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What hurts more lies or the truth?

ashkhannn’s Profile PhotoAysha Yusufzai
I believe its the truths. Because as growing up we all had been taught not to lie. But we were never taught how to accept reality and respect someone's honesty. And if you talk about lies, when a person tells a lie we somehow make a juddement call and we sense it. But what we don't know is the truth coming our way and how to react to it.

What have you forgotten ? #staif..

Whatever it is, it's better to forget.If u stick to your past-u'll get hurt & this self inflicting pain won't let u live. If u let go of your past - you'll find life easy. We get life only once, better to live it the way u,not the way people decide....so Forget what hurts and embrace what brings joy and peace 😊

What hurts more lies or the truth?

ashkhannn’s Profile PhotoAysha Yusufzai
Lies. Always. You cope from the truth somehow but lies haunt you down if you're a genuine person.
Giving someone hope "I'll do this, do that" and ending them up with zero is also a lie.
People are normalising it by being casual like nothing happened. They be like "hey how're you?"
Stop this bullsht man, you no longer exist to me. Bye

What hurts you the most?

It hits different from a person who is really close to you.
In the most general wordings;
Naturally you’ll expect from them to be with you for the sake of wellness and a good healthy relationship.
They end up just turning their backs and depending on the suggestions of others on how to deal with you instead of dealing with you themselves.
I cannot bear such stupid mentality.
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Let’s go to Los Andes restaurant in jacksonville and get Lomo Saltado together. Then go home, cuddle, watch movies, and fall asleep in each other’s arms❤️🥺👉👈

thank you…
and i’m sorry
sorry because you won’t happy with my answer…. and it probably
hurts when the one you love
want the same …. or something similar
but with different one ….
i like to be honest…. and i wish you
to find you the girl with whom you will realize your dream ….
and i like guys …. that you remember everything that i like ….
i really want to be in LA
And i often i don’t know how to saw it …. and how to express it ….
i see …. or imagine…. and feel
that these are mutual dreams….
❤️us …. ❤️
with him…. as we walk in each other’s arms….
i’m so beautiful…. and he🕸❤️
so… in him such crazy feelings….
from the fact that we are
❤️together….❤️ and i’m with him….
we are so beautiful….
and a lot of another moments of us
want ( need)
to live not write
too outspoken…. all it’s
too much ….
a million people read me

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marianasir5’s Profile Photoماریہ
Scariest fact about sharing too much, It hurts more when someone close to you repeats something you told them when you were weak.
When they use a secret or an insecurity against you.
When they throw a bitter word in the middle of a joke to make you feel bad about yourself.
I believe that the closest people to us could destroy us more than strangers.

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What do you think about, usually, when you wake up?

selha047’s Profile PhotoSue
Have u ever come to a point in ur life where u dont feel anything? Where u wanna say so much but ur just sitting there staring at sky and asking Allah where u went so wrong in life? U were not the person u have become. Just wondering was it ur fault that u Invested all of u in him or it was just how it was suppose to end? It hurts trust me it does🤷‍♀️💔

What makes you insecure?

aribasultan1998’s Profile PhotoAriba
I used to think, I had abnormal features cause they weren’t in exact sync, with eachother.
Like why is my one eye corner, slightly curved in, while the other is pretty straight, just how it’s suppose to be?
And why I have a proper smile line on one side of my face, while it barely shows on the other side?
I used to think, I myself deformed the slight top of my right ear, ‘cause I always had my hair parted towards the right and tucked behind that poor ear. I have completely different ring sizes (of the same fingers) on both hands? 😂
And it’s always one fkn foot that hurts more than the other, in heels.
Always thought something was wrong with me and me alone. Till I realised these stupid flaws are pretty normal. So much of imperfections for people drunk on the idea of perfection. 🤦🏻‍♀️

It's not important to be dazzling, the important thing is to be real.

"Only Time Will Tell" by Alex
I am real, that's the problem. It hurts to be real. It is painful and exhausting to be real, and ... in the end, the prognosis is always the same... death. Death from disease. Death from loneliness. Death from self-inflicted wounds. Death from poor decisions and negligence. Death from abuse. Death because time has run out and the body is tired. Sooner or later death will knock upon your door. The question is, will you answer the door? Only time will tell.
"Yet what we suffer now is nothing compared to the glory he will give us later" - Romans 8:18
Its not important to be dazzling the important thing is to be real

Can soft-hearted be a toxic trait? I hate it when I cry over small things. Orang macam ni yang paling senang terluka kan?

I think the same, honestly. It makes me worry..
It is true that sometimes it can be a toxic trait. Not toxic to others, but to ourselves my dear. We often push ourselves to always be positive even when people do bad things to us. To always forgive and be kind even you're tired. To be understanding even you're angry and sad. Cry when you hurt others, and also cry when others hurt you. Be sensitive about other feelings more. And to trust new people, It's hard.
But, having a soft heart means you have a heart with good humanity. You feel others, you understand others. You spread love and kindness everywhere. You make others smile. One act of your random kindness everyday change this world to a beautiful place.
And.. Always crying over small things, please don't feel bad about it :( Everything you feel is valid dear. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. You are you. You feel more because you care more. And that's not a bad thing.
But, remember this sweetie.. Soft-hearted people are not taken advantage of. This is the causes a toxic trait. The one who taken advantage are people with poor boundaries. Being soft - hearted doesn't mean having poor boundaries.
What hurts you, speak up and tell them not to. Many people believe that being soft-hearted stops them from speaking up. This is not true. You can be kind, compassionate and empathic. You can be incredibly soft-hearted and still speak up for yourself. This is how we protect ourself and others from toxic trait.

