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I don’t enjoy clubbing- is that ok?

So i’m 19 and everyone is out clubbing. I just really don’t enjoy it. I suffer with bad anxiety and i can’t think of anything worse than a loud space, dancing, being approached by people. I’m more than happy to go for drinks or food but i hate how i’m made to feel not “normal” because i don’t go out out. Is it ok that i prefer to go out when it’s quieter and more chilled. I also have a history of sexual assault so i’m very wary on drunk men and spiking ect. I’d prefer to stay away.
I feel similarly. I’m in my 30s now and did my fair share of clubbing because I enjoy dancing. I’m also male, so I have less fear attached to things like that. But now I enjoy talking and having real conversations over drinks. It’s more enjoyable and safe and it feeds my soul more. You’re just ahead of your friends. Just don’t shame them for wanting to go out and invite them to more intimate gatherings when you can. You’re good.
Some of my friends used to look at me weirdly whenever I’d say that. I’m the same age as you and honestly I hate clubbing and loud crowded spaces just because I’m a quiet person. Nothing wrong with not liking any of that. My friends don’t bother asking me anymore just because they know I feel out of place since I don’t drink or smoke. I prefer chill quiet places too
I’m much older but when I was your age I always had much older friends and all the friends that I did have (Gf, etc) always wanted to club but I was much more mature and somehow passed that phase. You ain’t missing nothing. You do you and be proud that you are saving money by not participating.
Yep! I’m 24 and I’ve been clubbing once and hated it so much. It was hard when I turned 21 (I live in the US) and it was all my friends wanted to do, but you’re not alone and you should be able to find friends who want to do things that aren’t clubbing. And if your friends do enjoy clubbing you can obviously still be friends, maybe just suggest some other activities every once in a while and communicate your concerns if it seems like clubbing is all they want to do.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. You are perfectly normal. I grew up in one of the "clubbing capitals of the world" so from age 18 to 21 I'd hit the club every week. I thought that's what I was "supposed" to be doing but never really liked it. Smelly, sweaty, drunk people all around you....also hated how girls degraded themselves for a cheap bottle.
I hate clubbing. I’m more of a sit at a bar type to eat and chat peacefully without loud music blaring directly in my delicate ears. I did try it a few times for a night-out with the girls due to a friends bad breakup but guys kept interrupting our time just dancing together. One even snuck behind me without warning and proceeded to rub himself. Like stranger please, you didn’t ask to dance and helped yourself to get handsy around my parts.

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making girls jealous works.. dumbbitch gf was lazy to text me.. so i book movies, with her friend and "accidentally" booked her seat far away, while her friend and i sat together. dumbbitch been texting me all day for two days. now i am lazy to text back 😂

Disrespecting women, the very same gender that birthed you. Engaging in tit-for-tat games with your partner instead of sorting out issues in a civilized manner. Inability to receive constructive criticisms. Preaching about your rights while shooting down others’. Assuming the role of a mindless keyboard warrior. And you wonder why you aren’t unable to connect with people? Take a look at yourself in the mirror. It’s not about women or anyone not being able to provide you with intelligent interactions, it’s your refusal to view things in different perspectives ithat is hindering you to do so. But that thick skull of yours wouldn’t accept whatever I, or others, have to comment. Another proven fact of your lack of open-mindedness. You can lament all you want about 101 things that are not going your way but actions speak louder than words. It’s not a surprise actually since a coward is behind all of these nonsense. Good lluck with navigating in life. Age doesn’t define maturity, it seems.

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Liebe Fritzi, dank Dir hatte ich mich bei gutefrage.net angemeldet, dort kam eben die Mail ich dürfte mich nun Experte für Geschichte nennen. Annehmen? Was bedeutet so ein Titel?

