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Do you want your last ex to be happy, even if it means not being with you?

People find it kinda strange that I will happily go to my exes weddings. And honestly, I get it.
But the thing is, this is a person that I have cared deeply for (usually for good reason 😂) and at some point our paths in life diverged. That's okay, it happens. We have great memories and a bunch of common experiences. So why should I turn down an invite to their wedding? A wedding which would never, incidentally, have been ours because I am dead set against marriage.
Also, free snacks.
So as long as they're a good person and you care about them, I think you should definitely cheer them on as you would for any of your friends.
If they're a twat, treat them accordingly.

Has a movie, book, show, game etc. ever made you emotional? How easily does it happen? 😄😡😥

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
Scenes in which children or very old people are suffering 🙄 (Artificial Intelligence:AI), or when they are extremely happy (when grandfather meet his grandchild finaly - Home Alone I. 😢

Are you happy with yourself & where you are in life?

Overall, I am pleased with my progress but I do not wish to rest on my laurels. There is a great deal more to accomplish and in my opinion, stagnation is regression in denial. As long as I continue to proceed forward, I will have no excuse to purport that I am "unhappy" / "unfulfilled." Progress has been my greatest joy and I have noticed that the most despondent people are usually those who refuse to advance while ignoring their own potential and placing limitations on themselves - not because they aren't capable of making great strides, but because they are too *lazy* to make an effort and it is much easier to blame others for their shortcomings while wallowing in misery and *pretending* to be "victims."
Are you happy with yourself  where you are in life

What is the best thing or high point of your week so far? (even if it's something small like taking a bath etc).

LouisaRHale’s Profile PhotoLou
I met Anthony Horowitz which was AWESOME. I went on a date and tickled some baby goats. I had a HUGE clear out and took tonnes to the charity shop. I painted a dresser that I've been meaning to do for yonks, went on a killer run which was looovely, put some new plants in, bought a couple of books and got some good fun workouts in. Saw a friend that I haven't in aaaages and I'm seeing some more friends on Saturday - I'm a happy bunny!
A lot of this has only been possible because I took a week of leave for the first time in two years, though. I normally just don't have time 😅

Happy New Year❣️🥳🍾🥂

leahtvergara’s Profile Photo✿ ℓεαɦ ѵ. ♔
All this year I did not congratulate anyone and I was studying, studying and writing my graduation thesis and now I am happy that I accomplished this. It’s official! I graduated this summer with honors degree in geography!! ✨ 👩🏻‍🎓💃
and my ambition is to complete a master’s degree as well now💪🏻 therefore, no one gives up about achieving his dream and ambition, no matter how hard you is facing difficult days, do not give up on your dream and what you want.🙏🏻
Happy New Year

What's your side of the story?

maazich’s Profile PhotoMuhammad Moaaz
Two of my friends have hormonal imbalance (it’s pretty common in women) it can lead to a variety of problems, one being PCOS. It’s not fatal but it can cause you to gain excessive weight, have acne, mood swings, unwanted hair growth on usual places. Women have peach fuzz on their face but if somebody has hormonal imbalance, they end up having dark hair. Two of my friends get dark hair grown on their chin and neck and ofc being a woman, they feel very uncomfortable about it. Sometimes when they come around and they haven’t gotten rid of those hair, they really show up and say “mei bohat buri lag rae ho” we calm them down. Tell them it’s okay. If we’re not bothered and we’re not pointing it out or making fun of it, why are you so uncomfortable? Breathe! They eventually get better. 🤍
Then there’s this old group fellow. She was so into this one guy from the group. We all knew this guy digs two things only; money and beauty. After like 4 years, when she joined for MBA we couldn’t recognise her.
She legit learned how to do makeup, took a damn course!
She joined gym, lost weight.
She used to do abaya, she gave it up.
Idk what she did to herself but she was on the darker spectrum of “tan” and she changed her skintone.
Lastly, got a new haircut, got highlights.
Even stopped being her normal self and started being more composed and started talking less.
In short, she became a different person. She became unrecognisable. If this was all for herself, I would’ve been happy for her but it was for that guy, it was then when he got interested. They got married but he still ends up telling her “you don’t look nice. Fix yourself.”
She cries. I told her this guy is not the right choice but back then she was too blinded to see it.
I’m just trying to say is that
What good is someone that only cares about you on their terms?We read as children; “All that glitters is not gold”
But people don’t get it, do they?

