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كيف تتعامل مع الاشخاص السلبين اللي كل كلامهم احباط وحزن

abdoulrhman’s Profile PhotoDHM
راح أجاوب من جانبين لك و لكل من يقرأ.
*إذا كانت سلبيته تأثر عليه هو و على مجرى حياته + حدود تأثيرها عليك هو الانزعاج من وضعه فقط أو تتألم على حاله لانه عزيز عليك مثلاً
وانت قادر تساعده او تحب تساعده.
فـ حاول دائماً تنمي بداخلك شوية رحمه وتفهم تجاهه، خصوصاً إذا كان كبير في السن أو تعرض لصدمه بسبب موت عزيز أو حادث أو مرض أو خساره ماديه أو يمر بأزمه نفسيه.
إنتبه لنظامه الغذائي وصحة معدته و أمعائه وتنفسه + ضروري يتعرض للشمس.
إذا عندك طولة البال الكافيه، ناقشه في أفكاره و مخاوفه بكل لطف على شكل سوالف عاديه ولاتحتقرها او تقلل من شأن الألم اللي يمر فيه! بس لاتنهي الكلام إلا وانت مدخل في ثناياه أفكار او قصص فيها تفاؤل... إلخ.
إذا كان كبير في السن حاول قد ماتقدر ماتتركه فريسه للوحده و لمتابعة الأخبار
و مافي اي داعي كل يوم و الثاني تغثونه بمشاكلكم وتفضفضون له وهو مو لاقي احد يفضفض له!
إصنع معه ذكريات جميله شاركه في الأشياء اللي يحبها.
إقترح عليه بكل لطف، تغيير معين مثلا في ستايل ملابسه او شعره او أثاث غرفته.
*أما في حال إنو الكلام يأثر عليك إنت، اما الشخص الآخر ماشيه حياته بس شغلته ينشر طاقه سلبيه
فـ إبحث في داخلك عن أسباب كون كلام هذا الشخص بالذات يأثر فيك؟ و اسحب منه هذي الصلاحيه بـ وعي و بدون تدمير للعلاقه.
هل أنت empath أو highly sensitive person ؟ إذا تأكدت من هالشيء تعلم كيف تحمي نفسك و تكون قوي من جوا
وكل ما انتبهت لضعفك وقف مع نفسك ولملم شتاتها و بترجع أقوى من قبل.

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I'm too shy to tell you how I feel... So I'll hide behind timid smiles and soft hellos... I'm afraid... If I ask you "What do you think about me?" Your reply will be... "I don't.

Yar yeh sari baatain bohat peeche reh jani hain kitne shy ho tum kitni badtamiz hun mai kiya sitam hai hum loug mar jayen gay mujhe tou samajh nahi arahi kaabul main lougon ka ban kiya raha hai iss waqt idher mujhe soch soch ke neend nai arahi tou woh kiya kar rahe hongay like can’t even imagine what there life was like and will be like aur honestly empath koi nai hun mai itni bari lekin I’m not ready for world wars and end of the world and qayamat ka zamana IM NOT READY FOR IT

Wie reagierst du in der Regel, wenn dich jemand anschreit?

Uffelmannm’s Profile PhotoSpekulatius
Entweder ich heul los, weil ich mit der Situation komplett überfordert bin und ich einfach mit zuvielen Gefühlen nicht umgehen kann. Liegt auch daran, dass ich ein fcking Empath bin.
Oder ich bin erstaunt darueber und schildere ruhig, mit Nachdruck, dass man auch in einem normalem Ton mit mir kommunizieren kann.
There's nothing in between.

"الأنسانَ قدّ يعذبُ الأنسان لمُجرد أنه يحبه" - !؟ نسبة صحة المقولة !

mariajalboone99’s Profile Photo.pop
الشخصيات اللي فيها narcissistic traits عندهم هاي المشكلة، خصيصا اذا ما كان اللي بيحبهم silent empath
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Lenne egy olyan kerdesem hogy szerinted letezik-e olyan hogy "empath" es ha igen, hogyan definialnad te szemely szerint vagy hol huznad meg a hatart hogy valaki mar az vagy csak siman egy empatikus ember.

nem ismertem a definíciót, de ezt talátam: “an empath is someone who understands the mental or emotional states of others in a way that defies conventional science and psychology. empaths have the ability to sense the feelings, thoughts, and energies of people, plants, animals, places, or objects. In addition to sensing, empaths absorb the energy of those around them. empaths often experience stress or illness if they are bombarded by too many negative emotions. empaths can also use their abilities to help others by imagining themselves in someone else’s situation and connecting with them on a deep level”
nekem három nem is feltétlenül különválasztható dolog jutott eszembe, feltételezve, hogy nincs valami substance hatása alatt az illető (és mondjuk akkora része az énjének a drogfogyasztó én, hogy magáénak tekinti tiszta állapotában is azon képességeit, amiket akkor tapasztal)
- empátia, mint spektrum: valaki egyszerűen könnyebben jön empátiás gerjedelembe, ha másokat szenvedni lát, ez olyasmi lehet szerintem, mint az alap érzelmi palettáink, ilyen szubjektív megélés. ennek oka lehet pl. egy magasabb alap arousal-szint, ami szerintem logikus is, olyan szempontból, hogy ugyanakkora ingerléssel, de magasabb alappal hamarabb jut el az illető oda, hogy neki is fájjon más szenvedése.
- gyerekek, akik úgy kényszerültek felnőni, hogy az alap elvárás egy ilyen durva walking on eggshells volt, és a túlélés érdekében folyamatosan monitorozták a környezetüket, így megtanulták, ki mikor hogyan merre
- testhatárokkal kapcsolatos vonalak elmosódása, meddig a másik érzelme/véleménye, honnantól az enyém
ez mind csak szerintem, meg csak más emberekre vonatkozóan, a többi felsorolt dologgal kapcsolatban passzolok. szerinted?