Xjorn’s Profile PhotoKatzelmacher
Erstmal meinen Glückwunsch lieber Katzelmacher. Dann wirst du oft hilfreiche Antworten gegeben haben. Ich weiß gerade den aktuellen Stand nicht. Früher bekam ich, als Mathe-Expertin, oft Post von gF dass meine Hilfe benötigt wird. Ja klar, annehmen. Ich dachte, dass ich eher Quora empfahl. Weiß aber noch, dass wir uns über gute Frage austauschten.
Ich kann dir noch verraten, dass gF sich die evtl. auszuzeichnenden Profile sehr genau anguckt. Auf jeden Fall seriöser als ask.fm es praktiziert, wo der *Status* erkauft werden kann.

ladies !! you have 4000 and your man has 200 but the bill is 450 , what will you do?

Don't you dare take your money out of your purse. I repeat, DON'T! Let him figure out by himself. And why the hell you are dating a broke ass at first place?!?
Who tf hangs out with his gf having only 200 in his pocket? Someone who is sure dat his girl will end up paying the half bill. YESSSSS!

To me it seems like that the girl must be an army and is in this group she must have told her bf that this is a marriage group because I don't have any other group and it seems like that the bf is trying to cheat on his gf by joining a marriage group but the real question is how did he got my number

I spend my 15 min on reading whatever you were sending just to end up like this Nooooooo~ tag me on sc and send me your sc username i will send you ss of what it was lol 😂🤣

Would you be fine with your gf, following someone who is now in a relationship, but most of their pictures on insta are off still of him and your gf together, when they were friends/not sure if dating? It's like 90% pictures of him/her out drinking etc. and then 10% of him with someone else and gf

robstefan94’s Profile PhotoRobert D
Personally, it wouldn't bother me. I think it's a bit silly to act like our partners do not have a past, like they haven't dated other people before us. Even if the person in those photos is an ex-lover and not just a friend, so what? If my partner wanted to be with them still then they *would* be with them. But he's not, he is with me, and I trust him to be loyal to me.

Lagi diposisi gamau pacaran tapi butuh support system like prudential yang always listening and understanding.

wowamazingsc’s Profile Photoamazingme
udah punya😋 dibilang pacar jg gapernah jadian cuz he never asked my to be his gf, tapi ya saling sayang, saling support. selalu bisa jadi pendengar yg baik. dan gaada drama”an ngekang dll. indah bgt🥰

Would you be fine with your gf, following someone who is now in a relationship, but most of their pictures on insta are off still of him and your gf together, when they were friends/not sure if dating? It's like 90% pictures of him/her out drinking etc. and then 10% of him with someone else and gf

robstefan94’s Profile PhotoRobert D
Some people like to delete photos after a relationship ends and some don’t. If they’re still friends I don’t see the big deal as long as they’re not intimate pictures. If there are no feelings there on either side then it shouldn’t matter if she’s following or not 🤷🏻‍♀️

Would you be fine with your gf, following someone who is now in a relationship, but most of their pictures on insta are off still of him and your gf together, when they were friends/not sure if dating? It's like 90% pictures of him/her out drinking etc. and then 10% of him with someone else and gf

robstefan94’s Profile PhotoRobert D
Would you be fine with your gf constantly airing you on social media complaining and casting shade at you?

Would you be fine with your gf, following someone who is now in a relationship, but most of their pictures on insta are off still of him and your gf together, when they were friends/not sure if dating? It's like 90% pictures of him/her out drinking etc. and then 10% of him with someone else and gf

robstefan94’s Profile PhotoRobert D
Here's what you don't do, go in all guns a blazing and put her in defence mode. You need to talk calmly and ask her how would she honestly feel if you were doing that with your ex. Then tell her exactly how it makes you feel. It's not hard, if that was me I'd go I feel uncomfortable, worried about the relationship. I feel slightly confused in what her feelings are for you. Slightly rejected. Basically being honest gets you better answers.
Would you be fine with your gf following someone who is now in a relationship

انتي ليه عملتي مشكله مع القاضي من مفيش الكلام ده موجه ل رضوي كان ممكن تعملي نفسك مش واخده بالك بدل الكلام اللي مش ليه لازمه اللي طلع ده 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

كلها عارفه ال فيها يبنتي والله ، ماهو لو انتي كنتي مفكره اني هسمح لواحد زي دا يهين صاحبتي قدام الناس علي حاجه هي ملهاش دخل فيها اصلا ف لا مش هيحصل .. و بعدين هو بجد بيكلمها ف الأخلاق و التربيه و هو متصور مع واحده حاططها cover و كاتب عليها my beautiful gf ؟؟ لول بجد كدا انت راجل متربي يعني ؟!

