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What is the most valuable trait in a person? (Examples: intelligence, kindness, integrity, courage, morality, etc.)

tristanandiseult3’s Profile PhotoMarie Serendipity
I used to think, intelligence was the most valuable trait in a person. But then I realized that it is not just about being smart - it is about being kind, and compassionate, and understanding. It is about having the integrity to stand up for what is right, even when it is hard. And it is about having the courage to be vulnerable and open with others. The most valuable trait in a person is their morality. It is their ability to love, and to be loved. To connect with others on a deep and meaningful level. And that is what makes life worth living. 🌻

What type of a person do you aspire to become?

zaidwali915’s Profile PhotoZaid Wali
A soft person who would not let the cruelty of other people to make her bitter but strong enough to not put up with disrespect and wise enough to know when to be kind and when to create boundaries and protect your own peace. But most importantly, I aspire to become a kind of person who makes lives of others easy. 🌸

Do you possess the heroic personality of someone who strives to fix everything with the support of the entire world, or the villainous nature of a lone wolf who seeks to give others a taste of their own medicine? Ps. You can the side character as well🌚

MMaryamKhan’s Profile PhotoMaryam Khan
I suppose I possess a bit of both heroic and villainous qualities - just like most people do. There are times when I feel inspired by big-hearted heroes who go above and beyond to make positive change in the world, whether through activism or simply being kind to those around them. But there are also times when I resonate with characters who might be considered "villainous" cause they are willing to stand up for themselves or challenge harmful social norms. — Ultimately though, I don't think heroism or villainy is about one specific personality type or set of actions. It is more about how we show up in our everyday lives - with empathy, courage, and integrity even when things get tough. Sometimes that might mean seeking support from others; other times it might mean standing alone against injustice. But as long as we stay true to our values while also staying open-minded and compassionate towards others, we can all be both heroes and villains in our own unique ways. 🌻

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When interacting with others, do you tend to rely more on gut feeling, or prior knowledge about the other person?

tristanandiseult3’s Profile PhotoMarie Serendipity
My gut doesn't always tell me the right thing. Flair is precisely formed, to some extent, based on knowledge about another person. And in principle, judging a person relying on his gut, that on knowledge from other people (for example) is a stupid idea 😌 To judge a person should only be based on his actions and no more 😌 Actions will always correctly tell what kind of person he is 😌 One way or another - I always rely only on his actions and his behavior. They show the true identity of a person 😇
When interacting with others do you tend to rely more on gut feeling or prior

What's your favourite flavour of cake ? 🍰

ManWithout1plan’s Profile PhotoManWithout1Plan
My favorite kind of cake is Swedish princess cake! 😋 It consists of alternating layers of airy sponge cake, pastry cream, raspberry jam and a thick-domed layer of whipped cream. It's then covered by a layer of marzipan! Traditonally it's green like the picture below but for my birthday I often order mine with blue marzipan 🍰
Whats your favourite flavour of cake

what is one thing life has taught you?

x3_bebesota’s Profile PhotoJazMarie ✨
- You don't have to do anything anyone tells you.
- You have choice.
- You can be tall.. thin.. big.. gaystraightbi idc a man or a women.. off.. here.. there.. an animal.. my brother.. my buddies friend or whatver. Idc.. if your nice to me. Ima be the same back. It don't matter.
- Stand up for yourself.
- Be open minded. You can make a friend from anywhere in this world and outside of your country. #Onelove @illin_ahmed @redoasis2017 and more maaany more.
- Being alone is ok. You do not have to be with someone just to make you happy.
- Don't put yourself down for someone else.
- Don't be selfless.
- Nor be selfish.
- You can go out and have fun. Nothing or no one is too busy! Stop. Plan. Do. Enjoy. Relax. You deserve it. All humans do. No excuses.
- Don't have excuses. Just do!
- You can forgive and forget. Fact.
- Give 2nd chances. Depending. Try.
- Children are innocent. Teach them right always. Teach them early to be kind and to love and to love correctly.
- Respect doesn't HAVE to be given to give or the other way around.. just learn to be the bigger person.
- Respect your elders.
- Do your best ALWAYS. REGARDLESS.
- It is never too late for anything.
- Nothing is impossible.
- Practice can make perfect.
- Stop telling people everything about you. They don't have to know sh-
- Don't fight people. It isn't worth it unless you are defending yourself of course.
- Overlook childnessessessss.. infact.. walk away.. you win automatically.
- Ignore ignorance.
- If being bullied.. bully the bully 4x back harder and then tell them.. Don't feel nice do it? Wins everytime.
- Get out there and earn it.. then nobody can tell you they gave u sh-
- Be you. Its the best thing. Even if you think it isnt. Well guess what. It is. Be you. Not anyone else.
- Confidence is the biggest thing hated these days. Rock it proudly.
- Nothing wrong with expressing yourself and it be ok
& so so much more life has taught me. These are just some. What has life taught you? Stay tuned -Bella

