#honesty

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I like this girl but I feel she is better than me? What to do?

Let me give you advice that will help you on long run bro.
1. First of all, do not degrade yourself by such statements. Almighty has made all of us in the best way and HIS creations are always perfect.
2. If you are a teenager ,then my sincere advice, don't do nonsense of liking girls and this and that. Turn 25 and above, make something out of yourself and then you can choose whoever you want in life.
3. If you are at the age of marriage then I would suggest to approach her with pure intentions and let her know or approach her parents/family members. Trust me, they will appreciate your honesty and sincerity more than anything else because it is all about respect at the end of the day.
4. Just be happy as you are my man, don't fall in these categories and constricts that Pakistani societies and people in general add on others. Couple of weeks ago I saw some posts here where nibbis were making fun of a guys height because his wife was taller than him. Truly you will realize that these people and most importantly these superficial kind are not worth it. They throw their insecurities at others. So live life with pure intentions keeping Allah SWT in mind and everything will be okay.
5. Lastly, this life is very temporary, so why live with these statements that only bring you down. Be happy in yourself, be happy with life Allah SWT has given and see yourself in a positive way. What you can change in your life, you work towards changing that and what you cannot change, why worry about that?
Good luck, May things become easier for you, Ameen

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Who can be pure evil? Like when you were born you're perfectly fine everything is fine around you but you are just dead ass evil ;-;

Demons are inherently pure evil. They were created to be an example of true evil without any good.
The Anti is also pure evil, destroying for the sake of destruction and greed. No good, love, honesty, loyalty, care or anything positive resides in him whatsoever.
Most human are not born evil, but they can become that way. But it’s rare for one to be able to reach the same levels as a demon, unless they are part demon.
-T

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Most of the nice people I know seem to be that way without even choosing to be at a certain point. It's like a default setting that they can't break free from. Someone like you, who appears to have given thought to how to deviate from that path, but stays on it, is very rare. Is it hard to do that?

I think it's the same case with me. I've thought about changing myself, I've tried to do that but it just doesn't seem natural. I feel like I'm forcing myself to become who I am not and that makes me deeply uncomfortable. I can't stand hypocrisy and fakeness. I hate these two things in others and I hate them in myself. Now obviously I'm not always honest like any other human being, but honesty is something I strive for and I do try my best to be honest. It's way harder for me to change the way I am than stay the way I am. Having said that, I'm not always nice. I have a limit and once you push me to it then you'll see a side of me you did not expect or wish to see.

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While it's true that the nicer ones tend to get screwed over more, isn't it also true that they're also the ones with greater potential for happiness? Is it a double edged sword?

I think so. Because the nicer, more "naive" ones tend to be more optimistic about life in general, and they are usually not very cynical. They don't close themselves off to new opportunities in fear of getting hurt. So there's a chance they might come across great things in life due to their openness, honesty and ability to trust others.
Also I should say people who are considered naive are sometimes naive on purpose. Meaning that they are intentionally honest and open with others because they do not believe in being fake and pretending to be who they are not. So while they do know that their sincerity has its downsides, they choose to be that way.

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Why do people say that people are offended by honesty

AhmadBakheitMndo’s Profile Photo∆HMED
اللي هو لما بيقولوا "انت مبتحبش اللي بيقول لك الحقيقة" ؟
بيتهيألي بيقولوا كده مقابل رد فعل اللي قصادهم ب إنه مش حابب يسمع اللي بيقولوه، بس من رأيي إنها مش إنه مبيحبش يسمع الحقيقة ع قد م تمام هو ممكن يكون عارف المنطقي وشايف اللي بيتكلموا فيه وهو اصلا من جواه بيأنب نفسه عليه ف حالة لو الحوار عن موقف حاصل مثلا، أو انهم بيتكلموا ف نقطة مخوفاه أو عنده إن سيكيوريتي ناحيتها، بس مع ذلك بيحاول ياخد الدنيا بسلاسة ويثق ف اللي شايفه ويحاول يعمل اللي يتعمل..
فالفكرة مش ف الحقيقة ع قد م هي ف الأسلووب اللي بيُسلَك علشان تتقال، فطبيعي إن الشخص هيميل لـ اللين، فَ في الحالة دي بيبقى محتاج حد فاهمه يوصل له البوينت بطريقة كويسة مفهاش تنفير.

