#juggling

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Si-concrete experience yang disimoan dalam sub conscious atau memory, bergerak karena pengalaman dan pernah dicoba, alhasil secara behaviour Si ini membuat orang berprilaku orang yg hati2, ga suka coba2 dan ambil resiko

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Ya nilai-nilai budaya, keluarga, jd fokus utama buat ibdividu yg menjunjung tinggi fungsi ini, dalam konteks agama Si ini pengikut yg text book, ngga mau menafsirkan dan mengkonversi sama konteks zaman

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Ni- insights, philosophical aspect of things dan esensinya, future oriented dan melampaui budaya atau pengalaman.

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Secara perilaku, ya orang yg visioner, selalu mencari pembaharuan makna, mempertanyakan kaidah hidup, fokus ke depan dan selalu mempertanyakan apa yg sudah tersurat.

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Kalo di agama, ya mengkaji suratan yg ada dan mencari nilai esensi melebihin muatan aturanya doang.

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Ketukar Ni dan Si ga otomatis bikin kamu juggling antara ISTJ dan INTJ juga sih, fungsi yg lain akan sangat menentukan.

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It may be permissible depending on the people involved and the environment it's in. It's like asking about permissibility of juggling with fire sticks. It is your responsibility to not burn yourself or get someone else burned.

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As for "Is this even permissible?",
That's what you say when you hear about a new double patty burger with a fried egg and beef bacon at your favourite restaurant.
Or when your friend tells you that you can exchange cheat sheets in the final exam.
Or snoring dark chocolate powder.
However, when asking a serious question about a religious ruling, try to be more formal, and don't impose a bias in the question.
Remember that your intention should be to find what God Almighty wants from you, so that you can do it.
Next time try to ask like this: what is the ruling..., or what do you say regarding...

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Barakallahu feekum

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sissssss baru kuliah doang. bisa kok dibagi waktunya. kalo mau luas pergaluan ya banyakin kegiatan sana sini aja juggling prioritas sesuka hati. pas lo udah terbiasa sama ngurusin banyak hal sekaligus giliran lo gabut hidup lo bakalan kosong banget gitu rasanya, dan gue yakin lo bakalan craving for more activities. gue di london pernah ngejalanin kuliah, disertasi, internship, plus part time di 2 tempat, freelance, sama ngurusin projects dan volunteer all at once. megap-megap banget bagi waktunya. tapi kalo lo nyusun skala prioritasnya bener dan lo bisa tegas sama diri lo masalah bagi waktu harusnya bisa bisa aja sih. ini aja gue baru ngerasa 'hidup' lagi setelah balik indo gara-gara udah punya kesibukan lagi, tanpa melupakan waktu untuk me time atau bersosialisasi sama temen-temen dan keluarga.

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Undoubtedly one of my weaker matchup due to the lack of Marths in Socal, but I’m slowly starting to understand it and honestly Druggedfox kind of change how I look at this matchup recently.

So here’s the thing. Marth CAN play this matchup with fairly little risks and without going in too much. Dash back is just such a low risk high reward option in that you can’t really DIRECTLY punish it and if you mistakenly go in when he dashes back and he gets a pivot grab, then he can get the whole stock. In addition to this, take laser -> Fair / Utilt / Fsmash / Ftilt depending on % can also be high reward options and if you aren’t playing aggressively or looking for these options it’s easy to just let Marth get away with it, and suddenly he’s throwing out extremely threatening options repeatedly with very little risk. Sure you can hit him with quite a few lasers but it becomes hard to win when you’re piling on damage from lasers while he’s threatening BIG damage with every option he throws out.

My solution used to be to laser -> dash dance to very proactively punish Marth for throwing out defensive options, and to try to kind of slowly take space with laser -> dash dance or just play patient vs dash back until Marth feels compelled to move forward or throw out a move. Catching Marth’s dash forward with a Dair feels amazing and so does wiff punishing a Fair with Nair.

Druggedfox however says that the matchup is mostly laser based. 2 Lasers shot as fast as possible don’t even give Marth the time to dash attack, which is huge. Marth cannot threaten lasers from far away. He can’t full hop at you like Fox can. Powershield is his only option and you can often just sh over it while shooting lasers or just act quickly out of it and be ready anyways. For this reason, laser as fast as possible is better than laser -> shield to mixup timing and threaten to PS the PS.

