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why does an 18 year old have a curfew? should i be fighting for a later time or is it not worth it?

I suspect the whole “you’re living under my roof, my rules “ thing kind of applies. Honestly good luck and remember as daunting as it can be, moving out might be something to think about

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أنا مُمتن لـ........؟!🖤

- I am so grateful to my mother. Even we are fighting, she forgets all about it in one min and we continue talking like nothing happened. She is always around for me, I under-estimated our relationship in the past, and in everyday I wake up I am glad she is here. Her voice makes me so comfortable. I love her so much.
- I am so grateful to my dad, we went through some ups and downs and I am so stubborn and I guess he doesn't like that about me, but he is always proud of me. He literally treats me like a Pearl and he appreciates all of my work and he is always proud and surprised with my mind. I am his little girl after all abd he is a great man. He really is.
- I am so grateful to my bestfriend. Like Cristina, if I killed someone and needed help to bury them at 4 a.m, my bestfriend would be that one to call. I guess if we mix kindness, smartness, support, intelligence, loyalty and honesty it would be this person.
- I am so grateful to my cats, they are making my life much better.
- I am so grateful to my room, books, science, songs, movies, series and YouTube.

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Tita paano po ba ihandle yung pain of break-up from a long term rel, iyak na ako ng iyak and it has been months but nasa grieving process parin ako habang yung ex ko naghahanap na ng bago. Pabalik balik nalang po lagi yung sakit, parang never-ending. 😔

So sorry your grieving process is taking a long time. I wish I could suggest a shortcut. Maybe that's also why some people try to distract themselves with dating right away, kaso that's just going to cause complications if you're really not over the breakup. I like to think of the loss of breakups as the same as losing someone to death. The pain is unbearable and it will be there for life but you accept it because there's no other choice. It's the same as breakups but the problem is compounded because you are watching the other person move on without you. I would suggest disconnecting from your ex so you're not an audience to their recovery. Make sure you take care of yourself by eating well and getting enough sleep. The day will come when you will wake up and see what else is there outside your grief. The rest of the world is waiting for you to re-engage. Until then accept grief as a lifetime companion so you can stop spending energy in fighting it.

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Have you ever been afraid to fight someone?

Nah. Today, I jumped into a class fight in which I wasn't even involved in because I am a dumbfk and a smart-ass who forget that she has a presentation tomorrow and the people she's fighting with can literally destroy her with their questions so ya nope neva afraid

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How do you keep from feeling like life is beating you down?

Life isn't fair, but that is a comfort if you think about it. If life were fair. If there were some grand design behind everything, that means that you deserve the bad that happens to you. That kid with cancer at age 2 who died knowinf nothing but agony was deserving of that punishment. Life isn't fair. Sometimes good goes unrewarded. Evil goes unpunished. But somehow, humanity made it to the moon. Sent a machine past the farthest planet in our solar system. We love, we live. We lose. That's all okay. All of it. Because it means we get to choose what we value. And there is a lot to value in life. Life isn't beating you down. That's you. Trying to ignore endless wonders. Take your eyes. Remove them from the ground, and look instead past the horizon. You can't actually see it. But you can move. So, my internet stranger, walk past the horizon, see beauty. See wonder. And life will suddenly seem so much more awesome inspiring. Whenever I'm feeling like I just want to bury my head in the pillows and sleep all day, whenever I'm feeling like the hugest loser for sleeping all day, whenever I just say "Fuck it" and eat a slice of Swiss cheese for lunch, I take a nice long hot shower. Think about how lucky I am to have cheese AND hot water! Then, I make an appointment with my psychiatrist for my lexapro refills.
The moment you accept that life IS beating you down is the moment you'll be able to overcome it. Life has a way of making everything a challenge. But it's up to us to play this game and win. Sometimes we see people and say "life seems to easy for them." And it might look like that on the outside but even those people go through times when they feel trapped, out of control, or uncertain. Walk tall. Force yourself to look in the mirror and analyze yourself. KNOW that b/c it's YOU you're seeing that it's in YOUR hands to be able to fix anything you wish. You have all the power. You absolutely have the skills, the knowledge, and the resolve to come out on top. You have complete control and no fate or other indeterminate factor can alter that. Granted, sometimes people have misfortunes. Illness, sudden expenses, etc. But that doesn't mean you have to stop fighting. Nothing is set in stone. You never accept what's handed to you if you still have the energy to at least attempt change.
I'm 55 years old. I've been through the worst tines of my life in the past 7 years. I won't go into detail, but it's been bad. What I do is always think others have it worse than me. I read stories or watch the news and actually feel better about myself. So just think, it could be worse!
My job makes me severely depressed. I deal with this by devoting my time away from work to my hobbies. Sure, it makes an annoying cycle of growing depression and sudden relief, but I'm surviving at least.

