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I don't wanna write in the thread, but It's wild to me how these men don't realize that their mindset is toxic to themselves. They think crying makes them weak or less men and that will damage their mental health. They're going against themselves by having this attitude. lol

yeah, it just perpetuates stigma, and men's mental health isn't taken seriously enough to begin with.

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Ya Shalamaar me ak barg-e-zard kehta tha
Giya wo mousam-e-gul jis ka raazdar hu ma
In the Shalamar garden a yellowed leaf was saying
“Gone is that spring of which the confidante I am
Na paimaal karain mujh ko zaeeran-e-chaman
Inhi ke shakh nasheman ki yadgar hu ma
The garden’s visitors should not trample me down
The memory of the branch of their own nest I am”
Zara se patte ne betaab kar diya dil ko
Chaman me aa ke sarapa gham-e-bahar hu ma
This tiny little leaf made the heart restless
One coming into the garden complete mourner of spring I am
Khazan me mujh ko rulati ha yad-e-fasl-e-bahar
Khushi ho Eid ki kyunkar ke sougwar hu ma
In the autumn I am crying in remembrance of the spring
How can I get the happiness of Eid as griefstricken I am
Ujaar ho gye ehd-e-kuhan ke maikhane
Guzishta badah praston ki yaadgar hu ma
Devastated have become the olden days’ tavern
A memorial of the olden days’ wine drinkers I am
Payam-e-aysh-o-massarat humain sunata ha
Hilal-e-Eid hamari hansi urata ha
It gives the message of pleasure and happiness to us!
The crescent of Eid is making fun of us!
Bang-e-Dra 127
Dr Muhammad Iqbal

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Have you ever cried yourself to sleep because of something that happened that day?

Ya_7abibi’s Profile PhotoDiaa
Lately, I’ve been crying everyday because I’m finally realizing that I’m not ok with being alone and want to have people I can rely on without feeling like a burden to them. Yesterday, I went over an old friend’s house (the house of her parents which she came to visit temporarily) and even tho I’ve never really been close to her, we were always on good terms. She left after dessert was being served and didn’t bother inviting me to tag along when she was going to visit her old friends and that hurt me more than I thought it would (mostly because we didn’t talk much at the dinner table either). I would’ve contacted her to become affiliated with the college girls she happens to know of around where I live but I didn’t since it would be strange to randomly contact someone who didn’t care enough to try talking to you the day before. She’s married, has friends from her hometown as well as where she currently lives, has a job, is done with college, and goes on vacations every chance she gets so I envy her and wish it was me who was living that life, which made me even more upset than I already was. I don’t think it’s worth trying to get my parents to take me seriously when I tell them that I need new friends and really want to change my life so it’s better to cry and release the emotions I’ve been bottling up inside for too long than to argue with them and still be stuck in the same situation in the end.

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Mrym210’s Profile PhotoMrym210
“Look at you, crying whilst having all the blessings. Here I am, struggling. Not a tear drop from my eyes.
Am I really a monster? Or are you that weak?”
Liked by: Sh~ شيخة. ßHMẞ..

What was the last thing you found satisfying? 😌

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
Honestly, I watched this film last night. I was crying it was just so amazing. Literally teared up near the end, then I got to see all his beautiful art and I was so amazed that he managed to create these brilliant pictures. Please look up Louis Wain you won't be disappointed, his art was brilliant.
What was the last thing you found satisfying

> (sage) im crying right now - Kleenex or relationship? What do you like about tears? Call "Tony" if you need any sympathy or you wanna smoke some sage. Toughen up, buttercup. 🤣

Call Tony. 🤣🤣🤣
Look at this… on my answer about VIP+ 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Oh boy….
sage im crying right now  Kleenex or relationship What do you like about tears

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you don't even know what mommy issues is, stop using words you don't know the meaning of. clearly you're the one that needs therapy. get the help you need. maybe you'll learn how to love ur kids. if your parents never loved u. teen girls go to school, not get pregnant.

