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Is the world experiencing a clash of civilizations?

Yes. In 1996, the late Samuel Huntington (1927-2008), a respected Harvard professor, published The Clash of Civilizations and the Remaking of World Order. He saw the Cold War’s end as a transition into a world in which the divisions among the great powers once based on political ideologies would be replaced by the more enduring divisions in history grounded in cultures and religious traditions. Huntington defined civilization as the broadest cultural identity in history.
Huntington cautioned fellow Americans: “In the emerging world of ethnic conflict and civilizational clash, Western belief in the universality of Western culture suffers three problems:
1. it is false;
2. it is immoral;
3. it is dangerous.”
He said, “The belief that non-Western peoples should adopt Western values, institutions, and culture is immoral because of what would be necessary to bring it about… Imperialism is the necessary logical consequence of universalism.”
Huntington simply could not imagine that an increasingly faithless, feckless, radically secularized, and libertarian West (and America) might be a greater danger than other cultures in widening the post-Cold War world’s civilizational divisions. In other words, he did not perceive that the contemporary West, culturally in disrepair and spiritually broken, can provide neither leadership nor moral guidance to others when needed in preventing the clash of civilizations.
America's first president, George Washington, warned:
“Europe has a set of primary interests, which to us have none or a very remote relation. Hence she must be engaged in frequent controversies, the causes of which are essentially foreign to our concerns.” Furthermore, “Why, by interweaving our destiny with that of any part of Europe, entangle our peace and prosperity in the toils of European ambition, rivalship, interest, humor, or caprice? It is our policy to steer clear of permanent alliances, with any portion of the foreign world.”

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قد تاثرت بمشهد عاطفي سواء في فلم او لعبة أو حتى انمي ؟

otakugamer1412_’s Profile PhotoOtakugamer1412
ما اذكر شفت أنمي الا تأثرت بشكل من الاشكال ،
One piece ~> Ace 💔
Death note ~> L 😖
Attack on titans ~> Eren Yeager's mother and Mikasa's history
Hunter X Hunter ~> everyone 😭
Violet Evergarden ~> My heeeart 😵
اوك خلاص بوقف ههه
المهم اجابتي ايه في الانمي ، و افلام الرعب يرتفع الادرينالين عندي اتحمس ههـ😊

Why would you hurt a loved one on purpose

teddytherakeaa’s Profile PhotoTeddy TheRakeaa
I think this is a myth created by a society of born victims. Let me explain. I don't believe 99% of people set out to hurt anyone. Sure abusive people exist, but our of 7.8 billion that's a minority. I think whats more common is normal people doing what they feel is best for themselves being called abusive. There is no way to go through this life without doing harm. I'm sorry if that seems incorrect to some, but you know what they say about good intentions.
You always hurt someone as we're just animals. We're flawed. We aren't born perfect. We can never achieve perfection. We can only learn through our mistakes! Humans are also rather inventive animals that like to change their memories, perspectives, and history to fit their version of events. It's not that we're liars. I don't believe that. It's more that our brains are built around survival. Around coping and not truth. And that big brain which made us so great can make up a story to justify anything

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I may send this out to everyone I follow but I genuinely want to catch up with everyone so: How have you been doing recently? Anything that's happened that you want to share? 😊

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
Things are going well in my family. My wife has recovered from a heart attack last August and she is slowly increasing her physical workouts and is able to swim 50 laps in the pool. Our daughter is completing her first year in high school with honors and is playing violin, piano, golf and working on various art projects.
So from a family perspective I am pleased; however, when I analyze our politics and the state of our foreign policy I am deeply disturbed. We continue to spend billions of dollars in foreign aide that we do not have. We allow millions of illegal aliens to enter our country from around the world without proper identification, background checks, health checks, etc. And America continues to instigate war and stick it's nose where it does not belong all in an attempt to control the world while enriching itself.
As a nation we are financially and morally bankrupt and currently have the most dysfunctional and corrupt leadership in the history of our country. We are seeing massive increases in energy and shortages in food to the point where babies are not being fed properly. So politically and morally, the United States, in my opinion, is in ruins.
Other than that, things are intolerable and the American people are in the process of rising up against our government and many evil and corrupt politicians will lose power in the November elections. Oh... and the Biden administration is planning to hand over our national sovereignty to the World Health Organization which is in violation of our constitution, but these criminals do not give a damn.

