#kindness

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A generous praise for your university degree and wishing you good fortunes in your future undertakings. 🌹

Hassan198999’s Profile PhotoHasan
Ohh,Sorry for being late, I didn't notice, really, I don't know what to say, but thank you for those wonderful words
Thank you for your kind words. Really grateful for your kindness. May God bless you🙏🏻💙💙✨!".

Are there people you like in your favorite accounts and why?🔥

Really difficult question, but I have many accounts that I love and log into daily and others I’m trust them and I like their kindness, for example:🤍
@sonador_de_ua
@@mckagan_rose
@Fyadhan
@goricaclash11953
@Ri120294love
@saharnayaa033
@rey4_
@Lady_Eloquent
Are there people you like in your favorite accounts and why

Thank you for your hospitality and kindness, Alex. I think its time for me to truly leave now. I intend to keep writing. /Jluen

Jluen, it was my great pleasure to read your writing and to share a few thoughts. You have a gift with words and it is good to know that you intend to continue writing. Remember, the world needs great writers who can educate, inform and entertain.
Take care my friend. /Alex
Thank you for your hospitality and kindness Alex I think its time for me to

Wesay kisi ki kindness ko "flirt" or "interest" samajhna band kerna chahiye......

Abzquad’s Profile PhotoAbdul Ahad
Kindness should also never look like flirtationship. One shouldn't give mixed signals so the other person always understand the boundaries.
Discussing and making things clear before any conversation is better than regretting later.

What do you look for in a significant other ? (Personality Wise)

ston3dbunni_’s Profile PhotoBunni
Personality is where I get pretty picky. I have zero tolerance for drama or disrespect. I just want someone who can talk to you without being an ass about it. Someone I can enjoy their company whether we're doing something together or just sitting quietly. Kindness, understanding, a good sense of humor. Probably a lot of patience too since I know I'm difficult 😅. I like things laid back and at a slower pace. So someone who can just go with the flow is ideal

One problem with a girl who has had a fscked up childhood, dealing with sxxual, emotional, physical abuse from childhood to 20s, plus heaps of mental illnesses all her life, is that she don't really have a frame of reference for how healthy humans should live and behave. Agree or disagree, and why?

Well…. you’ve more or less just described me at least, aha. I agree with you though; my default is self preservation to keep myself safe from others due to the reasons in your question, which has led to a lifetime of people pleasing, no boundaries and accepting any scrap of attention shown my way, even if it wasn’t particularly healthy. I’ve grown a lot in the last few years in particular, but it’s true that it does hamper your social skills or even your self confidence really, in not knowing your own worth and what you deserve, and being willing to accept anything, even if it verges on toxic. Even by always treating others with goodness and kindness, you accept not receiving that in return or to not the full extent. It’s not a healthy way to live, and it’s a vicious cycle, as it’s just making things even worse.
All I ask though, is that if you someone like this in person, is please don’t write them off. By continuing to show them genuine kindness and respect, it will help them heal and have a healthier relationship with the world around them. I don’t believe it to be a ‘problem’, in the sense that it’s not their doing in regards to why they behave the way they do. :)

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Az mi az a csillag nomád nem ad ki semmit a kereső,olyan mint a starseed?

Az csak egy másik megnevezése a lightworker-eknek és igen starseed.
“Lightworker is a term that gets thrown around a lot. Lightworkers are special starseed souls who come from a variety of planets, realms and star systems. They don’t call one place home. Their primary purpose is to spread love, light, and kindness. There is no maliciousness behind their behavior. What makes them so unique? They aren’t beholden to any culture, race, or planet. They solely work for the light.”
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What it feels to know someone else's pain? Does that really happen or people just say it out of kindness?

farhajkazmi’s Profile PhotoSyed Farhaj Kazmi
Empathy is the key to this question.
Assume the someone ‘else' here has gone through a mishap that you too had faced previously in your life, then the pain is totally relatable. The pain of any loss has similar anxiety and hopelessness that one goes through. An average human psychological disorder is borne equivalently by all by the virtue of similar losses.
When you empathize with someone, it's your memory flashing the hardships and bad times that you've faced when the fate wasn't on your side.
In my opinion, empathy to someone is of more help than mere sympathy, as it gives first person narrative of the course of action that led them to move on and stay strong. So in your small attempt, in order to cheer someone up out of a bad phase, empathize to make them feel a little better.

Were you raised in a religious household? Is your CURRENT religious identity the same as the one you were raised with?

More religious than it is now, haha! I went to a religious school (I think every single boarding school is 😅) and went to Sunday school and what have you. I don't know if I ever believed-believed, but I stopped at 11. My grandma still goes to church but my grandpapa is a solid atheist. My mum is relatively spiritual but not really fussy, and I am open minded. I believe in kindness.