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Hey Máire! Hope you're okay! Sorry for the delay in getting back to you! How was your weekend? I told you that we would beat Arsenal. They play so open it makes it far too easy for our front 3. So unlucky for the toon but they showed a fighting spirit! And thank you so much for all of those coins! X

darrenearl45’s Profile PhotoDarren
I'm great ty Darren,
few bevvies at the wedding lol
yeah my relis were really surprised to be beat 4-0 n
they giving it large about Klopp lol
Toon defending is a joke tbh and needs to be addressed asap
your welcome lol
I love rewarding answers I like
that is how i got to know you
it was an answer about Blackpool I think

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ชมเราหน่อยได้ไหมคะ เราชอบวาดรูปมาก แต่ก็วาดไม่เก่ง วาดรูปเป็นสิ่งเดียวที่ทำได้ พอทำไม่ได้ตามที่หวังมันรู้สึกแย่มากเลย แง //ไม่ใช่เราไม่พยายามนะคะ แต่อยากมีคนชมบ้างค่ะ เราวาดเอง ดูเองคนเดียวมาตลอด คิดว่าผลงานตัวเองยังไม่ดีพอ T-T

คุณเก่งมากๆอยู่แล้วครับ ถ้าชอบก็ทำต่อไปให้สุดแรงเลยนะครับ ผลงานที่ทำออกมามันจะพลาดบ้างผิดบ้างก็เป็นบทเรียนในการสอนตัวเองครับ ค่อยๆฝึกค่อยๆแก้กันไป ต่อไปนี้ก็ไม่ต้องดูคนเดียวแล้วนะครับ ผมจะรอดูผลงานของคุณทุกเมื่อเลย มั่นใจเอาไว้นะครับคุณคนเก่ง fighting and have a nice day na💖

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Look..it's called don't let the good cop find out what bad cop did anon..let's go Sorell..

VoidOfEmptiness’s Profile PhotoSilver
G-go where!? You n-need those IVs o-or you'll be a ghost again! C-can't we s-stay here? J-just stop fighting with m-mom please! He did n-nothing wrong! *Sorell then hugshis brother from behind* I l-love this family..! Don't make us l-leave our home! Silver..p-please make up with mom..! I know your doing this c-cause you love everyone t-too! You don't want them hurt f-from hearing everything..! Your n-not bad..even when you try to be..

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What are your biggest regrets in life?

