I got a boyfriend.But he is 24/7 complaining about my behaviour. Whnevr we start talkin the initial 45 min is a rant about how i ignored his text,how im so insensitive,how he is such a 🇵🇰 and how im so lucky to get him without any effort.His 24/7 complaits are makin me feel small.what should i do?
It sounds like he's projecting his own insecurities onto you. Sometimes people do this to feel more secure about themselves, when they don’t really have much going on in their lives. They need to feel validated and seems like they are doing that via this. In order to feel important and worthy they’d do that, but it's a really toxic behavior. Before you jump to conclusions, maybe take a moment to assess if there’s any truth to his claims about your behavior. If you find that you are being irresponsible in some areas, continuously and you are not putting any heed to it, now it might be worth trying to correct that and see if his behavior changes. But usually, when it happens like this, it can escalate and become even more harmful such as cheating because to them it’ll always feel as if you can’t have someone better and that puts them in a rather dominant position, I think it’s important to recognise that you deserve someone who lifts you up, not puts you down and if they can't recognize that, it might be a good time to reassess both of your expectations from this relationship altogether.
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