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I don’t enjoy clubbing- is that ok?

So i’m 19 and everyone is out clubbing. I just really don’t enjoy it. I suffer with bad anxiety and i can’t think of anything worse than a loud space, dancing, being approached by people. I’m more than happy to go for drinks or food but i hate how i’m made to feel not “normal” because i don’t go out out. Is it ok that i prefer to go out when it’s quieter and more chilled. I also have a history of sexual assault so i’m very wary on drunk men and spiking ect. I’d prefer to stay away.
I feel similarly. I’m in my 30s now and did my fair share of clubbing because I enjoy dancing. I’m also male, so I have less fear attached to things like that. But now I enjoy talking and having real conversations over drinks. It’s more enjoyable and safe and it feeds my soul more. You’re just ahead of your friends. Just don’t shame them for wanting to go out and invite them to more intimate gatherings when you can. You’re good.
Some of my friends used to look at me weirdly whenever I’d say that. I’m the same age as you and honestly I hate clubbing and loud crowded spaces just because I’m a quiet person. Nothing wrong with not liking any of that. My friends don’t bother asking me anymore just because they know I feel out of place since I don’t drink or smoke. I prefer chill quiet places too
I’m much older but when I was your age I always had much older friends and all the friends that I did have (Gf, etc) always wanted to club but I was much more mature and somehow passed that phase. You ain’t missing nothing. You do you and be proud that you are saving money by not participating.
Yep! I’m 24 and I’ve been clubbing once and hated it so much. It was hard when I turned 21 (I live in the US) and it was all my friends wanted to do, but you’re not alone and you should be able to find friends who want to do things that aren’t clubbing. And if your friends do enjoy clubbing you can obviously still be friends, maybe just suggest some other activities every once in a while and communicate your concerns if it seems like clubbing is all they want to do.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. You are perfectly normal. I grew up in one of the "clubbing capitals of the world" so from age 18 to 21 I'd hit the club every week. I thought that's what I was "supposed" to be doing but never really liked it. Smelly, sweaty, drunk people all around you....also hated how girls degraded themselves for a cheap bottle.
I hate clubbing. I’m more of a sit at a bar type to eat and chat peacefully without loud music blaring directly in my delicate ears. I did try it a few times for a night-out with the girls due to a friends bad breakup but guys kept interrupting our time just dancing together. One even snuck behind me without warning and proceeded to rub himself. Like stranger please, you didn’t ask to dance and helped yourself to get handsy around my parts.

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is the freedom limited or absolute here? what do you want to change when it comes to "Freedom"?

Weirdonist’s Profile PhotoWeirdonist
It’s both limited and absolute. When it comes to laws and religion it is limited but there are groups of people here and also everywhere; who have an absolute freedom in the world. In his great book “History and Utopia” Cioran says: “It (Freedom) escape us at the very moment we try to grasp and formulate it: no one can enjoy freedom without trembling. Freedom is desperately mortal…” I remember his idea of freedom mentioned in “A Short History of Decay” يقول إن الحرية مبدأٌ إيطيقي من جوهرٍ شيطاني.😆 sometimes I feel that freedom is a wast of time because it’s one of thing that truly exist yet everyone likes to wonder does freedom exist or not?! Just by asking that question we proved that it does exist. Maybe that what i want to change… for that question to disappear so we can focus on what to do with that freedom rather than keep questioning it. Going back to the first part of your question, I quoted Cioran (because i like him) because he can say how freedom and be both limited and absolute in one society or civilisation… but either ways i feel like people fear freedom.