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it's hard being human and dealing with other humans. lol. XD stones are good and they can glitter on its own. xDD

Lady_Eloquent’s Profile Photoʟᴀᴅʏ ᴇʟᴏQᴜᴇɴᴄᴇ
Right?! Being an empath is too damn difficult, and most humans just aren’t worth it 🙈 Amen!! They just chill and do their thing, which is something I can get on board with 😂
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DieSarahx3’s Profile PhotoSarah
Es ist scheisse, ein Empath zu sein...
Man sieht nur Menschen, denen weh getan wird und die sich selbst zu gering schätzen, weil sie von anderen klein gehalten werden und Menschen, die eigentlich kompletter Abschaum sind, aber von anderen hoch gehalten werden, weil sie sich selber für die geilsten halten.

Empaths? For crying too much? I didn't know that's what it's called. Yeah, it is heartbreaking to discover such atrocities against animals. Pls be careful and stay safe. Where I live is fine, everything's pretty much operating normally. There are parts of Australia that's affected more though :(

akciMMicka’s Profile Photo⚜️ M i c k a ⚜️
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No, not for crying too much, but feeling what others are able to feel and add it to your own kind of pain. Well, if that's not the definition of an empath then I don't know. x'D
Then I am happy you live in a safer part!
Thank you and of course, I want you to stay safe as well.
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This is not true at all. You seem like either an empath or someone whose curiosity is so strong that it makes people feel honored by the extent you go to understand them. Maybe both.

I'd say I'm both. It's so strange but I can pickup on people's emotions even just through texts. It doesn't happen all the time but when it does it's so strong that I can physically feel it.
+1 answer in: “Your answers are very cold, devoid of any sympathy or human attributes.”

Mieser Montag: Ich hab mich nun wirklich lange zu diesem Thema distanziert aber irgendwann muss ich ja mal was dazu sagen uff... Aktuell wieder ganz großes Thema Polizeigewalt ich mag garnicht viel zu schreiben deswegen hier ein einfaches... Deine Gedanken zu dem aktuellen Vorfall George Floyd...

Werde ich mich nicht zu äußern.
Nicht nur, weil es hier nicht so ist und man es demzufolge gar nicht wirklich beurteilen kann (machen viele, aber eben sehr eindimensional und parteiisch). Sondern auch, weil es etwas ist, was außerhalb unseres Einflusses liegt.
Sich solidarisieren schön und gut
Aber was genau bringt es jetzt hier zu sagen ja bla Rassismus ist schlecht.
Ja wow, No Shit Sherlock.Es tut nichts an der Lage und hilft null. Man hat sich nur komplett unnötig mit etwas absolut selbstverständlichem zum moralischen Overlord und "besseren Menschen" ernannt.
Crap...von vorn bis hinten.
Die wenigsten, die jetzt alle, nun wo es medial herum geht, auf Blacklivesmatter machen, als hätte es für unser eigenes soziales Umfeld überhaupt irgendeine Relevanz, sind schon selbst an irgendeinem Punkt rassistisch oder voreingenommen gegenüber anderen gewesen und sind es auch jetzt noch.
Es ist absolut für die Tonne dazu etwas sagen zu müssen. Nicht WIR müssen etwas tun und was dazu sagen, sondern diejenigen die es wirklich betrifft und die da Einfluss haben.
Lächerlich hoch zehn auf jeden Stuss aufzuspringen und sich als größter Empath der Erde aufzuspielen. Das war das selbe wie bei Paris etc.
So lange du keinen fikk gibst, was DU tust und was vor deiner Nase jeden Tag passiert, musst du nicht im Internet über Themen die dich nicht betreffen versuchen dich moralisch zu erheben und selber zu glorifizieren.

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ATM, kamu tahu empath ga? Seseorang yang bisa merasakan emosional dan energi orang lain hanya dengan melihat atau bertemu sepintas orang lain. Apakah ini bisa dibilang kebetulan? Mungkinkah ini gangguan psikologis juga?

Kalau empath sebagai kemampuan membaca mental state orang seolah-olah itu paranormal, enggak, aku gak percaya.
Ketika kamu bisa baca emosi orang, itu lebih karena kamu sudah terbiasa. Kalau dia gini, maka dia lagi merasa apa dsb.
Itu mah, lebih ke kemampuan bersosialmu daripada sesuatu yang "paranormal".
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Being an empath is best as well as worst as you may be taken for a ride. That ia why the need for boundaries. 🥀👍

fragranceofsoul’s Profile PhotoNuha Sarwar
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Oh yes. A well-learned lesson of my last friendship. x'D
Being an empath is best as well as worst as you may be taken for a ride That ia
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Aik nasehat mera naam😮

Yaar, kisi ko kabhi dhoka mat dena or jhoot mat bolna, keep your intentions pure. Kabhi jhoot bol do to maafi maang k wapis achay ban jana ye mat sochna k Allah muaaf nahi krega. Try to be an Empath and be more compassionate, be realistic, optimistic and positive.
Ye Khutba mene apnay liye bhi irshaad farmaya hai.

