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Yes it was, at first. Overcame it by talking honestly about it before making our relationship official again, wholeheartedly committing to always preserve sincerity and fidelity between us. I admittedly still struggled for a bit after getting back together (mainly because he rebounded immediately, the rebound was an insane person who got knocked up on purpose and it was all kinds of drama). But one good day I decided that if I was going to be with him I had to trust him and not waste both our time by living in fear. I told myself that I honestly believe he’s a good man who loves me. And I let go of all that insecurity that day. I still know nobody is 100% safe from betrayal. But I don’t let a statistical possibility rule over my trust in the man I love. We were long distance and had main on/off phase before meeting. Our last "on" was after we met irl and we met twice in 8 months period and I ultimately ended it after those 8 months. I realised that the issue was incompatibility and no matter how hard we tried to improve there was something fundamentally off with us. We weren't developing our individual lives either so overall I don't regret it.
Going through a LDR breakup right now and I’m wondering how much could have been avoided/fixed/ worked on sooner if we hadn’t been long distance. I want to go back but with the distance the issues would still be there. I don’t know when or if we would be able to move close together. It’s been tough.
We broke up due to long distance, when we were located near each other we happened to both be single and we got back together. We didn't have a lot of issues due to the breakup, but I think that was just because of the circumstances involved.
I almost feel bad for being that harsh with him, but then I remind myself of what he did and remember that he deserved much worse than some unkind words.
She was very manipulative. Got jealous and start attacking me over nothing. For example. One day my best friend, her girlfriend and I, went out to celebrate my BFs birthday. Just the three of us seeing that she didn’t want a big party. My gf couldn’t come but I wasn’t gonna miss my best friends bday. When I got back home I looked at my phone and had over 20 missed calls, over 110 messages from my gf. I thought something terrible happened so I kinda started having a panic attack. But no... it was just her “checking in” to see that I wasn’t cheating. And then accused me of cheating with two lesbian girls just because I wasn’t answering... I broke up with her on the spot, never talked to her again and honestly I’m glad I didn’t invest more time in that relationship. Looking back I don’t even know what I ever saw in her honestly.

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okey , anonymous….
let’s talk about….i have been avoiding this question for long time…. it’s very often question on my ask….
i answered it last year…. I won’t tell you that guys with non -traditional orientation are the best -friends…. and that i had such a friend….when i was study….
And about that i think personal life is a personal life….

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i want explain something else….
that i have read about and know ….

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LGBT 🏳️‍🌈- let’s start ….
L means lesbians…. ( in this case)
i don’t know anything about them….

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following letter G

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G-means gay….
here in detail….

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You know anonymous that real gay

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is born this way ( absolutely….)
and that until recently it was a disease…. and that its very difficult for them…..
because they were born a little different…. maybe they are want to be with the girl but all must know that real gay physically can’t to be with the girl….
they are can’t be lesbian guy why likes girls…. and it’s really hard for them…. because society has not yet understood it….

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next letter B….
B means bisexual….it’s not a disease… it’s choice…. Bi are peoples who can be with both with the girls…. and with the boys….

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and important moment….

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undecided…. they are can be bi
all their lives…. and be with girls and guys…. or after
classify themselves as gay …. because chose to be with guy
but they are not real gays….( of course you can call them gays…. because they are themselves call gays
but they are not real gays… )

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they are just
chose guy’s because they are more like guys….but with the girls they are can too….
and lesbians they are also just made a choice in favor of girls…. they had guys… but then they are realized that they are wanted to be with the girl….- personal matter….everyone

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most hard
it’s next and last letter T-
T-means transgender
it’s very difficult for these people…. like real gays…. but it’s more difficult
for them than for gays….
because it’s disease too …. and it’s not a psychological disease….
i feel really sorry for them because they are born in that way …. when they are need change body….
and a lot of them who not born rich
all their lives…. they need search money….need to save up for surgery…
after …. undergo surgery and survive…. it’s all connected with psychological moments ….

