I want everything life has to offer and what I don't get and this doesn't come from “wants”. The more I chase it…the more distant it will be,when I want something and get it, I crave for something better. When I don’t get what I want..I get disappointed. It's a painful spiral and in between our wants and desires we forget to live. So I don't waste my precious time figuring out what I want from life ! I just do a lot of different things, find out what I love ,tryna live my life to the fullest and have no regrets so that I can meet my death with a beautiful smile.
> Why are so many people online against talking to children? I always see on here and other socials people with things like “adults only” “18+ only” “minors do not interact” “no minors” etc. In their bio. No, I’m not a child, I’m a whole adult. Just curious
"Death Of The Soul" by Alex (Part 2)Now before the reader accuses me of being paranoid (which I am) let me state unequivocally that many men I work with (young and old) behave the same way. Why? Because we know that if a woman makes a false allegation against us, our life is over. And this is why many adults refuse to associate with teens and other young people unless other adults are present. It breaks my heart that we live in a world that is so perverted and corrupt, but that is our reality. It is what happens when God is rejected and the soul dies.
Why are so many people online against talking to children? I always see on here and other socials people with things like “adults only” “18+ only” “minors do not interact” “no minors” etc. In their bio. No, I’m not a child, I’m a whole adult. Just curious
"Death Of The Soul" by Alex (Part 1)There are many reasons why adults are afraid to associate with young people and much of it relates to the numerous crimes and abuses that adults have perpetrated upon our youth over the years and centuries. The list is long so I will only mention a few:- Priests molesting young people - Teachers having sex with students - Parents abusing their children - Wealthy people like Jeffrey Epstein arranging for young girls to have sexual intercourse with politicians, millionaires/billionaires, businessmen and world leaders.There are many more documented cases that I could list, but you get the point I am making. As a result, society has demanded that our children and young people be protected by law and that these laws be aggressively enforced and adult perverts be punished. Other contributing factors are the "Me Too Movement," pervasive groupthink and victimhood movements, the LGBT+ ideology and a belief that whatever alleged victims say it must be true and therefore the alleged perpetrator is "guilty" and must prove his/her innocence. These combined forces have made many adults nervous and fearful of false allegations because we understand that if we are wrongly accused of a sex crime, it is likely that we will lose our family and friends, our employment and all of our assets. In addition, there is a high probablity that we would be found guilty and sent to prison.A friend of mine who was a prosecutor and is now is a successful defense attorney specializing in sex crimes, told me that 80% of the men imprisoned for sex crimes in the state where he practices law are, in his opinion, innocent. And he also admits that the judicial system, our media and our society believe that if a man is accused of a sex crime, he is guilty and must prove his innocence. I would challenge anyone reading this essay to talk to an innocent man who has been falsely accused of a sex crime and ask him if he was treated fairly and assumed innocent until proven guilty or if he was instead, treat like a criminal who must prove his innocence? I could provide more graphic detail of what I am talking about, but I have said enough and hopefully you understand the point I am making.My son is a director of Music and Arts in a well known private high school and to protect himself from false allegations, he had the school install video cameras in his office and bandroom. Students are only allowed to meet with him if other adults and students are present and the doors are left open. In my private life, I teach guitar lessons and require that a parent be present at all times to protect myself from false allegations. And whenever I am in the presence of women (young or old) I always ask my wife or daughter to accompany me and if they cannot, I will not attend the event. (cont)
-Feel good, in as many ways as possible. -Trust yourself, deep down inside . Know what’s best for you. Release fears , self-doubt ,regrets & makes space for clarity. -What matters in the end is how you lived your life, not how well you understood it, -The single greatest life hack is to stop convincing others of your beliefs to preserve your energy. Just Chill.!!