I think hijab enhances the beauty of a female 🌺✨🧕🏻

imtisalbajwa12’s Profile PhotoI M T I S A L ◉‿◉
I think good character stems way beyond that, I think it’s in the fluidity of one’s words of kindness surrounding intellectual opinions, is where true beauty lies.
Hijab or Pardah for both men and women is not just in terms of clothes.
I have a friend who’s husband had a whole wonderful conversation with me all the while not looking to my face or my eyes, never once.
And it was such a beautiful surprising thing to see MashAllah may all men and women learn these wonderful ethics from way before our time 🦋💙

Thank you for making Ask.fm a better place thus far. I hope that you'll return someday. Wishing you and family good health and happiness 🌼

AisyahIsHere2’s Profile PhotoAisyahpotated
Thank you @AisyahIsHere2 for your friendship and kindness. My goal as an askfm contributor was to entertain and inform. I hope that my writing and the various quotes I posted gave the askfm community something to think about and challenged their preconcieved notions concerning life, love, politics and the world we live in. I will miss you and all of my askfm friends whose interest inspired me to write. Who knows, maybe in time... I will write again; but, for now, I have several hobbies/passions that I need to spend more time with. Take care of yourself and keep writing. You are a good writer and askfm needs competent writers to create informative and thoughtful content. Until we meet again my friend. God Bless you and your loved ones.
Thank you for making Askfm a better place thus far I hope that youll return

Shaireen, I am doing well. My rib is almost healed and I am playing golf and music once again. I always worry about my friends and in your case, where you are away from your family I thought it best to checkup on you to make certain all is well. It sounds like your immune system is fighting back

Awee I'm glad to hear that you get to do and enjoy your hobbies once again. And I sincerely appreciate your kindness. May God bless you always🙏🏻☺️

I also wanted to thank you for sharing your wisdom with me and other people on here! And for letting me know you’re disabling your account. Take care ☺️

LunarHuntress’s Profile PhotoYentl
Thank you so much for your kind words Yentl. You have been a good friend to me and I will never forget you, the beautiful woman from the Netherlands who treated me with respect and kindness. I pray that all of your hopes and dreams come true. /Alex
I also wanted to thank you for sharing your wisdom with me and other people on

List a few things that you're thankful that your parents taught you. 🙏🏼

M1ssSemy’s Profile Photos ⭐ i
Things I am grateful my parents taught me:
❤️ Kindness is much more important than popularity.
🧑‍🦳👨‍🦳 Respect older people (but don’t take sht from them either).
💶 Materialism/financial richness is nothing compared to love and togetherness.
🌲🌿🦔 Appreciate nature and have respect for animals.
List a few things that youre thankful that your parents taught you

List a few things that you're thankful that your parents taught you. 🙏🏼

M1ssSemy’s Profile Photos ⭐ i
✦ ───────────── ✦
. συт σf ρσтαтσ qυєєи
✦ ───────────── ✦
╰ kindness
╰ having hope in myself and my abilities
╰ always going after my dreams
╰ standing up for myself
╰ "what you don't want to have done to you, you should not do to others"
╰ to never let me cage in other people's boxes
╰ not wasting energy on people who can't see my worth

Who would you give these awards to on ask? For "Being creative", for "Being funny" and for "Being kind".

anonstar17654’s Profile Photoanonstar17654
For being creative:
@AmericanLass (for that amazing fall/autumn door wreath you made - still in absolute AWE 🤩🤣🍁), plus answers are always very detailed and have so much personality!
@gingerbreadguy2 ... You always are so creative in our conversations... They're unpredictable, at times, lol
For being Funny:
@redoasis2017 ... Your GIFS/answers are HILARIOUS! You're a natural comedian, always know how to make someone smile 😁
@Apeshitz ... Your answers make me giggle like an immature child 🤣
@Neo_gs ... You have a sarcastic sense of humor, which I love! Lol.
For being kind:
@ianbushell355 ... You are such a kind, wonderful human being! I know we don't talk much anymore, but I still appreciate the person that you are! 🙂😊 Also, STOP SAYING YOU'RE BORING, cuz you're not!!! You're absolutely fantastic and don't forget it!
@lnr87 ... You've been so welcoming on Askfm from the start! I appreciate how kind you are, and always feel like you treat me like a human being in questions, answers and the like ☺️ Thank you, for that, Lyndsey!
@natalehjayne ... I think you're such a kind, thoughtful, beautiful soul! Your page is chock full of never ending kindness... And I love that! 🌼
@fiezuqa ... I love your outgoing spark and how kind/authentic/humble, you are, no matter the person! Your light is so radiant and don't ever forget that! KEEP ON SHINING BRIGHT ☀️✨

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What do you value more in a person, kindness or intelligence?

