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What do you have a strong inclination to?

But I have this penchant for neatness. He kept something of it... a love for work well done, a strong inclination for pessimistic endings, and for plain truth.
Right from the beginning of our optioning the book, my producing partner Dale Rosenbloom, encouraged my strong inclination that I would both adapt and direct Radio Free Albemuth.
A strong inclination for study, has gifts for teaching, has clear ideas, a well favored memory.
As a little girl, she was mostly interested in horses, dogs and sports and started to show a strong inclination towards everything relating to the world of fashion.
Did you know that no other German state has as many patents registered per person as Baden-Württemberg, namely 120 patents per 100,000 residents? It is often said that many people here are actually born with a strong inclination toward perfection.
She has a strong inclination to create something which looks instinctive and effortless.
His penchant for the bottle cut his career short.
Before he became Mother Teresa, Tommy had a big-time penchant for joyriding.
The closest I come to the revolution is my penchant for tea.
I have a penchant for hyperbole to aggrandize myself.
My mother's always had a penchant for drama.
I see you haven't lost your penchant for shameless self-promotion.
He had a penchant for ignoring orders and following his impulses.
So my penchant for hugging other people has earned me the nickname Dr. Love.
He has a penchant for whistling at pretty ladies he sees on the street.
Mariah Carey is an undisputable diva among divas - and not just because of her notorious penchant for the six-star life.
You have a gift for corruption and a penchant for betrayal.
In fact, all women have a real penchant for rings, earrings, bracelets, which are fanciful or quite luxurious.
I have a penchant for the truth, something your TV show gave up around episode two.
My friend has a bit of a penchant for the dramatic.
Abraham had a penchant for being critical and had no hesitation in publicly chastising his colleagues, regardless of their rank or position.
He excels in all his subjects, but he seems to have a penchant for political studies and history, particularly military.
She was gaining a reputation as a fast and loose party girl... with a penchant for dancing, drinking and men.
I noticed in your records you have a penchant for tardiness.
Understated and reliable: perfect for the man with a penchant for keeping it easy, comfortable and casual.
I was too little to be able to recall, it was mama who had told me.I had hardly begun walking and I already showed my penchant for independence.
Being of blood type A myself, and supposedly having a penchant for particulars, I would like to I think I will just leave it at that.

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So those of you who don't, have you ever had them? If so, what happened? Did they simply go away? If not, do you know what they feel like? Do you wish you had them? What do you have instead? Are you simply content with life as it is? Are you happy/miserable/apathetic?

I'll make plans to convenience others but I personally am happy to let it slip. And yeah, certain things. Im looking forward to the new pokemon next month but in the same breath I want to know what will cause the next great war. And aspirations. Null. I'll do things because it will make things better for myself (studying) but not because I long to do it.
I'm having this realization right now. I've graduated college and I'm stuck in a rut. No idea what I want to do with my life. I don't even really have hobbies. My bf is super passionate about cars and sometimes that can cause problems. I understand the idea of having dreams, but not the extent he'll go to pursue them.
It's aggravating and confusing at this point. I wish I could find something I'm truly passionate about but I haven't as of yet.
I just kind of go with the flow. I have an idea of what I want to do when it comes to my education and career, but I won't be disappointed if I don't achieve them. I obviously had dreams as a kid, but nothing extreme happened to make them go away. They just stopped. I'm content with how things are right now and wouldn't want them to change. I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything. I'd say I'm happy... I'm not miserable.
If we're talking about jobs/career, that kind of thing, I've never had any dreams. At first I thought there was something wrong with me because all through school all I ever heard was goals, dreams, blah blah. I never knew why they were talking about. No one ever tells you it's fine if you don't. To me, a job is what I do because I have bills to pay. My enjoyment time comes after work. I once asked my dad, a retired 30-year truck driver what he wanted to be when he was a kid. He said he's still trying to figure that out. Pretty quick I realized he was the same as me.
I have a great wife and kids, a decent house to live in and a 40-hour/week job. I just want to be comfortable lol. Money, power, prestige...what can I say? It just never interested me.
I don't have any high aspirations beyond graduating and finding some job which will give me the ability to live comfortably and independently. I just want to chill and tinker with my hobbies, goof off, and have enough money to not be constantly stressed and worried. My aspiration is to have a job which allows me to do these things, with enough money left over for a bit of travel and for an eventual retirement and old age. I would also like to one day find a life partner and/or have a child, perhaps--maybe. I'm pretty content on my own and doing my own thing as long as I can hang out with my friends and family every now and then. Dreams are what people have when they believe they have a predictable future. If I can't count on being able to function, then I can't hope to have anything that depends on that - my only option is to live in the present and hope for the best.