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and if you are can’t help you need respect everyone don’t need to laugh you don’t know what could happen with you ….!

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hope you understand my answer anonymous….!

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The initial attraction is the same, but the approach to starting a relationship is vastly different. Generally, I find guys easier to talk to because we're usually starting from a similar frame of reference and there's less social baggage to untangle before we can be comfortable around each other. The trouble is actually staying in a relationship because a lot of guys seem to only be interested in the short term or even just one-nighters. I'd love to find a snuggly gent and settle down some day. Women are a much harder nut to crack socially, but as a relationship it is easier to fall into something serious so long as you're compatible. Its also easier in public because you don't spend as much time second guessing the looks from strangers. The day-to-day is harder because of different expectations from each of you, but when it works it is really nice. Definitely not. As a girl, I've been attracted to other girls for my entire life without even realising it. I don't find men attractive in the slightest, but since my crushes are 9/10 times male, I don't think I can call myself a lesbian. It's like my instincts are playing cupid, I find myself crushing on a guy who has no obvious redeeming qualities and it's useless.
For me it’s kinda the same and kinda different. I’m a woman and I’m generally attracted to boyish soft butch types and big cuddly teddy bear types regardless of gender, so the people I catch feelings for tend to all be sort of gently masculine. Above all, I’m attracted to kindness. Actual gender plays a much smaller role for me than for a lot of other bi folks, at least in my limited experience. When it comes to actual deep feelings, to generalize I’d say the love I feel for women is a bit more comforting, whereas the love I feel for men is a bit more dynamic. It really does depend on the individual person and our particular chemistry, though.
I definitely gravitate more to women, and I have found a deeper connection with women as well. I just feel I was better able to emotionally connect with a woman than I was a man. I’ve definitely fallen in love with a woman, but don’t know if I have with a man yet.
I think it's just easier for me to date men because it's what I'm used to, and also the women I'm attracted to aren't usually into women. Plus my family wouldn't approve, so a relationship would have to be worth risking my relationship with my parents and a couple of my siblings and that's a lot of pressure right off the bat. I feel like with women it's easy to care about them and develop really kind feelings towards them. I find that it's easier for me to develop romantic feelings with guys and more empathetic ones (?) with girls straight off the bat. I've never had a romantic relationship with a girl because I find it difficult to effectively get there. I do know I'm attracted to them though. With guys it's more immediate and makes sense at the time.

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None have made me question my sexuality, but I can think if I was a guy, which I would be inclined to be most attracted to. I am most "attracted" to girls with cute features, usually petite. Like Ellen Page or Carey Mulligan or Emma Watson.
No celebrities. Women I have met and know of have made me genuinely wonder if I am 'straight' (and I'm still wondering what the heck my sexuality is, if I'm honest.. I have no idea). Ellen Page (even before the recent revelation) is the closest I have gotten to feeling that way about a female celebrity. In general celebrities don't 'inspire' those kinds of feelings in me, not even male ones. I can obviously see if they're attractive, but that's like a separate thing from who I am personally attracted to.
I would straight-up marry Jennifer Lawrence if she were into that. It's not even just about sex, I genuinely like her as a person (as far as I've seen, of course). I know she gets a lot of hate on reddit now that it's cool to hate her, but I got nothing but love for her.
I'm really infatuated with Amanda fucking Palmer. I don't know why maybe it's her unique look combined with her awesome personality, but I'd definitely turn lesbian for her. I've never been attracted to a women especially like I am to her. I don't even get infatuated with male celebs. I'm not completely straight so my answer doesn't really count, but when I was younger and hadn't fully come to terms with my sexuality yet, I saw the Five Finger Death Punch video with Danielle Harris in it. I think Ivan Moody is pretty hot, so it was a little bit of a wake-up call for me when it was her I couldn't take my eyes off of and not him.

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