When I was in the Army I got accepted into the biomedical program at the University of Washington. My girlfriend at the time talked me into going back to Michigan for the summer, my plan was to head straight to Washington and get settled and she was going to join me after a month or so. Well I went to Michigan. Then she talked me into putting it off for a semester which I did. Then she dumped me for another guy. Well here I am in Michigan still, now going to a community college. Fucking women will ruin your life if you let them.
This is for the dads out there. When my kids were little I went through this weird selfish stage (the reason isn't important) which as a result I missed several of their birthday parties. Blew it off at the time but years later it started to really bother me. They usually went to one specific pizza / gaming place, and I can't drive past it now without feeling regret.
Not meeting someone I met on-line that could very well have changed my life. He's well known in his genre of books, but I was hesitant because of a couple of things that seem rather silly and petty now. Couple of months ago I had another opportunity to meet him face to face, I was embarrassed to approach his table because of our on-line relationship (it became sexual). I regret that I cannot be a fan on his FB page and interact with fellow fans, I'm so embarrassed by what we did.
Not changing my major to something else when I came home from college to a community college. tl;dr I had a nervous breakdown at a small Catholic college because it was cultish and I didn't fit it. I also was an education major and went with it in community college until I transferred to another college and saw designing lesson plans was not for me.
Six years ago I broke up with a long time girlfriend, she was coming out of a severe deppression due to the death of her parents in a car accident, we were fighting one night, I don't even remember why, I just remember it was a stupid meaningless fight. It was 2 am, she told me she never wanted to see me again, then grabbed her keys to her motorbike and left. She was drunk too, She drove out to the beach and drowned herself. I still know I could have and should have stopped her.
This is probably going to sound like a petty first-word problem, but I have huge regrets about not accepting my admission to the Naval Academy. I was already enlisted in the Marine Corps at the time and the thought of signing away 10 more years of my life scared me away at the last minute.
I ended up finishing my enlisted contract and going to an Ivy League college, so it's not like it had any negative effect on my life, but I still regret it a lot and get really jealous every time a new class starts their plebe year. By now I'm too old to attend, even if I wanted to.

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ขอกลจ.หน่อยได้ไหมคะ มันแปลกๆไหมอ่า เราไม่กล้าขอแต่อยากได้สักคนมาพูดให้เรารู้สึกดีขึ้นหน่อยมันแย่ในหลายๆเรื่องเลย แค่คำว่าสู้ๆก็ได้ค่ะ ฮรือ

nananamkhing’s Profile PhotoNamkhing.
ไม่แปลกเลยครับ เธอเก่งมากๆอาจจะเก่งกว่าเธอในเมื่อวานแล้วก็ได้ เพราะงั้นอย่ายอมแพ้นะ fighting krub!💪💕 เป็นกำลังใจให้ครับ

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╱⠀⠀KIARA⠀⠀×⠀⠀LYDIA⠀⠀⊰ https://ask.fm/surfingpogue/answers/169668708235

surfingpogue’s Profile Photo— KIARA.
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⠀⠀for the first time, the banshee agreed with Kiara's words. It was way better that they parted ways. Kooks on one side and Pogues on the other... But Rafe was definitely in the mood for chaos and fights, && he knew how easy JJ was to get pissed off.⠀ ❝Rafe. ENOUGH.❞⠀ Lydia tried to control her friend, but he wouldn't listen. Before she could even notice, a new kook vs pogues battle had started. She, however, tried to stand behind, watching the scene, yelling them to stop.⠀ ❝Can you please stop acting like kids?❞⠀ she kept telling. Luckily, Kiara seemed to think exactly like her.
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⠀⠀following her feminine instinct, Lydia softly grabbed Kiara by the arm and pulled her away from the boys who were resorting to violence while fighting.⠀ ❝this is why us, girls, are smarter than those neanderthals❞⠀ the strawberry blonde mumbled to Kie, standing a few meters away from all their friends. Watching that scene, anyone who didn't know both girls would have probably thought Kiara and Lydia were good friends.
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⠀⠀all of a sudden, something changed for the red-haired banshee. Wide-open eyes stared around, her head moving from one side to the other in despair. The VOICES. They were back. Her banshee powers were taking control over her, once more. ━━ Without even warning the Pogue female, who was by her side, Lydia began walking, following the voices. She had a strange sensation. An urge to find the place those voices came from, even if she knew that they were beyond this world.

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В чём отличия ufs mma и wwe?

matvei_brodel’s Profile PhotoMatvey Beresnev
Правильно писать не UFS, а UFC - Ultimate Fighting Championship (Абсолютный Боевой чемпионат). Эта спортивная организация в Штатах, она занимается организацией настоящих боев по единоборству.
WWE - World Wrestling Entertainment (мировое или всемирное развлечение по борьбе) занимается организацией постановочных матчей по борьбе по всему миру, это как шоу, где все распланировано в угоду публике.