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Qu'est ce qui t'a toujours intrigué

What they look like when they're walking alone and thinking. Some women have a slightly worried expression while they walk on the sidewalk. Some women will smile at you, which is good, but then look down again. I like the women that are too busy to notice you because they're fixated on a squirrel eating a pizza in a tree.
I (male) once (as a teen) was at a water park with my brother. We were on a tube ride and an attractive girl was floating near us. I cracked a few jokes with my brother that she heard (and smiled at) and made some brief small talk with her. Later when my brother and I were having lunch, he went off to the restroom and I sat at our table alone, thinking about the girl I had seen earlier. Then, she walks by me and makes eye contact with me with the most beautiful smile. It was so stunning and I was so amazed but what just happened that I just sat there in awe remembering that captivating gaze. I never saw her again, but that face and smile have stuck with me since it a happened.
As a happily married man I'm taking attraction out of the situation. But even so I'm not usually drawn to conservative types. I'm more interested in subtle hints of individualism. The kind of style that says 'I don't need to stand out to be different'. That's not always easy to see, but when I notice something, could be a piece of jewellery or hair style, I find that will sometimes say a lot about the person. And to be honest it goes for both sexes. A little goes a long way for me.
College girls especially have horrible habits with this. Usually very closed off to everyone that's not in their immediate social group. Just observing people out at the bars leaves me wondering how they meet people when they go out. Very unattractive and off-putting.
Wow, I don't know why you seem to be getting blasted for this preference. Everyone else is posting their personal preferences and nobody bats an eye, but for some reason they get offended because somebody doesn't like tattoos? I prefer a girl without ink as well. To me, it is more about the purity of being tattoo free. In my mind, a tattoo on a girl prevents her from ever being completely naked.
There's just an overwhelming amount of evidence that she ran away. She told everyone she was going out of town for a death in the family, though no one in her family had passed. She picked up accident report statements before she was in the accident. She packed everything she owned overnight. She looked into renting a condo out of town. She begged accident witnesses to not call the cops. She took all identifying information out of the car. She was gone by the time the police arrived on the scene of the accident. She never used her credit cards after the incident ever again. If I wanted to disappear, I'd do a lot of the same things.

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كيف انتهى النزاع بداخلك؟

m_shehawy’s Profile PhotoEL SHEHAWY+2
I began to realize how important it was to be an enthusiast in life. He taught me that if you are interested in something, no matter what it is, go at it full speed ahead. Embrace it with both arms, hug it, love it, and above all become passionate about it. Lukewarm is no good. Hot is no good either. White hot and passionate is the only thing to be.🤎🦩

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we've reached december! congratulations on making it this far. I hope the last month of 2021 will go smoothly for you and whatever else you have planned at the end of the year. here's wishing you good health, clear skin, peace, and happiness! ☃️🌟🌷

nurbzee’s Profile Photonurulhuda
December is my birthday month so I hope I make it as far as that day at least!
It’s also the month Spotify releases your annual review of what you’ve been listening to the most, so I’ll be interested to see that.
Thank you for your wishes, and you too x

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How often do you lie?