Haha, that’s fine, sometimes it’s nice having in depth answers to things. It’s nice to see what paths that others have walked on. I too am an empath and an old soul. Also I’m a sensitive and I see and hear things I genuinely can’t explain. Difficult to get my head around it all but I’m learning

ThatRoxxieGirl’s Profile PhotoRoxxieToxxic
You'll get there. It's nice to meet someone who understands and gets it. I frequently describe myself as an old soul as well. :)
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Was ist deine Rüstung gegen die Welt, wenn du dein Zuhause verlassen musst? Nutzt du eine Talisman oder Glücksbringer? Oder hast du bestimmte Rituale oder Verhaltensweisen?

Fruhlingspfutze’s Profile PhotoLebenstänzerin
Bei mir ist es tatsächlich mein Schmuck. Immer wenn ich der Haus verlasse lege ich zwei Armbänder um und eine Kette, die jeweils zu meiner Stimmung und meinem Mindset passt. Mit verschiedenen Anhängern verbinde ich verschiedene Gefühle und Bilder und so wähle ich das, was für mich am Besten passt. Vergesse ich einmal den Schmuck, dann fühle ich mich tatsächlich nackt und etwas schutzlos.
Die Sachen helfen mir einfach mich zu konzentrieren und mich abzuschirmen. Als Empath stürmt draußen einfach zu vieles auf mich ein, zu viele Eindrücke und Stimmungen. Da ist jedes Hilfsmittel praktisch um Ordnung im Kopf zu halten. Früher habe ich ebenfalls Musik benutzt wie so viele hier, aber dadurch war ich wiederum zu sehr abgeschnitten von der Welt und dem was um mich herum passiert. Ich brauche da schon eine Balance.
Wenn ich abends wieder heim komme wird als erstes der Schmuck abgelegt, meist gefolgt von der Hose. Dann kann ich entspannen und abschalten.

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I mean yes you’re smiling but your not happy. Looks you’ve been through a lot!! Sorry for disturbing.

I mean, my grandma just died, someone i love dearly is on hospice and we help tale care of him, they have cancer. And i take care of my 98 year old grandma who has two broken ribs.
I also jave PTSD from my ex beating the shit out of me for about 3 or more years out of the 6 we were together
And other things i dont wanna talk about but yeah, im very sensitive, and im an empath so that doesnt help
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Why wouldn't you consider yourself a full empath? Just curious

Margaaria’s Profile PhotoPrincesa Margarita♡
As odd as it may seem, I believe in something so strange, I think I am the only one on this planet that believes in this, the way I do. So I hardly ever put into words, anything that I don't wish to change. To say anything is so, to brag on anything, to say something aloud, puts the kiss of death on whatever it was that was mentioned. If one says "never", within days, they are having to eat their words. An example was a friend and I, talking about the sparrows in the city, that are so car savvy, they always fly, before being hit. So we talked of it, discussed it, and we both had the same outlook. But then, on the very next day going to work, I hit 3 sparrows with my car. Simply voicing it, caused it to occur. I believe in such things, and I never try and tempt fate with my words.

How do you define a narcissist? what do you think a narcissist is like in real life? How do you deal with one?

RandAlJendi’s Profile PhotoWonderRand *:・゚☆
From where I see it, narcissists are mostly self-centered people with little empathy for others. They have an unusually high opinion of themselves—which implies they're delusional in a way. They find it hard to sympathize with others, want to see others beneath them, demean others, love being in the spotlight, think the world revolves around them, and can't stand anyone commanding them. They don't see any flaws in themselves. They are good at manipulating others as well; can frame you in any situation to make it seem like it's your fault when actually it's theirs. That's just my conception which might or might not be true.
I think they're hard to deal with, and definitely not the ideal kind of people to get into relationship with, especially if you are a polite and humble empath with self-esteem issues. If you try to call them out on their eccentric behavior you'll find your name in their hit list; they won't let a chance go by without humiliating you. Personally, I keep my distance from such people, avoid being a part of the group they're in, and offer them minimum attention.

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...despite not being involved with someone emotionally one can get hurt seeing someone's misery. But it's a totally wrong argument and that something I can't explain to you. It was about myself. And read about "empaths"

w3_Shaheer’s Profile Photoشاه أحمد شَهِيْر۔
Yup agreed! An empath choosing to or just having the ability to feel someone's pain is one thing. But a person being vulnerable and willingly letting someone else have the power to make or break him/her emotionally is a completely different story.
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i'm trying to understand her pov but i'm honestly really just. not. on her page she brings up how if someone she idolized was abxsive in the past then she'd want to know which i understand and agree with but the thing is that a lot of your followers already know this. you've clearly changed and --

-- this happened years ago. i'm still trying to give her the benefit of the doubt because that's just the annoying optimistic empath in me, but something about this just doesn't sit right. it's just so random and sudden, and I can testify that even back then, she wasn't exactly innocent either lmfao
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i've been very candid about the fact that i was toxic little fourteen year old. i don't think it's something to necessarily be ashamed of because quite frankly if i wasn't like that, i wouldn't be as empathetic and radiate the 'uwu' vibes i have now. like hell i've been so blatantly frank about it that my old fursona and the main representation of me to this day, despite NOT being my fursona, has pretty blatant ex-girlfriend which was heavily alluded to being the symbolism for her and i's relationship.
and i've said before that crypt was not a good person and that the relationship he had with connie was downright toxic and harmful, as seen in the one comic i drew to la dispute's "such small hands". this was a direct commentary on my own relationship with her.
hell scroll though the "my art"tag on my tumblr and you can see all the vent pieces i did while in that relationship. all of it is indicative of someone who felt trapped and forced, which is exactly. how. i. felt.
no party left that relationship unscathed. even blake (yes, THAT blake) retained damage from that relationship-- he lost his best friend (her) and had to deal with the fact that his boyfriend (me) was depressed beyond all belief.
lol i'm about to a one-off status rn too which idk food 4 thought :-)))))

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No anyone can have empathy. it's an empath. It says it might just be science fiction though but anyway do you know that you have that?