All my dreams (at least the ones I remember) are always in color. To be honest my dreams are always very… color accurate. That’s the best way I can describe it. Where like, the colors are true to what they would be in real life, if your were seeing everything with your own eyes. I hope that makes sense. 😅 I will say, it makes for some very surreal, vivid dreams, that I wake up from at times second guessing if that was actually a dream or not. But yeah, I can’t think of a time, ever, where I dreamt in black and white. I think it’d be an interesting experience though! 😯
Unfortunately, the subjects I enjoy contemplating or discussing, most people in my life will not consider. This includes politics, theology, physics, music and poetry. I suppose this is one of the reasons I tend to be an introvert who keeps to himself and refrains from expressing my thoughts with disinterested people; and it is probably the reason why I still have an active askfm account. It is here where I get to, within predefined and extremely confined boundaries, get to express myself without worrying whether or not people agree with me or like me. And you might also note that I am somewhat superficial here because I do not want to upset the anonymmous woke activists who lurk in shadows waiting to file bogus reports to the illustrious askfm moderators who couldn't hit the backside of a bull with a basketball if they were standing within an arms length of the bull. 👍👍 /Alex
Hi Tobbe. How I get around depends upon what I am trying to accomplish. If I am writing a poem or composing music, I prefer to get around using my imagination and creativity; however, if I am in the mood to exercise or view nature, I prefer to walk. Driving is my last resort and it is something I enjoyed when I was a young man, but now in the autumn of my life, I drive my car only when absolutely necessary. Luckily, I live in a small city with spectacular ocean views where 90% of life's necessities are within walking distance from my home.* note: photo is a boardwalk located amongst the mangroves. It is one of my favorite places to walk and explore with my dog princess.
Great question... but I am not sure you will like my answer. I perform basic accounting in my personal life in the sense that I balance the family budget and ensure all debits are paid in a timely manner. Also, I prepare my own taxes, although I loath doing so partly because I do not like counting beans and justifying my expenses and also the fact that I have to pay tens of thousands of dollars in taxes every year to fund government programs I detest like Open Borders, Abortion and insane wars that deeply offend me. One last thought, out of all the courses I studied in college I disliked accounting the most because it required that I account and record every penny I spend which is not in my DNA. I enjoy living in the present moment too much to be worried about pennies spent having fun. /Alex> "If you look after the pennies, the dollars will look after themselves."J. Paul Getty
No, at least I don't think so, anyway. It might be frustrating and stressful at times, stumbling through life with no real clue as to where we are going and what we must do to get there. But I kinda think that's part of the joy of life. Exploring, learning as you go along, growing from your experiences, and forging a path that is uniquely your own.That, to me, isn't depressing at all. It's exciting.
“The denial of age in America culminates in the prolongevity movement, which hopes to abolish old age altogether. But the dread of age originates not in the "cult of youth" but in a cult of the self. Not only in its narcissistic indifference to future generations but in its grandiose vision of a technological utopia without old age, the prolongevity movement exemplifies the fantasy of "absolute, sadistic power" which, according to Kohut, so deeply colors the narcissistic outlook. Pathological in its psychological origins and inspiration, superstitious in its faith in medical deliverance, the prolongevity movement expresses in characteristic form the anxieties of a culture that believes it has no future.”― Christopher Lasch, The Culture of Narcissism: American Life in An Age of Diminishing Expectations
If it is any consolation, I experienced the same thing when I was 18. The important thing is not what happens to us but how we react to it and whether or not we learn from these experiences. I find it helpful to view these types of relationships as life lessons. In fact, I believe that everything that happens to us, whether good or bad, is a life lesson and an opportunity to learn and acquire new knowledge, skill and success. Good luck. > "When a man is guided by the principles of reciprocity and consciousness, he is not far from the moral law. Whatever you don't wish for yourself don't do unto others."Confucius
And the more i run away, the more i realize that in certain cases you run in a loop, coming back to the square one every single time, certain cases such as you can never escape from your home , so i found my answer within it, i kept running from pain not knowing its is my only home.