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is the freedom limited or absolute here what do you want to change when it comes

This one goes to the Askfm Nazi team:

viktoriaonegina’s Profile PhotoV
I know this one will be deleted, as the endless mass of previous posts (from many people) that have exposed your rotten, lousy, deceitful essence.
How dare you remove precious words of me (& other people) wishing a happy VICTORY DAY 9TH MAY to other normal people who remembered, remember and will always remember, who will always honour and pass on this knowledge, this history to their descendants !?
I know how ...... This is NOT your holiday, this is NOT your happy day because you are a fucking Nazi, this is your day of loss. Your day is 8th May – a day of reconciliation and mourning for your non-victory in enduring malice!
You once again prove yourself to be a Nazi, once again you show that what Russians (including the long-suffering people of LDPR) valiant soldiers are doing is CORRECT and MUST be DONE ! There is no place for you on this planet !!! We defeated you then, we will defeat you now !
You are people who have forgotten your roots and your history, you are people who are rewriting the course of events, you are already more than half dead. You can't shut everyone up! The truth will be revealed.

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Was college different in your days than it is now?

Yes. Big Time!
When I attended college we did not study: gender studies, black history, feminism, equity and inclusion, etc. I studied composition, arranging, harmony, counterpoint, improvisation, music history, conducting, ear training, guitar, piano, bass guitar, digital systems, analog systems, power supplies, electricity, physics, calculus, English Literature, US History, Ancient History, Fine Arts, Public Speaking, Psychology, Philosophy, Network engineering, machine language, basic programming, pascal programming, C Programming, IP addressing, Subnet masking, OSPF, BGP, RIP, WAN, LAN, Routers, Switches, Firewalls, OSI Model, Access Lists, etc
And after acquiring all of this knowledge I worked hard to apply what I had learned. In the case of music, I performed in bands and practiced to continuously improve. In the case of engineering I became a Cisco Certified and Baynetworks Certified Network Engineer and worked for many organizations over a 40 year career i.e. Motorola, Nortel, Cabletron, Bay Networks, Cisco, State of New Hampshire, Vital Networks, Bloomin Brands and Tech Data.
Whenever possible, I studied subjects that interested me and that I knew would allow me to earn money and provide for my family. I also studied music, not for the money, but because I love Music and that has always been my dream to earn a degree from Berklee College of Music. Some people say, so what? Who cares? Here is the thing, when we are moments away from death and we reflect upon the life we have lived, what will we think? Will we regret our life because we only did those things that made us money? Or will we have a more balanced appreciation that we utilized our time to not only provide for our family but that we also achieved our dream and thus satisfied our soul? The choice is ours to make and only we, as individuals, can make those choices and be honest enough to own whatever choice we make, and refrain from blaming other people or society, and thus become "victims."
My father once told me the following: "son you've made your bed, and now you must lie in it." Which translated, means that we are responsible for the decisions we make and the consequences of those decisions whether good or bad. Said differently, we must take responsibility for what we think, say and do.

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Serious question… I found out my boyfriend bought a “ v*ginal masturbation cup” off Amazon from his purchase history over a year ago.. I’m feeling like I’m not enough and I’ve been upset. Am I over reacting?

personally speaking, yeah -- people m*asturbate even while in relationships and there's nothing wrong with that. the purchase was from over a year ago.
if you're genuinely upset, then just talk to him about it. relationships are built upon a foundation of communication and trust. if he's a good person, he'll be receptive to your feelings.

Você Minha Amiga Mulher Já Leu Literatura Feminina? Se Sim Você Gostou ou Não e o Porquê de Sua Resposta

MarceloFreitas308’s Profile PhotoJONNHY CAMOMILA
If you mean some sweet romantic female novels, so I dont like them 😁. But from fantasy I liked The Twilight Saga, Fallen saga, A Discovery of Witches saga, from older ones I like Rebecca, Jane Eyre, Wuthering Heights and some other from history like Inquisition flames or Gritch witch etc... 👍

Masz dramę która zapadła ci w pamięć lub taką do której lubisz wracać?🤍

ewka988’s Profile PhotoAniołek
Tak, jedną z takich dram jest HIStory 3:Trapped. Kocham w tej dramie dosłownie wszystko! Mimo, że jest tam parę luk w wydarzeniach to tak naprawdę nie zwraca się na to większej uwagi, bo scenariusz jest tak dokładnie dopieszczony, że naprawdę nie ma się tutaj do czego doczepić. Typowa drama z enemies to lovers, ale relacja głównych bohaterów jest tutaj tak dobrze przedstawiona i co najważniejsze zdrowa! Oglądałam ją już z dobre 10 razy i obejrzę na pewno jeszcze nie raz!
Masz dramę która zapadła ci w pamięć lub taką do której lubisz wracać