The other weakness Marth has is the lack of good roll and spotdodge, which makes him susceptible to laser -> grab. This coincides well with the fact that Uthrow almost always gets a follow up and even if it doesn’t, juggling Marth is amazing since he’s very bad at coming down. So laser as fast as possible, punish dash back with approaching laser, corner him, then threaten laser grab when you get close. Another thing to note is that approaching laser is also threatening a hit. Laser -> shine or laser -> grab are basically true combos so you can approaching laser to cover both dash back and shield or dash forward for example (at the right spacing.) Every now and then mix in laser -> dash dance to proactively punish him throwing out a defensive option but if he doesn’t, accept that you’ve lost this neutral interaction and now look to re-establish laser control, because when you don’t have lasers our you’re just playing the ground game with Marth which is ultimately losing.

I don't have great video suggestions and I'm sure there's more to talk about, watch MAngo for PPMD vs m2k and good luck!

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I can't really help you too much here :c Like I want to say, you should ALWAYS prioritize your real life concerns over the internet, and try to adjust socially, but idk everyones a little different. Just know you should try to plan out your time more, and have effective time management skills IF you want to handle long distance friendships and school work. While you do that, you should try to adjust to socializing IRL too, because friends there will help you SOOO much in the long run. I'm sure you're a sweet person, so you'll find a few people who'll really click with you <3

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Just remember, I'm not saying internet friends are bad, because look at me and my twitter friends haha. Just know your priorities and when too much of something might be bad. Balance your life out, its in your hands okay? You got this

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firstly congrats!!! 😊 i'm undeniably horrid at chinese, but i'll talk about taking up hcl generically. the fact that you are able to be promoted to hcl proves you do have what it takes to manage chinese as a language and that's really great, cause once u have that ability u can p much do anything :-) so i'd say that juggling the subject won't be a struggle for u at all. however, please please please don't accept the offer for the sake of a 成就感 hahaha trust me i know what u mean!!!!! that sense of accomplishment and being put on a pedestal is one of the best things to feel as a student but from experience, it's very short lived. however, what won't be short lived is the regret that will follow if u do something you're unenthusiastic about. sooner or later you'll start to feel that it's a chore but by then it'll be too late ya! this was a dilemma that i personally faced when i had to choose between trip sci/double sci double humans, but i ultimately went with the latter because i know that in life, geog and lit are really what makes me happier. if u really do enjoy chinese and wish to study a more advanced version of the syllabus then go ahead by all means!!! i have confidence in u that u have what it takes :) 👌💓☺ no matter what ur decision is i hope i helped in some way and that u will eventually be happy and at peace with it!!!

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Hi! Well I cannot assure you that my perception will be of utmost help to you but I will give it a try. If you really have feelings for the supposed girl and want to culminate it into a serious sort of fling, I suggest you go according to your gut. Girls, when ask for time, the reasons can be endless. It might be a past abusive relationship which unables her to trust someone again. Or she might want to concentrate on other spheres of her life than the one you insinuate. She might be juggling her feelings between two guys and needs time to consider who it is actually. Or it is also a polite way to say that I am not interested. You have to go by your gut and figure out what the reason is. Be a gentleman and be there for her if she needs you as a friend. Dont burden her with your expectations of a relationship. Having said that, dont lose your self esteem and tread the waters carefully. Have a nice chat with her and see if you can get her to open up for starters.
I hope I could be of a bit of help.
Have a nice day?

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I'm not too big on calling other people 'crazy', and the word 'deviant' has lost all meaning to me outside of the statistical context. Weird, however, I've seen some weird stuff.

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If we're limiting this to things I've seen people do in person, that really cuts out some of the most outlandish examples, but my brothers have given me some excellent windows into social circles I'd otherwise never see. The one that sticks out in my memory right now (I suppose the availability heuristic is the best tool for this kind of question) is an attempted nightclub pickup I witnessed when I was around 14. What was I doing in a nightclub at 14? At around that time in my life, managing nightclubs was my oldest brother Neville's main vocation (this is just before he got into federal customs work), and around this time he ran a nightclub in the same Western Suburbs area that my parents lived in. So I would visit sometimes, tagging along with the brother above me, Dean.

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On this particular night, the dance floor was a packed, sweaty mess, so a lot of the overt pick-up attempts had scattered away to other parts of the club (this may have been before overt ass-grinding became the phenomena it was when I was a young man). A very stacked asian woman, wearing what I could best describe as a bathing suit with a small skirt over it, was holding court at a corner of the bar, clearly juggling the pick-up attempts of at least 3 white guys. The air was thick with desperation, and while I couldn't hear what they were saying, the small finger points implied the guys were mostly trying to curry favour by dissing each other. They had enough hair gel between them to fill a bucket.

