noch negative Nebeneffekte. Nicht nur, dass man nach einer Woche wie ein Grouch durch die Gegend läuft, dauerhaft würde ein solcher Verzicht auch das Risiko für unangenehme kleine Wehwehchen wie Prostatakrebs erhöhen. Dies ist allerdings mehr oder weniger ein kumulatives Risiko. Hinzu kommt, dass ein Teilnehmer an diesem Spaß eines Morgens eventuell feststellen könnte, dass der Körper sich eines Teils der Flüssigkeit von selbst entledigt hat ... Well.
Während es vielleicht in Bezug auf die Intensität des Org.asmus' Vorteile haben kann, für 5-7 Tage auszusetzen, ist diese "Challenge" genauso sinnlos wie masoch.istisch. Aber hey, einigen Leuten scheint das Gehirn vom zu vielen Waschen auch schon ganz schön eingelaufen zu sein, insofern - whatever floats your boat ...

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Challenge .. Years .. kg .. cm Be honest ⚘⚘

Mariamnelly’s Profile PhotoTaغrid☆
Challenge accepted
ده لو اعتبرناة تشالينج يعني الحاجات دي كلها عادية بالنسبالنا كولاد يعني مش معلومات سرية 😂🤷‍♂️
25.5 years
85 kg
180 cm

Jaki przeważnie kontent nagrywają?

ryujinpl1’s Profile Photo류진 Shin Ryujin | ITZY Poland
Ich kontent opiera się głównie na rozrywce. Na nagraniach bawią się swoim towarzystwem czy rozmawiają na różne tematy. Udostępniają także challenge, vlogi i okazjonalnie nagrywają ze swoimi przyjaciółmi. Chociaż nie powiem, zdarzało im się poruszać poważniejsze kwestie na filmikach.

4. November: NNN bist schon raus, noch dabei oder ist das für dich komplett sinnfrei?

xDGiuli’s Profile PhotoG.
Wie gesagt verstehen nur wenige den Sinn besser tiefer und umfangreicher und wenige haben soviele gute Gründe wie ich das zu meistern denn wo viel Energie ist kann viel transformiert werden und wo viel Sensitivität und esoterisches Wissen ist kann man mehr rausholen wie die oberflächlichen Absolventen die das Gesamtbild mit anderen Gebieten nicht verbinden. Sinnfrei ist eher jegliche Form der Selbstzerstörung zu der eben auch Spermaverlust gehört sogar noch gravierender als rauchen, Fleisch essen und saufen letztlich denn es ist DIE Energiequelle im Körper es ist kein Zufall das sie Kinder erschaffen kann also neue Menschen die unglaublich schnell wachsen und wenn diese Energie drinbleibt und transformiert wird macht sie deinen eigenen Körper immer besser. Aber ihr werdet es nicht wirklich verstehn ohne in entsprechende Bücher, Links, Videos zu linsen und euch ein eigenes Bild ohne Spott und Voreingenommenheit zu machen was heutzutage natürlich nur wenige vermögen genauso wie diese lange Challenge zu halten und zu meistern die alles andere als easy ist für einen Mann. Später wenn ihr jungen Frauen mal mehr Kerle gesehn habt die Monate oder Jahre auf Streak waren werdet ihr den Unterschied zur Energie und den Auren vom heutigen Rest sehn und klar bevorzugen was kultiviert wurde.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WGJYnV_xOAIDerUnsterbliche’s Video 172915467623 WGJYnV_xOAIDerUnsterbliche’s Video 172915467623 WGJYnV_xOAI

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4 November NNN bist schon raus noch dabei oder ist das für dich komplett

Do you like winters ?

bellmona212’s Profile PhotoMona Bell
I like summer more than winter .
I am super active in summer I do things actively, I love summer fruits , fashion ,I step to sea side, do surfing there with surfing board .
Winter is nice too but I have to push myself beyond my limits for getting ready, taking bath ya now go for work .
Staying active do things nicely in winter is literally a challenge but I love challenges
Winter makes me lazy I can't walk , I sleep alot ,I rest alot
What I like about Winter? Chicken Soups which I make ,vanila puddinv on which melted caramelised sugar ,at night I get peanuts for eating ,Sip cappuccino enjoy in my own world

If you try doing something for the first time and you fail, does that discourage you or does it motivate you to try again and do better?