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Would you feel empathy for the bitter person if you could see their past?

paradiseeve5’s Profile PhotoDuaa.
Yes I can as long as their bitterness doesn’t destroy life of someone else. There’s no ounce of empathy in me for the other person who is harmful to someone just because they had a weaker past. I know life’s tough but we all are fighting our battles, respect and understand each other rather than torturing someone. Don’t fall to the lowest possible version of being a human.

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What's your field of work. ? Kia ap apni pasand ka kam kar rahe ?

Can we talk about elden ring’s gameplay reveal? Miyazaki and fromsoftware really outdid themselves this time. Making an independent dark souls sequel with a dose of bloodborne and sekiro is ethereal. AND OMFG THE SOUNDTRACK WHILE FIGHTING GODRICK THE GOLDEN??? YUKA KITAMURA CAN YOU PLEASE STOP BEING SUCH A GOD EVERY SINGLE TIME

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Tita i really thought i was over my ex. Just a few days ago, something reminded me of her and all the memories came back. Hayyy its been 3 yrs tita, i thought i would be over this na.

When you truly love someone, you will love them for the rest of your life. In time you will see the memory as something positive, a reminder of your ability to love and be loved. It won't be painful anymore especially when you've found new loves and happiness after your loss. Learn to welcome the memory instead of fighting it and thinking of it as a defeat. It was a victory, as all love is. To love for an hour and failed is better than never having loved at all.

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Mistletoe is supposed to make sure everyone gets along! You and Blue won't be fighting if you both end up under it! *Mod is facepalming* but let's get you untangled first so we can fix the tree without anything happening! *Red then starts untangling the shade*

PyromaniaRed’s Profile PhotoRed Link
"Red drop the innocent act, you set it up last year so Blue had to kiss Green, though I'm not complaining as much about you tricking me into standing under it when Vio walked in."
*Red does have a devious streak when it comes to shipping*

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Mistletoe is supposed to make sure everyone gets along You and Blue wont be

الوقت واشوية حكي 🤍

When I ask myself about something that makes me feel optimistic and pushes me to be positive I always remember that gifts that allah has bestowed upon me when I know that I really don’t deserve them,but allah gave me such gifts to show his mercy , so I keep myself strong enough because I know that there’s someone who cares about me and I had been given such chances to go and make changes, that requires fighting firmly upon all conditions, and the reason behind my creation that I must maiming to better myself in every single field that allah will be pleased with me in order to have the soul of grace which will build my legacy after I pass away from this world… .💚
#bessan

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What was the lowest point in your life? When you're at a low point in your life, what do you do to get out of it? How did you recover from the lowest point in your life?

I'm currently at my lowest point. I'm 31, I have no education and I'm currently unemployed. I can't afford to go to work and school at the same time, so I'm struggling to find a job worth working and it is hard when you're also fighting a battle with apathy and self loathing. Especially so when you have no experience outside of customer service and retail and you have no desire to go back and no aptitude for the trades.
After I graduated high school I was messing around with cocaine and other pharmaceutical drugs. I went as far as smoking crack or cocaine in a blunt. We would call them wu bangers. Ive sold pounds of weed, taken acid, hooked up with random girls, and watch friends do heroin. I was hanging with people I didn't like, I lost some sort of connection with people I loved and one of my bests friends got hooked into heroin. That went on for about a year or more.
Lowest point was around my 1st or 2nd year in community college. No direction, felt like I couldn't do computer science because friend said its hard and I wouldn't be able to do it. I literally wasted time and stuff just doing w/e and felt depressed and suicidal. Was talking to different friend about what I'm doing one night and he told me I was a pussy for thinking of suicide, which I was planning to do after that semester. I was completely lost and only started recovering when I told my brothers and my dad. Went to therapy and gave myself a 2nd chance at computer science which was enjoyable. Currently doing cis at a college where I transferred to.
My lowest point was January 2015. I was stuck in an abusive relationship with a man who I was supporting financially and mentally (he was extremely depressed and used his depression as an excuse for when he abused me). I had a job opportunity in my home town, which I jumped at because it was much better money (just meant I'd be working fly in fly out). The day I flew out the man I'd been seeing tried to guilt me into staying because he didn't think he could cope without me. I stayed strong and got on the flight.
Obviously I had to go through the tremendous heartbreak and the anger and the sorrow, but the worst part about those first few months after the breakup was the confusion. She didn't tell me anything substantial the day we broke up, and she insisted not to talk about her reasoning afterwards. So I lived in a constant state of mind asking myself over and over: How could this have happened? Didn't she love me? How could I be replaced so easily? Why would she want this? What does she have now that she didn't before? Am I not good enough? Why would she hurt me so much? Why wouldn't she be open with me? Who the fuck is the guy she's dating now and why have I never heard of him before?