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Hi guys, sorry a quick question to you all, how do you respond to someone who's been saying I love you to you too many times when you are not comfortable hearing it or saying it back? And you don't want them to feel bad

abiepgonzales’s Profile Photobuttercup
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I would say something like:
"Thank you for saying so, but I don't feel the same way. I appreciate your feelings towards me, but I cannot return those feelings and would be happy if you would consider respecting that and not pushing any further than it is acceptable for me." It's honest and must be said in my opinion because some people get their hopes up high if you are not speaking your mind and be unclear about your intentions.

بلادي وإن جارت علي عزيزة❤🇯🇴

roro8283’s Profile Photoرَوند~♥️
نشمخ بالعلالي راسنا مرفوع...نهتف بأعلى الصوت حنا أردنية.🇯🇴💙
⁩⁦⁩ #كل عامٍ و الأردن شامخٌ مستقل.🕊
#كل عام ووطننا و مليكنا و شعبنا الأردني بألف خير.💙
🇯🇴 Happy independence day 🌿🌿
بلادي وإن جارت علي عزيزة

How to get over a break up?

PrincezzGenesis’s Profile PhotoGenesis
It was not meant to be. You move on. Find someone that deserves your heart. There is someone looking for you right now. When you find each other, you will be happy the guy broke your heart. And gave you the opportunity to find the right person.

Are you sensitive to rejection?

anonsynth’s Profile Photoanonsynth
When I was young I was very sensitive, but as I aged and gained experience with unethical and dysfunctional human behaviors, I developed a tough exterior that is difficult to penetrate. As a result, I am able to analyze people and detect their intentions and motives which allows me to quickly establish effective personal boundaries and set my expectations accordingly. There was a time when I use to be self conscience or feel bad that I observed and psychoanalyzed everyone, but with more real life experiences, I developed the belief that my analytical approach to human behavior was a matter of survival.
So to answer your question as to whether I am sensitive to rejection, I would simply say this... hell no. If people do not like me, that is not my problem and I refuse to make it my problem and so I ignore those people who reject me. Life is too short to allow those who reject you to prevent you from being happy or achieving your goals.

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If you went to a school reunion, would you feel proud of what you've achieved since school or would you be feel anxious /ashamed maybe about telling people what you've done or not done since compared to them?

LouisaRHale’s Profile PhotoLou
I don’t think I’d feel pride as I’m not a person that thinks like that.
I’m happy with my career so far and whether people have done better or worse than me I will treat them all the same.

If you went to a school reunion, would you feel proud of what you've achieved since school or would you be feel anxious /ashamed maybe about telling people what you've done or not done since compared to them?

LouisaRHale’s Profile PhotoLou
I’d be fine. My life is what it is and I’m not ashamed of it. 🙃 I don’t love to impress people, so as long as I’m happy with how my life is/going. I’d be alright.

مسموح بمشاركة كل ما هو لطيف هُنا؛ صور نصوص أشخاص إنجازات أو كل ما تُحب.. انطلقوا

It was a long day without any producing or achievement in my tasks but thank god I’ve cooked مكرونة بالبشاميل and played a lot with hamood..and that’s make me so free and happy.♥️’
مسموح بمشاركة كل ما هو لطيف هنا صور
أو كل ما تحب

Is a relationship worth it if you have to put a lot of effort to make it work?

It all depends on if the relationship is healthy and makes you both happy. A happy relationship still takes work and effort, but if it feels like nothing but strife and stops feeling happy or healthy then maybe consider its long term viability

Lubisz wątki miłośne w filmach, serialach czy grach?

wyluzowaana’s Profile PhotoDziewczyna z Dobrym Sercem♀❥ ¥
Raczej tak, generalnie nie przeszkadzają mi wątki miłosne pojawiające się w filmach, seriach, grach, książkach czy utworach muzycznych.
Pod warunkiem, że są one dobrze skonstruowane.
Pod słowem "dobrze" mam na myśli coś, co owszem, jest poruszające i mówi o miłości, ale równocześnie nie jest skrajnie naiwne, żenujące ani rzewne, nie powiela szkodliwych stereotypów, nie wkłada nam do głowy nierealnych przekonań o romantycznych relacjach.
Musi to być coś, co sprawia, że cieplej nam się robi na sercu, ale jednocześnie jest życiowe i wiarygodne.
To nie może być tylko słodycz, różowe jednorożce i szczęśliwe zakończenia.
Niezależnie od tego, czy kończy się happy endem, czy też ludzie się rozchodzą, dobry wątek miłosny to coś, co zamiast karmić nas złudzeniami, powinien pozwolić nam na małe, osobiste katharsis albo przynajmniej jakąś konstruktywną i rozwijającą refleksję.

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Lubisz wątki miłośne w filmach serialach czy grach

Is a relationship worth it if you have to put a lot of effort to make it work?