I try to avoid lying. I just don't say anything if I don't want to answer a question. Awkard I know, but I don't really care. Someone can ask how I'm doing and I'll just say hi, how ya doing? Apparently it's just a greeting here in the south and it doesn't require a response.
If I said frequently, I think it would be misleading...but like, example time, if someone if I'm not close to asks me if I'm okay. I will say I'm fine every time. It's more of a conversation ender, than an attempt to mislead.... Or like if someone I'm really not interested in is hitting on me, I will say that I am seeing someone or that I am not looking for a relationship. I found that while a lie, it is usually effective at getting people to leave you alone.
I am so used to lying because of past relationships. I have social anxiety and I used to lie a lot to get away from social situations such as meeting with friends. I also used to say that I was fine when I clearly wasn't. Nowadays I lie less often. I still do it sometimes to escape meeting with 'friends' whom I've realised make me uncomfortable. I'm learning to tell my partner and real friends how I'm really feeling instead of bottling it up and saying 'I'm fine'. It sickens me to lie. The only 'lying' I do is by neglect......neglecting to tell people what I really know about them and what they've done or said. I hate having to be silent about it, but it's not good for me to unveil all of that right now.
Important stuff or stuff that I'd have to lie more to cover, almost never. Not really to personal friends/family/etc other than sometimes by omission if telling them is gonna be a whole bunch of trouble for no benefit. Trivial shit at work like "oh yeah just putting the finishing touches on that report" that I haven't actually started, pretty often. If I'm going to get things in on time regardless I don't really want to hear about how I'm bad at time management.
Almost never, can't remember the last time but it was probably small, if anything I'm overly upfront and clear I've been called brutally honest but Its not to hurt feelings just because I value transparency and don't sugar coat things
Oh and I lie to men who try to chat me up, weirdos in my social circle who get too pushy, people who want to know too damn much about any subject I want to keep private. For example I am on disability payments right now and if someone asks me what I do I give one of maybe a dozen answers that range from "as little as possible" to "self employed" to "raising two kids" and a bunch of other things that are technically true but also deeply deceptive and do not lay my life open like a book for them precisely as they'd hoped when asking that question.

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@allinbloom said she don't want children on her page and she said underaged people need to stay off ask. Isn't that ageism and discrimination ? this site is 13+ so children are aloud here

Her page, her rules.
People 13+ are allowed on Ask, but there’s no point in them following someone who doesn’t want them.
Why would you care? 🤷🏻‍♂️ Follow people who are interested in you.

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Would you mind if your boyfriend/girlfriend hung out with another member of the sex they're interested in alone?

If you can’t trust your partner then you shouldn’t be with them. Simple.
Yes I’d be happy for them to hang out with whoever they wanted. Stopping a partner from being around other people, will not stop them cheating, simple.
A person is either that way inclined or isn’t. If someone is a cheat they will find a way to cheat, even if a person isn’t in front of them. They will sneak around, do it on their phone, be deceptive.
You can’t stop who someone is deep inside. Just have to hope you pick better 😆

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do you feel obligated to talk to or respond to particular people in your life even if you dont necessarily want to? if so what makes you do it?

I am usually getting out of words instead, somehow which some people may misunderstand that I am not interested in them while I might be. I am usually kind of friendly even if I may appear quiet or distant from the beginning. Its also, because of my past experiences, I tend to automatically avoid people which can be a lost good opportunity to get to know others. But I am working on to fix this.
I keep in contact usually with people that I feel okay speaking too tho.

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do you feel obligated to talk to or respond to particular people in your life

So I’m talking to this guy turns out he’s out here talking to other girls. How can I make him look dumb?

Here's the thing, people are allowed to talk to other people and get to know them — they are not required to only talk to you. If he's admitted that he's interested in you and wants it to go further, then I understand where your frustration is coming from but if you haven't asked what his intentions are and where his feelings are at; then don't be upset over a man that's not even yours.

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لو قولتلك احكيلي انا معاك دايما ، هتحكي تقول ايه 🦋✨

menatallamostafa84’s Profile PhotoMenna.talla.❤
‏One day you’ll find someone who won’t get bored of you.
‏You’ll find someone who is interested in your faily details.
‏Someone who would make you feel like you’re listened not like you’re only heard.
‏Someone who would be excited when you talk because he loves watching you talk about something you love.
‏One day you’ll meet him and he won’t leave.

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What kind of person do you find most admirable?