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People who are relatively successful/high achievers, what is your secret? What is the driving force behind whatever propelled you to the top ahead of others?

You only see them on the surface but don’t consider all the hard work that goes on behind the scenes. The answer is endless hours of hard work. I had come over challenges by myself, had people worth fighting for, and my inspiration was always changing or shifting making me move only a little closer each time to my ultimate goal.
I read books. Often, and for fun. My high-achieving friends do the same. Having a serious work ethic also helped. I got what I earned.
I don't view things as ahead or above anybody, I work with people. There's no secret, I worked hard for a long time and things began to change in direction and stuff. I care about what I do and people and all that, but really I 'just do' and don't actually know why and I don't load stuff up in thinking about different things either because to me what's most ideal is when I'm unaware of either consequences or stuff. I'm aware of both now. Tons of hard work like others have said. There isn’t a cheat code to being successful. Always wanting to improve yourself is a great start.
A lot of stress...and by a lot I mean not eating for 12 hours and when you finally relise you haven't, your in a lot of pain. But it comes and goes.
I had been living in Seattle for about 12 years, the commercial photo studio I was working at lost its biggest contract and went under, my rent was going to be raised to $925/month for a super efficiency studio, my dating life was dead in the water and I hardly saw any of my friends anymore. So I packed what would fit in the trunk of my shitty Chevy Lumina, sold whatever didn't and went to work at a ski lodge in Utah for the winter. Been cruising around the country working different jobs in different places ever since.
Perfect question for me. Got misdiagnosed and had a slew of terrible therapists, all before I was 18. Went into the mental health field, specializing in mood disorders and medication management, so that I could provide the kind of support I wish/needed when I was younger.

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*redo* *Nova instead soars forward, allowing Geha to slash her across the front with her scythe but the hybrid just catches @ReaperInTraining instead and lands placing the smol on the ground. She stumbles to her knees from the injury at that point*

onryotatarigami’s Profile PhotoNova
..What in the--!? *Geha just stares at Nova afterwards, she's genuinely surprised for once, usually she fakes her emotions* ..W h y d i d y o u s a v e h e r . . ? I don't understand.. ..*the psychotic kid then rushes over to Shino and unlike normal people who would quit fighting at this point..she throws her scythe at Nova while she's down*

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How do you view life?

