My goals are to give kindness, to seek kindness. To improve my health. To maintain my health. To endlessly pursue happiness. So on, so forth. I do not have benchmarks for specific points in my life. Life is too unpredictable for that, and charting your course based on the horizon will lead you stumbling over things directly in your path, missing the proper turn offs that seem astray that could take you around the mountain between you and your goals, or lost when the path veers you in another direction and you cannot see the horizon through the trees. I've been back and forth between many career goals, but I've recognized that regardless of my job, my primary career goal, after digging deep into my set of values, was doing a job in which I could promote my altruistic spirit (i.e., help others in some concrete manner) and satiate my thirst for knowledge and learning. This also bleeds into my hobbies and volunteering aspirations -- whatever I pursue has to honestly reflect who I am as a person and the people in that sphere need to be able to value and utilize my knowledge to its fullest extent.
I've struggled with suicidal thoughts and depression a lot in my life and thinking these things helps me not fall into those old patterns. I value persuing my curiousity and keep on learning and changing my mind about things. To cross things off my to do list. To always be striving and to forgive myself and give myself and other people/things second chances. I value building close friendship and taking care of myself and the people I love and to put my money where my mouth is and act on the things i care about. To always try again tomorrow.
Goals would be I guess to pick up hobbies and become proficient enough to be like "oh yeah, I do xyz". I'm a really chill floaty person and I realized I don't have many hobbies! So I've picked up painting (I'm pretty proud of my work!! I've painted 2 things so far!) and I'm sniffing around for other hobbies I like. When I have kids I want then to see mom do her "thing". Not sit propped up on the couch every single day. But I will be propped some days because whats life without rest? Kids should see that too. I just want to live a life full of love and activities. I want to feel the wind and taste the nasty ocean water when I swim. I want to search for nice rocks with my mom (she loves nice rocks) and keep the best ones. I want to watch the sunset with my friends and have lazy sex with my husband in the mornings. I want to pet dogs until they close their eyes and grunt in relaxation and i want to make kitties do the surprised "mrrow!" sound.