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To love or to be loved?

Love must always be reciprocal.
If one person in the relationship is not as committed to the same level of love as the other person is, it will never work. I have firsthand experience with that sadly.
You cannot ascertain the other person’s level of devotion to you by what they say. You must be able to keenly judge their actions. There are too many selfish people in this world that say one thing and do the absolute opposite.
Love must be reciprocated. It must grow evenly always moving forward in a positive manner. The only way that can happen is through very open lines of discussion.
Never be afraid to open your heart fully to the person you love. Only through honesty and open communication can love continue to grow for both people.
(I love deep questions night. 😊)

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Do you think lying is sometimes necessary in order not to hurt?

These are my thoughts. If you can’t be honest with someone, then you can’t be my friend.
I get so disappointed that people try and justify dishonesty and lying. If you have to lie to someone to protect their feelings, then you show them you have no respect for them as a friend and human being.
I’d rather have a tough friend, a true friend, who will always be honest with me than someone who I cannot trust.
Just remember this - there is no replacement for honesty.

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What do we, as brown people, crave more? Wealth or respect?

ossamaaltaf007’s Profile PhotoOssama
Practically we needboth money and respectin our life
No matter whatever people say, but we need both for surviving a good life! Yes, I believe that respect is something which will earn you value of being alive but money is what you need actually for begin alive!
Without respect, with lot of money, we can't live a satisfactory life! And without money, with lot of respect, same is true!
But
In my opinion, hardwork and honesty is more important than both money and respect! Hardwork will earn you money and honesty will earn you respect! But the answer to your question is both are not helpful without eachother!

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If a guy says something like "many guys can't wait to talk to you" or "you are making things hard for the guys out there" or "prepare for a lot greetings/comments", could that mean himself likes you somehow?

There does sound like some jealously there as for how you described his comments. You don’t say if you have any feelings for him. But you should have a conversation about this. Just ask him if he has feelings for you. And when you answer his answer to your question, please be honest with him.
If you want a guy’s respect it will come from your honesty with him first and foremost. He may not like the answer you give him. But it will be a conversation he will appreciate having with you.
Let’s be honest here. Lying to someone to protect their feelings is a fate far worse than death. It is an emotional band-aid only used to make you feel better in an awkward conversation. But I will guarantee you, the guy will respect you if you are completely honest with him. It could be as simple as this.
You - “(name) I’d like to ask you a question. Do you have feelings for me?”
Him - “Actually yes I do. How did you guess?”
You - “I had a feeling. (Name) I am so happy to hear that. I care about you very much too!”
Or You - “I had a feeling. (Name) thank you for being honest with me. I know it hard for us to talk about our feelings for someone else when we are unsure of the others person’s feelings. Here is how I feel. I think you are a really nice guy. But I have no romantic feelings for you. I wanted you to know my honest feelings because I respect you enough to tell you what’s in my heart. I still like being your friend. But it is best we each understand how we feel about each other. You deserve that. Would you like to talk about how you feel right now? Or would you like a hug first?”
(I made myself all 🥺 writing this. Maybe I need a pen name for writing romance novels. How about Elle Lamette? 😊)