H2o_o2H’s Profile Photoᴀʀᴄʜɪᴇ
Life is an opportunity you get once. Don't waste it by thinking of the end. Live, love, and occasionally hate. Take calculated risks. Treat others well. If you are strong, help the weak. If you are weak, strive to be strong but know when to accept help. But by all means, live. No one can tell you what is around the corner in life or death.
I simply think that we think too much about things we should not/ need not to think about, and should just NOT THINK about most things and simply do life. just relax and try to have fun, it's the only thing you'll ever do anyways.
Life is pain and anybody telling you different is trying to sell you something. We struggle through life in a mad scramble to accumulate all we can with things we don't need and useless motives for them. But the idea of life is to enjoy the journey because the destination is not what it's about. We define our happiness from the knowledge of our painful experiences. Without pain, there can be no happiness. The small lackluster challenges that we face each day give us an opportunity to make the most of our pains by showing us that there can be happiness also. So enjoy the ride because there's only sure thing in life, no one gets out alive.
Teens are hard. Gets easier as you are in 20-30’s. Late 30’s is hella hard. People cheat mid life crisis. People let you down or walk all over you. Parents, siblings die sometimes. You start getting tired of fighting life everyday. Just get tired inside. Hard time with grief. Life only has whatever meaning you give it. I think in life you just find your own meaning over and over again as life throws you hardballs. It’s up to you to find life again and again. Sometimes it’s exhausting and sometimes it’s wonderful. Be good and kind to people. But don’t let them walk on you. Don’t always be so busy doing the right good thing that you don’t take care of yourself because in the end the only person that exists or has ever existed is yourself.
That we even have the diversity on this rock to include animals like humans is pretty great. And here we are, the ridiculously lucky few of that species that has both the biological power and the freedom to look back on everything around us and go "woah". We make music, we make food for taste, we can feel the wind and appreciate it as something wonderful.
We're so lucky to be here and even wonder about all of this. I'm 37 and I seem to be having this appreciation of things more and more often as I get older. I think it’s pretty dope. I might not have everything, be constantly happy, etc., but I do think life is amazing. Going out in nature makes me realIze just how beautiful this world is.

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Life is all about..........?

muntahazahra72’s Profile PhotoMuntaha_zahra
Life is all about letting it go feeling free and happy not looking back at the mistakes we made years ago just to get sadden by it, letting your heart not getting filled with hearted moving on to better, changing yourself to be a better person for people around you and for yourself eat well enjoy the views of nature while you can no one knows how much time we got so why waste it on being sad fighting and
Being controlled by our past experiences.

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Hello there, wanna ask for your opinion of not telling the truth about someone’s cooking even though the meals are bad. What do you think about this?

Before you open your mouth and say anything ask yourself the following questions:
- Is this a battle worth fighting for?
- Is what I am about to say going to change anything or make this world a better place to live in?
If the answer to both questions is yes, then proceed to insult and offend the cook who spent hours preparing a meal just for you. Good Luck.

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If you want to hurt me Geha, I don't blame you. I should have been there for you, even being unable to remember you, I'm still your mom. You didn't deserve what you went through. If it helps, you can attack me, I won't fight back, not against my own kid

DontcallmeSans’s Profile PhotoGeno
*Geha then raises her scythe but with her injuries, it falls right out of her hands, landing on the ground beside her* ..W-what is with you..!? Are you asking to die..!? The other one had no problem fighting me! *she then shut her eye sockets* this isn't how this works! You can't just come in here and be like this!

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How would you know if it’s worth fighting for?

By asking yourself every once in a while ‘is this what I want?’
Does that thing or person make you feel good, safe, challenged (in a good way)? Or are there unavoidable things that will become a bigger deal in the future?
If this is what you want and if it makes you feel good, then it’s worth fighting for in my opinion!

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انا مستهالش خالص يا بشمهندس انى ادخل فى علاقه مستاهلش انى اتحب