A will of iron, a cool head, and a warm, passionate nature, just like mine. Consideration, which is selflessness on some level. Literally the best people are the ones who actually care about how others are doing, not the ones who tell themselves they do and completely miss some.
Coming up with puns and clever responses just like that. I hate when I have to think about what to say and it doesn’t sound insteresting.
I guess 'being open'? I can't imagine a life being closed off and strict in your beliefs. Same in other people, an open mind is much more attractive to me; it's like they are interested in your perspective and won't just discard it.
Positivity. Some people just get to work making progress, smiling through life's challenges, while the rest of us complain, accomplishing nothing.
Goofiness (is that a trait?). I like someone that is fun to be around and makes me smile/laugh. Saying/doing goofy things is a good way to get me to chuckle and enjoy myself.
Honesty. I don't know why exactly, its just a quality I really cherish. I would rather have people be upfront with me, rather than lie to make me feel better.
When someone does something that I think deserves to be noticed and they act like they haven’t done something extraordinary or when they say “oh it’s nothing”, I find it incredibly cute. Or when they are being nice to strangers, when they talk politely and respect everyone. This is attractive.
I find it a relief to be in the company of those who don’t bully others. As long as they don’t have an agenda and aren’t attacking people, I like having conversations with them. It’s even better when I meet a fan of thrash metal or 2000’s rock. I grew up listening to both. Mix in some of my same nerdy and geeky pastimes like video games, movies in sci fi or action, and someone who wants to play catch or kick a soccer ball with me, and they are perfect!
Being able to enjoy nothing. Like just sitting down in a room doing nothing together. Not having it being awkward when it goes quiet.
Self reliant and self sustaining people, that don't rely on the government's or their families money to get by. Frugal people who work hard and pay their own bills, still manage to save money and live a good clean life. I admire successful stand-up comics. In the beginning they aren't paid for years and years while writing everyday and going in front of strange and often times hostile crowds at night. Then whenever they make it they don't forget the hard times they endured and are down to earth. They also have a job that gives them the greatest amount of freedom of expression.
People who come from nothing, or very little, and through their hard work, overcome the odds and become successful at what they want to be successful at. For looks it would be hair, smile, hands, and muscles, but with personality it would be being able to make me laugh, loves little kids, can be tuff but also has a soft spot, and being supportive.

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How do you deal with the guilt of being privileged?

I don't feel guilty about my privileges. The best thing to do is to acknowledge that you ARE privileged in some ways and not to act entitled or like a dick to those that do not have the same privileges as you. For example, saying that someone is "lazy and useless" and should "just get a job" ignores the fact that some people don't have the same access or resources to find a job as easily as others. There's a lot of literature on this, namely Peggy McIntosh's work that you can read here. It's a quick read if you're interested and it's very fascinating and eye opening.
Some of the things I have seen often come to mind. I think about homeless people I have volunteered to feed and if they were able to find shelter in the cold months. I think about the large poor families I have seen in another country; they would send their children off to beg for money, or sell cheap souvenirs to tourists. I cringe at the knowledge that somehow there still manage to be people who have it worse than the ones I just mentioned. They go hungry and days without clean water. There are people sold into slavery and heavily abused. The knowledge of all of this would make me feel heavily upset, and I would dwell on these images for weeks at a time. I remember telling one of my friends about this, and he said that he often feels the same way. He told me, that when he sees people complain about all of the wonderful things that they are so lucky to have, he becomes angry. He always told me to remember that you can't help everybody. Feeling guilty about it will not help anyone. You will only hurt yourself. Touch the lives of those you can help. So now when the images come to mind, I push them to side, but I do my very best not to forget the message. I am privileged, and I know one day I do want to make a difference in the world. Even if the difference is small. I don't know what I am going to do yet, but I will do it. Also, I think it's not the fact that people were born rich, but the fact that they care only about themselves. Like for example should you want a more equitable wealth distribution in the U.S.? Perhaps. But is that really more important than getting clean drinking water in India? Probably not.
You cannot help where or why you were born into the nation/standing you are. You should not be guilty for something frankly, you never asked for. That said, if you do get guilty, try and help out the unprivileged or people who are less fortunate than you are.

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*She blinks* You didn't know XChara was Half Human Half Monster? Why do you think he's so interested in me, I'm another Half Human Hybrid just like he is

*Nova went anon--she joined the dark side--**Plays Darth Vader music xD*
*Reaper shakes his skull* I didn't know that.. guess that kinda makes sense why he's so hung up on you now..