في مواقف الاعتذار فيها لاشئ زي الموقف ده مثلا 💔 طنط مامة صاحبتي كانت قدوتي في الزواج، كنت بشوف حياتها الحياة المثالية. النهاردة عرفت انها اتطلقت بعيدا عني و عن رؤيتي السطحية للحياة 😌 طنط النهاردة لما كلمتني قالت لي جملة قلبت في دماغي حاجات كتير، قالت لي " عيالي و اهلي و اهله شايفني اتجننت و أنه طول عمره مراعيني و ما أخرش عني و عن عياله حاجة و حتى ورثي من ابويا راعى ربنا فيه، بس هما شايفين اللي بره! الراجل ده ظلمني و أنا عمري ما هسامحه، الراجل ده عيشني حياتي كلها مصدقة أني ماستاهلش أن حد يحبني!😲 هو ماشي عمره ما عاملني وحش بس عمره ما حبني! ممكن يكون ماسرقش فلوسي، بس سرق مني عمر بحالة كنت ممكن اقضيه مع حد عاوزني فعلا، حتى لما طلبت الطلاق، كل اللي قالهولي هيفرق معاكي أي دلوقتي؟ ماهتمش حتى يسأل أنا بطلبه ليه، لأن بالنسبة له أنا مش في حساباته من زمان."افتكرت من فترة كنت قرأت قصة على Humans of New York كان الراجل بيحكي أنه اول ما اتجوز مراته حس أنه مش عاوز يكمل، بس هي كانت حامل فكمل الجوازة لحد ما ولدت بنته بعدين فكر ما اخليها تربي البنت شويه شويه وأول ما بنته دخلت الجامعة ساب لمراته كل فلوسه وممتلكاته و مشي، واحد كان راد عليه قال له: Left the wife everything when he left, but didn't give her the opportunity to spend her life with a man that WANTED to be with her. That sucks."ماشي أنت سبت لها كل حاجة، بس ماسبتلهاش فرصة الحياة مع واحد عاوز يبقى معاها!"أنت ممكن تحط ألف صفة للشخص المناسب في نظرك، بس هتفضل اهمها أنه يكون عاوزك مش مغصوب عليك عشان احساس أنك مجرد شخص بتملى خانة في حياة اللي قدامك، أي حد غيرك ممكن يملاها ده من اسوء الاحاسيس اللي ممكن اي شخص يحسهااعلى مراتب الأنانية في نظري أنك تريح نفسك على حساب وجع اللي بيحبك(رفقا بقلوب الآخرين)😌😌
First of all, it’s Jamila 😁 And I don't believe in categorizing interests by gender 😄 Don’t get that wrong but I think that this is a very old & outdated way of thinking. The way I see it, there are no masculine & feminine interests, there are only things that you like & interested in and other things that you don’t. You don’t have to be a guy to like football or a girl to like soap opera & reality shows, if you like something just watch it & keep tabs on it. It’s good enough that you have found something you like & enjoy cuz that’s good for your mental health so don’t just get away from it cuz somebody told you that it’s not for your gender. Just live your life the way you want as long as you’re doing nothing wrong ✌🏻
Привет, ну я отвечу на английский язык, чтобы все объяснить.👌🏻 ————————— About children being more cruel than adults, I agree with this 100%, in general children take cruelty in two ways in this life, unfortunately I know this feeling very well, because my father was a kind of cruel and he treated my mother in a terrible way and I could see their quarrels and I remember her even though I am now 24 and this affected me terribly, and when I was going to middle school there was some bullying from girls at my class and at first I was ignoring it and ignoring it to the point where I actually cried every day when I came home and when I’m sleeping. But some of this point I became cruel, if someone tried to break me I break it double, if someone tries to judge me without not knowing me me or even bully my loved ones or my friends, I’m here becoming more cruel and horrible, trying to get rid of it really, I mean, this is related to the childhood inside me. Unfortunately, it is not easy to get rid of this...
Yes it would. The fact is that I talk to my dog everyday to let her know that I love her and care about her and she responds in kind by hanging out with me and greeting me every morning and whenever I arrive home. There is truth to the old saying: "a dog is a mans best friend." /Alex
Honestly I've felt like a coward most of my life and don't know how to get over it. I hate myself for it. I'm just constantly giving attention to things I shouldn't be giving attention to. Sometimes I just want to go numb forever. What do I do?