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What do you usually do when you're sick? Do you actively do anything to alleviate your symptoms? 🤒

TobbeAsks’s Profile PhotoTobbe
I'm unfortunately sick right now. I tried going into work this morning, but I went home not even two hours later because I felt so sick. So far I haven't taken any medication yet, because I know if I did I wouldn't be able to properly say where exactly it hurts. I have a doctor's appointment in about 30 minutes, so we'll see.

"What hurts you blesses you, Darkness is your candle." What do you think?

deeda_dahi’s Profile PhotoZalaam
I think pain and agony can push us an extra mile sometimes and reach the desired fruition in a way ..
But i think it matters if u r conscious enough , and how wise and flexible u can be .. :"
Anyhow , speaking of it i like this song so much
https://open.spotify.com/track/34a3lGtgV3hZ3RL0ryHail?si=AWG1SBthS5Ko_FZRQ_XjgQ&utm_source=copy-link

"What hurts you blesses you, Darkness is your candle." What do you think?

deeda_dahi’s Profile PhotoZalaam
In my view, Rumi was absolutely right. When we encounter difficulties, it is important to remember that shadows cannot exist without the light. We must forge ahead and never lose hope in the face of adversity. As Carl Jung reminds us, "One does not become enlightened by figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious." We can also look to Albert Pike for inspiration: "We must pass through the darkness, to reach the light." Joseph Campbell expressed a very similar sentiment: "At the darkest moment comes the light." Lastly, Martin Luther King Jr. made this observation: "...only when it is dark enough, can you see the stars." As a denizen of the dark, I am in total agreement with these gentlemen. 🙃
What hurts you blesses you Darkness is your candle
What do you think

"What hurts you blesses you, Darkness is your candle." What do you think?

deeda_dahi’s Profile PhotoZalaam
Zindagi k mailay mein
Khuwaishoun k railay mein
Tum se kya kahien Jana'n
Is qadar jhamailay mein
Waqt ki rawani hy
Bakht ki garani hy
Sakht bezameeni hy
Sakht lamakaani hy
Hijar k samander mein
Takht aur takhtay ki ik he kahani hy
Tum ko jo sunani hy
Baat go zara si hy
Baat umar bhar ki hy....
What hurts you blesses you Darkness is your candle
What do you think
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*tears form in her eyes as she looks up at him her leg was not a pretty sight teal insides now exposed now* It's hurts so much....! Please take it off... *She was unaware of his intentions currently she was desperate for help *

NeoTheSkrix’s Profile PhotoNeo
*he crouches down near her, leaning on his axe which is between the two*
You do know if I DID remove it, you'd bleed out into the snow in seconds, there's no saving that leg of yours. Best bet is to amputate above the damage
I might be able to help with that
*he's just smiling sickly, knowing her fate is already sealed, just how much will she let him get away with before she figures out the trap is his*

How can i opean my heart again?

This question is very personal, in the sense that it's different for every individual so I can only speak to what I have experienced.
There is no fix.
I don't think I ever heal from a broken heart.
It doesn't set back to the way it was.
It hurts in places still.
I can tell you too that the only way my heart can grow - expand - is for it to break. Because after it has been broken I develop a new perspective; a new understanding.
Heartbreak is the only way to develop true empathy

-Pour out the waves, you’re having✨.

FaaizAli’s Profile PhotoFaaiz Ali Khan.
Grief really doesn’t give a shit about how long it has been. What hurts, just hurts even if it’s been years. I guess I’ll never really cope up with the loss of my loved ones. My unconscious mind never let’s go.
So I’m glad for the existence of afterlife. It isn’t till death do us apart. It’s, until we meet again.

What does "romantic love" mean to you?

