#hopeless

It is a very complex and deeply sensitive issue that affects so many people in different ways. While it is important to acknowledge the pain and suffering that can lead someone to contemplate ending their life, it is equally crucial to provide resources and support for those who are struggling with mental health issues or other challenges. It breaks my heart to think of anyone feeling so hopeless or alone that they would consider taking such drastic action, It makes me upset why— do people never talk about the part of depression when you just don’t want anything anymore¿ Everybody talks about when it hurts like hell; when you cry, when you cut; when you take drugs when you break down. But no one ever talks about when you just lay down in your room with a hole inside of you that you don’t know how to fill and you don’t want to do anything even the things you usually like. So you just spend your day kinda waiting for it to end. And it's horrible cause you feel empty and guilty for that at the same time. Anyways, I hope you are kay and safe, incase needed an ear to listen - Iam here for you. 🌻

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Y’all pampered girls sharing everything of your fiancé/husband with your moms thinking you’re going to over-smart him and his family will actually backfire really hard. You’re signing up for your own destruction. Why you girls regret later? Wasn’t it you who allowed your mom to interfere about how you should run your relationship? Did you imagine how much hard was it for your ex? Not even once you tried to stop the “third person” into ruining your life? Remember, the day when one of you start giving command to the third person, the rift will begin to take place.

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Though you learned your lesson but it’s too late. Make a choice without asking your mom whether you can adjust with the new person’s nature or not. As long as the new person is giving you respect & provision, it’s better you find solace in this relationship. Surely, Allah is with the patient ones. If not then think properly about it because switching people isn’t a joke. Have mercy on yourself and this new guy at least. While my advice is harsh, it is for your betterment. Never find your ex in your next otherwise dismay will be what’s left.

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Life is tough either way. I wouldn't set high expectations of people for life, based on what I've learned at least.
Life is tough in both these scenarios but when your happiness is dependent on another person, that kind of 'tough' has no solution. You are just helpless in that scenario and it leads to a lot of hopelessness and emotional drainage.
But if your happiness is dependent on yourself, then it has a solution. Maybe the solution is tough. Like maybe your happiness is dependent on the fact that you are in good shape and whatever you wear looks amazing on you. It's in your control to workout and eat good. It's still tough but it's not emotionally draining nor a hopeless situation. Just a silly example, but gets the point across. So life's tough either way, we get to choose the kind of tough we want tho.

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PL: Cóż, żyjemy w chorych czasach, gdzie s*ks jest na wyciągnięcie ręki, ale nie ma miłości.
Świat jest szary, brzydki i bezsensowny, jak cała nasza egzystencja.
Życie sprawia cierpienie, nic dobrego nas w nim nie czeka, a ten lęk przed przyszłością jest przerażający, z kolei śm**rć jeszcze straszniejsza.
W końcu nikt nie wie, co jest po śm**rci, nikt jeszcze stamtąd nie wrócił.
Nie ma miłości, nie ma przyjaźni, a jeśli jest, to tylko na chwilę, w końcu wszystko się kiedyś skończy, a my jesteśmy tak beznadziejnymi jednostkami, że nikt nie jest w stanie nas kochać.
Nawet, jeśli był ktoś, kto powinien teoretycznie nas kochać, odszedł od nas, czy to rodzic, który nas zostawił, porzucił i aktualnie ma nową rodzinę, czy to dziadkowie, którzy odeszli z tego świata, czy to ktoś inny, bliski, który zm*rł na jakąś nieuleczalną chorobę, bądź wciąż męczy się na tym świecie, dla którego nie ma nadziei na wyzdrowienie.
Nie mamy siły wstawać, nie mamy siły jeść, nie mamy siły na dalszą egzystencję, bo i po co?
Tak to mniej więcej wygląda, w skrócie.
Polecam książkę "D*pr*sja. Jak skruszyć mury więzienia swojego umysłu" Dorothy Rowe, dla rozwinięcia tematu.

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ENG: Well, we live in sick times where s*x is at your fingertips but there is no love.
The world is grey, ugly and senseless, like our entire existence.
Life is suffering, nothing good awaits us in it, and this fear of the future is terrifying, and d**th is even more terrible.
After all, no one knows what comes after death, no one has ever returned.
There is no love, there is no friendship, and if there is, it is only for a moment, in the end everything will end one day and we are such hopeless individuals that no one is able to love us.
Even if there was someone who should theoretically love us, left us, whether it was a parent who left us, abandoned us and now has a new family, or grandparents who have passed away from this world, or someone else, a loved one, who died of some incurable disease, or is still suffering in this

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Idk what motherhood is like (since I’m only 21, am currently going to college and never once had a baby) but I do know what struggling with loneliness feels like as most of my time is spent in my room and I don’t have any friends to talk to in real life anymore. I only have online friends at the moment and I try being content with what I have, especially since I realize that it’s a little more difficult for me to make friends in real life so I tell myself that I’ll be fine (even though I do crave in person friendships). I suggest you try making friends on this app (by asking questions and engaging with the other users on here) and have online friends that’ll make you feel less alone, try to get closer to the other mom’s you talk to by exchanging numbers and if you’re working, maybe try to open up to your coworkers and see which ones you click with. Reading books, listening to music, watching shows, and/or doing hands on activities like knitting might help keep you busy in the meantime. Hopefully you and I will find ways to keep ourselves satisfied, even when it seems hopeless to come to terms with our loneliness and all we want is an escape from that feeling.

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