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Have you ever used your pain from one breakup towards another situation to try and get your way?

jakeskelter9’s Profile PhotoSake Felter
I’ve never been in a relationship but after the only guy I had a crush on and got to know a little bit about started showing controlling tendencies and eventually our one sided friendship coming to an end, I was hurt and made sure to never let my guard down when talking to guys in the future because some people (like him) try bossing me around and attempt to manipulate me into thinking that I have to listen to them when I really don’t.

Do you think it’s a red flag for a girl to have a guy best friend when she’s dating a guy? Why or why not? I personally think it’ll make her bf jealous or lead to mistrust, especially if her guy best friend initiates physical contact with her every so often.

Ick. Yeah anyone I'd date could be friends with anyone.. I'm looking for an equal standing human relationship, not puppy and owner. If the trust isn't there to start y'all are both just playing yourselves aka playing house. A breakup is inevitable when you or your partner aren't allowed freedom to be themselves. Friendship isn't something we should take for granted in my opinion. A red flag would be if they tried to keep the other person a secret.. the hanging out, hugs, and constant talking are all great! But if I find you're concealing it that means I can't trust you, causing me to affectively end said relationship.

I have a crush on my best friends little sister. The feelings seem to be mutual but my friend has already accused me of creeping on her. Do I pursue it or forget it?

Be honest about your feelings and tell your friend that you’re serious about pursuing her if you really want to be with your friend’s little sister. If you aren’t serious, don’t bother saying anything and try to stay away from her so your friendship doesn’t come to an end over playing with her feelings/being a heartbreaker.

Do you have friends at work who gossip about everyone and anything? Do you think they like each other and bond this way?

David_Blanes’s Profile PhotoJluen
A few years ago, a friend (that I used to go to school with in the past) and I used to gossip a lot and I did it mainly because she liked gossiping and not because I genuinely enjoyed it but I did go along with her nevertheless and thought that it would strengthen our bond. It didn’t do that since our friendship ended very quickly after she blocked me on a social media platform for doing something she didn’t like, which I don’t blame her for but I do think that she just didn’t have the maturity to deal with me at the time and I myself wasn’t that mature either. I don’t think those who ONLY gossip when they’re together actually like each other. I think they only bond over gossiping and that’s it. But, if two or a group of individuals have other things in common that they happen to talk about outside of gossiping then yes, perhaps gossiping might strengthen their toxic bond. I learned from experience that if a friend is more interested in what other individuals do rather than you, they’re probably not a real friend.

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Who was your favorite classmate? Or best friend in school or university or work mate?

ManWithout1plan’s Profile PhotoManWithout1plan
PL: I tak nie znasz. XD
Miałam takiego ziomka, z którym siedziałam w liceum na angielskim, w pierwszej klasie nawet mi się podobał, i dużo mi pomagał, kiedy czegoś nie wiedziałam.
Koleś był mistrzem wyszukiwania testów w internecie, a co za tym idzie - odpowiedzi do nich.
Poza tym on generalnie był dobry w angielski, więc często mi pomagał.
Po latach wyszła z tego całkiem niezła przyjaźń, którą niestety obie strony trochę podniszczyły, ale myślę, że da się to jeszcze wyklepać. XD
ENG: You don't know him anyway. 🤣
I had a friend with whom I sat in English class in high school, I even had a crush on him in the first grade, and he helped me a lot when I didn't know something.
The guy was a master of finding tests on the Internet, and therefore - the answers to them.
Besides, he was generally good at English, so he often helped me.
Years later, it turned out to be quite a good friendship, which unfortunately was a bit damaged by both of us, but I think it can still be repaired. 🤣

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who in your life would you like to know better?

AhmadBakheitMndo’s Profile Photo∆HMED
People in my real life are either from my family or work or friends and I know them quite well! 😁 Maybe it would be funny and interesting if I could spend at least one real day with every person from other countries I have built some kind of friendship with via social sites! 🤩😁
who in your life would you like to know better

What made you cut off a friendship?

maryamwaheed129912’s Profile PhotoMaryam
Life is too short to waste time on people who are only interested in money and hidden motives. Surround yourself with genuine and caring individuals who value relationships for what they truly are - a source of love, support, and connection. Remember, the right people will always show up in your life when you least expect it. Keep spreading kindness and positivity! 🌟💛

What’s the longest friendship you’ve had?