I have very high empathy buttt nah i’m not an empath exactly, others peoples moods affect me tho
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I wanted to be here and ask you questions but as an empath I feel such negative energy on your wall..so maybe some other time

Ask is full of negative people. I literally receive so many hating questions on daily basis. IDK what the hell is wrong with people nowadays. ?
Stay positive as much as you can. ??
You can ask whatever, if you want to. ?

People expect you to be honest with them. But when you tell them every truth, share every reality, give full focus and loyalty; they leave you. Even your own siblings are nowadays very mean. Does it mean that one has to be mean, to survive in this mean world? What is your say on this?

Ahmednorthowed’s Profile PhotoAhmed Mac
This is so true. Well, I think we should keep in mind that everyone doesn't have the heart of an empath and in fact we should feel special if we have the ability to absorb every situation of life.. If evil is going to turn you into an evil then how will you win?
Almighty holds a test for his beloved humans. The narcissistic and empathetic human beings are both the result of pain but an empath grows through it. :)

انا عندى القدرة من خلال العالم الافتراضى انى اتحكم ف اللى حواليا وف طاقتهم ممكن تكون الطريقة ايجابية او سلبية بس مش عارفة بعمل كدا ازاى وبيكون من غير قصدى واكتشفت من فترة قريبة ان ده ليه علاقة بالاسامى اقرب حاجة قريتها عن حاجة زى دى انى Empath حد سمع عن حاجة زى كدا او قريب منها؟

لا والله مبشربش الصنف ده ?
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انا عندى القدرة من خلال العالم الافتراضى انى اتحكم ف اللى حواليا وف طاقتهم ممكن تكون الطريقة ايجابية او سلبية بس مش عارفة بعمل كدا ازاى وبيكون من غير قصدى واكتشفت من فترة قريبة ان ده ليه علاقة بالاسامى اقرب حاجة قريتها عن حاجة زى دى انى Empath حد سمع عن حاجة زى كدا او قريب منها؟

يعني انت بقيت امباث خشوفلك حل

https://youtu.be/gs_muzVSjjc Listen my sweetie صباح الفل 🌷 بمناسبة إدمان القهوة 5 key life changes an empath needs to make

مش قادرة 🙈😂
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دكتوري تقريبا هو اللي هينتحر من كتر ما بيأكد ع الكلام ده .. ووالله رحت حتى لكوتش فيتنس كبير يعني وفعلا ظبط لي العادات دي بالظبط .. حتى ال mg ..مشيت شهر ونص ع العادات الصحية .. وبعدين فكست اهه بقالي شهرين مثلا 😁
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انا كنت بتعذب لما اصحى اكل ٣ بيضات .. بجد حرام .. انا اخري قهوة ومكعب دارك وخلصنا .. العادة العدلة الوحيدة اللي بتعيشني هو اني بشرب ميا بهبل ..
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وبعدين نوم بدري ايه بس .. ده التحليل بيحبك اصلا بالليل!! ويكمل ع الكوابيس
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يعني عشان اتخلص من النرجسيين لازم انام بدري وابطل قهوة وآكل بروتين ؟ .. مود دكاترة اوي .. بس خليني اجرب لما اشوف هيحلوا عني ولا لأ .. طب اعمل ايه ف جوزي ؟ ده صعب نحله عني؟ طب الاطفال اللي عندها بوادر نرجسة ؟ انها اللعنة .. سبوني اموت ف صمت مفيش فايدة 😂

sometimes I even pity the person and feel bad that they aren't liked or accepted by my fp or people I hang out with and think their existence is a waste bc of that lmao. also since im an empath ill imagine what it feels like to be rejected by my fp like them & it'll give me anxiety & make me sad

ahh, i can't imagine that. i'm not like that at all tbh, once i cut someone out they're completely gone to me & i don't even give them a second thought. they become a number to me, not necessarily a person.
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What's most important to have in common with a friend? Interests and hobbies? Life style? Similar struggles? Future goals? Core values? Political beliefs?

Interests and hobbits:
it helps if you like rodents and cats, are compassionate, write, enjoy psychology, enjoy photography, enjoy the ocean and moon, enjoy helping others, enjoy reading and are an introvert
Life style: I want more LGBTQ+ friends and friends of different cultures. Have respect for the Earth and others, including animals! Be health-conscious. Don't be dragging me to parties all the time! I will hate it and look for animals to pet! Do try to get me out of the house though. I appreciate it more than you know.
If you don't like animals, we won't vibe. Chance are it won't work out.
As far as similar struggles are concerned, it's nice to feel like you can relate but also I have my own struggles (so I prefer that you know what you want in life). My Empath self doesn't need more pain, thanks.
I would say I attract "artsy" creative types (or at least I want to!).
People who embrace being different
People who would say that they are quirky
I attract people who have known adversity
I attract people I consider emotionally strong
I attract ambitious people. at least one workaholic
I attract more liberal people probably. I am an independent.
It always works in your favor if you care about others and animals

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اعرف ازاي النرجسي من اول او تاني قعدة قبل الفاس ما تقع في الراس ? و الشخصيات المريضة او عندها نقص او متناقضة عموماً اللي يقصفو العمر دول ?