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Do you take your time to respond even when you really like the other person? Do you play texting games?

paradiseeve5’s Profile PhotoDuaa.
What even is “like” the other person? What do you do with that, if the end goal is not to settle down?
I don’t give a shit frankly speaking. I got stuck into boy drama very early in my life. I matured faster because I was horrified of these stupid older guys being interested and even obsessive. I don’t think I would’ve been so headstrong and mean if I didn’t had the need to scare them away (😂) while still trying to enjoy my school life. Bohat aye aur bohat gaye. I’ve never chased anyone, I’ve never contacted anyone.
Reality has never pleased me, I’ve always been into fictional characters and real guys are nothing like that. 😂 us zamaney Mei I used to like Leon S Kennedy from RE. 🥰🥰
People lie and they’re low on effort. What do you do with all the fancy words? What do you do with them? Do you frame them? Till someone can actually make shit happen, despite all odds. It doesn’t matter and I don’t care. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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What do you say to convince someone to buy marble homeware?

Aha well usually the paintings on them gets people’s attention, then I tend to explain the uses of the homeware (that it’s heatproof and cut proof, then give examples of what you can use it for, (chopping board, placemats, to serve food, be used as tiles in kitchens, to place hot utensils on, etc.).
Then stuff kinda goes on from there! Folk tend to gravitate towards their favourite animals and they’ll start telling me about their connection to that animal and such, which I find is often a good sign that they’re interested (plus it makes the conversation more enjoyable too/it’s nice to hear) :)

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What are your hobbies and how did you get into them? 🧑‍🎨⚽️🛹🎤🎮📖

LunarHuntress’s Profile PhotoYentl
Swimming 🏊‍♂️
My parents put me into swim school and I simply never stopped! I progressed through the ranks of the swim club and eventually became a competitive swimmer.
Freediving 🐠
From my love of being in the water also sparked a love for all kinds of marine life. Freediving I found was a great way to experience that up close and I find it very relaxing to be underwater.
Gaming 🎮
I've been playing games for as long as I can remember. I played some various PC games but once my dad got me a PS2 I was HOOKED! I have very fond memories of playing the first LEGO Star Wars on Christmas eve.
Filmmaking 🎬
Watching movies such as Star Wars made me interested in special effects and video editing in general. I started out by making stop-motion movies out of LEGO figures as a kid.

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What are your hobbies and how did you get into them

Hello po tita nag confess ako sa taong gusto ko. N friendzoned ako. Kaya lumayo ako. Pero ngayon nag ttanong sya bakit nging dstant ako sa knya. Sinabi frieninzoned moko dba? Tpos sabi nya ginwa nya un to feel better about sa sarili ny kasi insecure sya. Dko alam kung ano mgaging reaction ko dun.

Wala. Lumayo ka pa rin. Unless she's suddenly interested, she doesn't get to have it both ways. Don't fall for that trap.

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What are your hobbies and how did you get into them? 🧑‍🎨⚽️🛹🎤🎮📖

LunarHuntress’s Profile PhotoYentl
Since there is a paramilitary institution near me called the National Defense League, I liked going there as a child. When I was 12 I became a member of this organization. There, we learned to shoot at a target with sports weapons. Boys are always interested in such things, so I studied very well. I am also a member of the Polish Scouting Association. I have the rank of an instructor in the rank of a guide - PWD for short. Another hobby of mine is ballroom dancing. For six years my girlfriend and I went to private ballroom dancing school for six years. Another hobby of mine is URBEX, I like visiting old abandoned buildings. One of my most important hobbies is computer science. I was so absorbed in this hobby that I graduated from high school as an IT technician. After school, I got a job as an IT specialist and work in a computer server room. However, it does not end there, because apart from work, I study computer science at university for working people

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ty for your message
Forex Trading isn't my thing
if anyone does want to supplement my income tho
I can offer a bit of part time philosophical discussion at knock down rates :)

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Hope you've had a fantastic day! I won't even engage anti vaxers, especially on here. So ridiculous. I was confident of beating Arsenal until I've seen the list of injuries. You have probably seen me say it before but I'm not interested in International games, it's so poor and players get injured! X

darrenearl45’s Profile PhotoDarren
Hey Darren,
yes ty good busy productive day,
haha I cant resist a good old bust up but you are correct re anti vax , some of the stuff is not worth engaging with......
real club fans detest international football,
it puts their players in danger of injuries all the time,
maybe a draw?
not sure if Arsenal have injuries too

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Do you care about money/luxury?