Youth ko Allah ka naam lyna chahiye or naik zindgi guzarni chahiye jo hmri nabi (saw ) ne sekhaye...

mp16h’s Profile Photoطفیل عباسی
Quran ko Arabic mein parh kar rakh dene se humari youth Kuch nhi seekhe gi. Jab shaitan ne kaha ke woh har taraf se hamla karega tou humein khud ko us ke liye tayyar rakhna hoga. Humare cinema, dramas aur media Haram cheezo ko promote kar rha hai. Is ko combat karne ke liye humein initiative lene honge because modern problems require modern solutions. Youth books nhi parhegi Lekin media consume zaroor karegi. We should use our writers and directors ke woh aese projects banae jin se youth ko humari history aur religion ke baare mein informative content diya ja sakay. And trust me, youth janti hai ke what’s worth watching and what isn’t.

popularity over credentials? artist over lawyer? clean track record over no college degree? seriously? haha hirap mong ipaglaban, Pilipinas.

"Those that fail to learn from history are doomed to repeat it." - George Santayana
Good luck, Pilipinas. I'm turning off the news and stay offline muna. Adios.

سؤال محيرني؟!🙃 الي خترع الكيك 🍰 كان يفكر ف شنو عشان يخلي البيض و طحين و مدري ايش؟ و ليش سماه كيك؟ 🎂

بدايتها كان القمح ينعجن مع العسل و يصير خبزة بالعسل حلوة كذا كانت بداية الكيك ثم مع الوقت تطورت اكتب بقوقل
Cake history و شوف معلومات كثيرة و اصل الكلمة

If you were to visit New York, which landmark would you want to visit first? 🗽 👍 😇

redoasis2017’s Profile Photo★ ☮ ♫ тєηα¢ισυѕ тσммαу™ ▩ ♚ ☻
I'd tell you the American Museum of Natural History 🤩 but since the first day I would be tired from jet lag then I would go to central Park 😻💗🤩
So I could walk without obligation, rest and still enjoy the city from a magnificently privileged position 🏙️🌳🐿️🐦🌲🌸🌺🐿️⛰️🌳🐦🌲🌸🌺🏙️
And the next day I would go to the Museum where I would spend the whole day 😻💗🤩💗🌠🌌
If you were to visit New York which landmark would you want to visit first

Until now kumakapit si bbm na dinaya raw siya. Nirerevise na nga niya ang history ng pamilya niya pati ba naman ang election noon ay iniiba niya rin. Sumusobra na talaga tong pagkasinungaling niya. Sinasadya niyang di isali ang info na ang nag decide ay ang Supreme Court. Beware of fake news, people

True. The majority of them are Duterte appointees pa. Yet ganun pa rin, dinaya daw. Tapos now may mind conditioning pa na if matatalo man siya, it means may dayaan. And the most pathetic and most absurd part is that people actually believe those statements. Ganun na ba ka gullible mga tao?
Until now kumakapit si bbm na dinaya raw siya Nirerevise na nga niya ang history

lesbian isn't a gender. wtf is wrong with you? lol. why are you trying to change the definitions of things?? im a gay person and im rly annoyed by these clownery that makes us look like utter fools. stop, we are not this. we are just normal ppl trying to live peacefully.

