#chill

Every time some stupid guy comes up saying “male privilege” does not exist, I honestly feel like bitch slapping him.
We can’t chill out with friends till late because men make everything unsafe for women.
It’s so normal for men to come home after sehri during Ramzan I don’t know any women who go out with friends only for sehri.

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It’s so freaking hot these days, if you see a woman in something easy breezy, you, aunties, don’t take a minute to character assassinate them. Guys on the other hand can even be found in three quarters, in tank tops, sometimes even in shorts and it’s okay because we only bring in religion where it favours us otherwise we’re majorly into societal standards. Men can wear whatever they want.
They won’t be catcalled. They won’t be harassed because guess what? Women are not desperate.
A lot of women work and simultaneously do the domestic chores as well and it’s her “responsibility” men just work to earn and that’s good enough.

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So so so many women give up on so much just because their pathetic partner can’t stand it. Guys on the other hand, won’t even take a stand against their own shitty family members. 🙂

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I even see guys here sending all sort of shit to women and when it’s retaliated they very conveniently say “then what are you doing here?”

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The good guys being offended when the trash majority is called out? Bro you don’t even bother to stop shitty men unless and until someone close to you gets hurt.
Needles to say, I can not stand majority of men. I despise them.

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Realise yeh hua kay pyaar ko ijazat hai kay darwaza khol kay bahir chala jaye magar dosti ko naheen. In chaar diwaron ko jab mai khud pay tang hota paoun toh dost hona chahye meray pass, us mai roshni bharnay k lie.
Usay janay ka b right naheen hai. Wo chala jaye toh mano us kamray mai roshni ka wo akhri zarya, wo darwaza b ghayab hojata hai.
Hamaray kuch hisay hain jo hum alag alag logo kay saath bant'ty hai. Magar kuch yaar aesay hotay hai jo in sab hison k pechay tum kya ho, wo jantay hain. Tmharay fuck ups ko jhail sktay hain. Tmhay waqt aanay pay aaina bhi dikha sktay hain. Yeh kameenay dil hain. Aur mano aik bar chun liye thay zindagi mai, dobara naheen hoga yar humsay. Aik bar dfa hogye na life say, phir boss aesa hai kay black and white picture hai aur bina subtitle k tumhay poori umar dekhni hai. Q k ab toh rangeeniyan gayi. To smjho gayi.

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Seekhna kya hai, jab tak hain chill maro. Jab chalay jayen gay tb b kya hi ukhar lain gay hum. Baray hojayen hum toh ronay say maslay nahi sort hotay na?

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Chuyện, nay mình có hẹn đi xem phim với bồ.

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Chúng mình chốt hẹn 5 giờ rưỡi =))))) lúc mình chuẩn bị xong hết rồi, gọi bạn thì nghe ngay ra cái giọng ẻm đang ngáy ngủ luôn:

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- Alo, sao á?
- Mày mới ngủ dậy hả trời đấttt, phim chiếu 6 giờ, giờ 5 rưỡi rồi chưa thấy, cũng chill phết henn.
- Má, không để ý thời gian luôn ấy.
- Thôi, em đi tắm rửa thay đồ lẹ đi, nha.

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Đại loại cuộc nói chuyện cụa chúng mình là như thế, má ơi cũng ngon, mình sợ đi xem phim trễ rồi về kẹt xe thì ktx đóng cửa đồ, không vào được đi xin nữa sẽ ố dề lắm, vậy mà quay ra bồ mình nó vầy đây. =))))))

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Đổi kèo đợi ẻm, mình lùi lịch xem phim lại, mua vé xem 7 giờ, phim định xem là Doctor Strange nè (này mình coi rồi, nhưng mà ẻm chưa coi nên xách thân đi coi lại hê hê), nói không sồu là nói dối =)))))) kiểu thấy cũm tủi thân ghia á nhá nhá nhá nhá. Mà hoi, dễ thương nên tha thứ đóaa.

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Nói quá thành dài, nhưng mà giờ là 6 giờ 16 phút, bạn bồ chuẩn bị xong rồi, mình đi đã, lát than thở típ vạiii.

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So i’m 19 and everyone is out clubbing. I just really don’t enjoy it. I suffer with bad anxiety and i can’t think of anything worse than a loud space, dancing, being approached by people. I’m more than happy to go for drinks or food but i hate how i’m made to feel not “normal” because i don’t go out out. Is it ok that i prefer to go out when it’s quieter and more chilled. I also have a history of sexual assault so i’m very wary on drunk men and spiking ect. I’d prefer to stay away.
I feel similarly. I’m in my 30s now and did my fair share of clubbing because I enjoy dancing. I’m also male, so I have less fear attached to things like that. But now I enjoy talking and having real conversations over drinks. It’s more enjoyable and safe and it feeds my soul more. You’re just ahead of your friends. Just don’t shame them for wanting to go out and invite them to more intimate gatherings when you can. You’re good.
Some of my friends used to look at me weirdly whenever I’d say that. I’m the same age as you and honestly I hate clubbing and loud crowded spaces just because I’m a quiet person. Nothing wrong with not liking any of that. My friends don’t bother asking me anymore just because they know I feel out of place since I don’t drink or smoke. I prefer chill quiet places too
I’m much older but when I was your age I always had much older friends and all the friends that I did have (Gf, etc) always wanted to club but I was much more mature and somehow passed that phase. You ain’t missing nothing. You do you and be proud that you are saving money by not participating.
Yep! I’m 24 and I’ve been clubbing once and hated it so much. It was hard when I turned 21 (I live in the US) and it was all my friends wanted to do, but you’re not alone and you should be able to find friends who want to do things that aren’t clubbing. And if your friends do enjoy clubbing you can obviously still be friends, maybe just suggest some other activities every once in a while and communicate your concerns if it seems like clubbing is all they want to do.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. You are perfectly normal. I grew up in one of the "clubbing capitals of the world" so from age 18 to 21 I'd hit the club every week. I thought that's what I was "supposed" to be doing but never really liked it. Smelly, sweaty, drunk people all around you....also hated how girls degraded themselves for a cheap bottle.
I hate clubbing. I’m more of a sit at a bar type to eat and chat peacefully without loud music blaring directly in my delicate ears. I did try it a few times for a night-out with the girls due to a friends bad breakup but guys kept interrupting our time just dancing together. One even snuck behind me without warning and proceeded to rub himself. Like stranger please, you didn’t ask to dance and helped yourself to get handsy around my parts.

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It wasn't so much something they said, but something they did.
Okay, so story time! I was in college (just so you know, college and university are two different things in the UK) and deadline week was fast approaching. I was incredibly stressed out and at some point, I don't remember what exactly set me off, but I found myself crying in a bathroom stall.

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Not long after, my course leader found out what'd happened and called me into his office. I was expecting him to tell me I was overreacting and needed to chill out. Instead, he showed me a clip from Monty Python's The Meaning of Life, specifically the scene where Mr Creosote devours an ungodly amount of food at a restaurant, but then explodes after the waiter offers him one last bite: a wafer-thin mint.

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After the clip was over, my course leader said, "it's normal for small things to get the better of us sometimes, especially if we have stuffed ourselves full of worry already. I think, whatever upset you today, that was your 'wafter thin mint'. But you have nothing to worry about. Your work is great, you're going to do great. Now get back out there and keep doing what you do!"

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It is a memory that will always stay with me.

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