Hmm good question! I feel like it isn’t worth it for me if you constantly have to work hard to make it work.
My current relationship goes very naturally. We make time for each other whenever we can and we rarely argue on things since we’re on one line with most things.
I’m happy it comes so naturally, it feels very relaxing and actually like home instead of having the feeling you have to work hard to make it last.
Is a relationship worth it if you have to put a lot of effort to make it work

Hast du schonmal was von den sogenannten "Tradwives" gehört? Eine Fauenbewegung die "traditionelle Rollenverteilung " propagiert und freiwillig Hausfrau ist und den arbeitenden Mann bedient, kocht, putzt usw. Wie in den 1950igern wie viele der Frauen sagen. Wie findest du diese Bewegung?

Gruselgrete’s Profile PhotoGruselgrete
Davon habe ich bisher noch nichts gehört. Großartig dazu sagen kann ich eigentlich auch nicht wirklich was, denn jeder hat eigene Vorstellungen und Wünsche für sein Leben und ist seines Glückes Schmied - wenn diese Frauen so leben wollen und damit glücklich sind, ist das doch deren Sache. Und so lange alle Beteiligten ein bestimmtes Lebensmodell selbst wollen, nicht dazu gezwungen werden und darin aufgehen, ist das doch total in Ordnung.
Ich persönlich wäre selbst von Herzen gerne Hausfrau, und ich glaube, ich wäre die mega glücklichste Hausfrau. Mir würde es total Freude bereiten, den ganzen Tag damit zu verbringen, das Zuhause schön zu halten, zu gestalten und zu optimieren. Dazu am besten noch ein Langzeitprojekt wie ein toller Garten / Außenbereich oder so, oh Mann, ich wäre so dermaßen Happy. Ich habe vom Berufsleben und den damit verbundenen Menschen einfach nur die Schnauze voll und wäre froh, wenn ich mich nur noch den Dingen widmen könnte, die für mich wirklich Sinn machen und wenn ich gar nicht mehr erst mit irgendwelchen Ars.chkrampen was zu tun haben müsste, die ich privat niemals um mich haben wollte. Somit kann ich in gewissen Zügen gut verstehen, wenn jemand gerne Hausfrau ist. Allerdings würde ich niemals jemanden deswegen "bedienen" wollen. Ich habe und möchte einen Partner auf Augenhöhe, und mein Partner hat und will keine Dienstmagd an seiner Seite. Außerdem würde ich nicht wollen, dass ich auf Kosten meines Partners Hausfrau sein kann, indem er alle finanziellen Aufwendungen alleine trägt. Hausfrau zu sein, wie ich mir das vorstelle, muss man sich buchstäblich leisten können. Und da ich das leider nicht kann, ist das eben eine Frage, die sich erst gar nicht stellt und ich muss weiter arbeiten gehen. Mich mit Zwangskontakten auseinander setzen und in irgendeinem Loch für irgendeinen anderen Menschen Geld produzieren, der sehr wahrscheinlich in dem schönen Haus hockt, das ich mir niemals im Leben werde leisten können.

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i am feeling very ajeeb si bechani what should i do

Skies, i look at the sky, start remembering each and every little or big, happy or sad thing that ever happened to me and commemorate "La hawla wala quwwata Illabillah aliyil Azeem" until i feel good. Always this helps me alot. In short i cry and talk to ALLAH.

لـِمـآ فــٓي قَـلـْـبـِكٰ 🔏🖤

AseelAsool1997’s Profile PhotoASEEL M-AL | لـــوٓز
الحياة جدًا قصيرة لا تمضيها ، مع اشخاص لا يجعلونك سعيدًا 💤💤
Life is too short to spend it with people who don’t make you happy 💤💤

Aku ni tak bercinta ka apa pun tpi bila dgr lagu sedih dah mcm org yg broken ja. Kalah org yg dlm relationship tu😆🤣

Samalah kita 😭☝ berangan lebih. Selalu dengar mixes playlist tu sebab malas nak cari lagu lagi.
Tapi tu la dari sedih tu bila playlist seterusnya lagu happy auto lupa apa yang disedihkan 🤣 drama queen betul 😌

How to let go of someone that doesn’t want me?

Figure out your worth, know that you will find someone who does, put your energy into bettering yourself for you and not for what people might want. Work on being happy in yourself, so that when someone comes, you already know you can be happy without them, and now you’re choosing to be happy with them. Things don’t work out and it’s ok. Don’t waste time with something that won’t go anywhere. Also don’t make it a thing to have to find someone, or you probably find the wrong person for the wrong reasons. Just let things happen and be.