@LunarHuntress @Gabbybartolone @briannamiller0095 @ardennedra404 @courtneym4 @MapleAlbion @Mila_Fap @cmilabeloo5 @Pejba @DianochkaMelison93 they all my best friends because they everything too me but I never meet them before but I love ❤️ them all my heart ❤️ I will never forget them or loving them forever 😇😍

What does it mean when being around a specific person makes you only want to talk to people and not eat or take care of yourself?

I’ve had this happen before and I think it’s just depression in disguise and/or an attempt at trying to escape reality. I remember staying awake all night and all day to talk to someone while I wasn’t taking care of myself and only focused on talking to them for as long as I could at the time. When I found out their phone was going to be sold to someone else (idk why it wasn’t being taken away but being sold instead), I thought it was the end of the world because at the time, they meant so much to me as a friend. They helped me escape my responsibilities and we’d just waste our days together but after they sold their phone to focus on studying, I hardly got to interact with them unless they found a way to contact me through their tablet and/or computer. Now that I’m thinking about it, it wasn’t a healthy friendship since we would talk crap about others together for the most part and later I realized that we weren’t really friends but were just two people trying to escape reality and avoid our responsibilities. Our what I thought was a friendship ended a few years ago and there hasn’t been anyone since who’d be eager to waste their time with me as much as she was. If we were really friends, we wouldn’t have always talked about other individuals every time we spoke and she would’ve been more understanding and not impatient with me whenever I tried to confide in her.

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Say something nice to me. I'm feeling so low lately..

You know life is like a movie which has different scenes
We all have happy and sad scenes in our life
Or it’s like a library full of different books with different genres
We have romance, friendship, joy, sadness and a lot of different stories in our life.
Sometimes we feel like the whole story is sad or confusing but it’s on us to make it better.
The reality is that nothing yours to keep forever,
So you borrow time, love and joy.
You check them out like books from a library and trying not to spend your life mourning moments in time or missing people who are never yours to keep.
Instead you cherish each page you turn,
You stain some with tears,
You are filled with joy on others.
And when it is over,
You place the books back on the shelf and you cry for the end of one story while you pick up the next book.
And this is how you begin again :)
So my point is no matter how hard the world feels like to you now or how sad your story is but it’s just a chapter that you need to finish
And remember that you are enough, a million times enough!

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One word to describe how others see you? Another word to describe how you see yourself?

Some individuals think I’m complacent when really, there’s nothing more that I crave than being able to make others happy and having a long lasting friendship with someone. I consider myself afraid of taking risks and not being able to get anywhere in life as a result of being the way that I am.

If your man/boyfriend is not comfortable with you having other male friends. What will you do?

wahabkhan17’s Profile PhotoWahab Khan
Of course, it depends on the type of friendship I have with them. If it's a purely harmless one, I don't think anyone would have a problem with that. However, if it's an overly-friendly one, then his reservations are somewhat legit, too. Luckily, I don't do the latter type of friendships, so I don't think we're gonna have a problem there. 🤷‍♀️

MOMENT #pastー… I wanna ruin our friendship.

itsaudreybitch__’s Profile PhotoAᥙdrᥱყ
Audrey ー « Quindi a te piace davvero Dawson? » erano entrambe sedute sull'altalena mentre si tenevano per mano. La piccola Audrey non capiva come potesse piacerle un bambino tanto stüpidö, non le sembrava avesse nessuna qualità; a confronto, persino suo fratello Phoenix sembrava intelligente.
Chrisー « Sì, è carino. » allentò leggermente la presa dalla mano e rivolse uno sguardo al giovane ragazzo che stava giocando a calcio con suo fratello Sean.
Audreyー « Io non lo trovo così carino. » borbottò risentita ed anche leggermente infastidita, tanto da stringere con maggior forza la sua mano in modo che non potesse lasciare la presa. Era una bambina e non sapeva districarsi in un complesso groviglio di emozioni che aveva, proprio sulla bocca dello stomaco. Le piaceva passare del tempo con Christine, le piaceva anche quando l'aiutava con i compiti e lei si distraeva ogni cinque secondi, le piaceva sentirla cantare o vedere come suonava la chitarra.
Christine le piaceva ed era la sua persona preferita, non voleva che Dawson gliela portasse via.
Chrisー « Perché tu pensi solo a studiare. »
Audreyー « e penso a giocare con te, non voglio che Dawson si metta in mezzo. » confessò, con un tono di voce leggermente irritato. Era una confessione d'amore per metà.
Chrisー « Non glielo permetterò. » e ciò suonò per Audrey come una promessa eterna, infondo se non si sarebbe intromesso Dawson non lo avrebbe potuto fare nessuno.
#. Ispirata da un vecchio moment della mitica @ziggymoondust e dalla canzone degli Studio Killers.
Un piccolo moment per conoscere i sentimenti acerbi, infantili e teneri di una Audrey alle prese con la scoperta di sé stessa. ❤️

