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@kandydevil is very pretty

She is but you have NO right threatening people to kill them or threaten to call the police on you for not dating you. Women have every right to say no to you. You can't force anyone in a relationship. That's bad. That's known as r*pe and abuse. Also cops won't do anything if someone refuses to date you.

Be honest what makes relationships so hard?

The second you start to respect yourself is the second your dating pool gets smaller.
People don't like it when you love yourself because that's the second when they can no longer disrespect and manipulate you. There's so many narcissistic people in this world who get away with their behavior and pray that you don't realize your worth, and that's the saddest thing. There are so many people who don't treat others like real human beings, and that's messed up. There are so many people out here who need to heal themselves but also stop with the mentality of not needing others because you do.

📍BLOOD SWEAT & TEARS - woran arbeitest du gerade?

Natürlich hat nicht alles in einen Post gepasst, daher kommt hier noch Teil II mit dem cursed content heheheh
⚡ everything cursed ⚡
Just for the funsies, hier sind ein paar meiner brain farts aufgeschrieben, aus denen wahrscheinlich nie etwas werden wird, because everything is cursed! :D
🍰 Ana Fleur | baking competition!AU
Hell yeah, ich hätte sehr viel Freude daran gehabt eine trashy Baking Competition MMFF mit euch zu machen, bei der alle teilnehmenden OC Autor*innen für jede Runde Fotos von dem Gebäck ihres OCs hätten einsenden dürfen! :D Ich wollte es sehr gossipy und funsie machen, doch ich fürchte, dass wenig Leute Lust auf diese Art von Crack haben, daher wird das wohl eher nichts :D
🌈 Bi Bi Single’s Inferno | dating show!AU
Jap, bi me hat Single’s Inferno gesehen und bei manchen Mädels dachte ich mir nur „JUST KISS EACH OTHER!!“ aber weil das immer noch Korea ist, ist das natürlich nie passiert. Also hätte ich sehr viel Freude daran, alle OCs und Pairs auf eine Insel zu werfen und meine trashy, over the top dating show!AU zu schreiben. In der Story müssen dann alle OCs bi sein (oder zumindest für die Show so tun! Bc Drama wenn rauskommt, dass sie es doch nicht sind!!), damit sie bei dieser Version Single’s Inferno mitmachen dürfen~! Alles sehr self indulgent und in meinem Kopf klingt es lustig, doch ich glaube auch hier nicht, dass es in der Umsetzung funktionieren würde :D
Soo, das wars aber für heute Abend von mir. Ich gucke mal, dass ich hoffentlich die Tage vielleicht noch 1-2 weitere Fragen beantwortet bekomme~! Oh und ich hatte kein richtiges Bild für diesen Post, daher habe ich euch einfach mal einen cuten Hyunjin mit Jiniret beigefügt~! ♡

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is it important that the future mr livi have the same religion as you? would you consider dating out of your race?

No not at all, I’m not religious so that wouldn’t be an issue. Or rather, it’s very personal and private to me. I would have an issue if someone wanted me to convert to their own religion though.
I already have done once in truth, and whilst it was mostly platonic on my end anyways and he himself wasn’t religious, his family very much were, so that was a potential roadblock that I was concerned about :)

Bruh you are so fuckin lucky to not be in the dating scene anymore. It's fucking nuts! 😩 Gimme what Gab and you have cos idk date man

Haha, me too! Dude, I am so effing happy! Words can't even describe how happy I am and that I've finally got everything I've dreamt of. I still can't believe I'm married!!! And that I get to spend the rest of my life with her — deadass could scream for how happy I am.
There really is a lot of power in waiting and focusing on yourself until God gives you that person. The power in healing and growth and learning what you truly desire. 🙌 Aid, you'll definitely get your man, I promise.

Are you on this app, Rachel? I thought we were dating on Snapant. I don't like Antbook and Antstagram. Mark Antonberg blocked me. I went on Twitter. Elant Musk blocked me there too. Why are they so mean to me, Rachel? Post some secret pictures of Mark and Elant racing each other. In jeans. -Sage

I cANT. I’ve been suspended for suspicious activity because someone keeps adding and deleting me. 🤣
I’m going to listen to some rock and roll with Anton now.
Are you on this app Rachel I thought we were dating on Snapant I dont like

Have you ever met a person who was single and wondered why they've been single for so long? Bc they are super good looking, and they seem to have decent social skills too, charisma. So what could be the issue, why would a person like that be single?