(( .. لقد عبرت محيطات لأجل أشخاص، لم يعبروا الشارع لأجلي .. ))
... مفيش حد فينا معندوش مشاكل ... ساعات المشاكل بتبقي شخصية زي (ماضي الانسان ، ظروفه نفسية او صحية .. إلخ .) او مشاكل في حاجات محيطة بالشخص زي ( أسرته ، طبيعة شغله .. إلخ .) ... و اللي بيوصلنا إن مفيش حد كامل او مثالي ..
... فيه بقي بعض الشخصيات بتتعامل مع طبيعتها الغير مثالية ديه انها مبرر لعدم استحقاقيتهم للحب !! .. قال ايه ؟! حيكونوا عبء علي الناس اللي بيحبوهم !! .. و مش بيدركوا ان هو ده اصلا الحب ! ان الانسان يشوف الغير كامل كامل بعيون المحبة و الرحمة .. او زي ما بيقول عمنا نجيب محفوظ :
(( ... الذي يُحب .. يُحب رغم العيوب .. بل يُحب العيوب أيضاً .. ))
.. للأسف ساعات الكلام عن ان العلاقات تبقي سلسة او مفهاش خناقات بيتفهم علي ان العلاقات لازم تبقي وردية بلا عيوب !! .. بالرغم من ان السهولة المقصودة مش في غياب العيوب ، إنما في التعامل الناضج مع العيوب .... فسر سهولة العلاقات اساسه درجة التفاهم و التواصل بين اطرافها .. في ثباتهم و ترابطهم .. في انهم مستعدين يواجهوا اي أزمة عشان يبقوا مع بعض ! .. فمش واحد بيحارب لوحده ، إنما اتنين علي قلب و فكر واحد بيحاربوا سوا ..
.. في النهاية كان فيه مشهد في فيلم The Kissing Booth 3 البطلة بتقول لحبيبها جملة عظيمة جدا :
" I don’t like fighting ... But I’ll fight for you. "
اللي هو انا مش باحب ادخل في حوارات و مشاكل .. بس عشانك انا أقلب الدنيا ...
.. ففي وجهة نظري ، اللي مش مستعد يحارب عشان خاطر الانسان اللي بيحبه ، أكرم له و أشرف له يسيبه لحد تاني مستعد يقلب الدنيا عشانه ! ولا يحسسه لحظة انه عبء او حمل تقيل عليه ..

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Do you think that more tv shows and movies need to be made that bring attention to domestic abuse against men by their wives or girlfriends? Do you know any guys that have been a victim of DV? Did you help or did you not get involved?

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I think it definitely needs to be spoke about more, I’m not sure on tv shows but storylines etc could help. As someone who was in a domestically violent relationship for 5 years, I think it’s an important subject. I think because men have an image to be ‘strong’ it’s much harder for them to come forward about it. My ex was a woman and for me it wasn’t about fighting back. I could have done so easily but I’d never want to be like her. So I took it and I think that’s exactly how men are, it’s not that they can’t defend themselves it’s that they’ve got more respect than to assault a woman because it’s not who they are. Either way, yes, I think more needs to be done to support men as victims of control, abuse and also to support their mental health!

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What's the point of fighting so hard if we're going to die alone?

Yes life is totally meaningless.
Everything you did starting from when you learned about living life is waste and meaningless. Everything meaning everything..including you asking this question here, and me..answering your question here…basically waste of time.
So it is basically that you have to pass your time here on earth.
If Albert Einstein was alive today by some means, we would have had may be had some intergalactic or atleast short way to space travel or something.
—But even einstein had a time limit.
So basically Einstein lived and dies and passed his time doing revolutionary work.
WHAT WAS CONSTANT HERE?
As a biological form Einstein was not constant, the time he devoted for all the work he did, was not constant.
Time passed and he too slept forever.
Only thing constant was his tremendous work…Hope you are understanding the point from here.

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ما هي العبارة المفضلة لديك بلغة أجنبية؟

Quotes from "House MD" Series:
1) "I like being alone. At least I convinced myself that that I'm better off that way. And then I met someone in a psychiatric hospital of all places. She changed me, and then she left. We're better alone. We suffer alone, we die alone."
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2) Life is pain
I wake up every morning, I'm in pain I go to work in pain! Do you know how many times I wanted to just give up? How many times I thought about ending it ?
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3) In the end , it's you against you fighting for you .
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4) Everybody lies.
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Enough.