I'm well aware of what mommy issues ARE, stop whining in my inbox about school when you can't even form a gd sentence properly😂 I was very much loved as a child lmao & you ragging on me being a teen mom doesn't really matter. Like it was 12 years ago, get tf over it already. 30 really Isn't that far for me and you're crying over shxt that happened 12 years ago???🤡

Initial thoughts on Ariana's new album? Any standout songs? 🤩🎧

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
Ohhhhh I love it so much 🥺 I’ve been crying a couple of times already, it’s such a personal and vulnerable album of hers. The sounds take me back to 2013 instantly too. Very very emotional day haha 🥹🥹
Since it’s a concept album, I just love the whole journey it gives, but I especially love the transition from Saturn Return Interlude towards eternal sunshine and then followed by supernatural!!!
We can’t be friends is so emotional, especially the music video that just came out. I couldn’t stop crying.
https://youtu.be/KNtJGQkC-WI?si=DO4_qoN3yWSZoBtPLunarHuntress’s Video 173005498588 KNtJGQkC-WILunarHuntress’s Video 173005498588 KNtJGQkC-WI

Do you know what it feels like to be emotionally drained by someone?

messy_jessy1996’s Profile PhotoJessica
Yes, it usually happens when I’m around someone who can’t stand me so in return, I can’t stand being around them and having to absorb their negative energy as well as deal with their negative outlook of me that they make blatantly obvious every time they speak and/or look in my direction. I remember a time when I had no friends at school and someone kept giving me an attitude and moved away from me when they saw I was sitting near them… it sure felt great to know I was unwanted by not just them but the vast majority of my peers. Every time I’d come back home from school, I’d immediately feel the tension off of my shoulders being released and would sometimes find myself crying but not being able to explain why exactly that was happening. I now realize that the negativity was just weighing me down and I needed more positivity in my life, so instead of speaking up and letting my peers know that I was upset with them, I’d either bottle my feelings inside or take it out on my family once in a while (which they didn’t deserve to go through). There were a few people I liked but I never got too close to them due to my social anxiety overpowering my need to connect with others at the time.

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If emotions worked in the same way as in the movie Inside Out and each emotion was sentient, how do you think the dynamic between them would look like inside your head? Which emotion would be in charge etc.? 🤬☺️😭🤢

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
It probably would be very hectic, anxiety and stress would be the main emotion, but also crying all of a sudden and happiness too

What is your first childhood memory that you remember? Like the first thought. The very first memory of your childhood?

fasihahaha13606’s Profile Photofasihahaha
I was a student who was very fond of studying but the issue was the schooling system in our city back in KSA was not so good so I used to study at home or nearby academy. Then one day a new Philippine school inaugurated in our city. It had a great attractive curriculum so I got an admission there.
On that day my mother dressed me up well and my father took me there but the turning point was that my father told me that he will stay there with me.
Upon our arrival, I was handed to a teacher and my father turned away. Hona kiya tha I started crying and running back to him but phir samjha kar I went to class (class 1). Garam aansuon ke tapkane ke saath saath table par sar rakh kar so giya.
*Bonus: Canteen explore karne phir bhi gaya tha akele.

What is the scariest dream you have ever had? 💭 🙀 😇

redoasis2017’s Profile Photo★ ☮ ♫ 3 DAYS TO GO ▩ ♚ ☻
PL: Cóż, pamiętam, jak przyśniło mi się, że jakiś pan strz**a do jakiejś pani w opuszczonym garażu koło śmietników.
Pamiętam też sen, w którym szłam z moim płodzicielem do mojej koleżanki, gdy nagle z bloku wyskoczył jakiś typ i strz***ł do mojego starego, po czym ponownie naładował pi***let i kierując go we mnie, powiedział "A teraz zab**ę Was".
Cóż, chyba obudziłam się wtedy z płaczem... 🤔
ENG: Well, I remember having a dream that a man was sh***ing at a woman in an abandoned garage next to the garbage bins.
I also remember a dream in which I was walking with my begetter to my friend, when suddenly some guy jumped out of the building and s**t at begetter, then charged the g** again and directed it at me, saying "Now I will k*** you".
Well, I probably woke up crying back then... 🤔

What is a habit others have that you cannot bear? 😬 😇

redoasis2017’s Profile Photo★ ☮ ♫ 3 DAYS TO GO ▩ ♚ ☻
PL: Ludzie często coś mówią, nie przemyślą tego, a potem siedzę przez to po nocach i dosłownie ryczę - nie płaczę, WYJĘ po nocach.
Kiedyś mama pokazała mi jeden cytat - „Zamiast mówić, co myślisz, zacznij myśleć, co mówisz ”.
Myślę, że każdy powinien stosować się do tych słów, życie byłoby wtedy piękniejsze.
ENG: People often say something without thinking it through, and then I sit up at night and literally cry - I mean, I don't just cry, I'M CRYING MY EYES OUT at night.
My mum once showed me one quote - "Instead of saying what you think, start thinking what you say."
I think if everyone follow these words, life would be more beautiful.