sounds like you need to brush up on Lesbian history. I recommend Leslie Feinberg.
also, im just a normal person trying to live my life and you've come at me all mad and making a fuss
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Wymienisz miejsca, które są najchętniej odwiedzane przez turystów w Seattle? 💫

koreandramaplx’s Profile PhotoKorean Drama Polska
Wymieniłam TOP 10:
#1 Seattle Center & the Space Needle — Centrum Seattle & Kosmiczna Igła
#2 Pike Place Market — Targowisko Pike Place
#3 Discovery Park — Park Odkrywców
#4 Woodland Park Zoo — Ogród zoologiczny w parku leśnym
#5 The Museum of History & Industry — Muzeum Historii i Przemysłu
#6 The Galleries at the Seattle Art Museum — Galerie w Muzeum Sztuki w Seattle
#7 The Museum of Flight — Muzeum Lotnictwa
#8 Whale Watch from Seattle — Zegarek wielorybów z Seattle
#9 Washington Park Arboretum — Arboretum w Parku Waszyngtona
#10 Gas Works Park — Park Gazowni

Argument between Amma and Abba😂 Who is gonna win? Guess

Asma_783569’s Profile PhotoTris kai Deka_
Yaar few days back my father and i was sitting, my mother suddenly came and asked my father. Why you were searching your ex on fb today, he was shocked like no i didn't then my ama said you sure you didn't. He saw me and asked how did she know this, I said yes from sreach history cause you both have mutual acc (Actually my mother use his acc) :p so papa said this is wrong, acc use krne de rha hu so you can't keep an eye on me then he apologized. :p but yk the best thing, ami bichari ka to dheyan he nae tha search history mai yeh mene he ami ke phone se dekh ke bataya tha ke papa ex ko search kr rhe hain aj kal. ×D hahahahahaha

Good it's roped of history needs to be protected! Venice the water city in Italy if you know it, it has so many tourists that it's sinking a few cm every year so sometimes 80% of the city is flooded. Pyramids chinese tourists write their names on so i think it's good to protect history

I agree. I did read about that. It’s nice in a sense that so many are interested in the history but sad that it does so much damage 🥺
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Do you know the tree that Robin lived in is real and still exist? Or that there still is a real sheriff of Nottingham? It's so cool when stories of history still exist today even if Robin wasn't a fox or sheriff or nottingham wasn't a lion with a pet snake 🤣

I've been to the tree so yes, it's all roped off now though cos people visiting it have damaged its roots by stepping all over them 🥺 You can still see it but can't touch it anymore

What do you usually look for when you're searching for a place to stay a few nights? 🔑

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
Meet one of 2 places we have chosen for summer holiday '22 😍👇, it must have:
1. Cute cottage in which we are alone
2. Kitchen + 2 rooms
3. Nice bathroom
4.near Lake & Forest
5.near history castle or manor-house 👍
What do you usually look for when youre searching for a place to stay a few

It's so hot. How about in your area?

It was 70 yesterday and it's 50 now 😭
Maybe I'm cursed, the day I moved here was the hottest day in history and now it's the coldest spring in history. All in less than a year.
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5 facts about you please 👀

1. As a child, when I heard the term "making babies", I was convinced they're making them out of plasticine.
2. I love onions and potatoes
3. My first big art success was achieved..by accident. I was 11 years old and it was to design a crest for my county. The school principle wanted me to submit a design, but I declined because I'd compete against adults. So to get me to do it, they've made it compulsory for all students to draw a crest, and then snatched my work and sent it off. The colours used for crests are limited, I used some brown which wasn't allowed, and at the last minute I was told to change it, so I changed it into black, which accidentally joined 2 motives together creating an interesting effect which captured the judge's attention. I won the competition.
4. My most interesting, physical finding was a ww2 bayonet with words engraved "ku krwi ojczyzny, 1942." (for the blood of the fatherland 1942). I've given it to the school's "museum" (we had a history classroom with all historic artefacts that anyone could find).
5. I hate Chinese food.

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If you could have lunch with 1 person from history, who would it be?

ArielFern11441’s Profile PhotoAriel Fern
Speaking with Napolean would be interesting. Anything ive read about him have always been 'accounts of' and it felt as though the autobiography he wrote on St Helena seemed rushed and incomplete. Almost like he felt he 'had' to write it.
He left stuff out, allot of stuff. Very important historical facts that he took to his grave. I want to know why he wanted to keep them to himself.

Czy oglądasz jakiś youtuberów/youtoberki?