I was going to be all "omg it motivates me so much!" But that would be a bit of a filthy lie.
If it's something I wasn't that arsed with in the first place, I'll be more than happy to drop it and go and entertain myself somewhere else. If it's a challenge, I'll go again and again and again because I don't CARE if it's dumb - I've decided that my happiness lies on the other side of it and I will MAKE it happen.

Szczerze mówiąc ich nie znam. Możesz opowiedzieć kim są, ile mają lat i o czym nagrywają filmiki? 🤔☺️

MuzyczneRecenzje’s Profile PhotoOnlyMusic
Bracia Sturniolo urodzili się 1 czerwca 2003 roku w Bostonie. Obecnie mają dziewiętnaście lat, a swój kontent opierają na dokumentowaniu swojego życia. Najczęściej na nagraniach można ich zobaczyć w samochodzie, gdzie dyskutują na różne tematy, śmieją się oraz bawią swoim towarzystwem. Nagrywają też między innymi challenge i vlogi. Są również bardzo aktywni na TikToku. Głównie podbili internet swoją naturalnością, miłością do siebie nawzajem i wspaniałą atmosferą, którą roztaczają wokół siebie.

What is perfection according to you?

sleepy2687’s Profile PhotoNainS.
Perfection is the end.
Once you are perfect there is nothing left.
Therefore the definition, in my mind, is perfection is the end of growth and the inability to grow.
If we were truly perfect or if life was truly perfect, there would be nowhere left to go.
Nothing to explore, nothing to live for, no changes, and we would not even notice we are perfect.
If all we have ever known was happiness, for example, if sadness did not exist in our mind, then how would we know we are happy?
We would loose the appreciation for everything we have.
It’s the journey to perfection, the growth to becoming better, that fills us with pride and joy, but reaching the destination would be horrible.
Imagine, for example, getting a perfect score in darts every single time.
No matter where you throw the darts you always score perfectly.
It may be fun at first to show off your skills, but if you can never truly have a competition then what is the point?
There is no growth for you to be had, no challenge from anyone else as the best they can do is tie, and no reason to continue working on it.
Given time, you would loose all interest in darts! The hobby would die.
So perfection is flawless, impossible to improve, exact, faultless, an ideal, an illusion, impossible, a chimera, an obstruction to peace of mind, a suspension of acceptance and a hindrance to happiness.

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لأصحاب الجيمنج.. اقترحوا عليي لعبة حلوة العبها.. يكون لها قصة و مغامرات شي نفس ذا لاست اوف اس او ريزدنت ايفل… او اي شي زين.

KyuHyukGirl’s Profile Photo~.بنت الوهيبي.~
I do suggest zelda breath of the wild.
But, this game NEVER ends, even if you finished the final boss. You will still have so many things to accomplish.
Some people who are more freaks than me in the game STILL play it and challenge themselves in so many different ways.
The sequel of the game is coming next year in may.
لأصحاب الجيمنج اقترحوا عليي لعبة حلوة العبها يكون لها قصة و مغامرات شي نفس ذا

Neked mennyire számítanak a közösségi médiában összegyűjtött like-ok? Ezek jelentenek esetleg valamit számodra? Általában te mikor likeolsz valakit/valamit?

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Nagyon régen még a gimiben az iskolapszichológus tartott egy cyberbullying ellenes előadást, és kiemelte, hogy nem feltétlenül csak a konkrét zaklatás miatt érezheti magát valaki diszkomfortosan az interneten, hanem azért is, ha úgy érzi, hogy ignorálják, vagyis nem lájkolnak neki eleget, leszarják az új posztjait, meg miegymás. Na, nekem ez akkor is fura volt, meg azóta is fura, bár szerintem csak szimplán tisztában vagyok vele, hogy amúgy se érdeklek túl sok embert, úgyhogy sose voltak olyan illúzióim, hogy majd százak fogják lájkolni a posztjaimat, és nyalnak kommentben, hogy milyen csodálatos vagyok :D
Alkotóként egy dolog zavar csak. Az, hogy egy igénytelen, fos, maximum egy óra alatt összedobott inktober rajzomra jön 60 lájk, mert ugye ez egy challenge, az olyan festményekre, amiken sokszor hetekig dolgozom, pedig jön 12, mert az trenden kívüli. Tavaly csináltam meg életemben utoljára ezt a hülye inktobert.
De ez csak a munkámra vonatkozik, mivel a modern kor eszközelit kihasználva az interneten népszerűsíteném magam.
Azt, hogy hány lájk jön a pofámra meg a macskás képeimre, az életbe' nem számoltam :D