هو إنتي مبدئيًا قبل ما نتكلم محتاجة تغيري نظرتك الأول عن الناس المريضة (إللي إنتى عارفة إنهم مرضى أهو) وإللي عندهم نقص على حد قولك.. رغم إنه أسبابه ممكن تكون حرمان عاطفي شديد في الطفولة أو تعرض لتنمر وتريقة من الأصدقاء أو تعرض لتحرش واستغلال جسدي أو أو أو ___كلها تجارب زفت ووجع
الشخصيات المريضة دي ساعات هما إللي مش بيبقوا عايزيين يتعاملوا مع ناس عادية..علشان الناس العادية بيشوفوهم زي ما إنتي شايفاهم كده بالظبط
اطمني لو انتي طبيعية 100% النرجسي مش هيحبك وإنتي مش هتطيقيه من أول قعدة وهتعرفي
النرجسي بيروح يشوف واحد اتوجع زيه بس بشكل تاني ويحبه
النرجسي يوم ما بيحب واحدة بيحب
Empath
امباث يعني شخص متعاطف، حساس جدًا، شايف الجمال إللي فيه من جوة رغم الأمراض والنقص وقصف العمر
مش عارفة فهمتيني ولا لأ.. بس اطمني هتعرفيه لو انتي سوية تماما هتحسيه تنك ومغرور ومتعجرف وشايف نفسه وبيتمنظر وقليل الذوق وبيتكلم طول الوقت عن نفسه ومعندوش مشاعر وجامد
لو الفاس وقعت في الراس هتكوني في المعتاد مش سوية تماما
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why do you do tarot readings? they are not even near to what psychic powers are. Tarot reading are just a bunch of aleatory stories you tell, moreee if youre just refering to a certain zodiac that suposdly belongs to billion people with extremely diferent life styles... :/

Tarot cards are divinatory tools that allow people to connect to source and get in better touch with their intuition. People with psychic abilities will use tarot cards to guide their intuition. The cards can mean hundreds of things and you have to figure out how best to interpret them and offer guidance. And that comes intuitively.
And yeah so what it's a general reading and I say that specifically. I also say to take it with a grain of salt. But my readings will connect with whomever they're meant to connect with and that won't be everyone.
I'm also not a clairvoyant psychic. I'm an empath secondary to being a physical medium. But the tarot cards are awakening latent clairvoyant abilities.
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Would you be reluctant to engage in an intimate relationship with a person who lacks empathy or feels no remorse after having wronged you? Elaborate, please.

I would say it depends on the offense or misconduct that was committed, and also on what you mean by "empathy". But a person like that, I think would best match someone as equally apathetic. That way, they can establish a professional relationship, where less emotion is likely to become involved and they rely more on their cognitive abilities and moral ethics. Likewise, they can do the same with an empathetic person, if they will. But there's just more risk to it. Not to them, but to the empath involved.
It also seems like people are forgetting that empathy exists in three types; emotional empathy, cognitive empathy and somatic empathy. Most of the time, when a person reads/hears the word "empathy", they only think of the first one. A person can have a high form of cognitive empathy, but even though they can understand people’s emotions, it doesn’t register emotionally with them — they have no emotional empathy. However, understanding one's emotions, sometimes better than the person themselves, often comes in handy.
To answer your question, if someone I'm interested in wronged me and felt no remorse due to her lack of empathy (I'm assuming, from all three types) - I'd drop her, instantly. If I see that there is no desire to change and at the very least, having no awareness of one's actions and its implications, then forget about it. If those she fails, I'd leave her. But I don't think that I'd ever get involved with such women. They don't interest me. Besides, lack (or the absence) of empathy is always associated with psychopathy, but even psychopaths can maintain decency in relationships they consider worth it.

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Would you be reluctant to engage in an intimate relationship with a person who lacks empathy or feels no remorse after having wronged you? Elaborate, please.

I've tried to do this once and it has changed me irrevocably and made me bitter and untrusting. I'd prefer not to ever have to try dating someone like this ever again. I'm still hurting and I wonder if I'll ever truly be over what happened... I'm aware that it could have been way worse.
I was naive. I had only dated one guy before becoming involved with A (not his real name). I believed that I was devastated and heartbroken. I had only talked to him online and over the phone and he seemed nice, so one night I surprised myself and agreed to meet him. When I was in school, I saw him on weekends. We would run errands and go out to eat and the movies (he's a movie buff). Nothing out of the ordinary there, right?
A wouldn't let me say that we were dating and corrected me whenever I wrongly said so.
He was never satisfied dating just me.
He liked to look for things to accuse me of, even if it was not my fault. He never seemed to feel bad for yelling at me. Things would just get ignored and glossed over. He was never accountable for anything, if I tried saying that he did something that hurt me. Things would return to our version of "normal" (except that there never WAS an us to speak of...).
He would deflect any conversations related to feelings/my concerns about being with him. He didn't want to hear it.
I am an Empath and this probably hurt me even more because I am one.
A was/is a Narcissist, Emotionally Abusive and has Sociopathic tendencies. He has unresolved anger issues that frightened me. I couldn't predict when he's get angry. He didn't ever want to talk and resolve anything.
If someone is trying to instigate a relationship with someone like that, they need to understand that it won't be a healthy relationship and it will be fraught with arguments, misunderstandings and even sometimes violence. Psychopaths and Sociopaths are especially skilled at brainwashing and manipulation tactics. They will groom you so you are unable to recognize that you are being abused. They can cut you off from everyone and convince you that you need to be entirely codependent on them.
Love will never be enough for them, so I warn people against it.
They could hurt you and they won't care.
You could lose your life if the abuse becomes violent. A psychopath wouldn't show remorse.
You could also put your children's, family and friend's lives in danger.
Ask yourself, is any of that worth it?