I started out very materialistic, turned into a hippy, then realized I wanted my own stuff. I don't care so much about whether everything in my life is luxurious, in fact I find most of that stuff tacky, but just living average nice requires quite a bit of money and work, so I do that cause I like things.
Once I have all the things I need, along with stuff that fulfils my interests and hobbies, I don't really need any more luxuries. Obviously, some things would be nice to have but they're not a necessity for me, or something which I should strive towards if I'm already content with less. In the future, I'd ideally like to live in a decent sized property which isn't crammed, have a car, at least one dog and enough money to travel once every couple of years. Also, I'd like to be able to make purchases on the things I enjoy without them being a setback. I don't think I'm asking for too much at all. I don't really get the appeal of big houses or fancy cars. They're expensive and they require a lot of upkeep. I'd rather have a bunch of tiny houses scattered across the globe and live debt free. I believe in good quality items, but I don't believe in excess. Like shoes, I have about 10 good quality pairs. I don't believe in buying something new if something old can be refurbished. I'm definitely the odd one out in my family who feels this way.
There are a few things that make me feel happy inside. Tea, nice teacups, pretty japanese anime films, nice blankets. I live in a small aframe in colorado that I LOVE. I'm convinced if I won't a bunch of money I would mostly just use it to travel or pursue some new hobbies. Not really interested in fancy cars or houses.

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Important question How do you make someone smile if they are sad?

It depends upon the nature of our relationship. If they are close family (son, daughter, wife) I willing to perform outrageous behavior to shock them into a forced smile or sudden burst of laughter.
With my friends I use lame jokes or self deprecating humor to elicit a smile, a smirk or uncontrolled laughter.
If the sad person is someone I recognize but do not really know, I might offer a smile and if the opportunity presents itself ask them how their day is going or maybe ask them about their weekend or some other topic that I know they are interested in. The important factor is to make the conversation centered around them and give them an ear that is willing to listen to their own personal story. That usually will provoke a smile and move them in the direction of a positive attitude.

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*Shadow begins to hyperventilate* "He'll be fine once I change him, and I'm not going back to any sort of void, never, why, why are you even interested in me, all I am is someone's shadow"

forgottenfifth’s Profile PhotoShadow
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Is a long-distance relationship possible? 😊

Yes, I believe it is possible to fall in love by texting.
The beautiful thing about texting for me is that texting has several advantages. First, it removes the false precondition that someone must be physically attractive before you will talk with them and second, it eliminates geographical barriers caused by distance, country, language and culture. Normally, before people decide to form a relationship, they first evaluate the physical attributes of the person they are interested in. For example, if they find the physical attributes to be unsightly or lacking, the potential relationship ends before it can even begin. This is both unfortunate and unacceptable on so many levels that I could literally write a book about it. Suffice it to say, I find one of the strengths of texting is that communication is based more on words, meanings, thoughts, ideas, hopes, dreams and so much more.
Texting appeals to the ones intellect, psyche, emotions and to logic and reason; and thus, it eliminates the cumbersome and toxic affect caused by our insatiable lust and desire to procure the "perfect body" which I would describe as ephemeral as a beautifully architected ten story building built upon a foundation with the consistency and texture of quicksand. The physical, is at best, only skin deep and it is not indicative of the personality, or character, or heart and soul, or intellect of the person.

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My family have asked me to make an Amazon Wishlist to give them ideas of what to get me for Xmas, but there is nothing a “need” or interested in. So I need general ideas what to get, what 5 things would you search for and possible put on your wishlist?

BlueEyesWhiteGuy’s Profile PhotoReaper
I’d get little, not so expensive and useful things.
Like
- Deodorant/bath wash gift set
- Socks or underwear (can never have enough)
- Earphones/headphones (Always breaking)
- Chocolate/sweets stuff
- or a gift card for Amazon if you’re unsure
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Do you feel the same kind of love for men and women? If not, how is it different?