Hal kecil apa yang bisa bikin lo seneng banget dan mensyukuri nikmat tuhan ?

1. Kmrn malem langit Jakarta bersih bgt jd bs liat bintang2. Tadi pagi kebangun pagi utk jogging dan sunrisenya cantik bgtt!
2. Kmrn ngobrol sm stranger yg sefrekuensi bgt dan serasa kyk udh kenal lama.
3. Dipertemukan sm crush gue randomly.
4. Punya waktu luang untuk ketemu sm orang2 yg gue sayang.
5. Kmrn kontrak kerja gue batal (tbh ini kerjaan yg gue tunggu dan prepare bgt), tp gue bersyukur krn calon bos gue itu ga baik.
6. Punya waktu istirahat yg cukuuup!
7. Diberkati utk memberi dan malah diksh lebih lg dr Tuhan.
8. Didoain stranger randomly.
9. Keluarga gue, temen2 gue, sahabat2 gue ga ada yg sakit dan msh idup.
10. Gue ga pinter tp diberkati rasa penasaran utk mau trs belajar (menurut gue ini privilege).
11. Account2 bijak di Askfm hahaha.
12. Account2 affirmation, self-development, quotes, bijak, motivation, manifesting di Instagram yg aesthetic.
13. Video2 receh hahaha.
14. Nemu hidden gem playlist di Spotify.
15. Nemu lagu bagus dr autoplay.
Hahaha msh banyak tp gue udh mau lanjut kerja jd babai. Thanku utk asknya krn gue jawabnya jd happy dan penuh syukur lagii. Have a blessed life!

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What are you so afraid of ?

Bismayy0357’s Profile PhotoBismaa.
My biggest fear is forgetting things I did , places I’ve been , times , when I was happy. Those very moments . I don’t wanna forget the times I hung out, times I just sat down with anyone I cared about and talked. I want to remember my life ,Good and bad i want all of my moments all of the laughs, tears, shared secrets, fights, everything.

What do i do? I am in love with my best friend and its ruining our friendship

If they don’t feel the same way, let them go. If you can’t be just friends without making it weird, let them go. If you can eventually get over it, then that’s good. Don’t try and “change their mind”. Just don’t make things weird and awkward and you will be ok. If you truly love someone you want them happy no matter who they are with.

What is one thing you did that you thought was pretty but was actually a little creepy?

KeepYourEyesPeeled’s Profile PhotoKeepYourEyesPeeled
Once during car trip I was navigating my husband as per map and I persuaded him to use some shorter field road 😬..... But it looked like this plus with bigger stones in real👇😯 so we were happy that we did not overturn or lose the exhaust! 🤦‍♀️
What is one thing you did that you thought was pretty but was actually a little

Tell me something because i'm not happy

"لا تدري لعلَّ الله يُحدِثُ بعد ذلك أمرًا"..
بجد كفيله انها تطمنا اووي وتخلينا ع يقين دائم بالله مهما واجهنا من تعب وصعوبات ف رب الخلق والخليقه قادر ع كل شئ.. وحزنك او زعلك او دموعك دي مش هينه عند ربنا ابدا دا الرحيم والروؤف بعباده.. بس محتاجين ثقه ويقين زياده ف ربنا وكل حاجه بتتحل ومفيش حزن او تعب او مشكله او اي هم مهما كان صغير الا وبيحمي ذنوب قصاده... ابتسم ربنا عند حسن ظن العبد به وكل مت قع آت.. ربنا يهون علينا جميعا ويفرح قلوبنا ويريح بالنا ويعوض كل واحد عن اي تعب شافه..💜

*I will however send a pure boi to brighten his day* *Red approaches concerned* "Uhm, excuse me, are you alright?" *he blinks up at the Yakuza with innocent Ruby red eyes*

PyromaniaRed’s Profile PhotoRed
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀╱╱ ⠀🐍【⠀ᴛʜᴇ ᴍᴀᴅ ᴅᴏɢ ᴏꜰ ꜱʜɪᴍᴀɴᴏ⠀】⠀⠀╱╱
⠀ The hylian boy's appearance may have brought out an internal surprise in the man, however, he had no reason to involve other people in his affairs. Much less when they were quite... complicated.
Majima pretended to have a serene and unconcerned face, ignoring the number of cigarettes that might have said otherwise... hoped he didn't even know what that meant.
⠀ ❝...Happy as a clam. Jus' some stress from work, nothin' important.❞
He lied. He was great at that, and he hated it.
I will however send a pure boi to brighten his day Red approaches concerned Uhm

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