Intelligence. Kindness is grand, but often misguided. Not every person or situation calls for kindness. Frankly not everyone wants your kindness. No doubt a hard thing for some of you to grasp. Sometimes people think they are being kind, but they are just needlessly picking at wounds. It's the perception of emotion. You assume your own kindnesses, but if I say it's cruel who is correct? Both. It's the product of an opinion. Intellect is always useful. Intelligence is based in fact

How do you deal with toxic people: 1 Getting right back at then. 2 Kill them with kindness.

I thought you asked if I would kill them. Quite a difference there. I mean, I guess it depends on how fucking toxic they are😁 If you dont want to go that fucking extreme, you can just go for a hip toss and have them choked out with a guillotine. Try to be fucking toxic after that.
Kindness... Nah, being kind to people has never led me anywhere.

Money, looks, or personality. What would you people give the first preference to?

b0lshie’s Profile Photob0lshie
Personality. 😎 Though people admire looks at first but gradually they notice your values, behaviour, kindness, and attitude.
Even in fashion shows, you must have a positive personality to win the crown.
If a person works on their personality then it can also make an impact on how they would show up and present themselves in life.
Money looks or personality What would you people give the first preference to
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What is the best gift you've ever received?

Issafrizzysquirrel’s Profile PhotoFalak Faseeh
Haha aye you know what this reminds me of? Years back in Ramzan we all were out for Iftar and this friend called me in a corner and pulled out some bracelets and goes like “they’re just for you, I didn’t get them for anyone else” since we were a big group of females. 🌚
Did I like those bracelets? No did it matter? NO! 🥺
I was so touched, for the sole reason that she was so thoughtful and I really only wore them (everytime) solely cause they reminded me of her kindness (not because I actually liked them.) All such random little gifts, mean a lot to me cause they were not purpose driven, you know nor were they the need of time/occasion.
They were just out of love, for me.

Can soft-hearted be a toxic trait? I hate it when I cry over small things. Orang macam ni yang paling senang terluka kan?

I think the same, honestly. It makes me worry..
It is true that sometimes it can be a toxic trait. Not toxic to others, but to ourselves my dear. We often push ourselves to always be positive even when people do bad things to us. To always forgive and be kind even you're tired. To be understanding even you're angry and sad. Cry when you hurt others, and also cry when others hurt you. Be sensitive about other feelings more. And to trust new people, It's hard.
But, having a soft heart means you have a heart with good humanity. You feel others, you understand others. You spread love and kindness everywhere. You make others smile. One act of your random kindness everyday change this world to a beautiful place.
And.. Always crying over small things, please don't feel bad about it :( Everything you feel is valid dear. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. You are you. You feel more because you care more. And that's not a bad thing.
But, remember this sweetie.. Soft-hearted people are not taken advantage of. This is the causes a toxic trait. The one who taken advantage are people with poor boundaries. Being soft - hearted doesn't mean having poor boundaries.
What hurts you, speak up and tell them not to. Many people believe that being soft-hearted stops them from speaking up. This is not true. You can be kind, compassionate and empathic. You can be incredibly soft-hearted and still speak up for yourself. This is how we protect ourself and others from toxic trait.

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Are girls really into big house, a civic and son of a billionaire? Is it everything to you? Mehran wale ka koi chance nahi?

The girl loyal to the boy maybe don't give importance to wealth or car or house but it is reality that now a days money wins against all other things like kindness loyality

Reflection Of The Day!

“It's easy to run to others. It's so hard to stand on one's own record. You can fake virtue for an audience. You can't fake it in your own eyes. Your ego is your strictest judge. They run from it. They spend their lives running. It's easier to donate a few thousand to charity and think oneself noble than to base self-respect on personal standards of personal achievement. It's simple to seek substitutes for competence--such easy substitutes: love, charm, kindness, charity. But there is no substitute for competence.”
― Ayn Rand
Reflection Of The Day

Love is strength or Love is weakness?

graceks_1610’s Profile PhotoAngel Deborah
It's a strength as every person wants peace in life which can be amplified through selfless love .
Kindness is one of the form of love like parent's love towards the child which can lead to more optimism, confidence, self-determination, a great sense of self- worth and increased happiness.
It acts as a stress buster.
However, it can become weakness when you fail to understand the 'selfish love' from either one person or both and finally find it difficult to move on in life.
Example: Unhealthy and Toxic Relationships, Temporary feelings which leads to betrayal.
In both cases, one person will have to suffer more and could affect their way of living. So, in such a case, it can be described as a weakness.
Love is strength or Love is weakness

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