Na yt nie oglądam nikogo regularnie, odsłucham 7 metrów pod ziemią, jeżeli interesuje mnie temat, Marcina Myszkę, ale jego słucham częściej na Spotify, nadal kocham Stanowo.com i czekam na powrót, czasami obejrzę jakiś urbex, lubię Urbex History i Żądnego Przygód, lubię też BezPlanu, ale kiedyś częściej go oglądałam

What do you say to those who cook biryani on someone's death, and to those people who come and eat it?

OneFinalTime_Maybe’s Profile PhotoAhmed Imran Hashmi
Utterly contingent on the faith and intentions eventually. I cite it as an endeavour of the family to distribute alms among their fraternity to pave the way for salvation of deceased . Perhaps you have a history of witnessing such abrasive cases where people have no sense of compunction 🤷‍♀️ and I can certainly assure you that the demeanour you are referring to is not an act of nobles

Do you like museums? If yes do you have a favourite? What is it?

LouiseDooley’s Profile PhotoOrion The Huntress
I've been going to the Science Museum in London ever since I was about 6 years old, and it was part of the reason why I chose to relocate to London to go to university - both my decision to study science (Physics) and because of the access to that museum and others. I still go in there regularly, most times that I travel into Central London.
I also love the Natural History Museum, the Victoria & Albert, the British museum, and all the galleries - Tate (Britain & Modern), National & Portrait galleries, Saatchi, Wallace collection and others. There are so many great museums in London.

Okay how about this , is it appropriate that a few nursery rhymes are about bad events in history. Such as ring around a roses and London Bridge is falling down?

I don't see any harm in this, quite on the contrary - it can encourage kids to read up on it and learn the truth behind the rhymes.
This includes older Disney movies as well, most of the stories they were based on were grim

Being fat is a choice. Stop eating. Simple! :-) I wish people would stop comparing "fatphobia" with racism. People can't help being a race. Also, it's racist in itself and highly disrespectful for poc and indigenous people to compare their struggles throughout history with "fatphobia".

Your oversimplification and use of logical fallacies tells me you're grossly informed.
As for the white knighting, there is plenty of work by fat BIPOC that speak to the struggles of being both fat and black and/or indigenous in a world that discriminates against both. Intersectionality is a thing. I'd recommend listening to them before using them as a weapon to justify your - drumroll please - fatphobia. *gasp*

Ho capito,interessante. Non so se ti ho già fatto questa domanda, ma tu segui i programmi su History che parlano di paranormale?

spometto’s Profile PhotoSimone Pometto
No non sono argomenti chr mi interessano molto ad dirti la verità. Anzi ti dico di guardare fuori dal coro che stasera parlano pure di un pedofili che lui è stato condannato però continuano a delinquere. Poi parlano di un grande giacimenti in Campania che però è bloccato da due anni per mancanza di autorizzazione

⏳ If you could time travel would you go ahead to the future or back in history?

So technically you can only accelerate forward in time. There is a theoretical possiblity of going backwards, but that wouldn't be the same reality you started in. Time in our reality only moves forward. Theoretically there is a parallel of our universe where it can flow backwards. You would need to leave the universe entirely, enter it's mirror version, and come out hopefully in your own universe... But in a past time period. Seems like a lot of work to just get burned at the stake for doing math or swimming. Go forward

Does your past matters? I mean after turning a new leaf. How will you deal with your personal history?

Tinatakbuhan ko hanggang ngayon yung past ko, kung pwede lang talaga ibaon na lamang sa lupa yon, ibabaon ko nalang. Kung may delete botton don, buburahin ko na lang. Hanggang ngayong di ko pa rin matanggap yung nakaraan. Di ko na alam kung pano umusad 😁
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If you had to teach anything at all, what would you teach? and why?

msministries’s Profile Photochill
Legal studies because I'm definitely qualified to deliver that standard curriculum. Ancient History and English would be other options.
If it was university level teaching, I'd choose criminal law or even torts.

Is Imran khan going to be PM again?