Kabhi dil toh toota hoga..

S_fatik_F’s Profile Photosyed
I still remember the last time I tried to vent it out, I tried to express what I was feeling but to that someone it sounded boring, it's okay maybe people don't understand things and then call it boring but to me, that was painful and it was hell hurting.
I never liked crying, the person to whom I went and cried said to me don't cry you're brave and when I said that yes I'm trying but I need someone to talk, he left me on read, my messages delivered but he didn't choose to stay. For a while, I started believing that maybe I am hard to understand and that broke my heart. But then you know some lessons are learned the hardest way and I learned that it's not me who is hard to understand, some people don't have time and potential to understand your feelings.
Now, I try being there for people because no one tried being there for me, I try being someone's savior because no one tried being one for me.
No more I need someone, no more I want to be heard, no more I want someone to understand my silence because this silence was a loud noise once and if someone didn't get it then, how come they will get it now? I'm not saying that there is no one who will understand, maybe there will be someone who will hear that silence, who will let me cry, who will let me talk about everything going inside my head but before them it's my responsibility to be there for me, it's my responsibility to save my soul.
PS: I know some people who do listen, who do understand and I'm so so grateful to them.

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Honey life's too short to be crying or being sad. Just enjoy life, go out, have fun, party. You're young. Enjoy your youth. This is the best time of your life

I lost my grandfather (my father figure) 3 months ago, I just lost his brother Saturday, my grandmother has stage 4 cancer and is slowly getting too weak for treatment, I'm trying to find a new house by the 14th of February, I'm dealing with the medicaid office messing with my my insurance which is messing with my disability income and now someone at the SSI office messed up my income information and I'm dealing with having to get a second opinion on my knee injury because it's gotten worse. What exactly in that do I have to smile about?

Sab dukhi hain to khush kon hai 🙄

AaliyaMirza’s Profile PhotoAaliya Mirza
Yesterday night, i was a bit upset and when i was just shedding tears laying down on my bed, inside my blanket. This thought randomly came in to my mind that how easy it is for me to pass my emotions having everything. I am crying over my pain in a warm, cosy environment. I do have my loved ones. I am protected in every way, what about those kids in Palestine that are sleeping in mud water with wet clothes, lost everything, been through hell. Sometimes we think life is so unfair to us but if we look around it isn't. we are far more blessed.

How do u stay so strong when people sit n put you down on socials and make fun of u posting u 24:7? how do u do it? I don’t get it give me tips plz

Tbh I just think of the things I have and the people I have in my life and count myself lucky that’s why nobody ever sees me crying or post on any socials crying 😅

what is one thing You refuse to share?

To those person who's suffering from depression, anxiety, loneliness, and sadness, I know it's hard. I know how you keep yourself from crying every night because of the pain you're going through. But also remember that life is beautiful. Life is full of amazing things. Free yourself from the chain that has been holding you. Don't hesitate to tell someone about what you feel, I know there is someone who is really to listen all of your pain, and won't judge you. All you need is someone to talk to, to share your problems with. But also remember that God is there, ready to listen from all of your rants. God is there to save you from your battle. You are loved, prioritized, special, worthy, and wonderful. May your hearts be filled with joy. God bless you!😊

Co jest dla ciebie ważne?

