#drive

Ne vůbec, naopak 😊 jak jsem napsal, nevadí mi to vůbec, jsem otevřenej čemukoliv, a nemám se za co stydět nebo cokoliv tajit… 😊 jen prostě jsem vše sepsal (dříve), takže se pak nemusíš ptát “zbytečně” a psal jsem to i pro ostatní, a taky jsem chtěl třeba inspirovat a motivovat, když má člověk třeba pocit, že je k ničemu, že to nemá v životě jednoduchý (což nemá nikdo), a že se trápit jen kvůli tomu jak člověk vypadá, jak mluví, nebo cokoliv je zbytečný… každej by měl být sám sebou a nebát se “vystoupit na světlo” ukázat světu, že se za sebe nestydí, ať je jakýkoliv! 😇🙏 na druhé strašně chápu, uzavřenost lidí (v některých ohledech, situacích), protože někteří dokážou být opravdu zlí a hnusní, a někteří neznají své hranice a meze… ale nad takovými je třeba jen “mávnout” rukou a nedělat si z toho nic a jít dál! 😊😇💪 protože většinou takoví lidi nic sami nedokázali a tak jim nezbývá nic (v jejich nudném životě) jinýho než šikanovat, posmívat, apod, ostatním lidem… (aby upoutali aspoň nějak svoji pozornost…)

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Well, considering that passion/drive for a career has been something I’ve struggled with with both of my exes now (in polar opposite ways), I think it really depends on the person and what exactly it is they’re missing. My first ex, for example, was totally fine working a minimum wage job and not really doing or trying anything to improve his career despite not being happy with the job he had. That wasn’t ok with me long term because it’s just not feasible to live working part time at a minimum wage job and I want someone who is self sufficient and at least ambitious enough to try working their way up in a company if nothing else, even if the company/job itself isn’t what they want/enjoy.

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My most recent ex was the total opposite. He started working where I am now as a foot in for his desired career and then about a year into the job was already looking at other jobs in bigger cities because this one doesn’t pay enough and doesn’t offer enough room for advancement. But he’s *too* ambitious in that now that he’s got 1 year of experience in the field he’s going for all these big time jobs at big name companies and wanting a livable wage for an entry level position in a huge city and basically is kind of like an arrogant ambitious instead of a smart ambitious. And we had talked about “settling” vs “settling down” where I had said I don’t want to spend the rest of my life moving from state to state or city to city in search of better pay every few years, especially if we’re both in a place with pay that provides a comfortable life and he had basically said he can’t promise that he won’t want to keep searching for better options elsewhere. That’s the kind of ambition that (imo) is best suited for someone who doesn’t actually want a long term SO or wants one who is malleable and doesn’t have their own dreams and ambitions.

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I think some are born with it and for others it just shows up one day. And for others yet, maybe they don’t have it because of certain extenuating circumstances. As someone who struggles with depression I know how hard it can be to find motivation or interest/passion for things and I think maybe that’s why I’m more understanding of those who maybe don’t have a passion but at least are willing to work toward something. I wouldn’t say I’m passionate about my job, but I do enjoy it and on the good days I also find it gratifying and fulfilling, so I think for me that’s a happy enough medium lol.

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So tldr: passion and drive and ambition are all great but as with everything else, to a certain degree. And lack of those can also be worked with to a certain degree, depending on how the person lacking them handles it moving forward.

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Ed Sheeran - Shivers

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https://youtu.be/Il0S8BoucSA

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I took an arrow to the heart
I never kissed a mouth that tastes like yours
Strawberries and somethin' more
Ooh yeah, I want it all
Lipstick on my guitar (ooh)
Fill up the engine, we can drive real far
Go dancin' underneath the stars
Ooh yeah, I want it all
Mm, you got me feelin' like
I wanna be that guy, I wanna kiss your eyes
I wanna drink that smile, I wanna feel like I'm
Like my soul's on fire, I wanna stay up all day and all night
Yeah, you got me singin' like
Ooh, I love it when you do it like that
And when you're close up, give me the shivers
Oh baby, you wanna dance 'til the sunlight cracks
And when they say the party's over, then we'll bring it right back
And we'll say, ooh, I love it when you do it like that
And when you're close up, give me the shivers
Oh baby, you wanna dance 'til the sunlight cracks
And when they say the party's over, then we'll bring it right back
Into the car
On the backseat in the moonlit dark
Wrap me up between your legs and arms
Ooh, I can't get enough
You know you could tear me apart (ooh)
Put me back together and take my heart
I never thought that I could love this hard
Ooh, I can't get enough
Mm, you got me feeling like