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Anyway, one of the guys was quite red in the face. I assumed he was losing the diss-war, and the lady's prodigious indoor sunglasses were pointed away from him at a right angle. Then it happened... He tossed back what was left of his drink, and then smashed the glass against the corner of his own forehead.

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Everyone understandably recoiled from this, the man opposite him standing as if he were convinced a fight were about to start. The people around them had stopped speaking and were staring, his head was bleeding pretty badly, but... He was just looking at the woman and talking, as if in his mind he had planned to do this casually, and impress everyone with how nonchalant he was about it. No one was having it.

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The woman was showing him her palms, and was clearly distressed. Other women who must've been her friends floated around her, fearing what he might do next. The bartender was behind him, raising his voice trying to get his attention. So committed was he to whatever his plan was, he kept trying to ignore it and play it off as no big deal. In a minute or so, my brother and one of the bouncers had to escort him out. An ambulance had been called. My brother insisted that desperate men do things like that sometimes.

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Sometimes, when I see guys going off the deep end online, I remember that man's face.

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halo, maaf telat seminggu jawabnya. Dari dua pertanyaan yang kamu kasih. aku pikir kamu sudah paham harus ngapain. Saranku bakalan sama kayak rencana kamu, jadi kayaknya gak bisa ngomong banyak-banyak deh, hahaha.

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Yang perlu diingat sih boleh-boleh aja "kecanduan" berorganisasi dan aktif di kampus selama kamu kuliah, tapi harus ingat ya tujuan kamu kuliah itu buat belajar jadi IPK tetap harus jadi prioritas. Do whatever you can to keep yours good enough to satisfy both you and your parents. As for your communication skills, personally speaking ㅡ bakal terlatih secara otomatis kok kalau kamu terbiasa kerja dalam tim.

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Jangan jahat sama diri sendiri. Dengerin badan kamu, jangan terus-terusan diforsir. Kesannya sepele ya tapi sesungguhnya kesehatan adalah kunci utama biar kamu bisa juggling antara kuliah & kegiatan kampus secara bersamaan. Hehehe.

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Good luck 🌹✨

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I see that you have gotten so many negative comments ("egois lu" "tega amat"..) from most users.
Dan mungkin itu karena semuanya orang Indonesia ya, dimana orang tua itu selalu dianggap lebih daripada diri kamu sendiri (Makanya kan bisa dianggap egois kalo lebih mementingkan hidup sendiri...)
Here's something new: your life should NOT revolve around your parents. It's your fucking life not theirs.
Aku tau banget kok masalah kamu... My mom for example is 1000% against Panti Jompo (Indonesian view af).
But do I want to take her in when she's older?
Absolutely
fucking
not.
(maybe if my mom was really cool and I had an amazing relationship with her, things would be different tapi aku balik ke Jakarta 3 minggu aja udah perang Dunia ke 3 so no thanks)
My grandparents on the other hand, have no problem kalau nanti masuk Panti Jompo Saat udah ga bisa rawat diri sendiri. Mereka malah ga mau ngerepotin anak2nya dan di Panti Jompo ya lebih enak daripada di rumah sendirian doang. Mending ada temen.
So, If you actually like your mom living with you, coba cari suster/perawat first untuk bantu2, if that doesn't work, consider the home. If you get married then DEFINITELY go to the home. I find living with parents when married cringeworthy.
In Europe home for elderly are so common and there are very good ones with a lot of programmes and beautiful facilities, so if you can find a good one then why the hell not?
People in Indonesia think homes are equal to abandoning you parents, when in truth they are probably cared for better there than you ever can while juggling a job, bills, your partner and YOUR future.

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I began speed reading at the age of 12 in middle school. My parents were tight on money, so I didn't have many choices of age-appropriate entertainments. I frequently borrowed my classmate's romance novels (and by romance I mean softcore, vanilla porn). One day, my mother totally fumed when she found one on my desk. She warned me not to read those books again.

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That was when I learned my lesson: I should read those books real quick so I wouldn't need to bring them home. So I read them in every spare time I have in school, which was never very long. It was not easy at first, but I read faster and faster everyday.

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It's rather an embarassing story, but now, as the result, I can speed read and I don't need much time to study. This competitive advantage had helped me juggling with my job and my postgrad study.

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