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what is one thing life has taught you

What kind a friend are you??

feel like i was born in the wrong era. i don't want sex. i want love. i want to be understood. i want to never feel alone. i want to come home to someone i miss all day when i'm at work. i want someone who motivates me. i want someone who trusts me. i want someone who loves me for me, not what i do. i want real love.

What kind a friend are you??

I'm loyal and good friend I would do anything for my friends but depends on the something thou..I'm good at listening probably shit parter in crime in drinking buddy as I'm lightweight 🤣 but do look after my friends if I'm sober and they drunk

The last time you cried?

arsalsajjad798’s Profile Photoarsalsajjad798
Life feels like walking through a fog where nothing really reaches you. There's a constant heaviness, an emptiness that words can't quite capture. Nights stretch on, filled with a silence that isn't peaceful but hollow. The world moves on, but everything seems muted, like a film with the sound turned off. It's a quiet kind of pain, one that doesn't shout but whispers, always there in the background, reminding you what's missing.

https://ask.fm/alishapawar5/answers/174081979734 - Did she get it from her own mumma too, your grandma? 🤘

redoasis2017’s Profile Photo★ ☮ ♫ Tҽɳαƈισυʂ Tσɱɱαყ™ ▩ ♚ ☻
Yes, my Nani would never let anyone return hungry from her house. Sometimes she wasn't even prepared to entertain guests but she would make sure everyone was fed. And I'm talking when my nana and nani didn't have much but she was the type of woman to stay hungry to make sure someone else had a meal and so was my nana. Both were just selfless and kind souls. I'm so emotional right now, I miss them both so so much.💗

Do you believe in "fake it, till you make it" ?

nousernameavailable31645’s Profile Photo♠phlegmatic♣
I don’t think it works unless you truly want to become the kind of person you aspire to be like. I tried to do that with my anxiety but it didn’t work, most likely because I was still very much worried about what people might think about me and I let my thoughts dictate my actions. If you let your actions take precedence over your thoughts, then perhaps it’ll work. Also, if you have a fixed mindset rather than a growth mindset, you’ll probably find yourself stuck in the same place without much change. For example, you can fake confidence all you want but if you keep telling yourself that you don’t matter and that you look like a fool in public, you’ll probably never be self confident due to your negative thoughts that hold you back. It’s more about training your brain to think more positively and/or letting your actions speak louder than your thoughts.

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Do you have a funny memory from middle school or high school to share?

mierplas_’s Profile PhotoMierPlas
I remember trying to buy a juul from this guy because he was selling it and we went to the same high school so I decided to respond to his Snapchat story and negotiate with him on when I could get it but knowing his friend scammed me, I didn’t trust him. I texted him for a while and then started complimenting his smile and went off track. He then asked me if I wanted it or not and I said no due to having trust issues and thinking he’ll scam me too. I then asked him if he was mad at me to which he didn’t reply and left me on read because he was so done with me. I kind of felt bad about wasting his time and missing the opportunity to possibly buy a juul from him but another guy that seemed nice and trustworthy said he had one for me and I finally got it. Unfortunately, my younger brother got mad at me and threw away my juul one day so I don’t have it anymore but it’s good that I never got addicted to nicotine so it wasn’t a huge deal.

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⠀⠀⠀⤿⠀When you and I were together every single atom in my body told me it was the right thing. That we were the perfect fit. That kind of love can change your whole life⠀♥

power__of__blood’s Profile Photo♕⠀ümut⠀━⠀hope or destruction?
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⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ My ( heart ) is the graveyard of my concealed
⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ feelings, for you. It is engraved with wounds;
⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ flooded with tears. But I want it ̷ ̷l̷i̷k̷e̷ ̷p̷o̷e̷t̷r̷y̷.̷ ♡
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When you and I were together every single atom in my body told me it was the