People have been trying to describe love since forever and everything falls short. The songs, poems, pieces of beautiful music, monuments, art, IMO it still doesn't scratch the surface. To me it just feels like "home" or the perpetual sensation of falling. It's much more powerful than just a crush, much more frightening in its power than lust and it's almost like a permanent change on molecular level.
To me it means knowing after every fight you still care about them and even when stupidly angry you're knowing you'll work through this. It means giving up your free time to make this person happy because they are just so fucking important to you. Its about compromise. Its about late night laughter at stupid shit. Its about accepting they have flaws and thus realizing your own flaws are equally as annoying to them. To me, romantic love is just having someone there to share all these beautiful moments in this beautiful life with. I feel like I can love myself all I want, but when I see or experience something amazing and I look over (hypothetically speaking) and see that no one's there to experience it with me, it still feels awfully lonely. Maybe that means I don't love myself enough.
It never hurts to love yourself more, as I'm learning. Affirmations help, as does just sort of reminding myself that everything I'm doing is mothering myself in a way. I cook food for myself because I love myself. I read to myself because I love myself. That kind of thing. So if I'm seeing a beautiful moment, I'm doing it because I love myself, and that makes it feel not lonely (usually). However, I still want someone to share in those moments with too, and I still feel lonely about it once in awhile.
Edit: I think a lasting love is based on practicalities to no small degree. Common values, interests and experiences, or like interpretations of experiences. The overwhelming chemical reaction of physical attraction ensures the continuation of the species, but to have a companion, partner and confidante to go through life with joyfully is going to take more than surges of feelings. Never underestimate the value of unselfishness, and be prepared to sacrifice without rancor.
Love isnt the "wow she's awesome" after meeting someone. Love isnt the magical first date. Love isnt the infatuation with someone. Love is the enduring enjoyment of company with someone. Its wanting to cuddle even in the worst times, its wanting to comfort each other no matter the situation, it's all about sticking together no matter the hardships. Love is long term. I'm in an interesting phase in my life where I'm realizing for the first time that I don't need anyone else to feel perfectly fulfilled. For most of my life, I've leaned hard on romantic relationships to fill a void in me that turned out to be a lack of self-love (codependency). This turned romance into a sort of drug, and as my tolerance grew, the people I was with grew less attractive and newer love felt like a bigger and better hit.

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‏لا تجعل عمرك يقف انتظارًا لأحد، ولا تقضهِ ندمًا على مافات، لا تأسف على جميلٍ زرعته ولم يُثمر، ولا تحزن على أمرٍ كتبه الله عليك وإن آلمك♥️🌸

mhkm900’s Profile Photomona
Don't make your life stand waiting for anyone, and don't spend it regretting what happened, don't be sorry for the beautiful things you planted and did not give you the value, and don't grieve for something that God has written for you, even if it hurts you ♥️🌸
لا تجعل عمرك يقف انتظارا لأحد ولا تقضه ندما على مافات لا تأسف على جميل زرعته ولم

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marianasir5’s Profile Photoماریہ
There are bundle of things exploding inside my heart. You can't change the things but can learn to live w it in just a case.
Thou I notice everything and by everything,
i legit mean everything. I notice when someone stops hitting me up like they used to.
I notice when I'm no longer the priority. I notice when they start sharing the things, they use to share w me onli. I notice everything.
I notice when the way someone talks to me starts changing. I notice the little things that people used to do. I notice when things change,
& when no longer the same.
I notice every single thing i mean every single detail.
I just don't speak up.
You know it hurts.
Like feeling someone's losing interest in you at all.
they don't even ask about how you feel' how you doing. they don't show much interest in the convo. It's like that slowly backing out of your life there is nothing you can do except pretend.
Like you don't care and you don't notice anything.
It hurts but all that happens.
everyone and everything is replaceable. :)

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What are your biggest turn offs in a guy?

lack of respect for boundaries, continuing to do shit after I've said it hurts me (if it's purposeful), no sense of humour, unable to laugh at themselves, cares too much about other people's opinions so won't allow themselves to let go and have fun, yes men, cocky, selfish, no patience, no goals, lack of effort, letting plans/dates all be one-sided, entertaining other people, not a cuddler, wears socks in bed, has a velcro wallet, loves crocs

Texting first isn't the issue when you know that other person is going to reply you anytime with same energy. But it hurts when someday they talk nicely and someday make you feel you're disturbing them. You stepped back because u respect urself and somehow they end up labelling u egoistic...

That’s the problem. You are expecting a constant energy from a variable person. If you’re going to take it to your dignity then stop texting all together. Rather, texting is a major disease these days. It’s better to have a face to face communication. Some people are not good at keeping up on texts which doesn’t indicate that they’re uninterested or rude. They’re done with taking the pressure of daily attendance and being readily available.
Tbh I am open to late responses and slow communication because I understand that people have work to do.

I want to be rich a Successful. And I thought if I'm gonna add people in my plan, it's gonna work fast and we're gonna be stronger. But all humans have their own mindset. Some just show excitement and don't show up. And some think happiness doesn't come from being rich. They discouraged me. It hurts

Don't let these things or people discourage you in anyway..just keep on moving towards your goals nd i hope u achieve what u desire

I want to be rich a Successful. And I thought if I'm gonna add people in my plan, it's gonna work fast and we're gonna be stronger. But all humans have their own mindset. Some just show excitement and don't show up. And some think happiness doesn't come from being rich. They discouraged me. It hurts

Interdependence has a higher value than independence.
People grow fast when they are united and work together rather than being independent.
Surround yourself with people Worthy of it.

I’m in love with someone I can’t have. We’re friends. But he is engaged in an arranged marriage kinda thing by his family. I don’t wanna disturb that. I just wanna forget about him and move on but we’re friends. How do I go about this? Pls advice. :(

KeepYourEyesPeeled’s Profile PhotoKeepYourEyesPeeled
He is taken. It hurts but you can't change that. All you can do is try and forget and move on. You need to think of yourself. Maybe being friends isn't the best idea. It only makes it harder.

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