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elgailyelaw98’s Profile PhotoMr . Elg
The big challenge of life is:
You can have more than you got, because you can become more than you are.
And of course the other side of the coin reads:
Unless you change how you are, you will always have what you got
So challenge accepted,
I have a good feeling about this one, i can tell because of the stress that i feel in my guts just by thinking of it, it indicates how big it is, so it's either gonna end to a big success or a bigger lesson, and I'll work it out to make the best out of it
والله ولي التوفيق

Here's another family related question. How would you explain what family is to someone who's never had one? 💌

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As the saying goes, “Family is what you make it.”
In my opinion, family is transient, and is not as black and white as people who are related to you by blood. The idea of who/what makes up family is different for everyone. And it can shift as you get older, as you and those around you, change.
I would describe it like this… Family is anyone who allows you to simply be who you are. They are your ultimate support system. These are the people who you either have and/or develop a tight bond with and who are always there for you. They uplift, encourage, challenge, and love you, despite inevitable rough patches. You know you can always count on them.
I would say that family, no matter what it looks like, has the power to fulfill you. They continually make your life richer, and help you to thrive, and grow into the best version of yourself.
And finally, family shares roots, whether that’s heritage, history, or just a strong sense of commitment to each other. Or maybe all of the above, for some. Those roots can be there from the beginning or they can develop and get stronger and stronger as times goes on. But regardless, they are always there. 💛

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Játszol valamilyen telefonos és számítógépes játékokkal? Van kedvenced?

Konzolon játszok, de ott most elkezdtem rengeteg mindent xD
Forza Horizon 5, mivel bejött az új szezon, rengeteg új küldetés és challenge van rendelkezésemre 🤩
The evil Within 2
Fifa 22
The Walking Dead Season 2
Assassins Creed Origins újrajátszás
Grid Legends

Why is poor mental health so common on askfm? Literally every one of the dozens of people I follow has one (or more) mental health challenge or another.

Ah well, everyone has mental health in the same way that everyone has physical health and, like physical health, that fluctuates. Not many people get to their 20s without picking up some kind of physical ailment, yknow? You'll have a dodgy knee that flares up, or maybe asthma, hay-fever, tendinitis, migraines, etc.
So as you'll have periods of good health, you'll have periods of good mental health. But then you might pick up a cold, catch covid, that old injury starts to feel the cold - and the same with mental health. Something might trigger a flare up (or, like hayfever, you may find yourself having to live for extended periods with things that aggravate your mental health.)
And then there's the fact that 1 in 5 have some kind of mental illness (illness rather than health.) This is then different, because it's something that people live with consistently and find ways to manage. So it's not so much who you know on ask.fm, it's actually the entire population. Add to that that the narrative around mental health/illness is becoming more discussed and I don't think it's any wonder that people are talking about the challenges in a more open fashion. People tend to crave the comfort that comes with "oh my god, I feel that as well!"