> and the best kind of smile is the one that a woman can wear on the inside where nobody else can see - Wait, what do you mean by that? Tell us or I'll tell my mother and call the police. We all smile through a lot. Smiles or relationship? Call me if you like to smile often. 🤣🤣🤣 💗

talionislexx’s Profile PhotoLex Talionis
That I can be happy and not need to wear a physical smile. Only the people that know me best will know. Cancel the police. 🤣🤣🤣💗

Ok, noch keine Fragen zu euren Oblivion Kiddies? Dat müssen wir mal ändern 😉 also fangen wir klassisch mit drei FunFacts und einem Moodboard an 😊⚔️

Jouluku’s Profile PhotoCaleb
Soo... Better late than never (Danke für die Frage <3) 😂
🐚 Paola nimmt an dem Austauschprogramm teil und ist eine römische Halbgöttin.
🐚 Sie liebt warme Temperaturen und den Strand, an dem sie jeden Tag Stunden verbringen könnte.
🐚 Die Tiere, die sie absolut nicht mag, sind Wespen. Als kleines Kind wurde sie von einer gestochen und seitdem schlägt sie wild um sich, sobald ein fliegendes Insekt um sie herum schwirrt, ganz gleich, welches es ist.
Ok noch keine Fragen zu euren Oblivion Kiddies Dat müssen wir mal ändern  also

Was hast du als Kind geglaubt, was tatsächlich nicht wahr ist?

dieseagathaa’s Profile PhotoAgatha
Ich war aus irgendeinem Grund überzeugt, dass der Weihnachtsmann den Rest des Jahres im Wald neben meinem Kindergarten wohnt, aber äh
Und ich dachte, alle Zweitbuchstaben auf Nummernschildern sind die Initialen der Autohausbesitzer, weil unserer meine Mama gefragt hatte, ob er ihr das Nummernschild bezahlen und dafür seine Initialen als Werbung draufpacken kann, und da ihr das egal war, passierte das - ich hab eine Menge Namenrätseln betrieben und es schien SEHR viele Autohändler zu geben

Was hast du als Kind geglaubt, was tatsächlich nicht wahr ist?

dieseagathaa’s Profile PhotoAgatha
Habe ganz lange geglaubt, dass der Storch die Kinder bringt🥲 Es ging sogar so weit, dass ich es nicht mal gerafft habe, als meine Mom schwanger war ;-; Ich stand ständig vor der Haustür und habe gewartet, dass der Storch meine Schwester bringt.
Meine Eltern haben mich nie aufgeklärt und in der Schule wurde ich dann dafür ausgelacht🥹 Also liebe Eltern: Aufklärung ist richtig und wichtig

What do you think of Pakistani dramas? What is one of your favorites and why? 🎭

SN_Khan’s Profile PhotoAhsan Khan
Hell, the worst kind of scenarios they present. They are literally feeding stupidity to masses. Itni fake life or negativity dikhatay haan. Or topics bhi 2-3 hi haan: shaddi, cheating, talaq etc. And literally every single drama! Idk what they are trying to project but people who are trying to adapt these dramatic situations and trying to implement in their life, beware! Your life will actually become drama and there is not undo button is life. Drama toh end ho jaiy ga 30 din baad, life kafi time tak chalti ha with regrets.

Are you growing apart from some of your ask fm friends?

It’s not that I’m growing apart from them but more like I’m not a priority to some of those I consider a friend on here. I’ve tried getting closer to certain individuals on here just because we have mutual friends but I gave up on that since the interest in befriending them was one sided. I’m kind of distant myself so it makes sense if they choose to keep their distance from me too and I just have to stop taking their lack of interest in talking to me too personally. I’m loyal but not the kind of friend who will talk to their friends on a daily basis unless I have something I’d like to say to them so that confuses some people sometimes. It would be amazing if my friendships stayed the same regardless of how often I kept in touch with friends but that’s not how life works.

Have you ever visited somewhere that disappointed you/didn't live up to your expectations? Where was it?

amycheetham09’s Profile PhotoAmy Rose
Court, strangely.
I had to go to court in the very early 1990s, and as I was fairly young I was expecting it to look more like a court than it did!
It was a kind of open plan office much like the DWP/JobCentre with people going to speak to staff at different desks.
It was quite informal, and nobody wore a powdered wig.