Before giving out my opinion on this i would want to clear my stance. I with all my consciousness intact would admit that i don’t support any leadership or democratic party and this confession was just to base my opinion on unbiasedness.
Keeping history in mind and the current political factors it is highly unlikely that Imran will come back in next elections, i only see his party getting 30-50 odd seats in next elections.
Why is this likelihood?
I as an observer always saw imran’s narrative being very hard and supporting one specific class, it was his narrative back then in 2016-2017 which led him not to sit with opposition where even he him self felt the need to sit and figure out deadlocks. Unfortunately in democracy hard line narratives have tendency to fail at large because at some point in time you are stuck to figure out deadlocks. Once again when Imran saw the paradox shift he once again took a hard liner, mocking the already mocked as being traitors but this time around he does not have the extra-terrestrial support he had back in. 2017-2018 elections which will definitely reflect in upcoming elections.
In my opinion big names who were very close to him might leaving PTI thus leading to intra-party crises which at this stage is very crucial keeping elections in mind.
I as a neutral observe would really want Imran khan to gather potential people, some new faces, some honest and educated electable.
What’s done is done, we as individuals want Pakistan to prosper and we as nation want good sense to prevail.
*long live Pakistan*

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Stii sab2en b history gamd f45 3la el a2l bgd masdom asln mn enk tktby topic zy da w tkarni l barca m3ahom w 7ass in fe 7aga 8lt

احنا كنا بنترول لما بنقول البرسا بيطفحنا الكورة بس لول!! احنا طفحناها فعلا..
و بعدين انت عايزني اكتبلك توبيك اقارن فريقي ب فريق هيقابل السيتي سيمي فاينال تشامبيونز بعد اسبوع تقريبا علشان كدا ابقا سابورتر جامده جدا و يا الهي فيسكا برسا فور ايفر؟؟ روح نام يسطا

I want to hear men's perspective: my fiance has cheated on me wid another girl,my fiance was with her for 3 years (she didn't know he is engaged) but he has intention of marrying me. now his cheating has came into light and he has said sorry to me. what to do, forgive him or quit this relationship?

You want to marry a cheater, girl? Honestly, speaking with experience, guys or gals who have history of cheating would repeat the same thing again if they aren't taught a good lesson. Now, every person has some behaviour which he/she repeats again and again. In case of cheating, ppl either get bored of you or they wanna keep having that thrill of dating new ppl every now and then. That intimate attraction that lasts a few weeks or months keep them driving. Now, if you have been giving them right proportion of time and importance, cheating doesn't make any sense. And if suppose dat the person was unsure abt his feelings, he kept using both of you so he won't have to be left alone when he chose any of you. I mean for me, I won't be able to get this idea off my brain that person whom I loved used me for their own ease even if they now become really good and loyal. But would say this again that ppl who get addicted of this kinda spice. It's really hard to let go. And believe you me, 99 percent of ppl never change.
And abt guys who do change, they are those who will start to find something in you that they were missing in themselves. In short, if you make them question themselves, and is very rare. I've told you my take, rest is on you girl. Be happy.

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It is devastating when someone you love and trust the most, and have had so much hope for violates your privacy and your trust in them. Do they value me so little? I would never do this to them. I shared my painful and scary history with them and it seems to have inspired them to do the same to me. I would rather it be anyone else in the world. I've been praying for their wellbeing every day since 2016. I thought I had finally found someone who could understand me. It was like looking in a mirror. I have been so alone throughout my life. I ran to them with my pain. Hundreds of letters and songs and videos that have meant so much to me. I was truly vulnerable with them like nobody else. I've wanted to maintain a close connection. I made them a priority. I tried to encourage them and make them laugh. I tried to remind them of their worth. I've been loyal. I've changed, they helped me realize truths. I let them into my heart. I don't know why this is happening now. What have I done that drove them to do this for so long, years, and then barely speak to me for months at a time? Yet they have been so close by. Silence towards me, but still taking what they want without asking. It is violating and destroying the immense trust I have had in them. Is that even of any value to them? I don't deserve to be treated like this by anyone. I deserve to be treated with the same respect I have given them. I don't want my last hopes to die. That part of me that still prays they will make the effort to change. The part of me that unconditionally loves them still. I need communication and honesty. I don't want to become a cold person towards them. It is unnatural. This is not okay, none of this is okay.

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