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2. I've seen you post on Facebook that you do readings. How does that work? How did you get into doing that?

AmericanLass’s Profile PhotoC.
I do tarot card readings and have done for a few years now.
Basically it's the same as a face to face reading, I channel their energy when doing the reading. I pick cards for them and then send over what the cards mean, what they're saying, advice, things to avoid etc.
I've been doing them a number of years now & had a lot of local people ask me to do face to face, I was even asked to do numerous entertainment nights and my anxiety just won't let me. I wish I could, but at the same time I love how personal my readings are as opposed to on a stage where I imagine you get so much info at once and it wouldn't be something I'd cope with well.
I always had an interest in tarot cards, but had just never really thought about jumping into that side of things. I then had numerous readings off a number of different psychics and we discussed some things I could do (I'm an empath which we figured out) and was then told to get some cards I felt drawn to and just see how I went, I've had the same deck for four years they've never failed me ❤️

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Wow just wow i'm blown away by your writing skills. You should definitely write love story, i don't know what to say. You are so talented. Please when you have time and inspiration write some good love story.

it is your words that keep me going. I'm not just writing a good love story. I'm writing a series of crippling, heart-breaking tragedies.
https://youtu.be/oAu7qIRtk9gnurbzee’s Video 131576619463 oAu7qIRtk9gnurbzee’s Video 131576619463 oAu7qIRtk9g
a soul sister told me, "I am so happy about your friendship too. Such an uplifting spirit, you positivity is very vibrant. Thank you my lovely friend"
she read this, in dedication to each and every one of my soul sisters: https://ask.fm/nurbzee/answers/132772811719
"It is utterly beautiful. I shed a tear reading it. Knowing you, it is beautiful to see you figure yourself out in that way. Thank you so much for including me in this, I feel privileged."
I've made people cry just through my words alone. know that you, dear anonymous, have given me the confidence to publish the scarring thoughts that I bled when I was broken, shattered, and extremely unloveable.
if you're blown away by my writing skills then, you'd be prouder of the words that I've written now. thank you. I love you, whoever you may be. it's you. it's always been you, and every other supporter of mine who's kept this writer going.
“Highly sensitive people are too often perceived as weaklings or damaged goods. To feel intensely is not a symptom of weakness, it is the trademark of the truly alive and compassionate. It is not the empath who is broken, it is society that has become dysfunctional and emotionally disabled. There is no shame in expressing your authentic feelings. Those who are at times described as being a 'hot mess' or having 'too many issues' are the very fabric of what keeps the dream alive for a more caring, humane world. Never be ashamed to let your tears shine a light in this world.”
― Anthon St. Maarten
“But pain's like water. It finds a way to push through any seal. There's no way to stop it. Sometimes you have to let yourself sink inside of it before you can learn how to swim to the surface.”
― Katie Kacvinsky
People assume you aren’t sick
unless they see the sickness on your skin
like scars forming a map of all the ways you’re hurting.
My heart is a prison of Have you tried?s
Have you tried exercising? Have you tried eating better?
Have you tried not being sad, not being sick?
Have you tried being more like me?
Have you tried shutting up?
Yes, I have tried. Yes, I am still trying,
and yes, I am still sick.
Sometimes monsters are invisible, and
sometimes demons attack you from the inside.
Just because you cannot see the claws and the teeth
does not mean they aren’t ripping through me.
Pain does not need to be seen to be felt.
Telling me there is no problem
won’t solve the problem.
This is not how miracles are born.
This is not how sickness works.”
― Emm Roy, The First Step
image source: http://intheherenow.com/post/153642969491/stop

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Wow just wow im blown away by your writing skills You should definitely write
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Humans are pattern seeking animals and we are adept at finding patterns whether they exist or not. Do you agree?

Definitely...Also at adopting them. Make a person look for some pattern for a while and you can be sure at one point they will follow it, no matter how extreme or less likely that may seem. Same way criminal investigators go criminal. Or psychiatrists go nuts.
Take me for example. I discovered the pattern of guilt in people around me in my early teen years. This distinctive kind of internalized regret, props to evolution for developing a moral meter inside of us to keep track of our destructive urges. Of course, it's questionably functioning, but still people hold dear to it, because sometimes it's the only thing standing between a person and a terrible crime. Hypothetically.
I've never felt guilt but i learned to seek out the pattern and when and how it is expressed and my analyzes have become such a deep part of my conscience that, intentionally or not, i tend to follow suit. I manifest the feeling of guilt so well and accept with such willingless the idea that i can experience it that i naturally manage to delude myself into believing i actually feel it.
GUYS I THINK I'M A SOCIOPATH LIKE I READ ABOUT THIS IN THE "CONFESSIONS OF A SOCIOPATH" BOOK AND I RELATED SO MUCH, I RELATE TO EVERYTHING ALL THE TIME, LIKE THE IMPULSIVE CHOICES, THE SUDDEN DROPING OUT, THE..THE STUFF, IT'S LIKE MY LIFE
But then again i've been wondering...DO I RELATE BECAUSE I'M A SOCIOPATH IN DENIAL OR A HIGHLY FUNCTIONING EMPATH WHO RELATES WITH EVERYTHING HE'S PRESENTED, EVEN SOCIOPATHY? AFTER ALL THE TWO EXTREMES ARE OFTEN QUITE SIMILAR.
Also can't help but notice how this Thomas lady kind of wrote this book to make it relatable...what with all the "i was actually glad there was a word for it, that i wasn't the only one like this. it must be a similar feeling to that of people who discover for themselves that they are gay or transgendered: in their bones, they'd known it all along"...oh come on...tell a person he'd known he's something all along and he's sure as fuck going to start deluding himself he did because it makes him smarter than he is and all ppl, not just sociopaths, love the illusion of grandeur...Idk, i don't like books that "say the things you have thought of before, but did not realize it". Relatable is gross. A sense of belonging is useless.