Hast du jemals etwas sehr Wertvolles verloren & nicht mehr wieder gefunden?

unmute_msc’s Profile PhotoSaturn
Ich hatte als Kind einmal einen für mich besonders schönen Sommertag mit meinen Freunden auf Papier dokumentiert und alles aufgeschrieben, was mich glücklich oder besonders zufrieden gestimmt hatte. Ich weiß noch, dass mein Papa früher immer irgendwelche losen Papiere von der Arbeit mit nach Hause nahm, wo auf der einen Seite alles leer und weiß gewesen ist und auf der anderen irgendwelche Tabellen abgebildet waren, die irgendwelchen Maschinenwerten gewidmet gewesen sind. Meist wollten wir dadurch ressourcensparend sein, wenn wir irgendwelche Notizen machen wollten und kein Druckerpapier oder Collegeblöcke verschwenden wollten. Ich erinnere mich noch ganz genau, dass ich auf diese Papiere irgendwelche losen Tagebucheinträge und Zeichnungen verewigt hatte, aber leider nicht mehr wiederfinden durfte. Ich würde jetzt gerne von diesem Sommertag lesen.

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> sagentific proof - What do you like about evidence? 🤣 > the smallest kind word from you is enough - See, that's not good enough. Go big or go home. :::hits caps lock::: MERE WORDS WOULDN'T SUFFICE. There. Did that come through okay? 🤣🤣🤣 💗

talionislexx’s Profile PhotoLex Talionis
I love sagentific evidence. It’s the most reliable. Sure, that came across okay. Never better. 😁😛🤣💗

> plus it’s annoying - For us, yes. 🤣 Reminds me of my uncle. You'd think his kid was some kind of super genius. I could be talking about anything else. He never fails to bring his kid into the conversation. "Yes, it is pretty hot outside. Did I tell you what he did in school?" WHO TF CARES?! 🤣🤣🤣 💗

talionislexx’s Profile PhotoLex Talionis
🤣🤣🤣 We are so alike sometimes. I like kids but I don’t need to be hearing about them and seeing them on my timeline constantly. 🤣🤣🤣💗

-is it only me or y'all feel unexplainable emptiness in your heart after being super happy ?

dokhtarafghan123’s Profile Photo-the other woman
It's not just you; it's quite common to feel a sense of emptiness or a kind of letdown after experiencing intense happiness. This phenomenon can occur due to a variety of reasons, such as the contrast between the high emotions and the return to normalcy, or the realization that a particular joyful moment is fleeting. It's a natural part of the emotional cycle, where highs and lows often follow each other. If it happens frequently or becomes overwhelming, it might be helpful to talk to someone about it, like a friend or a mental health professional.

Würdest du es akzeptieren, wenn deine Kennenlernphase ein Kind von der Beziehung davor hat? (Bitte ehrlich)

icandoitbetter’s Profile Photo13-й месяц, которого нет
Finde es generell nicht schlimm, wenn jemand bereits verheiratet war oder ein Kind hat.
Im Endeffekt kann das jedem irgendwie passieren, dass man sich den falschen Partner leider raussucht. Zudem habe ich selber eine Freundin, der das passiert ist. Viele geben sich vor der Ehe anders, als danach. Es gibt schlimmere Dinge.
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Do you feel like social media has a positive or negative effect on how realistic our expectations are in life? For example, how we view travel, success, relationships, and physical appearance?

tristanandiseult3’s Profile PhotoMarie Serendipity
One thing I've learned.
You can make close friends, even love someone deeply.
You're used to talk to them everyday, but then one day, they will leave.
I'm still not used to that, and thinking about it, makes me kind of sad.
It differs from my real life.
I always keep contact with my friends, people that I care about.
I don't have this idea, that one day they'd be gone.
Unless for a dramatic reason.
Do you feel like social media has a positive or negative effect on how realistic

Does anyone have Borderline personality disorder? If so would you be kind enough to have a chat with me about it, nobody other than a BPD sufferer understands really what it’s like to suffer from the hardest mental illness known to man….thank you 🥰🥰

Dude stop, comparing and trying to compete about who's disorder is the hardest to live with is so not helpful, it's not a competition and you give us a bad name when you do stuff like this

What is the most valuable trait in a person? (Examples: intelligence, kindness, integrity, courage, morality, etc.)

tristanandiseult3’s Profile PhotoMarie Serendipity
Tenderness. All I ever hear is how everyone is too soft, but I don't see that in the world. I see a brittle plastic kind of compassion. Fragile. We're less in touch with each other & ourselves. Creativity & passion have been pushed aside for branding & trendy causes. Everyone is sensitive for sure. That isn't the same thing. A raw nerve and a tender heart are very different. You can be sensitive, and still be hostile. A soft heart is conscious of the now, while being flexible enough to endure change or hardship.

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