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MOMENT pastー I wanna ruin our friendship

If your bf/gf told you to stop talking to someone because your close friendship with them makes them feel uncomfortable, would you listen and do as they ask?

Froyh’s Profile PhotoMerve
Yeah if it made them feel uncomfortable. But guys can be very hypocritical 😂 they would say these things then add and follow half naked girls on instagram 😳🤷🏻‍♀️

If your bf/gf told you to stop talking to someone because your close friendship with them makes them feel uncomfortable, would you listen and do as they ask?

Froyh’s Profile PhotoMerve
I wouldn’t put them in a position like that in the first place. I wouldn’t want to disrespect them in anyway shape or form. That’s why I believe it’s crucial to talk about certain things such as this before entering a relationship. It’s to see where both individuals stand on certain topics or underlying issues so it doesn’t interfere with the relationship.

Is it expected for a friend to easily completely cut you out of their life when/if they don’t like something you did?

If friendship was a reality TV show, that would definitely be the most dramatic plot twist 🤣
But in real life, it really depends on the situation and the individuals involved ✌️
Communication and understanding are usually the keys to resolving conflicts and maintaining strong friendships 😌
Is it expected for a friend to easily completely cut you out of their life

What’s in your mind?

zxm5095’s Profile Photo
Currently, I have begun, probably for the first time, to treat friendship with special trepidation, because I know: not everyone knows how to be friends. The big shots pulled me back in time and shouted: losing people -
- the biggest problem. If someone is feeling bad, talk, hug, advise and never, ever judge. Even though I was not always correct in my statements, and my sharp tongue sometimes created obstacles on the path to happiness. Perhaps I am still ashamed of very ugly actions on my part. But... I wouldn't change anything. I have no special desire to seem like a “saint” or build a career more correctly (these are such formalities).

The main thing is that I become who I should be. I am emerging as a person with a unique story.

The past is the thread from which my soul is cut, and I absolutely do not want to shred the canvas.

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Whats in your mind

Who was your favorite classmate? Or best friend in school or university or work mate?

ManWithout1plan’s Profile PhotoManWithout1plan
I didn't have favorite classmates in school. Either I don't remember anymore or I don't want to remember. Past is past. I don't think about it because I closed the door to my past. 💚 But I have to say that I had a few best friends in those years.
My best friend in my first univeristy was Paweł (Paul) but our friendship ended for many private and also unknown reasons for me so I don't want to talk about it. He had a lot of advantages because he was good, polite, kind, protective and person who you can trust thanks to I wish him all the best in his life. 💚
My favorite workmates were Marek (Mark), Dominika (Dominica), Eliza (Elisa) and Sarah.
Sarah was teenage Dutch girl. I worked abroad e.g.in the Netherlands and in Germany in the years from 2019 to June 2022. In the Netherlands teenagers go to work and this is le*gal and common behave.

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Who was your favorite classmate Or best friend in school or university or work

What is the scariest dream you have ever had? 💭 🙀 😇

redoasis2017’s Profile Photo★ ☮ ♫ Tҽɳαƈισυʂ Tσɱɱαყ™ ▩ ♚ ☻
Someone chasing me with a sharp object/weapon on the rooftop. Also, when the guy that I used to have a crush on was trying to drown me in the ocean water for reasons I didn’t know, but I guess that meant that he wasn’t the one for me (romantically and friendship wise) since he’s already rejected me and didn’t want to be friends either.