How would you feel about your gf going out drinking with a friend. If they keep saying "you can't just have a couple of pints, you need to have lots" she is touchy feely and the last 2 times drinking with her, guys each time wanted to f**k her as she came across wrong and also made me feel awkward

robstefan94’s Profile PhotoRobert D
Has your gf ever cheated, or given reason to think she will? If not, get tf over it. It isn't her fault if guys want her, and as long as they aren't pressing her to drink to try to take advantage then it's not your place to stop her going out w her mates.

Why do people cheat in real life?

israa_mohammed7’s Profile Photoإسرآ̯͡ء
you might want to ask this to a sociologist.
my rough assumption would be different people do it for different reasons.
they might be not strong enough to break up.
some do it because their partner doesn't/can't fulfill their sexual desiers.
I read a story of a guy with a micro-penis who woke up oneday to his gf cheating on him with his bestfriend while talking shit about his impotence.
some have it in their nature to never settle down for one person and that's why we have open relationships and so on.

Hi tita, good morning po. My gf and I were talking one time about mga bagay2 & then umabot kami sa past, failed rel, reasons we broke up with our exes. & then 1 of the things she said na reason is that, na bored siya and she was no longer hapi. I said, na time will come na a relationships get boring

You are arguing about a hypothetical future scenario that may not ever happen. There is only here and now, and we all talk nonsense to build ourselves up and convince ourselves that we're strong and invincible and can afford to lose the ones we love. The truth of the matter is that heartbreak and losing someone won't kill us. Kaya natin lahat. Sometimes we consider it sweet when someone says hindi nila kaya, when in fact it's a lie kasi kaya nila. Do you love each other now? What will you do to make your present great? Build a good present and the future will take care of itself. There will always be an ending. Baka ikaw pa ang kumawala. Never say never. All stories will end and we all fail.
Hi tita good morning po My gf and I were talking one time about mga bagay2  then

I saw a guy at uni: today, his GF was afraid of cats so he picked the cat up by her tail & threw her, in front of her kids, like, wth, she's a feeding mother. Bohot buri baat he, if you're afraid of cats don't go near them, wo janwar hen ap tou insan hen na, na jaen un k pass maren tou nahi atleast

Whenever anyone of you saw something like this go and smack that person rather ranting it on Internet later.

I saw a guy at uni: today, his GF was afraid of cats so he picked the cat up by her tail & threw her, in front of her kids, like, wth, she's a feeding mother. Bohot buri baat he, if you're afraid of cats don't go near them, wo janwar hen ap tou insan hen na, na jaen un k pass maren tou nahi atleast

That man actually showed his GF the glimpse of what "Future Husband" he might be if she ever tries to stree him out. SURPRISE

I saw a guy at uni: today, his GF was afraid of cats so he picked the cat up by her tail & threw her, in front of her kids, like, wth, she's a feeding mother. Bohot buri baat he, if you're afraid of cats don't go near them, wo janwar hen ap tou insan hen na, na jaen un k pass maren tou nahi atleast

Of all the animals, man is the only one that is cruel. He is the only one that inflicts pain for the pleasure of doing it.
Mark Twain

I saw a guy at uni: today, his GF was afraid of cats so he picked the cat up by her tail & threw her, in front of her kids, like, wth, she's a feeding mother. Bohot buri baat he, if you're afraid of cats don't go near them, wo janwar hen ap tou insan hen na, na jaen un k pass maren tou nahi atleast

If i were a girl and my bf would do something like this. I would dump him immediately. Ehsaas nhi to kuch nhi
Lanat dono ki shaklon pr. They will breakup soon Insha'Allah.