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Top 10 favourite continued

@M1ssSemy - we have not spoken in a good while, but she is still my favourite Latvian person in the whole world, I love her sense of humour, we’ve had a good laugh from time to time, she’s just brilliant!
@matniaa - We don’t speak much… but it’s not a list without Matina, what a beautiful person inside and out!
@PlanetShelby we have not spoken much but at the same time She’s one of my favs and wanted to just also say I am so glad my advice helped and you got the job, what I appreciate more is that you reached out and thanked me, I am just so glad you got it! 🥳
@ArianaIsBack - Love Aris stuff, from time to time I do catch it and all I can say is what an awesome person!
@sister__morphine - Sister Morphine, there is nobody else like her, such a unique character, what I appreciate about her is her honesty, she does not Bull**** with people, she is so direct and to the point, I really respect that about her.
@doctoranonstar - love him and his stuff, he’s also the only one here that truly understands and appreciates the importance of a good KFC restaurant, none of this burger king and maccies rubbish, he has an appreciation for the finer things in life and I hope one day we can go and get a KFC.
@FaustaMec - my favourite Lithuanian Lady on the platform, love talking to her!
@ass4lyfe - what a top lady, plus, the bants, her wall is just scatted in awesomeness.
@amycheetham09 - gotta love Amy, what is there not to love about Amy really? 🤷‍♂️
@illin_ahmed - all I have is good things to say about Her, what a good person, I only have positive things to say about my communications with Illin.
@soph_333 - love Soph I think she is awesome!

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Why do people say that people are offended by honesty

AhmadBakheitMndo’s Profile Photo∆HMED
I guess because some people pretend to say it "honesty" when all they are really doing is "offending" others for example-':
It would be honest to tell someone that they are poor or ugly right?
So don't you think that this shouldn't invite offense? A lot of people claim of honesty as a disguise for being a motherf***** jerk:)''
Also probably because people prefer to hear they want to hear rather than the truth it's human nature i suppose so they become very defensive in this situation and don't accept it:)'

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Would you forgive, if your beloved one cheated on you?

🗯️No. If I were to experience these events (I would be dissatisfied) + I consider it the most correct thing to forgive our sentimental partner (we once called him that) & continue after he has cheated on us, even if your partner pressures you to do so. You have the right to feel their emotions. You may want to forgive a cheater, but that is not your responsibility. Forgiveness is something you can do, while still validating that our trust has been broken and may never be recovered while in a relationship with the person you cheated on. You can forgive and move on for it, let's get something better, with someone who treats you excellently.😔😁 #infidelity #privateinvestigator #cheaters #surveillance #background #cheatingspouse Note; I speak in the plural + various values to build a relationship moral; honesty / helping mentality / respect / ethical; integrity transparency / education

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I dont know why but i feel that my friends have been ignoring me lately. They dont talk to me like they used to do. Infact we hardly talk. And every time i initiate contact and send a text they talk to me as if they dont know me anymore. I havent done anything. No fight no nothing Idk why. Miss them

Ahmad_H321
May Almighty make it easy for you, Ameen.
Learn to be blunt but with honesty, ask them and let them know about this situation.
If nothing works, find new friends. I'll be your friend. 😃👍🏼

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Describe yourself in 3 words!

1) 🍍✍️* Honest / Ethical / Conscientious *
Since I was a little kid, I have tried to be ethical. I remember once I found six Disneyland tickets and $ 200 cash in an envelope. I delivered the envelope to the store where I found it. My honesty endorse fruits when no individual claimed it and I was able to keep the content.☺️
2) *Diligent / Loyal / Reliable* 💭😃
I am always the first person my friends call, so they keep in mind that I will always be there to provide support. Night or day, I make sure to take care of the people in my life. I do the same to make sure my work is done correctly and I am always available to help my team members.🌷🌼
🤍[Additional data; I identify with both] ✔️💕statements

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Describe yourself in 3 words

Was ist eine kleine Sache, die du heute geschätzt hast?

Ob die „Sachen“, die man schätzt, klein oder groß sind, liegt im Auge des Betrachters. Grundsätzlich bin ich ein dankbarer Mensch, der selbst die kleinsten Gesten wertschätzt und daraus viele positive Vibes ziehen kann. I appreciate honesty, loyalty and I’m freaking happy when you bring me salad. (Ich stehe so heftig auf Salat, manchmal mutiere ich zum Kaninchen.) And afterwards bring me ice-cream. :-)

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What entertainment will you be providing your anons this weekend??? Honesty day? Video answers? Truth or Dare? Bikini pics? Other?

I'm always honest, I'm just selective about what I Choose to share, I do occasional videos but not today, truth or dare is just an excuse for people to ask me s*x stuff, a bikini pic would just open the door for s*xualised harassment. So, no.

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