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@armendariznovoroxana7121 🍷 Holi Roxana, buen finde 🙂
Ettoo... cualquiera de las canciones que publico, lo importante es superar ese estado 😼
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MUSIC ★ CANCIONES SUELTAS ★ PARTE 7
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Evanescence - Bring me to Life
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/138246356025
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Evanescence - Everybody's Fool
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/108077797177
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Evanescence - Going Under
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/108077886777
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Evanescence - Lost in Paradise
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/141954155833
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Evanescence - My Immortal
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/108077706297
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Evarose - All The Things She Said
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/156011605561
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Evarose - Cough It Up
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/131427458873
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Evarose - Provoke Me
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/141343757113
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Eve 6 - Think Twice
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/159042941497
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Evergrey - King of Errors
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/131427695673
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Excelsis - Uechtland
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/131427857721
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Exivious - Jack Gardiner & Tom Quayle
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/152405974585
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Exorcism - Higher
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/131448994873
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Faber Drive - Second Chance
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/157857930297
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Fairyland - Eldanie Uelle
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/131449544505
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Fairyland - The Neverending Story
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/141894040633
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Fall Out Boy - Centuries
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/134162348601
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Falling In Reverse - God, If You Are Above
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/134351555129
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Falling In Reverse - The Drug In Me Is You
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/116020280889
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Fates Warning - Firefly
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/134872243257
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Fear Factory - Archetype
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/131450413369
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Feridea - Blaze of a Star
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/157116493625
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Fifth Angel - Time Will Tell
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/131450671673
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Finntroll - Solsagan
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/132408024377
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Firewind - World On Fire
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/131451006521
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Fireworks - Run, Brother
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/159580590649
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Fit For Rivals - Crash
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/133809760569
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Foo Fighters - Best Of You
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/134242550585
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Foo Fighters - The Pretender
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/130727505465
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Frank Zappa - Montana
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/127805035065
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Fuel - Bad Day
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/134230802489
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Fuel - Falls On Me
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/131451266873
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Gamma Ray - To the Metal
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/131451678521
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Garbage - Empty
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/155907745081
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Garbage - Only Happy When It Rains
https://ask.fm/salquial/answers/134229540665
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Co se spánku týče, možná bych na to ze začátku nešla přes potravinové doplňky. Než se do něčeho takového pustíš, zkus si projít všechno, co s tvým usínáním souvisí, pokud už si tak neučinil/a - někdy pomůže jíst dříve před usnutím, neskákat do postele hned po sprše, vyměnit si povlečení a tak dál. Taky je velmi fajn chodit ven dotýkat se trávy, s mozkem to dělá divy. A hrozně moc doporučuju trochu zaexperimentovat se zvukovou kulisou během usínání, vyzkoušet, jestli nefunguje mít v oušku klidné písničky, nejrůznější podcasty, co tě obsahem zas tak nezajímaj, můžeš být jeden z těch týpků, na který fungujou funky věci jako zvuky deště nebo velrybí houkání, lol.
S vyloženě potravinovými doplňky nemám mnoho zkušeností, protože mi vesměs zabere výše jmenované. Jenom ti dám ne moc povolanou radu: s melatoninem hodně opatrně, mám dojem, že se na něm ráda dělá závislost, někde bývá k dostání vyloženě na předpis. A pak radu jako bro, bavíme-li se o "nemůžu usnout, protože je mi zle", během zkouškového mi párkrát zachránil krk Kinedryl, ale určitě není dobrý ho zobat jak lentilky.
Hodně štěstí s hledáním a dobrou. <3

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Postmodernism: Understanding the Roots of Wokeness - By Adam Vicari

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You may have noticed that, especially in the last few years, western civilization, and American society generally, seems to have plunged into an abyss of insanity, depravity, and general confusion. With the introduction to concepts like “Critical Race Theory” or “Gender Theory” to the national discourse, and with words being created seemingly out of thin air, like “heteronormative,” “pan-sexual,” “non-binary,” and the prefix, ”cis-,” society has been pushed closer and closer to the edge of national disunity and societal insanity.