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Do you trust your instincts? Have they ever deceived you?

nai269549’s Profile Photoʟᴇɪᴀɴ ♕
100% Yes. I always trust my intuition. It has never failed me and it will never fail me. The only thing I need to do is quiet down my mind to a point where the intuition is talking to me.
I've learned at this point that if intuition is going against me, it is not intuition. It is anxiety mixed in as intuition. When you do something intuitively it is as easy as coming at 3. You don't question it. You don't doubt it. You don't hesitate on it. You just do it.
If you have to think about it or if you have to question it, it is NOT an intuitive feeling. Even if you think it is, you have to stop and think about it a second time. You don't want to be misled by your anxious feelings. That's why things like meditation are helpful to squash the anxiety because your intuition is popping out more. It's not being misguided by the anxiety that wants you to fail.
I'll use yesterday as an example. I was initially going to work out on the stationary bike for an hour and a half, but I stopped after 20 or so minutes. I felt bored. I felt tired. I knew intuitively that I had to jog on the spot. This feeling was a feeling of certainty, a feeling of knowing, a feeling of confidence. I did NOT second guess myself on this decision because I KNEW this was what I needed to do. So instead of fighting my intuition and forcing myself to do something I did not want to do, I began to jog on the spot. I did that for over an hour and a half (not all at once, but I did get what I initially wanted on the bike).
It also satisfied my desire of wanting to achieve 20,000 steps in a single day -- something I have not done in awhile. I did not want to go for a walk yesterday evening because I knew that I could get the steps by jogging on the spot. Intuitively, I knew that going for an evening walk felt wrong. And this is coming from someone who loves walking. When I started jogging I had roughly 6,500 steps from my morning walk. When I ended I had a little over 20,000 steps.
So I not only achieved my goal, but I did so by following my intuition. If I just stuck with the bike I wouldn't have been able to achieve that mark because I would have to convert calories burned into steps, and that's not always an accurate calculation.

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Umurku sekarang 23 tahun. mahasiswa semester akhir , masih nyusun. selama kuliah kerja freelance di klinik kecantikan bantu marketing mereka. Kuliah allhamdulilah di ptn + dapet beasiswa. makin kesini makin takut sama masa depan ku nanti gimana. Aku bukan dari keluarga kaya, otak juga ngga pinter.

sitinikma_’s Profile Photofiqoh
Terkadang dunia tak berpihak pada kita.. aku juga sama kayak kamu..
Dunia lebih berpihak pada mereka yang punya duit, orang tua yang dah punya koneksi, dan mereka yg bener² gtu lah..
Kalau buat kaum kek aku, yg semua harus berjuang dari nol. Kadang takdir selucu itu.
Tp aku tahu, Tuhan sudah atur jalannya. Bagaimana kita ikutin alurnya saja. Tuhan yang sudah memiliki skenario dan menjadi sutradaranya. Kita hanya pelakon aja. Fighting.. tetep semangat.
Karena kita orang² tangguh.. semoga Tuhan memberikan yang terbaik buat kita 😊

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❤️ How to encourage someone when they're in a depressive episode:

MentalHealthMatters’s Profile PhotoMental Health Awareness
In order to do this, we recommend that supporters encourage their loved ones in a depressive episode by:
❤️ Reminding themthat while what they’re going through right now is really,reallydifficult, how just like they’ve survived every other difficult experience they’ve been through in the past, they’re going to survive this one, too.
❤️ Reassuring them that this too shall pass.
❤️ Reassuring them that even if they can’t see any reasons to keep on fighting, it doesn’t mean that there aren’t any – rather, that their depression is just telling them even more lies that usual.
❤️ Reassuring them that they are not always destined to feel this way, and that with help, they can get better and live the life they want.
❤️ Reminding them that no-one is too broken, too scared or too far-gone to beat their depression.

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مش سؤال مع ان مليش علاقة بيكى بس بحبك جدا وكنت بحب شكل نظارتك 😂 وكنت دايما بدعى انه ربنا ميضيعش تعبك الحمد لله على كل حال ربنا اكيد اختياره افضل بالتوفيق فى اول يوم جامعى وان شاء الله ربنا يعوضك خير 💜 ✌️ fighting

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حبيبتي والله ❤ دا في اعجاب جماعي عالنضاره 💁‍♀️😂 بحبها بردو بس للاسف اتكسرت 🙂 الحمد علي كل حال ، اختيارات ربنا اكيد احسن ♡.

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