Nie wiem czym sobie na to zasłużyłam, ale dostałam wydrukowaną w 3D magnetyczną paletkę z Choso na moje błyszczące pigmenty, pocztówki z SVSSS, dużo pyszności z Czech, oficjalną poduszkę z Krecikiem, pluszaka jednorożca i zdjęcia polaroidy. Jak to pięknie zostało ujęte: "Jeśli nie przyjechałaś do Czech, to Czechy przyjechały do Ciebie".
Jakby "You're not sad, you only need to go visit your long distance best friend"
I'm not crying :'3
Co jest dla ciebie ważne

Some cry with tears; others with thoughts.

mshah_real’s Profile PhotoMuddasir Shah
Have you ever experienced that transition from crying so hard during Tahajjud to just silently sitting on the prayer mat, confused about what you should utter next? So broken because all the shades of lies have fallen off. The reality and trust you had in people shattered, and the image you had of them was so artificial and non-existent.
Have you ever felt staying silent instead of saying something, holding back because you know it is of no use now? When you try genuinely from the core of your heart, but this time, you stay quiet because you realize your worth in people's lives.

What is the scariest dream you have ever had? 💭 🙀 😇

redoasis2017’s Profile Photo★ ☮ ♫ 3 DAYS TO GO ▩ ♚ ☻
Because i lived in a war for a long time in my childhood and when I was in high school..so when i was in 3rd year in university I started getting dreams about the war in my childhood in the same house.. like the soldiers are trying to attack our house and i call my father but no response then they were trying to enter to my room, at the moment when they were opening the door i was waking up shaking feeling it is real... then 2 weeks later i didn't have anything.. then i got the same dream with a new scene like the soldiers could open the door and hurt me .. then also i woke up shaking feeling it's real. Also time later i was getting other scenes.. like they were shooting everywhere on our home and i was seeing them attacking my parents ( this was the worst part) then they were shooting randomly they hurt my right arm i was trying to wake my parents up but they don't response at that time i was holding my right arm because of the pain and i was saying wish i am not alone now wish i went with my parents.. then at that time i woke up i was feeling really pain in my right arm and i was crying for real.. when i heard my parents talking i felt comfortable...
Now i can understand why childhood is so important for person's life, we can't deceive our subconscious.. even if we forget the events, our subconscious can't forget.
This situation stayed with me for years.. this year, i just see them shooting in our home. And i don't get much affected i got used.

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How does it feel to love someone who doesn’t love you back anymore?

It feels devastating at first, as if no one could really help you get out of your feelings and look at the situation positively but with time, you realize that maybe they weren’t worth crying over for so many hours after all. I saw the person that I loved and would’ve done anything for once again when we were both staying at the same place and he ended up ignoring me the whole time, which I obviously took personally. A few years after that incident, I chose to reach out to him again (online) and he ended up being cold towards me when I just wanted to be friends at that point, since he meant so much to me in the past and I thought we could at least be friends if anything. He ended up cutting ties with me again and after that, I was upset but it wasn’t something that was totally unexpected for me and shortly after that, I didn’t care about staying in touch with him and accepted that he was ok without me so I had to learn to be ok without him as well. It wouldn’t hurt much if I found out that he found someone else to be with (romantically) because I no longer have feelings for him anymore and I don’t think I could accept being his friend again, even if he changes his mind, since he’s disappointed me enough already.

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Life is all about .....?

shaider123’s Profile PhotoSyed Haider123
The first time I went to Alhuda for a short course, one of the group leads said, "May Allah choose you guys for His purpose." At that moment, I thought, "What? I want to live a balanced life, finding harmony between what I was doing and our religious teachings." I was quite naive and didn't realize she was giving me the best dua.
After two years, I aimed to go to law school, having secured a top position among students in the list. However, Allah had a different plan for me, and I had to join the Quran long course instead. After completing 15 paras, I went to my hometown and returned after a few months. Unfortunately, I didn't complete the course. Today, I feel like I deceived myself, turning towards the dunya. This feeling has been with me for the past few years when I sensed that the world is deceptive, and I must turn to Allah.
I tried many times to detach from worldly things, such as stopped posting pictures on any platform. The moment it became challenging, I deleted my pictures and social media accounts several times. In the past few months, I felt my soul was thirsty, crying for help. I consoled myself by saying, "Wait, you are following the obligations." However, I later discovered something beyond this world, true peace and the actual reason to live.
Leaving things and even thinking about leaving them wasn't easy because of the attachments, but finding Allah was something I would never have gained without letting go of everything in its way. What I gained is peace of mind. I do experience moments of sadness, but I witness miracles happening every day. I genuinely love every moment of being in love with Allah.

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