What is the dumbest way you've been hurt?

ManWithout1plan’s Profile PhotoManWithout1plan
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To be hurt by someone always feels shitty, I guess.
I was hurt by a friend who, I guess, did not want to congratulate me on my birthday, so she took the chance two days before my birthday to tell me that she wanted to end the friendship. Then I had another friend who was too lazy to tell me goodbye by herself so she took the chance when everyone else left. And was like..."So...now that everyone is leaving you, it's my turn...have a good life" :3 a lovely friend. :3 xD I could write books with such stories. XDDD

What does true friendship mean to you?❤️

alishapawar5’s Profile PhotoAlisha
It means having a deep connection with somebody based on trust, loyalty and mutual support 🤘
It's about being there for each other through thick and thin, celebrating each other's successes and offering a shoulder to lean on during difficult times 🙃
A true friend is one who accepts you for who you are, flaws and all, and genuinely cares about your well-being 😇
What does true friendship mean to you

ايه هي ال Friendship Green Flags بالنسبة لك؟

A123_mohamed’s Profile Photoفؤش
Non judgmental, supportive, accepts advice, doesn’t get upset when i’m not available, respects my alone time, respects my family, accepts me as i’m, adds good to me NOT TAKE IT AWAY

ايه هي ال Friendship Green Flags بالنسبة لك؟

A123_mohamed’s Profile Photoفؤش
حد يغيرني للاحسن يشجعني معايا ع الحلوه والمره مهونش عليه ميفهمنيش غلط يكون منطقه امان وراحه بالنسبالي
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ايه هي ال Friendship Green Flags بالنسبة لك؟

A123_mohamed’s Profile Photoفؤش
اي حد يقدر اختفائك او زعلك فجأة من عير ما يلوم عليك و يدور عليك في الوقت دة الي يستاهل تصاحبه
غير كدة اي كلام مجرد معارف

Can we talk about our lost friendship ?

Well to have friends is a good thing
But there is a point where the whole relationship is becoming meaningless for different reasons
Change of goals ,personality or values
It’s important that you keep your focus on yourself and treat your friends as something extra not essential you meet someone you find something interesting that helps bring you together but in the end they are people like you they’re susceptible to change.
Respect them and have great time and enjoy it but don’t rely too much on it.
That is my humble view on friendship.

Napisz coś miłego o pierwszej osobie, która wyskoczy po wpisaniu @! Nawet, jeżeli jeszcze się nie znacie, może to będzie początek nowej, wspaniałej znajomości? 😎

valkyr_’s Profile PhotoValkyr
Kindness in words creates confidence.
Kindness in thinking creates profoundness.
Kindness in giving creates friendship.
The true work of art is but a shadow of the divine

Co powoduje, że depresja dopada człowieka?🤔

ukasz_kowalski’s Profile PhotoPozytywnie_zakręcony_czlowiek
PL: Cóż, żyjemy w chorych czasach, gdzie s*ks jest na wyciągnięcie ręki, ale nie ma miłości.
Świat jest szary, brzydki i bezsensowny, jak cała nasza egzystencja.
Życie sprawia cierpienie, nic dobrego nas w nim nie czeka, a ten lęk przed przyszłością jest przerażający, z kolei śm**rć jeszcze straszniejsza.
W końcu nikt nie wie, co jest po śm**rci, nikt jeszcze stamtąd nie wrócił.
Nie ma miłości, nie ma przyjaźni, a jeśli jest, to tylko na chwilę, w końcu wszystko się kiedyś skończy, a my jesteśmy tak beznadziejnymi jednostkami, że nikt nie jest w stanie nas kochać.
Nawet, jeśli był ktoś, kto powinien teoretycznie nas kochać, odszedł od nas, czy to rodzic, który nas zostawił, porzucił i aktualnie ma nową rodzinę, czy to dziadkowie, którzy odeszli z tego świata, czy to ktoś inny, bliski, który zm*rł na jakąś nieuleczalną chorobę, bądź wciąż męczy się na tym świecie, dla którego nie ma nadziei na wyzdrowienie.
Nie mamy siły wstawać, nie mamy siły jeść, nie mamy siły na dalszą egzystencję, bo i po co?
Tak to mniej więcej wygląda, w skrócie.
Polecam książkę "D*pr*sja. Jak skruszyć mury więzienia swojego umysłu" Dorothy Rowe, dla rozwinięcia tematu.
ENG: Well, we live in sick times where s*x is at your fingertips but there is no love.
The world is grey, ugly and senseless, like our entire existence.
Life is suffering, nothing good awaits us in it, and this fear of the future is terrifying, and d**th is even more terrible.
After all, no one knows what comes after death, no one has ever returned.
There is no love, there is no friendship, and if there is, it is only for a moment, in the end everything will end one day and we are such hopeless individuals that no one is able to love us.
Even if there was someone who should theoretically love us, left us, whether it was a parent who left us, abandoned us and now has a new family, or grandparents who have passed away from this world, or someone else, a loved one, who died of some incurable disease, or is still suffering in this