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Its me who decides youre cute or not,not you!🙃ok?......pata nai kysy log aky hate questions send kerty rehty hain tumhy...like yaar tum ander sy itni piyari ho per..pata nai kioun i feel sad when they do this!😅(i am not a emotional person ya know)

Haider
Being empathetic is not at all bad, you're an empath maybe .-.

Sister I feel your pain... It˙s not easy for an empath in this world, but we have to make it through :) It would be nice to chill some time with you :) Regards from new guy!

A to je spet celemu asku poslano ali?
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threesomex’s Profile PhotoThreesome
(Ich glaub ich hab mein Profil öffentlich aber macht ja nix!)
"Thierry ist von seiner alleinerziehenden Mutter aufgezogen worden. In einem Alter von fünf Jahren hat er erstmals mit der Manipulation von Feuer Bekanntschaft gemacht und dabei fast sein ganzes Zuhause in Flammen aufgehen lassen. Mit Erreichen des sechsten Lebensjahres gab seine Mutter Carol ihn in diese „spezielle“ Schule, da sie selbst nicht in der Lage war, ihrem Jungen etwas im Bezug auf seine Kräfte beizubringen. Schnell hat er Gefallen am Bogenschießen gefunden und hat über die Jahre hinweg viel trainiert; letztendlich kann man sagen, dass er ein hervorragender Bogenschütze ist und sein Ziel so gut wie nie verfehlt. Die Schule ist für ihn wie ein Zuhause, in dem er jederzeit willkommen ist, den Kontakt zu seiner leiblichen Mutter hat er vor Langem abgebrochen. Aus seinem anfänglich aufsäßigen Verhalten ist er 'hinaus gewachsen', wofür seine Kräfte als Empath verantwortlich sind. Anfangs hatte er seine Probleme, mit den verschiedenen Emotionen klar zu kommen, hält sich mittlerweile gut, auch wenn es ihn viele Nerven und vorallem viel Konzentration kostet.
2015 hat er seinen Abschluss gemacht, in der Zeit davor so einiges durchgemacht, worüber er mit niemandem spricht. Es sind seine Narben, mit denen er klarkommen muss; die er akzeptieren muss. Jetzt beschäftigt er sich hauptsächlich mit seiner Musik und reist durch die Weltgeschichte.
Elementemanipulator | Empath | Bogenschütze | Irish
Vorbestraft wegen Brandstiftung und der Verursachung von Gebäudeeinsturzen."

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QOTD:💀 What's your horror tolerance 1-10? What is your favourite horror story/creepy pasta/ghost story? Do you have a favourite YouTuber who tells similar stories? If no to all of the above questions, maybe tell a scary story of your own? Just delete if not interested. (Only sent to a few I follow)

I'd say it's about a 7. I've been desensitized to a lot but I'm still grossed out by INTENSE gore (being an Empath doesn't help), I get freaked out by movies / spirits every now and then, and I still jump with less predictable or really well-developed jumpscares!
My favourite creepypasta is The Russian Sleep Experiment. My favourite real-life ghost stories tend to involve poltergeists, walk-ins, possessions and channellings, and hauntings / leftover energy of old prisons, orphanages etc.
The only YouTube channel I follow that has anything to do with creepypastas is SomeOrdinaryGamers, but I actually prefer to watch their deep Web exploration videos!
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How did you discover that you're an empath psychic apart from reading about it or being told by someone else that that's what you are?

Neither of those things happened. My primary ability is physical mediumship. I've always been more empathic than most, but after my near death experience, I began rapidly developing empathic psychic abilities, though they took a backseat to the mediumship. When interacting with living energy, my feelings stopped being my own, I was overly sensitive to everyone around me, I could see auras, I could get immediate vibes from people, etc. I knew something was going on and it was easy to put two and two together myself. My abilities were then supported by parapsychologists and other sensitives who subjected my abilities to a rigorous scientific method.
It's my secondary ability though. It's not my specialty nor my preference. I'm better with non-living energy.
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Well said! There is a deep empathy attached within you. However there lies a toxic relationship between a narcissistic and an empath. A narcissistic literally drains an empath inside. And when a empath tries to fit in the narcissistic expectations, that person is no longer the same person anymore.

AjantaMeitei’s Profile PhotoMaomee
Everybody has a story that made them change their selves, for some it's loosing something what they thought they loved and for others it's watching their world being tore down to bits. In the end we are who we want to be, what we always wanted to be.

forgive my ignorance but what exactly is a psychic medium? Are you able to ask spirits questions about anything?

No need for apologies :) A psychic-medium is a combination of two different kinds of abilities. "Psychic" is generally the catchall term for anything related to extrasensory perception, and it's not really accurate when used that way. Psychic abilities are extremely varied. You have people who use their energy as a healing force, people who pick up on emotions/feelings, people who see into the future, etc. Mediums, on the other hand, are people who are capable of communicating with the dead and non-living entities. Psychic-mediums have a combination of the two sets of abilities.
When it comes to me personally, I have three primary abilities. My strongest is my physical mediumship. I also am an empath and can do psychometry, which are both psychic abilities. My mediumship allows me to see and communicate with the dead and other paranormal entities as easily as I could communicate with you if you were standing right in front of me. So to answer your second question, yes that's kind of the gist, though it's a bit more complex in reality.