Guys gf aku cakap pandang aku sbb aku ada rupa ja..pastu aku tanya la kenapa dia follow laki tu yg aku kenal jugak la sebab main game sama²..pastu gf aku marah2 ckp kasar pastu kutuk2 aku,padahal aku tanya dlm bersahaja ja..adakah dia curang?? Bagi pendapat sikit apa aku perlu buat.

Kutuk balik hahaha jkjk dont do tht. Never curse at a girl, it will make u look super bad.
My opinion, tkyh buat pape2. Walk away. U deserve better dude. I mean who says i date u coz of looks. Boi tht is a red flag. If she cn get someone better looking, sure u will kiss her ass goodbye. Dont let her use u like tht or manipulate u.
Maybe i could be wrong. The choice is urs mate. Ur gf, u knw her better thn anyone here. Anyways goodluck!

If i have no past at all and my gf has a past where she has been in a physical relationship. And I'm not comfortable with that thought. And for the same reason i don't want to continue. Needed some suggestions

willnotregret
Umm 🤔 If you already made your mind to end things.. then you should not be confused with what you want to do...

baket ganon may feelings kayo sa isa’t-isa kaso wala kayong label tas parang magjowa na den ung situation:)

Ahhh MU. Yung bang sweet siya sayo, at parang gf na ang turing sayo. pero di ka man lang niya magawang ligawan para maging official na kayo.
Di naman sa pinag ooverthink kita ha, madalas kase sa mga ganyang lalake, mga paasa..Tsaka if ever mahulog siya sa ibang babae, pwede ka na lang niya di kibuin at kausapin since di ka naman niya jowa. Di ka pwede mag selos, kase di ka naman niya jowa. GUSTO MO YON? 😂. tipong kilig now, iyak later. Kung ako sayo, nako magparinig ka na sa kanya na gusto mo may label na kayo, para di ka mahirapan in the long run!!!
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Kung sakaling kailanganin ng bf mo o gf mo ang kidney transplant, ibibigay mo ba ang kidney mo?

Oo naman pero pakasal muna kami bago ko ibigay, baka takasan lang ako e AHAHAHAHAH. baka mamaya malaman ko, Minahal niya lang ako dahil sa kidney ko 🤷
:Ang bad ko😅
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Maniniwala kaba kapag sinabi niyang mahal ka niya kaysa sa gf niya?

LouisseNatasha’s Profile PhotoLouisse Natasha Toughwarts
Kung ako sayo, Di ko na lang papansinin yung taong yan. Kung pwede iblock, Ibloblock ko na lang yung lalakeng yan. Kargo dekonsesya ko pa na naghiwalay sila ng dahil sa akin.
Isipin mo na lang, pano kung ganyan yung bf mo sa ibang babae diba, na sabihan niya na mahal niya daw yon. Sus. Dapat tayong mga babae ang nagtutulungan, di yung nag aahasan.
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bad my gf was being a total bee to me hby

zactc’s Profile Photozack vaughan
Try to make her calm. Hope she will understand you. I am just trying to be good. I gotta family issues last 3 weeks which made me upset very bad. I am keeping myself busy all the time with working overtime to forget about the issues and convert my mind into doing something.

People these days...

MinahilIftikharA’s Profile PhotoMinahil Iftikhar Chauhdry
People be like
- main sad hn mere sy bt kr lo
-main bore ho raha mere sy bt kr lo😛
-main single hn mere sy bt kr lo 😛
- main soo nahin raha mere sy bt kr lo
- koi waja nae hai bs mere sy bt kr lo 😛
-mere gf chort gae hai mere sy bt kr lo 😛
- mjy kuch kuch ho raha mere sy bt kr lo 😛😁
Bs ye he sb chal raha aj kal 😛😛

Do you want to call a specific person and can't reach him / her?

No not call, but I just found out one of my friend's gf blocked me from his number. I went to wish him a Happy Birthday and received a message that I was blocked. Not sure what she's worried about, I don't play like that. 🤦🏻‍♀️

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