The initial attraction is the same, but the approach to starting a relationship is vastly different. Generally, I find guys easier to talk to because we're usually starting from a similar frame of reference and there's less social baggage to untangle before we can be comfortable around each other. The trouble is actually staying in a relationship because a lot of guys seem to only be interested in the short term or even just one-nighters. I'd love to find a snuggly gent and settle down some day. Women are a much harder nut to crack socially, but as a relationship it is easier to fall into something serious so long as you're compatible. Its also easier in public because you don't spend as much time second guessing the looks from strangers. The day-to-day is harder because of different expectations from each of you, but when it works it is really nice. Definitely not. As a girl, I've been attracted to other girls for my entire life without even realising it. I don't find men attractive in the slightest, but since my crushes are 9/10 times male, I don't think I can call myself a lesbian. It's like my instincts are playing cupid, I find myself crushing on a guy who has no obvious redeeming qualities and it's useless.
For me it’s kinda the same and kinda different. I’m a woman and I’m generally attracted to boyish soft butch types and big cuddly teddy bear types regardless of gender, so the people I catch feelings for tend to all be sort of gently masculine. Above all, I’m attracted to kindness. Actual gender plays a much smaller role for me than for a lot of other bi folks, at least in my limited experience. When it comes to actual deep feelings, to generalize I’d say the love I feel for women is a bit more comforting, whereas the love I feel for men is a bit more dynamic. It really does depend on the individual person and our particular chemistry, though.
I definitely gravitate more to women, and I have found a deeper connection with women as well. I just feel I was better able to emotionally connect with a woman than I was a man. I’ve definitely fallen in love with a woman, but don’t know if I have with a man yet.
I think it's just easier for me to date men because it's what I'm used to, and also the women I'm attracted to aren't usually into women. Plus my family wouldn't approve, so a relationship would have to be worth risking my relationship with my parents and a couple of my siblings and that's a lot of pressure right off the bat. I feel like with women it's easy to care about them and develop really kind feelings towards them. I find that it's easier for me to develop romantic feelings with guys and more empathetic ones (?) with girls straight off the bat. I've never had a romantic relationship with a girl because I find it difficult to effectively get there. I do know I'm attracted to them though. With guys it's more immediate and makes sense at the time.

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Qu'est ce qui t'attires chez l'autre ?

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A nice set of teeth and a cute smile usually catches my eyes. A really genuine laugh helps too. Then titties, butt, legs.
Thighs. No, not "thunder thighs", but ones with the kind of tort skin that can only be achieved through cardio.
Not overly muscular thighs either. Tort skin, with good lines.
Legs like that drive me wild. Shared interests. I think people tend to look past this a lot. I'm not saying that they need to have all the same interests as me, but being in a relationship with someone who you can't talk about the things you're interested in is boring. Once the infatuation and initial passion wears off, there needs to be a deeper connection for it to last.
Absolutely, but always only listening to what your partner is talking about because you care about them and not because you care about what they're saying gets tedious.
Seeing them engage in their hobby or interest with excitement.
Hair. Long flowing and red. Intelligence. Humility. Kindness. Freckles. Definitely freckles. Carefree happy go lucky. Low maintenance.
Can (as the SO) confirm that it works the other way around as well. He knows my quirks like the crowds one and I know that I can hold onto him and he'll get me through. That trust is just worth so much. As for what I find attractive so to speak is honesty. When I ask him for an honest opinion, he gives it, even if there's some critique to it. That way I know that when he says I look good on a particular day, he really means it.
Does not matter your gender, cheekbones. I am an absolute sucker for nice cheekbones and will actively swoon.
I know that crowded places and shops really are not her favourite place in the world so she'll hold my hand or arm for dear life and let me tell you, knowing that she's holding on and just there and she wants me just from all that is the BEST feeling in the world. Being humble and thoughtful. People who speak and act based on emotions without thinking about the consequences are a massive turn off for me. I like deep thinkers, the ones in the back of the pack observing everything while not giving anything away.
Best, most fun, most functional and most romantic relationship I ever head was with a woman who had her own place, career and could actually give an answer rather than playing games. Self confidence is paramount and a huge bonus for a good sense of humor.
Being well dressed/having a sense of fashion probably.
I find different things attractive about different people. I'm not that shallow.
I mean there’s always the allure of a woman’s body but overall it’s always been the feminine softness toward things that attracts me the most toward them.

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