#girl

No secrets, right? Hind sight is 20/20. When I was 5 yrs old, she touched my finger. I didn't pull my hand away. She announced to everyone that we were married. Well, I don't know all about that, but we became the best of friends. We were invited to all the best birthday parties. By 8th grade she told me she had a crush on my buddy, Noah. They dated throughout High School. (new classmates often asked if she and my sister were siblings)
We all went our seperate ways after High School. She met a fellow. Really awesome guy! I took their wedding photos recently, before leaving on deployment. --> Take her back? Hahaha. I'm assured that I will be a great Uncle to her kids, one day.
(Growing up, I only had 6 close friends. She was the only girl in our group. The six of us studied together and competed academically with each other. In this photo, we had gone to a drive-in movie together, it was sooo cold...I think it was 13⁰C that night, we had sooo many layers of clothes on and countless blankets. 😅. Good times.

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Depends on the definition of “lost.” If you are referring to a friend just deciding to not be friends anymore, I get quietly mad, then sad/self-conscious, and then eventually I remember the reasons why they left and just realize they aren’t worth the time if they don’t value friendship as much as I do. Unless I’m the one that fucked up… still working on figuring that one out. If you are referring to a friend passing, it’s pretty easy: you don’t. I knew a girl who was one of the few people in this world that day 1 I felt I could talk to about anything and would genuinely listen and understand. Even about the darker stuff in life. Apparently there was a reason she was so understanding of the struggles I (or anyone who has a diagnosed mental illness) faced, because she left a few years ago. She was 20. It’s completely earth shattering. In my case, when I found out my mind became useless. There was no such thing as logic, and the world physically felt far away. All I was at that point was a mass of negative energy and emotions… at least that’s what it felt like. I didn’t have to do anything generally speaking, but I was at a complete loss as to what to do, think, or feel. Basically you run on autopilot until the shock fades. What I’m getting at is over time the mind begins it’s sluggish return to what I feel is an imitation of my mindset prior to that day. Eventually, you can do basics again such as brushing teeth, showering or just being able to sleep for 7 hours. At some point you finally reach what feels like a close experience to normalcy, but it will always feel just slightly different. You overcome the shock, but you never overcome the devastation of it all.

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Agar wo larki sirf materialistic cheezain dekh ke aarahi hai then you can say she is wrong. But larkiyon ko apke materialistic acheivements dekhni hoti hai. Allah has created women to expect material possessions and protection from men. Allah has created men to expect physical attractiveness and a nurturing nature from women. A girl can judge your ability to provide for her and her children by looking at your current materialistic achievements. Wo toh apki job or salary dekh kr hee judge kare gi na ke kal ko aap uski or uske bachoun ki zarooriyat poori kr bhi sakte hain ya nahi? Just being able to talk sweetly doesn't mean a man is able to protect his family aagay ja ke. Is baat ko samajhna zaroori hai. Jis tarha se ek aadmi aise aurat ko pasand nahi karta jo apne basic hygiene ka, physical grooming ka, baat karne ke tareekay ka, ya physical beauty ka khyal nahi rakhti. Kyun ke ek aurat ke ye traits uski laziness or careless-ness show krte hain. Kal ko wo uske bachoun or ghar ka kya khayal rakhe gi? That's how our brains work. So if a woman is ONLY focused on your material possessions toh wo ghalat baat hai. But wo apke nature, education, values ke saath saath is cheez ko bhi consider kr rahi hai toh remember ke wo apki future ability to take careof her family ko judge kr rahi hai.

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/Por ahora para este fin de semana debo revisar la plataforma porque hace días la docente había dicho que ya subió el resultado del nivel y por mi falta de tiempo no pude. Hace el aseo en toda mi habitación, la ropa está seca, toca doblarla para meterla en el armario, el barrer y trapear todo mi dormitorio. Luego iré a darme un baño porque el calor que está haciendo y soportable para ahora arreglarme y estar libre, ahora debo estar pendiente porque desde ayer hice un pedido de compra una blusa toda preciosa azul (aunque la quería negra, pero por mi mamá la cambié), estaré leyendo el libro que dejé pendiente para terminarlo ahí dentro de cinco días The girl who loved Tom Gordon, de Stephen King. Se decía que hoy me iba a ver con mi mejor amiga para comer juntas y planear que tatuaje nos ibamos hacer, el diseño lo tenemos, solo falta donde hacerlo, pero se aplazó para dentro ocho días.

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