"Gratitude, Humility and Kindness" by AlexBefore I attempt to answer your question let's review a few definitions:1. Coward - a person who lacks the courage to do or endure dangerous or unpleasant things.2. Courage - mental or moral strength to venture, persevere, and withstand danger, fear, or difficulty.I believe that some humans lack courage from time to time and can behave as cowards because they fear the unknown and are afraid of what they do not understand. It is this fear that often results in confusion and self-induced paralysis that causes them to not take calculated risks that might result in physical, emotional or financial harm. And it takes great courage and moral strength to overcome this fear and to confront the unknown.>Honestly I've felt like a coward most of my life and don't know how to get over it.Question: Why do you believe you are a coward? Could it be that you are simply a realist and someone who is prudent and does not like taking unnecessary risks?> I hate myself for it.Question: Why would you hate yourself for being cautious, circumspect, thoughtful, observant and deliberate?> I'm just constantly giving attention to things I shouldn't be giving attention to.Response: In my experience, most folks give attention to those people and things that interest them. I see nothing wrong in being attentive to that which requires attention and is something that you can manage and control. Common sense is required here because it is not helpful or healthy to waste time attempting to change things that we have little or no control over.> Sometimes I just want to go numb forever.Response: This sounds like a death wish to me. Remember, life is short and you will have plenty of time to rest upon death.> What do I do?Answer: Live your life doing those activities that you enjoy. Spend time with those people you love. And most importantly, be grateful for your life and live a life of humility and kindness.Quote:Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend.Melody Beattie
I can confirm that each of the ages offered can equal two and that arithmancy comes from "arithmós" which means "number" and "manteíā" which means "divination." I can also confirm that Greek music is criminally underrated, statistics are statistically flawed and New Age hippie nonsense is as interesting to me as an open-casket funeral with a missing corpse. Have you ever felt shortchanged? Yeah, exactly. https://lyricstranslate.com/en/Kardia-mou-My-heart.htmlhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lnSW6gHl8HA
I look in the mirror and ask myself, "What the hell is wrong with you?" If it were possible, I would slap myself across the face too. Hopefully, I'd snap out of it. How could I possibly go through life and pretend that I can't find joy in anything when others are suffering, homeless, starving or in constant danger from a pointless war? There are children dying of cancer. People who have lost loved ones. Victims of crime, disease and totalitarian governments. I'm healthy. In good shape and fully functional. 👍 I have a place to sleep. A few shekels in my wallet. Enough food to feed an army. More books than I will ever have time to read. The dearest friends a person could hope to have and miraculously, they still tolerate my eccentricities. The freedom to pursue my interests and devote some time to worthy causes. This alone is enough to satisfy me. What could bring more joy than voluntarily helping others? If the day should come when I can't / won't find pleasure in anything, you have my permission to kick my a55. Twice.
You text a friend to ask if they are free on a certain day. They reply 2 months later. The date you wanted to meet up has passed.what do you do? Do you wait 2 months to text them back? Do you text back straight away? Or do you end the friendship?
With 'friend' like this, who needs enemies .No-one can helpfully advise on a situation like this, without knowing and understanding the complexities of the background.But I would not allow anyone so thoughtless & selfish to have any influence in my life .It's not the description of a friend . *BETTER FRIEND* https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W-H_9qGuRGE
Maybe because there are several themes in Shakespeare's tragedy and they have resonated with many people over the years: rivalry, friendship, intrigue, religion, prejudice, irony and the complexities of people or events and life in general. The nuanced peculiarities of an imperfect world are on full display and while the ending is tragic, it is more than some syrupy slop with a predictable conclusion - they lived happily (n)ever after. Subtract the emotional dependence(?) angle which is coupled with raging teenage hormones and it would still be a scintillating series. I wouldn't miss a single episode. ❤️Romeo and Juliet (1884) / Sir Francis Bernard Dicksee
Sinful nature makes human beings weak against worldly desires, so this should be said not only about men, but women too. However, when a person accepts Jesus as their savior and decides to live the life as Jesus would live, the old sinful nature dies and with God's help, it is easier to overcome worldly temptations and the morals change for that person too
Miłego wieczoru! Annie Camden:''Well, it's not the teaching really. It's being around kids. You know how much I've always loved having children in my life, working with them, helping them. You know, in a couple of years, Sam and David... they'll be in school. Ruthie's doing great, Simon's in high school, Robbie and Lucy are in college, Mary's in New York and Matt's going off to medical school, So our kids need me, but they don't need me. If I teach every year, I'll have a new batch of kids who I'll need to help the way I helped our kids. It's the perfect job for me. All I have to do is take what I've been doing at home for the last 20 years and put it in the classroom. I can do it. I think I'll be good at it."