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The fact that men and women are now being referred to not as “male” or “female,” but “cis-male” and “cis-female” by not only professional idiots who happen to be gender studies majors or bitter middle-aged lesbian feminist college professors, but by major corporations who make the sodas you drink at barbecues or who manufactured the car you drive or even by a legendary company beloved by children for decades that was, until recently, an institution in and of itself, is an indication of just how far our society has fallen. And, indeed, “Doctor” Jill Biden’s latest speech at the “Latinx Incluxion” luncheon, in which she made a gaffe that would cause any average peon to be completely demolished and ostracized, blackballed, and character assassinated by American Pravda (CNN, MSNBC), is just the latest example of America’s collective mental breakdown.

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While all this woke nonsense and linguistic gibberish may make it sound like the people uttering these ridiculous words had a stroke, rest assured, these words are being used not by accident, or not just to be sensitive to the “feelings” of others, but to, quite literally, erase reality itself. This absurd babel did not just spontaneously emerge within the last few years, but is deeply rooted in an academic theory that has been applied to multiple disciplines since at least the 1960s, known as “postmodernism.”

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In essence, the theory of postmodernism literally rejects the ideas of objective reality and truth itself. Postmodernism was born out of the psychotic mind of radical French philosopher Jacques Derrida, who was the primary and original advocate for a line of thinking known as “deconstruction.” The goal of the Deconstructionists was to essentially blur or erase the lines between fact and fiction, reality and fantasy, and, from their perspective, there was no such thing as absolute truth, objective reality, or fundamental morality, it was all relative, subject to the interpretation of the individual and/or his social group or community. In a phrase, these lunatics spawned the idea of “living your truth.”

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(To read more select the link below)

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https://www.americanthinker.com/articles/2022/07/postmodernism_understanding_the_roots_of_wokeness.html

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When you say "out here" I assume you are referring to social networks like askfm, facebook, etc., right? In my own personal experience, askfm is a great place to meet new people and ask questions, post quotes, poems and songs; however, I am not convinced that if I was looking for love or a meaningful and loving long term relationship, I would expect to find such a thing on any social network for reasons that should be obvious. For example, would you purchase a house online, or a car or a guitar, sight unseen and without actually driving the car and sitting in the car and using all of your senses to evaluate the car? I believe most sane people with common sense, would not behave in this manner. Why?
Well there are a myriad of reasons not to take such risks.

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For example:
- Age: the person you meet on line lies about their age, gender, financial situation, weight, looks and potentially a whole host of false attributes and psychological conditions that some might call.... defects.
- Look under the hood: when I evaluate a car or a guitar, I drive it, plug it in and play it, perform a visual inspection, research it's fair market value, etc. How it this possible on social networks? It is not.
- Character: the true test of a man or woman's character can not be evaluated accurately when times are good or when texting online for 30 minutes each day. How a person handles tragedy, disease, misfortune, rejection, anger, depression, and reality can best be assessed when the person of interest is under duress and is forced to react to negative situations and make split second decisions. How is that possible when staring at a computer monitor waiting for the next alphanumeric character to arrive?

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In conclusion, I would say that it is not that anonymous people on the internet do not care, but rather they all have their own reality to live and often times social networks like askfm are merely seen a distraction and a form of entertainment. With that said, my advice is this: do not expect to find love or a soulmate when frequenting places like askfm, twitter, instagram, facebook, or whatsapp, where anonymity rules, humans manipulate, computers deceive and the person whom you are infatuated with sees you as "entertainment" or a "distraction." It is therefore reasonable to surmise that entertainment and distractions do not make for good bed fellows and certainly do not provide the strong foundation required to build a lasting, loving and genuine relationship that many of us spend our entire life searching for but never find.

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