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Ще ми дефинираш ли, според твоите разбирания, понятието "непълно щастие"? Възможно ли е да сме щастливи само наполовина?

MilaUzunova’s Profile PhotoHyouka.
Ще го погледна от друга страна.
Не мисля, че е възможно човек да бъде напълно щастлив.
Звучи песимистично и негативно, но реално погледнато можеш ли да кажеш, че пълно щастие съществува, когато знаеш, че и пълно добро не съществува?
Винаги ще ги има онези фактори, извън преградите на твоите собствени драми и болежки. И колкото и да ми се обясняват как щастието ни не зависи от външни условия, аз ще си го кажа направо - THAT'S AN ABSOLUTE BS. И напълно преизпълен с щастие и късмет да е животът ми, ако в живота на мой приятел се случи нещастие, аз ще тъжа с него. Ако видя нещо сърцераздирателно по улицата, например бездомния мъж с божествения глас, покрай когото минавам всеки път, когато отивам към S-Bahn-а, разбира се, че ще се почувствам зле, нещастна, ще почувствам тежестта на несправедливостта в живота и ще се възмутя от случващото се по света. Не мога да изпитвам пълно щастие. Не мисля, че някой може. Не и докато има близки хора, за които го е грижа. Чувствам чуждата болка като моя. Плача много често и повечето пъти не за моя тежест, а за нечия друга... I guess that's what it's like to be an empath lol
Та.. не е като да сме щастливи наполовина... по-скоро просто не можем да възспрем емпатията и желанието да помогнем и така несъзнателно загърбваме щастието си и тъжим заедно с човекът, нуждаещ се от разбирането и утехата ни.

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Ще ми дефинираш ли според твоите разбирания  понятието непълно щастие Възможно

What's you Myers Briggs personality type? Could you also explain your type it a bit in case somebody doesn't know what it stands for?

My Myers Briggs personality type is INFP.
Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, and Perceiving.
"The Healers", "The Idealists", and of course, "The Dreamers".
People with the INFP personality are the types that keep a low profile, well, I wouldn't say it like that. We are the kind of people that like to keep to ourselves, and observe people's conversations more than involving ourselves in them. We don't exactly hang out with a lot of people at once, and we prefer small groups of friends. Not every person with the INFP personality is the same as I, but I'm describing it more from my point of view. We're really good at helping others with emotional needs, following with giving advice. Having an INFP friend is very beneficial. They're your friend, and they're also kinda your therapist. Me being an Empath also brings a lot of people in when they're in need of an ear.
There are though, a lot of stereotypes about the INFP personality that I don't find nice at all. We're apparently very "needy, clingy, annoying, persistent", etc.. Uh no. That's not the case at all. If you had an experience with an INFP, then I guess I can get where you're coming from, BUT - that doesn't mean that the next INFP you meet is going to be the same. Everybody is different in their own unique way and assuming the same personality type is going to be another shit face is not something you should do until you take the time to get to know them. :')
I'm very gentle, and caring. But woah ho ho, don't get me angry. I will be the worst person in the world for quite some time. I have a very bad reaction to negative people and to ignorant souls so please make sure you're aware of this now before you get me angry. But nowadays, it takes a lot to get me angry so it's all good! I am defensive, but I have the right to be. I sense bullshit like there's no tomorrow. Don't lie to me, or attempt to hide something from me because I will know you're full of donkey shit. :')
I think this is enough information for everyone that's interested.

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Whats you Myers Briggs personality type Could you also explain your type it a

¿hace falta la empatía para estar con alguien o todo depende que tan tolerantes, generosos y amistosos seamos?

cuervogris18’s Profile PhotoVoDkA23
La empatia no es algo aisladamente necesario solo para "Estar con alguien" sea en el sentido de relacion amorosa o de cualquier tipo de relacion, es necesario y util para absolutamente todo contacto con cualquier otro ser , este sea humano o no
Si de tolerantes hablamos, obviamente la tolerancia es una virtud , pero la tolerancia en exceso se vuelve una suerte de "Aguante" una manera de "Soportar" y por lo menos yo no podria vivir "Soportando" todo el tiempo, para mi las cosas simplemente no funcionan asi , no ando muy alrededor de lo que no me siento agusto .
La generosidad es buena y sobre todo si viene de ambas partes.
Lo amistoso no quiere decir que ambas partes esten dispuestas a serlo , basicamente no importa que tan amistoso sea una de las partes , ni ambas ...A falta de empatia si estas no congenian, nunca se acercan. La empatia esta por sobretodo esto, es basico , es la base de todo contacto.
Being an empath is both a blessing and a curse.

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hace falta la empatía para estar con alguien o todo depende que tan tolerantes

and what if they are wrong? that is not your information, they don't throw it around so what is your right to? also (this is true) according to scientists if we went to war with another dimension of ourselves, we would all die and turn into gamma rays, I think the real truth hides halfway

tbh though There theories are proven. your the only one telling me there not. I think I have perception. I've been a lightworker, activist and researched most of my life. so tbh the only truth is that maybe over some time religions been fucked to fuck us up? considering its all corporations and such now. its either believe my sabbath or go yo hell. well fuck them in my opinion. i'll link you something the now.
I'm mainly spiritual. but science works with it.
please do some research into conspiracy (just because it named one doesn't make it less untrue) and Propaganda inside religion and such
http://thespiritscience.net/2015/06/07/6-differences-between-religion-and-spirituality/
basically. my whole point is I've learned how to distinguish the truth in reality and astral planes. Therefore feel truth.
I am an empath and a conduit of energy frequency and vibration (Like us all) and to experience TRUE truth and equality etc. we need to DESOLATE ALL DIVISION

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