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"Not able to adjust in the society - being a stranger"
I have recently conducted a survey about whether it's easy to adjust in the society or not. The answer to it is that it is not. There are many reasons. First, if you are finding it hard to adjust then it's because you are different than the rest of the people. It can be because of your philosophical or psychological difference. It includes your level of confidence too. Secondly, as a Muslim, we have to maintain a firm and pure character, but in order to blend in well, we are required to lower down or disengage our moral compass which is unacceptable for any pure soul. Thus, those who forsake and compromise on their character, they often tend to mix up easily. There can be many other reasons as well, but those two are the biggest ones being a great challenge for the Muslims of today who are trying to keep their faith and modesty intact. There was a time when the world was full of practical Muslims, it was so easy then to practice what your heart would say and not feel any guilt or strange feeling while being yourself. But today, it's quite the opposite. The Muslims who practice Deen are rare. They feel like strangers in the society. The society has compromised on its moral compass and is interested in materialistic affairs only. This article is just a summary of the study, there can be a complete and thorough discussion on each and every one of its aspects.
حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، وَيَعْقُوبُ بْنُ حُمَيْدِ بْنِ كَاسِبٍ، وَسُوَيْدُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ، قَالُوا حَدَّثَنَا مَرْوَانُ بْنُ مُعَاوِيَةَ الْفَزَارِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ بْنُ كَيْسَانَ، عَنْ أَبِي حَازِمٍ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ ‏ "‏بَدَأَ الإِسْلاَمُ غَرِيبًا وَسَيَعُودُ غَرِيبًا فَطُوبَى لِلْغُرَبَاءِ"‏‏.‏
It was narrated from Abu Hurairah that.. https://www.shorturl.at/qtV47 (Read the complete article through the link)

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❀ : ❛ are you really stupid ( enough ) to dare challenge the D E V I L ( herself ) and expect a win? ❜ (( & #followed !! ))

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❀ : ❛ are you really stupid ( enough ) to dare challenge the D E V I L ( herself ) and expect a win? ❜
Name: Khaleia, ( just ) Khaleia.
Age: +500.
Status: Transfigured/Undead.
Species: Witch.
Alias(es): The great damned, The vanished one, The mother of darkness, destroyer of all righteous, The enemy of nations.
Origin: Unknown.
Powers & Habilities: ( Dark ) magic, white magic, vanished spells, elemental magic, alchemy, incantations, necromancy, metamagic, thaumaturgy, occult witchcraft.
Weaknesses: The chosen one.
Personality traits: Reckless, spiteful, aloof, vindictive, scheming, cunning, seductive, strategist, fearless, brave, loyal, artsy, ( may be compassionate with a few ones.)
Universe: (( #behindwitchiness: Khaleia is a #multifandom adaptable character !! ))
Face claim: Alisha Boe (( #behindwitchiness: i'm not nor trying to pass as Alisha!! this account is only for #roleplay purposes. ))
(( ❥ ; #behindwitchiness: hi all! i'm new to this character but not to rp/ask.fm rp!! Khaleia is a multifandom character so everyone feel free to interact/plot a SL with her!! xo ))

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The look in those pretty blue eyes wasn't difficult to read, as soon as Katherine gaze met Damon's, she was certain; if the aim was to provoke the Salvatore, she'd hit the bulls-eye. She'd barely had time to react to his words, she had barely even processed them by the time his mouth was on hers. His hand on the back of her neck demanded the closure that Katherine's body craved and she threw her arms around his neck almost reflexively as she returned the kiss, pouring into it the lust that became the motive for her every move recently. Fingers buried into his dark hair, her teeth trapping his bottom lip, the brunette didn't even notice her back was against the wall until Damon's hand was leading hers on her own body, earning a soft moan from the doppelganger.
Damon ripped his lips from hers and she immediately missed taste of him on her tongue.
Instinctively her free hand was at his neck, pulling his face into her neck, desperately for closure. A moan slipped through her parted lips at the squeeze of her breast before she repeated the move herself, certain that Damon's hand above hers would get the challenge behind that second squeeze.
Tightly shut eyes snapped open at the sound of the elevator nearly arriving and she swiftly reached a hand to the side, barely reaching the stop button in time, smirking at her own achievement before returning her attention to Damon. Leaning back against the wall for support, the doppelganger wrapped her legs around his waist tightly, simultaneously grinding her hips into his as she held onto his shoulders, capturing his lips in yet another heated kiss.
She pulled her lips from his shortly after, maintaining the closure as she leaned her forehead against his, eyes staring into his intensely. "Bite me, Damon." She dared him under her breath, giving her invitation mere seconds to sink in before she tilted her head back, revealing more of her porcelain neck to her lover. Now wasn't it the definition of risky to have some poor maintenance guy open the elevator to find Damon fangs-deep into Katherine's neck? Maybe but logic had escaped her mind as soon she read the lust in Damon's eyes at the close of the door moments earlier. With any luck, they might manage to play it off as two newlyweds that can't keep their hands to themselves which at this point wasn't that far from the truth.

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