One Of The Best Childhood Memory lies with the state of waking up for school every day with the sound of tilawat and translation teaching true meaning of life. Indeed the best thing to listen when coming to consciousness from sleep similar to the moments when you come to this world:"All Praise onto Allah (Almighty) Who granted us life after death (Sleep) and we are return to him."And the person reciting used to be Aba g mostly or he used to play the casette or that specific channel on television, blending with the beauty of dusk changing to dawn, bringing a hope to life.#PRO TIP: WHENEVER DEPRESSED TAKE OUT FEW MINUTES FROM ALL THE HASSLE OF LIFE AND TRY TO REMINCE THE BEAUTY OF THESE MOMENTS AFTER FAJAR ONCE A WEEK YOU'LL FOR SURE FEEL LIKE LIVING AGAIN!!!❣️
Sweden can be amazing! 🇸🇪We have things I think the whole world should embrace, like free higher education and healthcare. Students even get PAYED in benefits to study, not much but still 💵There is gorgeous nature, which is made easier to explore and experience thanks to laws which allows you to walk on private property as long as you are respectful. Sweden has a rich history which is reflected in the beautiful old architecture in most Swedish city centres. Many palaces and mansions can also be found in the countryside 🏰It's also a country where you're truly free to be who you want to be, cause of the longstanding separation between religion and state. Some of the best pastries can be found here too, from princess cakes and chocolate balls to "semlor" 🍰But there are times when it's not so amazing. There's been an increased amount of violent crime and substance abuse recently. In the town where I live it's apparently very easy to get a hold of dr*gs if you want to. I don't notice it in my regular life though, except for the ways my student organization tries to crack down on it. I think it very much has to do with what kinds of circles you're in. You also often hear about shootings and gang wars in the news 😨It may not be perfect but comparitively speaking, I still think Sweden is a great place to live. I'd be hard pressed to come up with many better alternatives 😊And I'll soon have my bachelor's degree in urban planning! 🎓
Als letztes hab ich The Last of us I und II durchgezockt... Part I kann ich sowas von empfehlen... Mega gutes Spiel... 🙏 Part II ist jetzt nicht schlecht... Aber die Story, die Fortsetzung zum Part I... Ne, ich war so enttäuscht und hab fast nur geheult und am Ende war ich sauer haha... Ich wollte es eigentlich nie wieder spielen, aber wollte dem ganzen dann doch nochmal eine Chance geben aber meine Meinung hat sich darüber nicht geändert... Ansonsten kann ich The Witcher 3 empfehlen... Ich liebs ❤️🙏 Hab es bestimmt schon 6x durchgespielt und es wurde nie langweilig... 😂❤️ Story ist absolut Top! Ich mag auch gerne Beyond: Two Souls, a Plage Tal, Detroit: becomes Human, Life is Strange, God of War, Heavy Rain, Uncharted, infamous Second Son, GTA, Assassins Creed... Joa, alles Spiele die ich liebe und weiterempfehlen kann... ❤️🙏
The worst age can be when a person gets diagnosed with a serious illness. The disease or health issues which makes them suffer in life. So, there's probably not a certain fixed worst age according to my perception. Some old people in 60's and 80's and maybe above these ages are doing well and are happy with their lives. Old age can become worse when the person is not very healthy.
Idk. I loved. I guess. But thing is, falling for wrong ppl is a craziest thing. I hate lies. And receiving that the most in life? Like from everywhere all around? Wow. Jindagi kaafi fucked up chal rela hai.
It is said that every person has three lives: public, private and secret. How does it look for you? Not everything in my life is for public display. I only show what is necessary. I value my private life very much Nie wszystko w moim życiu jest na pokaz. Pokazuję tylko to, co konieczne. Bardzo cenię swoje życie prywatne
Slow people who walk slow when make you miss the bus People who have appointments with who mess you about when waste your journey for nothing Cowards Attention seekers People who you borrow money that don't give it back to you People who spread shit bacause they have zero no life in the first place
I have sweet nature to me but depends on the person as if person push my buttons I'm bitch I'm loyal some say I'm funny not in sense crack jokes with what I like say I can be random I'm humble I'm very grateful for things in my life
Somtimes people don't deserve second chances once you fuck me over or have hate towards me for no reason and carry on this pathetic drama with me I do hold a grudge against them I get on with majority of people but some people can't stand and I do hate but I don't let hate overtake me as I'm sat in karma chair i don't care about them anymore its a grudge for life thing I don't do pathetic sorry or their bullshit apologise don't mean zero if do the same cycle 🤷♀️