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What's something you've learned this year? Whether it be a life lesson, about yourself, about others, ect. 😋🤓💭🧘‍♀️

Coolio247’s Profile PhotoJusti Me Myself
About this time last year, I started therapy again for my anxiety. I learned that anxiety is no joke... that I had four different types and all the ways that it was affecting my life. I learned a painful lesson through my healing and that this was the loneliest I have ever felt. God gave me a lesson through one of my friends this year about the importance of healing my anxiety, boundary settings, morals, values, taking things slow, and what love and friendship is suppose to look like. A month ago, I learned through my dads accident what they really meant by relapsing... it scared me a lot, and I didn't know if I was strong enough not to act on those emotions. I still don't know if I'm strong enough not to act on those emotions, but I do know I am able to keep myself safe.

Sometimes I just want to sit down and talk with my ex best friend about what things bothered me in the friendship. But other times I think that she wouldn’t listen and want to do something to keep the friendship going and better.

It's hard when people are stubborn it's hard to Make amends and it hows the friendship broken down somtimes you want made amends but other person doesn't

Sometimes I just want to sit down and talk with my ex best friend about what things bothered me in the friendship. But other times I think that she wouldn’t listen and want to do something to keep the friendship going and better.

Do not ever beg someone’s friendship. If you feel you have to, they are not your friend. The harsh realities. Wish them well and happiness, then move your energy elsewhere to people who will appreciate you. Don’t continue your cycle of unhappiness. Energy is important. Use it wisely.
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Does love feel the same every time you fall in love? Describe how you have experienced love?

Hm I suppose it does, but that's because how you feel towards someone, and the connection you have with them is different for each person. One person may have a different kind of way of expressing their love. They may be more romantic gesture based, words of affirmation, alone time etc. So the love for them would be influenced by those things they like to express. But then love with another, may be more passionate heavy, doing activities and exploring life/the world together etc. Which gives you different kind of bonding I find.
I've only been in love romantically a few times, and it was a lil different with each. The first was very very intense, as it was both our first loves. But it was too intense to the point of being toxic. Then the one after that was wholesome, healthy, patient, passionate. And then the other was a deep deep friendship that was also my partner, so was passionate and consistent.
Ultimately how I view love changed since I was younger also, with experience. As it's about unconditional acceptance to me (give or take if it turns bad obviously) and wanting them to be happy with or without me. For me love doesn't always die it just changes into a different kind of love sometimes. Because those who I have loved, I genuinely cared for so greatly.

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https://ask.fm/Froyh/answers/175623819938 - It depends on how confident you are 👍 But even people who are shy can make friends easily sometimes, especially if they meet somebody who is equally as shy as them ✌️ Some just click almost immediately 😸

redoasis2017’s Profile Photo★ ☮ ♫ Tҽɳαƈισυʂ Tσɱɱαყ™ ▩ ♚ ☻
My experience had been quite the opposite since those who were equally as shy me ended up not being my friends because both of us weren’t willing to talk and were waiting on the other to talk first lol. But, with some of my friends who were shy in the past, I was able to befriend them later on as we got older and started developing similar interests. I had other people that I clicked with almost immediately but I ended up ruining our friendship due to the fact that I can come off as annoying sometimes or come on too strong once you get closer to me and know me irl. You’re right tho, shy people might feel like they can relate to other people who are also shy like them and could turn out to be great friends with their kind of people in the end :)

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