Maybe because they don't want to be in a relationship yet? Or maybe because they are waiting to find the right person? Perhaps they just aren't interested in dating? Not everyone is in a rush to date just for the sake of not being single

Was ist deiner Meinung nach das größte Problem im Bereich Dating in der heutigen Zeit?

RDXFreak’s Profile PhotoMonster
Das Konzept Dating an sich ist einfach mega weird genau so wie diese übertriebene Fixierung auf Partnersuche und die Annahme, ohne „bessere Hälfte“ nicht gut genug oder vollständig zu sein. Und dann so 6verblendet durch die Welt zu rennen, dass man jedes Lebewesen des „bevorzugten Geschlechtes“ sofort nach Bumsbarkeit abcheckt und nicht mehr in der Lage ist, auf neutraler Basis mit anderen Menschen zu agieren, sobald gewisse körperliche Gegebenheiten sind.

Do you own a camera?

alpharean’s Profile PhotoChatter Box
Not exactly. But my mother has a collection of cameras and camcorders, dating back to my grandfather's time. She used to tag along whenever he took photographs at wedding events. I had only used her Lumix camera a few times. I have tried a Canon while in a Secondary school workshop. But I have forgotten the model names.

Who’s @tiffanywoodson5077? And why does she say that she’s dating Zayn Malik? That’s creepy as hell!

She's a woman who's desperate to date and marry her one true love Zayn Malik. @PersonalZJMalik is his account. When he gets back online here (that's probably not gonna happen), he'll see all these spam messages from Tiffany, and he'll tell her to back off and he will block and report her for harassment and spam. Oh I can't WAIT til her accounts (yes, meaning more than one) are finally removed from the app. She's been stalking Zayn like a pilot fish for YEARS.

Would you have moved to a big city when you were in your 20s?

I think the ideal is being in a smaller city nearby a big metropolis. Like Cambridge / Boston, or Oakland / San Francisco. Far enough away that you don't feel crowded every time you leave the house, but you still have access to the jobs, nightlife, dating scene, etc of the big city. It's definitely overrated to pay a premium to live downtown somewhere that's super busy. Noise is constant, crime is higher, there's always some bullshit going on on the street, traffic sucks. If you're going to do it, do it while you're still young... the older you get the lower your patience for dense city living becomes. Find a mellow neighborhood with a good pub and a local bakery instead. I lived in a few larger cities in my twenties but in hindsight putting down roots in a smaller town earlier would have saved me a lot of time and money. With that said I had a lot of good experiences and gained a lot of experience working in a more competitive environment that I carried with me making the smaller city experience a breeze by comparison.
Living in a city was okay for a year or two, but afterwards I really just wanted to leave again. Too much constant stimulation, too many people, not enough nature, I couldn't stand it. I thought moving to a bigger city would help my dating and friend prospects, but if anything it was tougher because my manners and values were too different. Honestly I still can't stand city-native type people, idk what it is but 90% of the time they strike me as so weird and off putting. But I did meet my gf there (who's from the sticks herself), so that part worked out.
I moved from a small town to a bigger city a few weeks after I turned 18. Loved it, still love it, and would highly recommend giving it a shot even if for only a small amount of time. If you don’t like it, do the fun stuff and bounce after a few years. If anything you’ll appreciate your small town that much more. For me, being in the middle of it all is better than space and tranquility. But there’s not right answer and I self aware enough to know that I might not always feel that way.
Hell no, I've always hated Chicago, even the nice areas fucking suck to live there. Too much shit going on, no parking, and everyone acts like assholes. It was only a 20 minute Uber to go out and party over there anyway so its not like I missed out in my early 20s. My friends were always dragging me out to the bars and clubs at that age.
I know alot of people that do it for a social life. I had a good one while being in the burbs. Only trade off is I have to drive everywhere with the exception of some pools, a shopping area (with food, grocery stores, pharmacy, and gas in it), and woods/the river.

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Do you think someday you will get married? If you find that peace within yourself and maybe your person?

I can't predict the future, I can only talk about the present and present me is very against dating all together. People forget that people can be single and live a fulfilling life. You don't need to be with somebody, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with not wanting to be with somebody.

Have you been on dating apps before? If so what was your experience?

GlindaBells’s Profile PhotoGlinda Is Entertained
Yes and am currently. One needs to understand the experience is different from a male v female POV.
I’d say it’s a mixed bag. While not awful, it isn’t great either (especially for an avg looking man). For any queries I might send out, maybe 10% will respond. Using an app could allow me to meet someone I might otherwise never come across in my usual activities. I’m also quite observant at screening out fake profiles as well as when scammers try to communicate.
For the actual FTF meeting, there haven’t been any horror stories. Maybe a connection is made, maybe not. That’s the point of going on a date.
A man really needs to devote time/attention to make it as productive as possible.

What's something you used to believe about relationships but no longer do?

Shannon678900’s Profile PhotoShannon
I used to believe that you had to have lots of things in common - interests, hobbies, education, background etc - but actually, as long as you share the same morals and values I have found that it is better if you *don't* have too much in common. How are you ever going to learn anything new or find new experiences or challenges if you're just dating someone who's a mirror image of yourself?

Hi Ocis Ohias! Please do me a huge favor and block anf report @tiffanywoodson5077 for harassment and bullying. Sje's going around harassing an 18 year old because the 18 year old told her that she's not marrying or dating Zayn Malik. Tiffany's THAT delusional. Don't believe a word she says, please.

Jules Lexine
Hey Jules Lexine! I will be sure to do that. Thanks for letting me know. I’m sorry she’s been bullying 18 year olds.

Schreibst du lieber mit jemand der sich nicht Mühe gibt und kurze und knappe Antworten gibt oder mit jemand der sich Mühe gibt und ausführlich schreibt?

kadinamrani4’s Profile PhotoKadin
Einsilbige Antworten kann ich gar nicht ausstehen. Das ist einer der Gründe, weshalb Dating Apps für mich eine absolute Zumutung sind. Wenn man dem Gegenüber alles aus der Nase herausziehen muss, hat eine Unterhaltung für mich keinen Sinn und zeugt nicht von Interesse, weshalb ich dann auch meines verliere. Das bezieht sich auch auf andere Bereiche. Manche Freunde können mich auch schon mal dezent entnerven, wenn einfach nur ein 'Ok' als Antwort im Chat landet

Say you were gonna go on a first date with someone, how'd it ideally look like? 🍱🎡

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
I feel like I've never done the whole dating thing xD I knew my boyfriend for 2 years before we became a couple lol.
But typically we like to maybe go out, play some pool, go out for a nice meal. Or go to an arcade, then either get a take away or cook at home :3
We love making pasta dishes xD
Say you were gonna go on a first date with someone howd it ideally look like

Hast du dich schon mal in eine verheiratete Person verliebt? Was hast du getan?

Also ganz kurios das Thema ja, ich bin schon seit Jahren auf einer Dating Plattform. Und es gab mal jemanden der hat mich angeschrieben, und wollte sich auch treffen, alles schön und gut. Am Anfang war noch alles super. Aber irgendwann wurde er mir zu aufdringlich. Und hab das ganze dann unterbunden. Auf jeden Fall 3/4 Monate später. Hat er mich im Club gesehen und hat mich angesprochen. War halt schon schockierend, er hat sich dann auch entschuldigt für sein Benehmen. Und wir haben auch noch viel geredet an dem Abend. Drei Tage später habe ich ein Anruf von ihm bekommen. Und wir haben uns getroffen. Wohl gemerkt er hat mir erzählt, er ist selbstständig und wäre gerade aktuell hier in meiner Stadt. Weil er sich ein zweites Standbein aufbauen möchte. Ganz ehrlich Leute ich denke jeder hätte ihm das abgekauft. Weil er absolut seriös rüber kam. Nachdem wir an dem Abend, 7 Stunden oder so geredet haben. Uns echt gut verstanden haben, kam auf einmal eine Frau auf uns zu. Die ihn total angeschrien hat, gefühlt die ganze Welt hat sich umgedreht und uns angeschaut. Auf jeden Fall Ende des Liedes es hat sich herausgestellt, dass seine Frau ihm eine Ortungsapp aufs Handy installiert hat, er verheiratet ist mit ihr seit vier Jahren. Und drei gemeinsame Kinder hat. Und die Firma seiner Frau gehört und nicht ihm. Und dass er zu diesem Zeitpunkt wo ich mich mit ihm getroffen habe, eigentlich im Urlaub sein sollte … Von wegen Jungs Trip und so.
Hi mein Name ist Chrilita und ich hab mich mit einem verheirateten Mann getroffen, Der eine Dating Website benutzt. Ein unechtes Alter benutzt hat. Und eigentlich verheiratet war & drei Kinder hat. ☝🏻

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